FabSwingers.com forum: Friends with benefits

By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

Does it actually work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does if ye are honest with eachother

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes.......had one for a couple of years. Although benefits are very few now but still great friends. Walk together every day. Tell him everything

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

"Does it actually work."
i dont think id does i had a bad experience a while ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it actually work."

sometimes but usually no, someone ends up falling for the other

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

I reckon ye would have to live pretty close for it to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a woman that i meet up with once or twice a month, she almost double my age so yeah it's works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reckon ye would have to live pretty close for it to work."

we did that was the probably the reason it didn't

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I have a woman that i meet up with once or twice a month, she almost double my age so yeah it's works

I like sex twice a day min.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it can

depending on how both get on and how honest ye both are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get a partner then... trust me when you get a friend with benefits it can be hard to see each other regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the only way forwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've an openin for one if any lady is interested?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has worked great for us over the past cpl of years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the problems it can cause is if one is looking hoping for it to grow to a more stable place . Ie one falls for the other.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

it works very well for me and a few of my friends

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

Another question when does too much sex become a relationship.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes it does but honesty comes with it,, i just need to make a call and he's there but doesn't interfere in my life either, nor

me in his. It's kinda cool really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the problems it can cause is if one is looking hoping for it to grow to a more stable place . Ie one falls for the other. "

That's why you pick people who are in other relationships...unless he's a Lothario, then you have to wait on him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does but honesty comes with it,, i just need to make a call and he's there but doesn't interfere in my life either, nor

me in his. It's kinda cool really

Booty call! They love those.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Another question when does too much sex become a relationship. "

When emotions come into it

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"One of the problems it can cause is if one is looking hoping for it to grow to a more stable place . Ie one falls for the other. "

Thats the risk you take........never happen to either of us but then we were on the same page

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Yes it does but honesty comes with it,, i just need to make a call and he's there but doesn't interfere in my life either, nor

me in his. It's kinda cool really

Booty call! They love those."

It suits me so I don't care if it's a booty call,, aren't all friends with benefits booty calls then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does but honesty comes with it,, i just need to make a call and he's there but doesn't interfere in my life either, nor

me in his. It's kinda cool really

Booty call! They love those.

It suits me so I don't care if it's a booty call,, aren't all friends with benefits booty calls then?

Dunno? For me yeah but I guess if you're single you might do normal things as well.

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

I think it's hard to call what is going to become a relationship what's going to be a one time only fuck and what's gonna be fuck buddies or friends with benefits.

Ye are right tho openness is the only way forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it has worked well for me,met a lady on another site a few years ago,& she knows what she wants,so everyone's happy. We still meet once or twice a month,happy days

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Yes it does but honesty comes with it,, i just need to make a call and he's there but doesn't interfere in my life either, nor

me in his. It's kinda cool really

Booty call! They love those.

It suits me so I don't care if it's a booty call,, aren't all friends with benefits booty calls then?

Dunno? For me yeah but I guess if you're single you might do normal things as well."

Lol I do normal things, it's choice that I don't want a relationship or anything like that.. Divorced,, work,, kids,, they keep me busy.

My friend with benefits isn't just for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works so long as you lay your cards on the table and be totally honest with each other!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I think it's hard to call what is going to become a relationship what's going to be a one time only fuck and what's gonna be fuck buddies or friends with benefits.

Ye are right tho openness is the only way forward."

If you're honest lukey.. Each know where they stand,, nobody gets hurt.that's my experience anyway

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"It works so long as you lay your cards on the table and be totally honest with each other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does but honesty comes with it,, i just need to make a call and he's there but doesn't interfere in my life either, nor

me in his. It's kinda cool really

Booty call! They love those.

It suits me so I don't care if it's a booty call,, aren't all friends with benefits booty calls then?

Dunno? For me yeah but I guess if you're single you might do normal things as well.

Lol I do normal things, it's choice that I don't want a relationship or anything like that.. Divorced,, work,, kids,, they keep me busy.

My friend with benefits isn't just for sex

Exactly what I was thinking, all of mine have been just for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another question when does too much sex become a relationship. "

No such thing as too much sex!!

lol

For me though it has worked with some and not with others, depends on the people so no guessing you just have to try it and as everyone else says be honest!!

And distance could actually help it not develop into something more, if your not meeting regularly less chance for emotions to fester...

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Yes it does but honesty comes with it,, i just need to make a call and he's there but doesn't interfere in my life either, nor

me in his. It's kinda cool really

Booty call! They love those.

It suits me so I don't care if it's a booty call,, aren't all friends with benefits booty calls then?

Dunno? For me yeah but I guess if you're single you might do normal things as well.

Lol I do normal things, it's choice that I don't want a relationship or anything like that.. Divorced,, work,, kids,, they keep me busy.

My friend with benefits isn't just for sex

Exactly what I was thinking, all of mine have been just for sex.

Then that's a fuck buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a open position for one any takers???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last one I had lasted around 2 years in the end I had to walk away I knew if it went on I'd of grown attached, then I joined Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I'm going to volunteer to become someones friend with benefits so if you could form an orderly queue tht would be lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does but honesty comes with it,, i just need to make a call and he's there but doesn't interfere in my life either, nor

me in his. It's kinda cool really

Booty call! They love those."

would love a booty call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you meet too often, feelings could develop into something more romantic.

What worked for me best in the past is to have more than one friend with benefits.That way I didn't meet the same person too often but still got good sex regularly enough.

At the moment I only have one. I've known him for over two years and we meet once a month or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a booty call in the last 2 years approx to this particular person, aww it was the best one!! I sneaked out of the house, my mother was in bed asleep, drove down 17 miles to hotel!! I sneaked back home & in the house the next morning - mum was up but she was getting ready & didn't hear or see me get in so I sneaked back upstairs & into my bed again!! lol! I felt like a school kid, My FWB, he's a great friend too, well, we'll be still talking about it when we're old & grey!! oh the memories of that nite!!!!

It was so sneaky & I got away with it!! pmsl!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think myself you have to have a few friends with benifts so you don't get to attached it could spoil all the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once your both open and honest it can work. Have a great fwb who i know is onthe same page as myself. Though have had situations where the other wants more and it had to end

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"I've a open position for one any takers???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had one before lovely girl great connection but shes with someone serious now shame tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another question when does too much sex become a relationship.

No such thing as too much sex!!

lol

For me though it has worked with some and not with others, depends on the people so no guessing you just have to try it and as everyone else says be honest!!

And distance could actually help it not develop into something more, if your not meeting regularly less chance for emotions to fester... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experiance no it never works.. ive actually lost a few of my closest friends over this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this was about the film.

hmmmmmmm Mila kunis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought this was about the film.

hmmmmmmm Mila kunis

Would like her as a fb

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By *imdm101Man
over a year ago

Galway

Excuse my ignorance, but what does "Friends with Benefits" actually mean?

Thanks.

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

friend that u have sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worked for me for awhile.

P's. Friend with benefits is a friend who you fuck on a regular basis.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Thought this was about the film.

hmmmmmmm Mila kunis

Would like her as a fb

I'd love Justin Timberlake as a fuck buddy.. He doesn't even have to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"friend that u have sex with"

No that's a fuck bud,

Friends with benefits is all the perks of a relationship without emotions you still hang out and stuff

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

Any women wanna apply for a fuck buddy position please mail

chancing my arm but if your not in you cant win

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By *imdm101Man
over a year ago

Galway

Thanks to all who answered my question.

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"friend that u have sex with

No that's a fuck bud,

Friends with benefits is all the perks of a relationship without emotions you still hang out and stuff"

a fuck buddy is not a friend...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"friend that u have sex with

No that's a fuck bud,

Friends with benefits is all the perks of a relationship without emotions you still hang out and stuff

a fuck buddy is not a friend...

I mentioned to say a fuck buddy is not necessarily a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"friend that u have sex with

No that's a fuck bud,

Friends with benefits is all the perks of a relationship without emotions you still hang out and stuff

a fuck buddy is not a friend...

I mentioned to say a fuck buddy is not necessarily a friend"

true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yaz are splitting hairs now

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"friend that u have sex with

No that's a fuck bud,

Friends with benefits is all the perks of a relationship without emotions you still hang out and stuff

a fuck buddy is not a friend...

I mentioned to say a fuck buddy is not necessarily a friend

true

"
lol we were both right...I just didn't go in to the same detail as u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"friend that u have sex with

No that's a fuck bud,

Friends with benefits is all the perks of a relationship without emotions you still hang out and stuff

a fuck buddy is not a friend...

I mentioned to say a fuck buddy is not necessarily a friend

true

lol we were both right...I just didn't go in to the same detail as u"

Ya I went a tad into the detail lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

It doesn't work. It works initially. Then it doesn't work.

So it doesn't work.

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate. "

buy him a toothbrush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

buy him a toothbrush "

No no no

Then his kisses would be ordinary and boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't work. It works initially. Then it doesn't work.

So it doesn't work."

so just enjoy it while it works, then move on to the next one! Simples.

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over a year ago

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

buy him a toothbrush

No no no

Then his kisses would be ordinary and boring.

So I'll eat a dairy milk before I kiss you ?

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

buy him a toothbrush

No no no

Then his kisses would be ordinary and boring.

like everyone else's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend with benefits and her pussy is so tight I can barely fit my fingers inside her, and my fingers are tiny.

Sometimes I have to slap myself to remind myself that my best friend is attached to that pussy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

buy him a toothbrush

No no no

Then his kisses would be ordinary and boring.

like everyone else's? "

Yes

That would never do.

If he was boring and ordinary I wouldn't smile as he puts his hand around my throat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend.

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

buy him a toothbrush

No no no

Then his kisses would be ordinary and boring.

like everyone else's?

Yes

That would never do.

If he was boring and ordinary I wouldn't smile as he puts his hand around my throat"
were does he put his other hand?

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over a year ago

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

buy him a toothbrush

No no no

Then his kisses would be ordinary and boring.

like everyone else's?

Yes

That would never do.

If he was boring and ordinary I wouldn't smile as he puts his hand around my throat were does he put his other hand?"

On my tight pussy of course

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

buy him a toothbrush

No no no

Then his kisses would be ordinary and boring.

like everyone else's?

Yes

That would never do.

If he was boring and ordinary I wouldn't smile as he puts his hand around my throat were does he put his other hand?

On my tight pussy of course

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smearing chocolate all over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

buy him a toothbrush

No no no

Then his kisses would be ordinary and boring.

like everyone else's?

Yes

That would never do.

If he was boring and ordinary I wouldn't smile as he puts his hand around my throat were does he put his other hand?

On my tight pussy of course

smearing chocolate all over it"

No Fran, you've went too far as usual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

buy him a toothbrush

No no no

Then his kisses would be ordinary and boring.

like everyone else's?

Yes

That would never do.

If he was boring and ordinary I wouldn't smile as he puts his hand around my throat were does he put his other hand?

On my tight pussy of course

smearing chocolate all over it

No Fran, you've went too far as usual

Smearing chocolate is NEVER too far!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

buy him a toothbrush

No no no

Then his kisses would be ordinary and boring.

like everyone else's?

Yes

That would never do.

If he was boring and ordinary I wouldn't smile as he puts his hand around my throat were does he put his other hand?

On my tight pussy of course

smearing chocolate all over it

No Fran, you've went too far as usual

Smearing chocolate is NEVER too far!!

It's like drinking champagne from a naval

A complete waste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah it can

depending on how both get on and how honest ye both are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like any relationship.... Sometimes, depending on the people etc.

If it works... In my opinion it is the best way

Any CVs mail them on lol

Bandit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works for me have two fem friends who i do days out with walk and chat rtc...depending on the flow can share more and its d way they like it. Nothing hidden!! it seems to be working well. D busy lifestyles and Sat nite scene is not for all age grps so they say

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

buy him a toothbrush

No no no

Then his kisses would be ordinary and boring.

like everyone else's?

Yes

That would never do.

If he was boring and ordinary I wouldn't smile as he puts his hand around my throat were does he put his other hand?

On my tight pussy of course

smearing chocolate all over it

No Fran, you've went too far as usual

Smearing chocolate is NEVER too far!!

It's like drinking champagne from a naval

A complete waste "

I know. its Over rated and over priced that champagne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a friend with benefits for years now. It's great, we have the best of both worlds, a best friend that I have watched grow into an Amazing person, someone who I miss when I don't see them...Oh and someone who can almost make me cum just by giving me "that" look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just to put it out there ladies I am willing in fact very willing to have a female friend in need of benefits .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

buy him a toothbrush

No no no

Then his kisses would be ordinary and boring.

like everyone else's?

Yes

That would never do.

If he was boring and ordinary I wouldn't smile as he puts his hand around my throat were does he put his other hand?

On my tight pussy of course

smearing chocolate all over it

No Fran, you've went too far as usual

Smearing chocolate is NEVER too far!!

It's like drinking champagne from a naval

A complete waste

I know. its Over rated and over priced that champagne

Well I didn't say that; I just prefer it in a glass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

buy him a toothbrush

No no no

Then his kisses would be ordinary and boring.

like everyone else's?

Yes

That would never do.

If he was boring and ordinary I wouldn't smile as he puts his hand around my throat were does he put his other hand?

On my tight pussy of course

smearing chocolate all over it

No Fran, you've went too far as usual

Smearing chocolate is NEVER too far!!

It's like drinking champagne from a naval

A complete waste

I know. its Over rated and over priced that champagne

Well I didn't say that; I just prefer it in a glass

I don't mind what I drink it from but I'm a student I'd drink from an old booth if I had too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are lucky enough to have a couple of people in our life who are - at this stage - more than just friends with benefits and there are more emotions involved. It's a very wierd and wonderful dynamic and we are still finding our way around it, but it's working for us. It's a LOT of fun

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate. "

Sounds like Hershey's Kisses.

Im still undecided weather I like them or not.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"we are lucky enough to have a couple of people in our life who are - at this stage - more than just friends with benefits and there are more emotions involved. It's a very wierd and wonderful dynamic and we are still finding our way around it, but it's working for us. It's a LOT of fun

we are just as lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate. "

Does he take chocolate protein shakes a lot heard they do that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a friend.

His kisses taste like chocolate.

Does he take chocolate protein shakes a lot heard they do that lol "

Lol; nope

Just feeds us both chocolate in advance of kisses

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

I dont needs protein shakes. lol

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