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"So I have tried every approach on here to get talking to people, you can't be yourself here it's too bland.... I have tried everything even being a prick. Maybe I'm picking the wrong people i do not know but a little advice, about anything Fab related and getting going would be great help not just for me.... but for the majority of the male fab population lol ![]() ![]() ![]() .....are you having a laugh? | |||
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"So I have tried every approach on here to get talking to people, you can't be yourself here it's too bland.... I have tried everything even being a prick. Maybe I'm picking the wrong people i do not know but a little advice, about anything Fab related and getting going would be great help not just for me.... but for the majority of the male fab population lol ![]() ![]() ![]() No why? just trying to get advice and start a public convo | |||
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"So I have tried every approach on here to get talking to people, you can't be yourself here it's too bland.... I have tried everything even being a prick. Maybe I'm picking the wrong people i do not know but a little advice, about anything Fab related and getting going would be great help not just for me.... but for the majority of the male fab population lol ![]() ![]() ![]() .....you say you've been here before. ...you start your profile msg with a rant....and you have a code word for your msg box...lol...I doubt if you will get a msg...much less a meet. ....you did ask for advice. . ![]() | |||
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"Hi, for a start being a prick to someone defo wont get u a meet esp Wi me and most women here. If a man is respectful and honest and a gent then ill meet them. But if they send messages like hey wanna f.... I ain't interested. My advice is be the best you can be. You will find someone soon." Lol i meant the being a prick as in I have tried every 'personality' as a first message to see how it all goes down and whats the best, I am a genuine energetic guy but i would say out of every 20 women I approach, 1 or 2 might write back. It seems the fakers on here have the site almost ruined.... for newbies atleast anyway!!!! Thanks for your reply though ![]() | |||
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"Hi, for a start being a prick to someone defo wont get u a meet esp Wi me and most women here. If a man is respectful and honest and a gent then ill meet them. But if they send messages like hey wanna f.... I ain't interested. My advice is be the best you can be. You will find someone soon. Lol i meant the being a prick as in I have tried every 'personality' as a first message to see how it all goes down and whats the best, I am a genuine energetic guy but i would say out of every 20 women I approach, 1 or 2 might write back. It seems the fakers on here have the site almost ruined.... for newbies atleast anyway!!!! Thanks for your reply though ![]() ......you really need to rethink your profile. ..lol | |||
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"So I have tried every approach on here to get talking to people, you can't be yourself here it's too bland.... I have tried everything even being a prick. Maybe I'm picking the wrong people i do not know but a little advice, about anything Fab related and getting going would be great help not just for me.... but for the majority of the male fab population lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And I appreciate every bit of it ![]() | |||
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"Hi, for a start being a prick to someone defo wont get u a meet esp Wi me and most women here. If a man is respectful and honest and a gent then ill meet them. But if they send messages like hey wanna f.... I ain't interested. My advice is be the best you can be. You will find someone soon. Lol i meant the being a prick as in I have tried every 'personality' as a first message to see how it all goes down and whats the best, I am a genuine energetic guy but i would say out of every 20 women I approach, 1 or 2 might write back. It seems the fakers on here have the site almost ruined.... for newbies atleast anyway!!!! Thanks for your reply though ![]() Maybe that's where I'm going wrong!... I need to put a secret code word on my profile!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Hi, for a start being a prick to someone defo wont get u a meet esp Wi me and most women here. If a man is respectful and honest and a gent then ill meet them. But if they send messages like hey wanna f.... I ain't interested. My advice is be the best you can be. You will find someone soon. Lol i meant the being a prick as in I have tried every 'personality' as a first message to see how it all goes down and whats the best, I am a genuine energetic guy but i would say out of every 20 women I approach, 1 or 2 might write back. It seems the fakers on here have the site almost ruined.... for newbies atleast anyway!!!! Thanks for your reply though ![]() ![]() ![]() Done!! Now all I have to do is wait for the FLOOD of mail!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Hi, for a start being a prick to someone defo wont get u a meet esp Wi me and most women here. If a man is respectful and honest and a gent then ill meet them. But if they send messages like hey wanna f.... I ain't interested. My advice is be the best you can be. You will find someone soon. Lol i meant the being a prick as in I have tried every 'personality' as a first message to see how it all goes down and whats the best, I am a genuine energetic guy but i would say out of every 20 women I approach, 1 or 2 might write back. It seems the fakers on here have the site almost ruined.... for newbies atleast anyway!!!! Thanks for your reply though ![]() ![]() ![]() .....we have one....its so secret. ...you have to view it with a black light. ....(old cia trick).. ![]() | |||
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"Hi, for a start being a prick to someone defo wont get u a meet esp Wi me and most women here. If a man is respectful and honest and a gent then ill meet them. But if they send messages like hey wanna f.... I ain't interested. My advice is be the best you can be. You will find someone soon. Lol i meant the being a prick as in I have tried every 'personality' as a first message to see how it all goes down and whats the best, I am a genuine energetic guy but i would say out of every 20 women I approach, 1 or 2 might write back. It seems the fakers on here have the site almost ruined.... for newbies atleast anyway!!!! Thanks for your reply though ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() How clever of you ![]() | |||
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"Hi, for a start being a prick to someone defo wont get u a meet esp Wi me and most women here. If a man is respectful and honest and a gent then ill meet them. But if they send messages like hey wanna f.... I ain't interested. My advice is be the best you can be. You will find someone soon. Lol i meant the being a prick as in I have tried every 'personality' as a first message to see how it all goes down and whats the best, I am a genuine energetic guy but i would say out of every 20 women I approach, 1 or 2 might write back. It seems the fakers on here have the site almost ruined.... for newbies atleast anyway!!!! Thanks for your reply though ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I SEE IT!!..... I knew these 3D glasses would come in handy for something!! No wait, it's in hieroglyphics!!! ![]() | |||
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"Hi, for a start being a prick to someone defo wont get u a meet esp Wi me and most women here. If a man is respectful and honest and a gent then ill meet them. But if they send messages like hey wanna f.... I ain't interested. My advice is be the best you can be. You will find someone soon. Lol i meant the being a prick as in I have tried every 'personality' as a first message to see how it all goes down and whats the best, I am a genuine energetic guy but i would say out of every 20 women I approach, 1 or 2 might write back. It seems the fakers on here have the site almost ruined.... for newbies atleast anyway!!!! Thanks for your reply though ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() .....its mayan actually. .pffff....philistine !!!! | |||
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"Hi, for a start being a prick to someone defo wont get u a meet esp Wi me and most women here. If a man is respectful and honest and a gent then ill meet them. But if they send messages like hey wanna f.... I ain't interested. My advice is be the best you can be. You will find someone soon. Lol i meant the being a prick as in I have tried every 'personality' as a first message to see how it all goes down and whats the best, I am a genuine energetic guy but i would say out of every 20 women I approach, 1 or 2 might write back. It seems the fakers on here have the site almost ruined.... for newbies atleast anyway!!!! Thanks for your reply though ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Uh oh! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Hi, for a start being a prick to someone defo wont get u a meet esp Wi me and most women here. If a man is respectful and honest and a gent then ill meet them. But if they send messages like hey wanna f.... I ain't interested. My advice is be the best you can be. You will find someone soon. Lol i meant the being a prick as in I have tried every 'personality' as a first message to see how it all goes down and whats the best, I am a genuine energetic guy but i would say out of every 20 women I approach, 1 or 2 might write back. It seems the fakers on here have the site almost ruined.... for newbies atleast anyway!!!! Thanks for your reply though ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() No, she just meant it's not yours ![]() | |||
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"Why can't he have a code word on his profile? Women and couples Do? and surprise surprise, it's not just the single guys on here that don't read profile, plenty of women and couples guilty of that too. OP welcome back and have fun ![]() That was my thinking behind it, thank you for having my back!!! | |||
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"Why can't he have a code word on his profile? Women and couples Do? and surprise surprise, it's not just the single guys on here that don't read profile, plenty of women and couples guilty of that too. OP welcome back and have fun ![]() Meh. was a bit pointless defending you when you sell out and change the whole thing really | |||
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"Why can't he have a code word on his profile? Women and couples Do? and surprise surprise, it's not just the single guys on here that don't read profile, plenty of women and couples guilty of that too. OP welcome back and have fun ![]() Hahah i did it before you stuck up for me, i asked for advice and i took it, forgive me | |||
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"Get a few nice pics up buddy (not cock pics) in my opinion girls wont rreally be fussed chatting to a silhouette, give them something to think about, try to talk in the forums to people aswell as sending mail, be nice but not a lick the arse. Good luck ![]() Have a few up, just hidden is all! But great advice, maybe ill make some public and get onto the forums thanks mate ![]() | |||
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"The different personalities you have tried didn't work. Why not just stick to your own. It can't be that bad. Best of luck.... you need it, it seems. I did ok as a newbie. Am I still a newbie? " Thanks pal, Nothing wrong with my personality lol but they way i would introduce myself fell flat so tried various other ways if you get me! I need all the luck i can get it seems lol | |||
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"Why can't he have a code word on his profile? Women and couples Do? and surprise surprise, it's not just the single guys on here that don't read profile, plenty of women and couples guilty of that too. OP welcome back and have fun ![]() .....Please !!!!... a code word is slightly pretentious on anyone's profile. ...you know instantly if someone sends you a msg and they haven't read your profile. ....without a "pander to my overinflated ego."..aka code word.....in our humble opinion. ... ![]() | |||
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"How about this then Your profile is selling YOU so it should reflect YOU and not what you think people want to see! " Well i put it there because it seemed to be what all the well verified people do (saw a connection, i went for it) it wasn't something I would do on my own thinking ![]() | |||
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"How about this then Your profile is selling YOU so it should reflect YOU and not what you think people want to see! Well i put it there because it seemed to be what all the well verified people do (saw a connection, i went for it) it wasn't something I would do on my own thinking ![]() I'd hardly think all the "well verified people" put up threads asking for ideas or help with their profile.... | |||
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"How about this then Your profile is selling YOU so it should reflect YOU and not what you think people want to see! Well i put it there because it seemed to be what all the well verified people do (saw a connection, i went for it) it wasn't something I would do on my own thinking ![]() ...really. ....we wouldn't. ..and we don't know anyone who would msg someone with a code word...not having a go. ..im being totally honest with you. ... | |||
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"How about this then Your profile is selling YOU so it should reflect YOU and not what you think people want to see! Well i put it there because it seemed to be what all the well verified people do (saw a connection, i went for it) it wasn't something I would do on my own thinking ![]() I'm talking in general, never mentioned the code word | |||
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"How about this then Your profile is selling YOU so it should reflect YOU and not what you think people want to see! Well i put it there because it seemed to be what all the well verified people do (saw a connection, i went for it) it wasn't something I would do on my own thinking ![]() I seem to have offended you by asking for help, I do apologise ![]() | |||
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"How about this then Your profile is selling YOU so it should reflect YOU and not what you think people want to see! Well i put it there because it seemed to be what all the well verified people do (saw a connection, i went for it) it wasn't something I would do on my own thinking ![]() And I appreciate all your help ![]() ![]() | |||
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"How about this then Your profile is selling YOU so it should reflect YOU and not what you think people want to see! Well i put it there because it seemed to be what all the well verified people do (saw a connection, i went for it) it wasn't something I would do on my own thinking ![]() ...sorry. ..picked you up wrong. ...best of luck. . ![]() | |||
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"Let me make this clear, all I was looking for is some good friendly chit chat and advice! It would be nice for people to share ideas and get on, I guess I underestimated this site!!" .....well we hope our advice was good. .. ![]() | |||
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"How about this then Your profile is selling YOU so it should reflect YOU and not what you think people want to see! Well i put it there because it seemed to be what all the well verified people do (saw a connection, i went for it) it wasn't something I would do on my own thinking ![]() ![]() Ah no, you haven't offended anyone at all! And I wasn't having a go at you... My apologies if I'm coming across that way, but if you ask for advice on a forum you'll receive both positive and negative feedback on what people observe... Anyway, best of luck and hope it works out for ya ![]() | |||
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"Let me make this clear, all I was looking for is some good friendly chit chat and advice! It would be nice for people to share ideas and get on, I guess I underestimated this site!!.....well we hope our advice was good. .. ![]() It really was ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"How about this then Your profile is selling YOU so it should reflect YOU and not what you think people want to see! Well i put it there because it seemed to be what all the well verified people do (saw a connection, i went for it) it wasn't something I would do on my own thinking ![]() ![]() ![]() There's Constructive Criticism, and then there's plain old criticism... But I expected that and some messers so don't worry about it and thanks ![]() | |||
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"Hi, for a start being a prick to someone defo wont get u a meet esp Wi me and most women here. If a man is respectful and honest and a gent then ill meet them. But if they send messages like hey wanna f.... I ain't interested. My advice is be the best you can be. You will find someone soon. Lol i meant the being a prick as in I have tried every 'personality' as a first message to see how it all goes down and whats the best, I am a genuine energetic guy but i would say out of every 20 women I approach, 1 or 2 might write back. It seems the fakers on here have the site almost ruined.... for newbies atleast anyway!!!! Thanks for your reply though ![]() Be funnier much funnier much much funnier. | |||
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"Well I think ya come across as ok your not bad looking either and can hold a conversation. Your not afraid of the criticism here or have you let it phase you. I would meet you for a coffee or more if I was closer and hopefully there are girls nearer to ya that can see the same ![]() ![]() Faith in fab restored ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"No wait actually misscar on seconds thoughts, fuck him he's just a newbie with crap pics meet me instead near slept in there what's wrong with me this weather lol ![]() Lol can't wait to meet yourselves and check out that torso for real. Only 18 days ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"No wait actually misscar on seconds thoughts, fuck him he's just a newbie with crap pics meet me instead near slept in there what's wrong with me this weather lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Run where, I cant wait gonna bring my handcuffs and cuff you to me so you can't escape with someone else, lol I know counting the days away | |||
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"No wait actually misscar on seconds thoughts, fuck him he's just a newbie with crap pics meet me instead near slept in there what's wrong with me this weather lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Kinky ![]() | |||
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"No wait actually misscar on seconds thoughts, fuck him he's just a newbie with crap pics meet me instead near slept in there what's wrong with me this weather lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh hun your so innocent, the kink doesn't start till the after party, where two of my bitch slaves will bring you to my den, tie and gag you, blind fold you then watch while I take out my little box of tricks, and work on you until you scream, and nobody will come to your rescue. Hehehe if ya actually didn't know me you'd think I was good at all this ole sex stuff ![]() | |||
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"No wait actually misscar on seconds thoughts, fuck him he's just a newbie with crap pics meet me instead near slept in there what's wrong with me this weather lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I feel like pineloppe pitstopp now heeelpppp ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"My advice would be dont go into chatroom and start pestering people for Skype, don't start posting your Skype address in public chat and generally being a dick....oh too late, you already did. " I'm glad you wrote here, 1) It wasn't you I was talking to in chat 2)I asked her if we could talk somewhere else as the public chat, it was impossible to get a proper chat to just one person 3) I had many miscommunications because of said group chat, and put my skype up because i thought she said yes and i didnt want her to go putting hers up (obviously) I did not get aggressive, i was not forceful, as soon as she said she didnt do skype I let it go like and explained it was a misunderstanding, she didnt get angry or anything it was a misunderstanding and then you stuck your nose in and started even mocking the way i said hello to the group, have I don't something to upset you by being alive or something because I don't know you so please leave me alone! | |||
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"Well I think ya come across as ok your not bad looking either and can hold a conversation. Your not afraid of the criticism here or have you let it phase you. I would meet you for a coffee or more if I was closer and hopefully there are girls nearer to ya that can see the same ![]() ![]() How sweet of you, faith truly restored in Fab you're a gem xx ![]() | |||
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"No wait actually misscar on seconds thoughts, fuck him he's just a newbie with crap pics meet me instead near slept in there what's wrong with me this weather lol ![]() That quickly changed lol thanks ![]() ![]() | |||
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"My advice would be dont go into chatroom and start pestering people for Skype, don't start posting your Skype address in public chat and generally being a dick....oh too late, you already did. I'm glad you wrote here, 1) It wasn't you I was talking to in chat 2)I asked her if we could talk somewhere else as the public chat, it was impossible to get a proper chat to just one person 3) I had many miscommunications because of said group chat, and put my skype up because i thought she said yes and i didnt want her to go putting hers up (obviously) I did not get aggressive, i was not forceful, as soon as she said she didnt do skype I let it go like and explained it was a misunderstanding, she didnt get angry or anything it was a misunderstanding and then you stuck your nose in and started even mocking the way i said hello to the group, have I don't something to upset you by being alive or something because I don't know you so please leave me alone!" The lady in question blocked you, as did I, so no need to worry. Carry on. | |||
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"My advice would be dont go into chatroom and start pestering people for Skype, don't start posting your Skype address in public chat and generally being a dick....oh too late, you already did. I'm glad you wrote here, 1) It wasn't you I was talking to in chat 2)I asked her if we could talk somewhere else as the public chat, it was impossible to get a proper chat to just one person 3) I had many miscommunications because of said group chat, and put my skype up because i thought she said yes and i didnt want her to go putting hers up (obviously) I did not get aggressive, i was not forceful, as soon as she said she didnt do skype I let it go like and explained it was a misunderstanding, she didnt get angry or anything it was a misunderstanding and then you stuck your nose in and started even mocking the way i said hello to the group, have I don't something to upset you by being alive or something because I don't know you so please leave me alone! The lady in question blocked you, as did I, so no need to worry. Carry on. " You even block those who are your friends and have helped you out in the past ![]() ![]() | |||
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"My advice would be dont go into chatroom and start pestering people for Skype, don't start posting your Skype address in public chat and generally being a dick....oh too late, you already did. I'm glad you wrote here, 1) It wasn't you I was talking to in chat 2)I asked her if we could talk somewhere else as the public chat, it was impossible to get a proper chat to just one person 3) I had many miscommunications because of said group chat, and put my skype up because i thought she said yes and i didnt want her to go putting hers up (obviously) I did not get aggressive, i was not forceful, as soon as she said she didnt do skype I let it go like and explained it was a misunderstanding, she didnt get angry or anything it was a misunderstanding and then you stuck your nose in and started even mocking the way i said hello to the group, have I don't something to upset you by being alive or something because I don't know you so please leave me alone! The lady in question blocked you, as did I, so no need to worry. Carry on. " I know, she saw how I handled your behavior I stooped to your level and for that I apologise.... Sometimes this site is too much, like random people sticking their nose in to a conversation which had nothing to do with them, and then blocking you. It's a bit daft really I wonder do you behave like that in day to day life lol You did me a favour by blocking me, Peace ![]() | |||
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"My advice would be dont go into chatroom and start pestering people for Skype, don't start posting your Skype address in public chat and generally being a dick....oh too late, you already did. I'm glad you wrote here, 1) It wasn't you I was talking to in chat 2)I asked her if we could talk somewhere else as the public chat, it was impossible to get a proper chat to just one person 3) I had many miscommunications because of said group chat, and put my skype up because i thought she said yes and i didnt want her to go putting hers up (obviously) I did not get aggressive, i was not forceful, as soon as she said she didnt do skype I let it go like and explained it was a misunderstanding, she didnt get angry or anything it was a misunderstanding and then you stuck your nose in and started even mocking the way i said hello to the group, have I don't something to upset you by being alive or something because I don't know you so please leave me alone! The lady in question blocked you, as did I, so no need to worry. Carry on. You even block those who are your friends and have helped you out in the past ![]() ![]() I see you are one to watch out for on here, glad I got blocked in the early days! Don't worry bud, something tells me you are better off ![]() | |||
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