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Grabbing the attention of a potential fun friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you like to get mail? Does humour work? If you are sending mail how do you gauge what others think is funny?

Do people respond to winks? Or is the initial contact just about the pics? Or is the probability of receiving a mail response down to having met someone at a social event?

Am newish to this and don't genuinely know so please share.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

That's a lot of questions in one try doing a fourm search for one or two of them there's aceres of advise posted in previous threads some very good advice there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every person on here Is different. So I suggest you read the profiles of those you want to get in contact with carefully usually well written profiles will tell you what they prefer when you're contacting her/them oh! Two things to avoid "want to meet" and "hi how are you" be yourself and be creative to grab attention of that you're messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be original.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry I probably should have been clearer, im not looking for advice. Was just wanting to get a conversation going and as a newbie was looking to hear the diverse range of opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always great to get mail and it's great when there's some humour to a mail!! It's nice to have a good laugh with somebody who messages you!

I've gotten messages where it literally just says 'Hi' or 'Hiii' They don't do it for me.... 'Wanna fuck me' messages are a pain!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Sorry I probably should have been clearer, im not looking for advice. Was just wanting to get a conversation going and as a newbie was looking to hear the diverse range of opinions. "

Your message will have to start somewhere,,, be original to grab her/their attention to make them want to answer you.... Go with the flow after that. Messages aren't always planned in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I probably should have been clearer, im not looking for advice. Was just wanting to get a conversation going and as a newbie was looking to hear the diverse range of opinions.

Your message will have to start somewhere,,, be original to grab her/their attention to make them want to answer you.... Go with the flow after that. Messages aren't always planned in advance "
....ask her does she have her own ball gag or should u bring a spare. ..that will get her attention

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"It's always great to get mail and it's great when there's some humour to a mail!! It's nice to have a good laugh with somebody who messages you!

I've gotten messages where it literally just says 'Hi' or 'Hiii' They don't do it for me.... 'Wanna fuck me' messages are a pain! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im finding now that if u put a riddle at the end of ur message its seem to work gets a conversation going.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Surely you should be yourself rather than try to be what you think they want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get more "what the fuk " than "wanna fuk " messages.... But when you get the "ya hun" reply you know that they want you.. ..

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I get more "what the fuk " than "wanna fuk " messages.... But when you get the "ya hun" reply you know that they want you.. .. "

It's almost as much of a turn on as ASL used to be. God I haven't seen that in years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely you should be yourself rather than try to be what you think they want? "

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick


"Sorry I probably should have been clearer, im not looking for advice. Was just wanting to get a conversation going and as a newbie was looking to hear the diverse range of opinions.

Your message will have to start somewhere,,, be original to grab her/their attention to make them want to answer you.... Go with the flow after that. Messages aren't always planned in advance ....ask her does she have her own ball gag or should u bring a spare. ..that will get her attention "

I've used that one before.

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