FabSwingers.com forum: big is beautiful

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys

Quick question?

After some comments received in another post about obese women, and using terms like heifer..

Who out there prefers the larger ladies or men??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, clive

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

"Not for me, clive"

Not for me either. Prefer someone who looks after themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't prefer larger or smaller women. I'm sapiosexual. I get turned on by thinking someone is awesome and them maybe wanting me.

I find it mostly about attitude, some women can rock the big look, others can rock the smaller look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own but there's no need for the name calling or. Smart asse comments... As a bigger girl have never had any problems with meets ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...

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By *rash_pandaMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I prefer curvy to really large or skinny but if I have a good rapport with the girl and we get on well her size (or lack of) becomes irrelevant!

Oh and if any guy called a girl a heifer I'd hit him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer curvy to really large or skinny but if I have a good rapport with the girl and we get on well her size (or lack of) becomes irrelevant!

Oh and if any guy called a girl a heifer I'd hit him!

What if it was the the Rock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What nosafe said!! Its all about personality positive attitude and sexiness, size means nothing!!

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I think I will follow this thread.

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By *ong riderMan
over a year ago

belfast

I love a fatty me. Big and roly everytime. I sometimes think about getting squashed...should that be an option on the 'interests' section?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So any sex I've gotten on here was because they're not fussy?"

Only some of it, the rest was because you were not fussy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So any sex I've gotten on here was because they're not fussy?

Only some of it, the rest was because you were not fussy x"

This guy!

Cracks me up everytime!

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By *rash_pandaMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I prefer curvy to really large or skinny but if I have a good rapport with the girl and we get on well her size (or lack of) becomes irrelevant!

Oh and if any guy called a girl a heifer I'd hit him!

What if it was the the Rock?"

No problem... Square in the jaw!!

I have medical insurance (which covers reconstructive surgery and rehabilitation) so I'm sure I'd recover!

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By *ong riderMan
over a year ago

belfast

"So any sex I've gotten on here was because they're not fussy?

Only some of it, the rest was because you were not fussy x"

Now this is a contender for my 'top post of the thread' award...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll say me because thats whats expected of me I live up 2 womens' expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

"I'll say me because thats whats expected of me I live up 2 womens' expectations"

the fuck is that supposed to mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer curvy to really large or skinny but if I have a good rapport with the girl and we get on well her size (or lack of) becomes irrelevant!

Oh and if any guy called a girl a heifer I'd hit him!

What if it was the the Rock?

No problem... Square in the jaw!!

I have medical insurance (which covers reconstructive surgery and rehabilitation) so I'm sure I'd recover!

Theres most likely a 'stupidity' exclusion on your policy though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll say me because thats whats expected of me I live up 2 womens' expectations

the fuck is that supposed to mean?"

Just sarcasm thats all

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

Hmmm I look after myself but am not a skinny girl and would have no desire to be....am built for comfort, with dangerous curves. At the end of the day beauty is in the eye of the beholder and each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm I look after myself but am not a skinny girl and would have no desire to be....am built for comfort, with dangerous curves. At the end of the day beauty is in the eye of the beholder and each to their own!

'Built for comfort, with dangerous curves'...what does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big is beautiful, curvy is beautiful, athletic is beautiful and thin is beautiful. I wouldn't let a persons size stop me meeting. Of course physical attraction is important and we all have our different attractions. It's why fab has so many different people with different preferences and why it works so well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some interesting responses so far...

I myself have met all kinds of men. Big, small, short, tall, and everything in between.. I go for personality over looks and body size..

But what annoys me is people who feel the need to comment with rude remarks and call names just based on size and nothing else.. Get to know someone before slagging them off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for me xx

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

I don't have sticky out bones, so comfortable to lie with and my curves ..... well.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh no, not AGAIN....

this always ends up in the same old way... girls wanting reassurance and boys lying to them.... and the few odd mean ones

it doesn't matter what everyone likes. Just like yourself and don't rely on others to make you feel good about yourself.

The end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So any sex I've gotten on here was because they're not fussy?

Only some of it, the rest was because you were not fussy x

This guy!

Cracks me up everytime!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Built for comfort, with dangerous curves'...what does that mean?"

Means you can nestle in comfortably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big, small, fat, thin! Who cares?

I see all types on women and men here getting meets! Be happy is all i say! Regardless of your size , personality is all for me, a stuck up full of shite person would turn me off straight away, and i have seen plenty here sadly

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By *rash_pandaMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Big, small, fat, thin! Who cares?

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said and the Elfie lady might just qualify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big girl, and look after myself. I've had no problems getting "some" in real life and on here.

As for the opposite sex, I couldn't give a flying fuck if the guy is skinny or curvy as long as I'm attracted to them and their personality.

The end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well said and the Elfie lady might just qualify

Oh no you didnt!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a big girl, and look after myself. I've had no problems getting "some" in real life and on here.

As for the opposite sex, I couldn't give a flying fuck if the guy is skinny or curvy as long as I'm attracted to them and their personality.

The end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness to her she is very tidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh no, not AGAIN....

this always ends up in the same old way... girls wanting reassurance and boys lying to them.... and the few odd mean ones

it doesn't matter what everyone likes. Just like yourself and don't rely on others to make you feel good about yourself.

The end. "
Very well said ,,, !!!..100% agree ,,, there are some lovely people on here big and small,,some people are so far up there own ass,,, they would be much better having a little look at them selfs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh no, not AGAIN....

this always ends up in the same old way... girls wanting reassurance and boys lying to them.... and the few odd mean ones

it doesn't matter what everyone likes. Just like yourself and don't rely on others to make you feel good about yourself.

The end. Very well said ,,, !!!..100% agree ,,, there are some lovely people on here big and small,,some people are so far up there own ass,,, they would be much better having a little look at them selfs."

Man, now that is one hot wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told before that I'm too small for some guys; I wasn't offended so I don't understand why women get so annoyed by guys and their comments. they base their decision initially on a photo. If I was uncomfortable in my skin and got offended by negative comments about my body I wouldn't put up photos or most likely even be on Fab. It's all about personal preference.

Back to the original question; I like ladies who are similar to myself and no beer bellies on men. Ill use a no thank you though as opposed to rude comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexiness is not a size its an attitude!

I class myself as curvy but some might say I'm ample. Big size 14 but I look after myself well.

Saying that I do have double standards as I wouldnt be interested in a big guy or gal... Just not a turn on for me.

Different strokes for different folks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexiness is not a size its an attitude!

I class myself as curvy but some might say I'm ample. Big size 14 but I look after myself well.

Saying that I do have double standards as I wouldnt be interested in a big guy or gal... Just not a turn on for me.

Different strokes for different folks x"

Im sorry, but i have to disagree...if i see a girl in a bar or in the street that i think is sexy, im basing that on her looks; i dont know the first thing about her attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh no, not AGAIN....

this always ends up in the same old way... girls wanting reassurance and boys lying to them.... and the few odd mean ones

it doesn't matter what everyone likes. Just like yourself and don't rely on others to make you feel good about yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this is going exactly how you wanted..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh...It's lovely to see some true colours come out on a thread like this!!

Big,small,fat,thin,small cock,big cock...

Sexyness is confidence..

The way a woman or man carries them selves..

Fun respect and having a good laugh with someone is imperative!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhhh...It's lovely to see some true colours come out on a thread like this!!

Big,small,fat,thin,small cock,big cock...

Sexyness is confidence..

The way a woman or man carries them selves..

Fun respect and having a good laugh with someone is imperative! "

Don't you love the showing of "true colours"?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhhh...It's lovely to see some true colours come out on a thread like this!!

Big,small,fat,thin,small cock,big cock...

Sexyness is confidence..

The way a woman or man carries them selves..

Fun respect and having a good laugh with someone is imperative!

Don't you love the showing of "true colours"?!

Surprised by some I have to say!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhhh...It's lovely to see some true colours come out on a thread like this!!

Big,small,fat,thin,small cock,big cock...

Sexyness is confidence..

The way a woman or man carries them selves..

Fun respect and having a good laugh with someone is imperative!

Don't you love the showing of "true colours"?!

Surprised by some I have to say!!

Snap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhhh...It's lovely to see some true colours come out on a thread like this!!

Big,small,fat,thin,small cock,big cock...

Sexyness is confidence..

The way a woman or man carries them selves..

Fun respect and having a good laugh with someone is imperative!

Don't you love the showing of "true colours"?!

Surprised by some I have to say!!

Snap!

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Ahhhh...It's lovely to see some true colours come out on a thread like this!!

Big,small,fat,thin,small cock,big cock...

Sexyness is confidence..

The way a woman or man carries them selves..

Fun respect and having a good laugh with someone is imperative! "

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By *liceandraWoman
over a year ago

with the faries

I agree being comfortable in your own skin is very important, I really don't care what anyone thinks what I think is the only thing I am interested in. Yes I am big and curvy but that is me you get what you see. I go for personality and if o am drawn to the person not their size, I prefer a woman with a good set of breasts and a man with a nice smile, eyes and bum but that is me. Everyone is different it is what makes the world go round

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By *heDevilsownMan
over a year ago

Go West

"I'm a big girl, and look after myself. I've had no problems getting "some" in real life and on here.

As for the opposite sex, I couldn't give a flying fuck if the guy is skinny or curvy as long as I'm attracted to them and their personality.

The end.

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

"Ahhhh...It's lovely to see some true colours come out on a thread like this!!

Big,small,fat,thin,small cock,big cock...

Sexyness is confidence..

The way a woman or man carries them selves..

Fun respect and having a good laugh with someone is imperative! "

Well said Annie! I couldn't agree more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a meet with a bbw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Each to there own but there's no need for the name calling or. Smart asse comments... As a bigger girl have never had any problems with meets ..

Well, you wouldnt have on here, would you?"

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So any sex I've gotten on here was because they're not fussy?

Only some of it, the rest was because you were not fussy x

This guy!

Cracks me up everytime!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll say me because thats whats expected of me I live up 2 womens' expectations"
...do u mean women on here? ..any women in particular?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that escalated quickly....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that escalated quickly....

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big is beautiful, curvy is beautiful, athletic is beautiful and thin is beautiful. I wouldn't let a persons size stop me meeting. Of course physical attraction is important and we all have our different attractions. It's why fab has so many different people with different preferences and why it works so well.

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couldn't be put any better

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By *exytvlegsTV/TS
over a year ago

North co dublin Ireland

I have met curvy and slim girls and there all sexy and that what it's a bout a girl being sexy most that I have feel that they are sexy and I love that

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By *urfdudeMan
over a year ago

WEXFORD

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but people need to look after themselves too,

letting yourself go has negative health results long term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer dogs myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big, small, fat, thin! Who cares?

Wayyyyyyy too many of them here lately with cutting comments to make about everything!

It's quite sad really that people are so insecure about themselves that they have to try and make the "fatties" feel bad about themselves.

Remember NOBODY is responsible for your feelings only YOU.

It's a pity we all don't treat others the way we want and like to be treated.

Happy fabbing no matter what size you are

Xx xx xx

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

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"oh no, not AGAIN....

this always ends up in the same old way... girls wanting reassurance and boys lying to them.... and the few odd mean ones

it doesn't matter what everyone likes. Just like yourself and don't rely on others to make you feel good about yourself.

The end. "

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By *rash_pandaMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Big, small, fat, thin! Who cares?

Wayyyyyyy too many of them here lately with cutting comments to make about everything!

It's quite sad really that people are so insecure about themselves that they have to try and make the "fatties" feel bad about themselves.

Remember NOBODY is responsible for your feelings only YOU.

It's a pity we all don't treat others the way we want and like to be treated.

Happy fabbing no matter what size you are

Xx xx xx "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big, small, fat, thin! Who cares?

Wayyyyyyy too many of them here lately with cutting comments to make about everything!

It's quite sad really that people are so insecure about themselves that they have to try and make the "fatties" feel bad about themselves.

Remember NOBODY is responsible for your feelings only YOU.

It's a pity we all don't treat others the way we want and like to be treated.

Happy fabbing no matter what size you are

Xx xx xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said panda well said my boy !!!

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