FabSwingers.com forum: disappointed and angry

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anytime I try a threesome it goes wrong I had two men Mon reg who is great and another guy, the other guy did very little to pleasure me and reg pleasured me the whole time. Then the other guy ups and leaves an hr before he shud have. He had chased me wanted to join me and reg and I let him is it so wrong to want to be pleasured by two men or a man and woman. I'm not sure wether to try it again wit ones I know more. Or leave it seems to much to ask for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm a bigger girl and he knew tat.not sure if that was the problem or he was nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anytime I try a threesome it goes wrong I had two men Mon reg who is great and another guy, the other guy did very little to pleasure me and reg pleasured me the whole time. Then the other guy ups and leaves an hr before he shud have. He had chased me wanted to join me and reg and I let him is it so wrong to want to be pleasured by two men or a man and woman. I'm not sure wether to try it again wit ones I know more. Or leave it seems to much to ask for"
.....lol....you should have no trouble getting a few guys off here to help with your dilemma. ..

....even easier to find a cpl....write that guy off as a failure. ..pof as they say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lads ike that give genuine lads a hard time on here,, i wouldnt up and leave u thats 4 sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least he showed up! I was supposed to have a mmf in kells yesterday which is a 45 min drive from me and the girl never showed! Was so annoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name and shame

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

I've been there before too, it's frustrating as hell but you just have to dust yourself off and get back on the horse. Maybe try with guys you've met before who you know won't let you down?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Theres no good him showing when I got v little from him it wud have been better if he left instead of coming to the room

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"I'm a bigger girl and he knew tat.not sure if that was the problem or he was nervous."

sometimes the woman and one of the men are more suited to each other and the other guy maybe feels a bit left out....don't take it to heart .. We all have good days and bad days.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If it wasn't fr my reg I have had no pleasure at all. Which is annoying as hell

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Frandub it was only me, reg and another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You win some you lose some, thats the way it goes here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know but I dont know weather to give up trying or continue fr a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know but I dont know weather to give up trying or continue fr a bit"

I wouldn't let one selfish guy put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know but I dont know weather to give up trying or continue fr a bit"
...lol....have your own private greedy girl nite...invite two or three lads....restore your faith. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you were all about reg, 'other guy' probably felt like a spare prick.. if he wasn't enjoying himself, he was right to leave rather than push through soley for your benefit

but as others have said, there's someone on here who will fit the bill, so best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lmao cud u just imagine my neighbours faces if I did. I prefer away from home meets lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wasn't all fr reg I said if it wasn't fr him nothing wud happen u was pleasuring the other etc and he was enjoying it then he had to use toilet and was a bit put off by how aroused reg was and him talking id say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame reg! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lmao cud u just imagine my neighbours faces if I did. I prefer away from home meets lol"
....ah you only live once girl .....

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"I wasn't all fr reg I said if it wasn't fr him nothing wud happen u was pleasuring the other etc and he was enjoying it then he had to use toilet and was a bit put off by how aroused reg was and him talking id say "

oh so it was regs fault...He was talking dirty. ..tell me more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know ?? trust me to pick someone like tat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No he wasn't talking dirty just in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh so it was regs fault...He was talking dirty. ..tell me more

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"No he wasn't talking dirty just in general"

what was he talking about. That put the guy off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh so it was regs fault...He was talking dirty. ..tell me more

is it Reg as in Reggie or Reginald?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just searched all usernames for Reg. he seems like some man for one man. Spill lovely lady, who is Reg!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

oh so it was regs fault...He was talking dirty. ..tell me more

is it Reg as in Reggie or Reginald?

Lol king

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just searched all usernames for Reg. he seems like some man for one man. Spill lovely lady, who is Reg!"

could it be reg as in I can't be arsed typing regular?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Reg is regular meet lol

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"I just searched all usernames for Reg. he seems like some man for one man. Spill lovely lady, who is Reg!"

or in the above case..Some man for two men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And wats the difference if I type it in full or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reg is regular meet lol"

I figured after laes search for this man named Reg turned up empty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just searched all usernames for Reg. he seems like some man for one man. Spill lovely lady, who is Reg!"
....reggie perrin...or Reginald Bosanquet. ...bet you all forgot about him...

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Reg is regular meet lol"

Note to self,, i need a reg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He left an hour before he should have? Was he booked for the night? Maybe he wasn't comfortable? Could be loads of reasons why he left and didn't pleasure you the way you wanted, these things happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reg is regular meet lol"

Lol forgive my stupidity

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"And wats the difference if I type it in full or not"

At least this lot got you smiling

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"Reg is regular meet lol

Lol forgive my stupidity

me too. I taught his name was reg

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys I'm over it now just wanted to see if it was me or if he was maybe nervous etc tat he wasn't into it much

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"No he wasn't talking dirty just in general"

What was reg talking about I want to know

He has me rightly creeped out

I think you and the guy were lucky to escape with your lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reg is regular meet lol

Lol forgive my stupidity

X"
.....we're only picking outa ya...to cheer you up....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No one is stupid here. Your all lovely people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys I'm over it now just wanted to see if it was me or if he was maybe nervous etc tat he wasn't into it much"

I have to say you're a breath of fresh air.

Sorry you had a shit time though with the non reg.

Onwards and Upwards x

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Reg is regular meet lol"

I just saw this. I'm not creeped out at all now that I know he's not called Reg

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hal he was talking about fantasises he was actually telling him go on kiss her do this do tat it wud out anyone off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys I'm over it now just wanted to see if it was me or if he was maybe nervous etc tat he wasn't into it much

I have to say you're a breath of fresh air.

Sorry you had a shit time though with the non reg.

Onwards and Upwards x"
..we'll get mc carthy to organize a bus load over to your place. ..lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one is stupid here. Your all lovely people "

Aww thanks

you seem nice yourself, chin up and don't let one guy knock you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks laes so are u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a bad experience in a group meet thank god every guy we met did what they where ment too without no problems

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's good kinkywex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hal he was talking about fantasises he was actually telling him go on kiss her do this do tat it wud out anyone off"

Maybe he was just put off by your regular guy saying stuff like this and maybe he didn't like being told what to do

As Red said above I wouldn't let one bad experience put me off

Maybe next time if you are going to give it another go just let things happen and go with the flow perhaps.. The right guys will be worth it in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he just didnt fancy you?

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick

Sounds like an April fools to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not ask him direct rather than people who weren't there and can only speculate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not ask him direct rather than people who weren't there and can only speculate? "

This

If this was a guy Bitching about a lady he would get hell over it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not ask him direct rather than people who weren't there and can only speculate?

This

If this was a guy Bitching about a lady he would get hell over it..

I feel sorry for the guy if he's a forum user/reader!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had to excuse myself from a threesome for a moment.

I apologised to the, young woman and her husband but they agreed I needed to stop. Sweat was pooling on my body and was starting to drip off me, and I felt like I was going to collapse.

Anyway I went to have a cold shower.

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By *liceandraWoman
over a year ago

with the faries

It all depends on how Alpha your regular came across, the other guy may have felt out of place because yous know each other so well already. Maybe if you had been calling the shots instead of your regular things might have been different, speaking of experience here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There could me many reasons, but you're better off asking him why he left.

I'm all about being spontaneous but I think setting clear expectations (on all sides) before the meet should help avoiding some awkward situations

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"It all depends on how Alpha your regular came across, the other guy may have felt out of place because yous know each other so well already. Maybe if you had been calling the shots instead of your regular things might have been different, speaking of experience here"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. Shocking. There might be so many reasons for his behaviour and it's not nice going public about it. He must feel very bad if he had read the OP.

Men are not machines and some ladies treat us like a cock they can use and dispense whenever they want. Men are people too.

Another thing is that if a men posted anything remotely close to the OP he would have been destroyed in the forum.

Why not to ask directly the man in question for his reasons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try getting two regulars might solve your problems

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