FabSwingers.com forum: Strung along for the day

By *onny26Irish OP Man
over a year ago

cork

Just wondering if it's normal on Fab for well verified couples to string along people for a meet/event full days notice, plenty of messages between us, pics sent and said I am definitely going 2-3 times then minuets before the event they do not reply? Wasting most of my day.

I'm fairly new to fab, I joined After 8 in Edinburgh (Great place, lovely people great vibes) and got into the swinging scene over there and learned of fab swingers over there so when I returned to Ireland after a long spell I wanted to check out the scene here in cork/Ireland.

I'm verified, polite, A gent, got some verifications from meets in Edinburgh and am a site supported have plenty of pictures up and have a large 8 inch cock. What am I missing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people prefer potential meets to have been recently verified, your most recent one is over a year ago. It's no excuse for stringing you along, but it might be worth trying to get a new one soon. Yeah, I know, that's what you were hoping to do this time. Best of luck for the next one.

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

If I have to cancel a meet witch can happen, it's allways the day before.

Have been cancelled on the same day but it in all cases I believe them to be genuine, family issues ect that are unavoidable, these things happen.

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By *onny26Irish OP Man
over a year ago

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"Some people prefer potential meets to have been recently verified, your most recent one is over a year ago. It's no excuse for stringing you along, but it might be worth trying to get a new one soon. Yeah, I know, that's what you were hoping to do this time. Best of luck for the next one. "

Yeah, I was out of swinging for awhile and I'm a single guy at the moment. I should try to get some meets going so and that should help things =) thanks

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By *onny26Irish OP Man
over a year ago

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"If I have to cancel a meet which can happen, it's always the day before.

Have been cancelled on the same day but it in all cases I believe them to be genuine, family issues ect that are unavoidable, these things happen.

I don't mind if they cancelled that can happen and I would fully understand that. But they didn't message me or send me a text or call (gave my mobile number) to even let me know just stopped messaging. I was getting ready to head out, shaved, showered, cologne, nice suit dressed to kill and then nothing.. should have enjoyed the weather!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering if it's normal on Fab for well verified couples to string along people for a meet/event full days notice, plenty of messages between us, pics sent and said I am definitely going 2-3 times then minuets before the event they do not reply? Wasting most of my day.

I'm verified, polite, A gent, got some verifications from meets in Edinburgh and am a site supported have plenty of pictures up and have a large 8 inch cock. What am I missing?

This is very normal. Most the Irish scene is very fickle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens unfortunately... Sometimes people have to cancel for various reasons...But will re arrange at a later stage...

Then sometimes the chat just stops.. Your messages are not replied to... If this happens a couple of times it's best to suck it up and move on.

You won't win 'em all.. Or even a big percentage... Keep going.. Best of luck

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

I would hate to be left sitting and waiting for someone to show up.

Airport hotels are great, busy and you'll allways find someone to talk to and enjoy the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shitbuzz

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By *onny26Irish OP Man
over a year ago

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I had a feeling Ireland was a bit if a prude after being in the u.k. =/ shame really, Cos I'm sure there are amazing funny sexy women and couples out there, just got to find them and the ones who like single hung guys.

Thanks for the advice lads. I'll just have to move on and watch out for the cum dodgers in future hahaha

maybe I should go to a meet and greet? But are they couples only etc?

It sucked as the post said 4pm then it changed to 6pm so I changed plans again and moved stuff around.

Waste of all this energy and preparation. Would have rode for Ireland today!

Airport hotels eh, that's actually pretty true like at the bar etc? Might use that one in future when travelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of order and no excuse ,even if they took cold feet they should still have the decency to let you know .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A total disregard for other people's time. Personally if I say I'll meet then I meet. End off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has happened to me once before... and I reckon it was a single fella pretending to be a couple... or even a genuine couple but the male half was doing all the messaging... I will never ever continue contact with a couple unless I have spoken to the Female half of the couple, and seen face pics...

Too many fantasists on here compared to UK...

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