FabSwingers.com forum: Terms and Conditions

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

At what point when you are chatting to a person do you think ........ yes I want to meet them or play with them??

Is it something they've said?

A feeling they have created?

A desire or fantasy you get?

What are the terms and conditions ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At what point when you are chatting to a person do you think ........ yes I want to meet them or play with them??

Is it something they've said?

A feeling they have created?

A desire or fantasy you get?

What are the terms and conditions ???"

Mine are if they make me smile or laugh without them realizing it, if I reply to their mail and continue to chat for hours/days means they are holding my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for a guy, its if they have a vagina or not

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By *vedonMan
over a year ago

The Dead Marshes

"Well for a guy, its if they have a vagina or not"
"terms and conditions apply, pulse not required."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most men on here dont need a vagina or a woman to go to a meet, I think it boils down to if the other person is willing or not, sometimes the other person does not even have to be willing????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it really that basic with lads surely you have your standards, likes, dislikes??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really that basic with lads surely you have your standards, likes, dislikes??"

4 functioning limbs??

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By *vedonMan
over a year ago

The Dead Marshes

"Is it really that basic with lads surely you have your standards, likes, dislikes??"

Of course we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really that basic with lads surely you have your standards, likes, dislikes??

Of course we do. "

A pulse lol.

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By *vedonMan
over a year ago

The Dead Marshes

It's a start...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C'mon so tell me what woulda person have to do to make you actually meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really that basic with lads surely you have your standards, likes, dislikes??

4 functioning limbs??"

Your standards are way too high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"C'mon so tell me what woulda person have to do to make you actually meet "

Be relatively attractive and up for it...theres no magic or science to it for a man. We prob require less on here than we would in offline world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So do you think women have higher or lower standards here than offline? I know personally mine are probably the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you think women have higher or lower standards here than offline? I know personally mine are probably the same. "

I cant really speak for women, but i believe men have lower standards in here than offline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

? "

Everything is said to get in your knickers. You could put up a pic of a dogs arse and get mails saying you're the most beautiful girl in the world. Some men definitely have lower standards on here and would get up on anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

The lady speaks the truth im afraid...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

? "
jeez I hope not or this whole site will be turned upside down for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

? "

Men dont care about chemistry or a connection...just about getting sex. The crucial difference is this isnt dating so that stuff is irrelevant to men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

See then I don't blame women for getting the best possible meet that they can and become uber picky cause at the end of the day it's just sex ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

Men dont care about chemistry or a connection...just about getting sex. The crucial difference is this isnt dating so that stuff is irrelevant to men"

Not true mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never gone to a pub or on a night out to get laid, but I assume women on a night out have different standards.

I would hope they would slap any of us guys if we acted how we do on here with them in person for the first time on a night out.

A lot of guys on here get picked simply for one sexual fetish, big cock, mmf, bisexual, whatever it is they can be picked for that one thing alone. These are things you wont know about a guy sitting in a pub who you are chatting to, and if he brought it up youd probably slap him, even if it was something you would look for on here.

Although there are girls out there who will suck 3 or 4 guys off in a night and have sex with a guy who buys them a drink. I don't really know as I have never really done that stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

See then I don't blame women for getting the best possible meet that they can and become uber picky cause at the end of the day it's just sex ??"

There's never anything wrong with being uber picky! It's just wading through the crap to get the best possible meet lol

(My post wasn't aimed at you btw, used you as a general term x)

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By *vedonMan
over a year ago

The Dead Marshes

"There's never anything wrong with being uber picky! It's just wading through the crap to get the best possible meet lol

(My post wasn't aimed at you btw, used you as a general term x)"

...and that door swings both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's never anything wrong with being uber picky! It's just wading through the crap to get the best possible meet lol

(My post wasn't aimed at you btw, used you as a general term x)

...and that door swings both ways. "

If you read my previous post you'll see I said some men. I didn't tar ye all with the one brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your ok

I know if don't get from one they move on to the other and next and next I just wish more women would see might make for a more harmonious fab experience

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

"So do you think women have higher or lower standards here than offline? I know personally mine are probably the same. "

Can we get an independent witness from your offline world to vouch for that. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's about meeting someone new. And having a unforgettable experience. Not just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh now.... most lads on here have some standards.....

At the very least the woman should be still warm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for me is a lady that as some confidence and is able to have a laugh must be on the same wave lenght as myself with great pics to thats my standards.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"most men on here dont need a vagina or a woman to go to a meet, I think it boils down to if the other person is willing or not, sometimes the other person does not even have to be willing????"

Please explain "does not even have to be willing"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So do you think women have higher or lower standards here than offline? I know personally mine are probably the same. "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

Men dont care about chemistry or a connection...just about getting sex. The crucial

difference is this isnt dating so that stuff is irrelevant to men"

Everyone knows the different between a dating and sex site.

Majority of women will want chemistry or some interest/like a guy she is going to get intimate with.

Thankfully there are guys that won't just Fuck anything with a pulse, they have standards too.

Personally I think you have shot yourself in the foot for potential meets.....with ladies with standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

Men dont care about chemistry or a connection...just about getting sex. The crucial

difference is this isnt dating so that stuff is irrelevant to men

Everyone knows the different between a dating and sex site.

Majority of women will want chemistry or some interest/like a guy she is going to get intimate with.

Thankfully there are guys that won't just Fuck anything with a pulse, they have standards too.

Personally I think you have shot yourself in the foot for potential meets.....with ladies with standards.

Nah youre alrite, i do fine than you very much. Youd be surprised how far honesty goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

Men dont care about chemistry or a connection...just about getting sex. The crucial

difference is this isnt dating so that stuff is irrelevant to men

Everyone knows the different between a dating and sex site.

Majority of women will want chemistry or some interest/like a guy she is going to get intimate with.

Thankfully there are guys that won't just Fuck anything with a pulse, they have standards too.

Personally I think you have shot yourself in the foot for potential meets.....with ladies with standards.

Nah youre alrite, i do fine than you very much. Youd be surprised how far honesty goes"

"Than me" what a silly statement to make.

It's because of your honesty and outlook that Im referring to as in "potential meets" not ones you already had. Luckily for you not everyone reads the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

Men dont care about chemistry or a connection...just about getting sex. The crucial

difference is this isnt dating so that stuff is irrelevant to men

Everyone knows the different between a dating and sex site.

Majority of women will want chemistry or some interest/like a guy she is going to get intimate with.

Thankfully there are guys that won't just Fuck anything with a pulse, they have standards too.

Personally I think you have shot yourself in the foot for potential meets.....with ladies with standards.

Nah youre alrite, i do fine than you very much. Youd be surprised how far honesty goes

"Than me" what a silly statement to make.

It's because of your honesty and outlook that Im referring to as in "potential meets" not ones you already had. Luckily for you not everyone reads the forums"

I mean 'thank you'...that was a typo

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By *ohnbi01Man
over a year ago

tipperary

The majority of blokes on here will shag anything.

A lot will come on the forum and tell you about the high standards they have, and what they are looking for in a meet.

The truth is all us men think with the small head when it comes to nookie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At what point when you are chatting to a person do you think ........ yes I want to meet them or play with them??

Is it something they've said?

A feeling they have created?

A desire or fantasy you get?

What are the terms and conditions ???"

Yes, for me it would be a feeling they've created by something they have said in relation to a desire I would have

so it would be down to something they have said to start with

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The majority of blokes on here will shag anything.

A lot will come on the forum and tell you about the high standards they have, and what they are looking for in a meet.

The truth is all us men think with the small head when it comes to nookie."

Thankfully I've met the minority. Now you understand why some ladies will chat get to know potential meets, women are clever species, they see through the crap and lies. The guys that hold your same thoughts.... it comes across in their profiles and messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The majority of blokes on here will shag anything.

A lot will come on the forum and tell you about the high standards they have, and what they are looking for in a meet.

The truth is all us men think with the small head when it comes to nookie.

Guys can be clever as well you know...

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I think us men are getting a bad rep here

Or maybe I'm just an exception!

I like to chat and flirt with women on here and when that leads to cheeky conversation and humorous messages that we both enjoy then it's usually time to meet and see if it happens face to face.

When it happens face to face then happy days we're onto a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

Very harsh ... I would not get up on the crack in a plate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you think women have higher or lower standards here than offline? I know personally mine are probably the same.

Can we get an independent witness from your offline world to vouch for that. ...

I'm glad I fell asleep at that point lol

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any

"So do you reckon then that all the banter and chatting is all a ploy to get the meet and it's just hit and miss whether there's chemistry or a connection

See then I don't blame women for getting the best possible meet that they can and become uber picky cause at the end of the day it's just sex ??

There's never anything wrong with being uber picky! It's just wading through the crap to get the best possible meet lol

(My post wasn't aimed at you btw, used you as a general term x)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been very attracted to kind and gentle women with filthy minds and that usually wins me over. I am also looking for a physical attraction and something that people call a connection, which I think is defined differently by various people. All this helps me enjoy the experience more.

There were situations where I kindly declined the possibility to meet up, as I didn't feel there is attraction established physically and mentally. All done respectfully.

That approach works well for me and allows me discovering what sexually I might find enjoyable. Thanks to it I know by now that I very much enjoy MFM, DP, giving anal etc. There are still many more things that I want to experience that will be new to me, however as I said, I will keep my expectations on a similar level.

For me, It's about the quality of experiences and people I meet with. Creating long lasting erotic memories is what I am after. If I was just after shagging any girl that is out there, I would spend more time in clubs and not on fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say what really attracts me is a woman who expresses her fantasies and wants and desires.willingness to explore!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've always been very attracted to kind and gentle women with filthy minds and that usually wins me over. I am also looking for a physical attraction and something that people call a connection, which I think is defined differently by various people. All this helps me enjoy the experience more.

There were situations where I kindly declined the possibility to meet up, as I didn't feel there is attraction established physically and mentally. All done respectfully.

Great answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There were situations where I kindly declined the possibility to meet up, as I didn't feel there is attraction established physically and mentally. All done respectfully.

Great attitude but unfortunately I think this is the exception rather than the rule.

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