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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or do other guys find it difficult knowing what to write when first sending an opening message to a woman?lol without sounding like a tube or being repetative?lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do other guys find it difficult knowing what to write when first sending an opening message to a woman?lol without sounding like a tube or being repetative?lol"
lol it's a women's world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to be original all right - and most ladies on here get dozens of mails every day - or every hour lol! Best just to be honest and straightforward I think - and hopefully your mail will cach her eye someday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a woman's world here... There you are now putting time into an opening message to catch her attention but most likely her own opening message with would be ''hi xxx'' with 4 tit pics and nothing else haha...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regarding your original post id say you just do what you feel...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First always open msg where in subject line I can see guy really take time and read profile. And if its more than''Hi, how are you?!'' I always answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol Il take that on board maza,mabey im too mellow sending messages,feel while cringy tho.Mabey my gentleman nature wasent meant for fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do other guys find it difficult knowing what to write when first sending an opening message to a woman?lol without sounding like a tube or being repetative?lol"

Nothing wrong with your first msg to me anyway...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha thanks m.x, Mabey I wanted your attention a little bit more than the others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once the mail stick to the formula you will be fine.

Example!

Hi im in a hotel tonight.

Fuck your hot sell my your smelly thong

Im in your area tonight my room is num 23 c u at 8 you can fuck off at 9 if you like.

Tell your husband to fuck off tonight and il cum over and show you a real man.

Stick to stuff like that and you will be fine

Btw all the above actual mails lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha thanks m.x, Mabey I wanted your attention a little bit more than the others"

You know where I am...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea you get those thoughts but then it's like fuck it just be yourself if they don't like ya fuck em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't please everybody. Just be yourself but do read the woman's profile! I've hardly ever received any rude mail btw.....so Id like to compliment the majority if the guys on here for being respectful and doing an effort in their first messages. In return I reply any polite messages even if I'm not interested for whatever reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm don't care about how other people see me. I normally don't message first cause I don't see much point in it.

If i was gonna message first it would be to say "Hi, how are you?". I'm not overly concerned about getting a reply.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

It can be very hard to know what to send to a lady especially when her profile either has "will fillout later" or a list of demands does/don'ts. For these reasons I decided a long time ago to give up on first mails other than the welcome to the site type one when I see a new profile pop up local to me. Joining in the fourms and chat has led to some surprising contacts and great convos u get a feel for someone and its easier to strike up a conversation

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