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By *illow1972 OP   Man
over a year ago

Naas

Time for a thread from me don't you think.

Bisexuality is my topic this morning.

Bisexual ladies are reverred here. We all love them, especially the men.

Bisexual men are not reverred here. They are not loved, especially by the men.

I've seen lots of posts, "no bi men". Not complaining, for its a preference. But an ignorant preference. Are you afraid that a pass will be made, are you afraid that a bi lad will touch your willy while you're not looking?

My life is spent in the company of gay men, bisexual men, tv's and transsexual people.I love each of them unconditionally. I prefer their company to the company of straight men and by and large, to the company of woman.

I have been naked with bi men in the company of women, no harm done. I don't understand the "no bi men".

A Card Company wouldn't make invites for a gay couples wedding yesterday. Are the "no bi men" folk here any different?

May 22nd is fast approaching.

One love. Same love. No colour, no gender.

And I can't change

Even if I tried

Even if I wanted to

And I can't change

Even if I tried

Even if I wanted to

My Love

My Love

My love

She keeps me warm.

We all have to keep each other warm.

Peace and love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. It's sad lots of bi men have to put their sexuality as straight or women wont be with them.

I have never seen a bi man try anything with another guy where the other guy wasn't curious or willing etc.

I asked if bi men could attend events, I got blocked, got comments about men dominating me, and all sorts. It's no wonder people keep it secret. The same would have never happened a woman, if a woman asked can bi women attend everyone would have been ""

Also, when I was 16 I wanted to know if my family would accept me for who I was. I thought about it for a week or two then called my mum into the room, stood up and said "I have something to say to you" she asked what, I took a deep breath and said "I'm gay".

Her first response was "Let me tell you dad" lol, then she said it was okay. When she told my dad he just laughed and said nothing.

anyway they accepted me. A month or two passed and I was dating a girl and brought her home one day.

I introduced her to my mum, and my mum looked at her, then looked at me and said "I thought you were gay"

The girl gave me such a strange look and I started to laugh..

Anyway, moral of the story. Everyone should come out of the closet when they are 16, and then live their life however they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ten to six now....just saying...

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By *ojos jugsWoman
over a year ago

Bangor


"I agree. It's sad lots of bi men have to put their sexuality as straight or women wont be with them.

I have never seen a bi man try anything with another guy where the other guy wasn't curious or willing etc.

I asked if bi men could attend events, I got blocked, got comments about men dominating me, and all sorts. It's no wonder people keep it secret. The same would have never happened a woman, if a woman asked can bi women attend everyone would have been ""

Also, when I was 16 I wanted to know if my family would accept me for who I was. I thought about it for a week or two then called my mum into the room, stood up and said "I have something to say to you" she asked what, I took a deep breath and said "I'm gay".

Her first response was "Let me tell you dad" lol, then she said it was okay. When she told my dad he just laughed and said nothing.

anyway they accepted me. A month or two passed and I was dating a girl and brought her home one day.

I introduced her to my mum, and my mum looked at her, then looked at me and said "I thought you were gay"

The girl gave me such a strange look and I started to laugh..

Anyway, moral of the story. Everyone should come out of the closet when they are 16, and then live their life however they want."

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By *ojos jugsWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

A friend once told me quite a few years ago that if u have a gay guy as a friend then u have a friend fr life and I wud totally agree with her now.. my bestest Fab friend is bi and I wudnt change him fr the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with most of the sentiment here, but I have to say it's a bit much pretending to be gay to test your parents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If straight couples would arrange a party, would a bisexual woman not be invited if she said she has no problem only playing with men? I have a feeling it wouldn't be a problem.

But if it's a bi man, the prejudice starts. I'm definitely not saying everyone is like this, so I'm only talking about people I have encountered. These are the comments I've seen on forums or in private conversations:

they're a turn off because they're not real men; they're quite like to have an STD; they're probably gay but just don't want to admit it. I know they will try it on with me (male).

Now apply above sentences to a bisexual woman.... Doesn't really make sense, right?

When these reasons are questioned I was told that's their preferences. That's very true and I respect that. But I can't respect homophobia and while such people may find it difficult to change their thought process, it wouldn't hurt to have a good look at themselves and try to understand why they're so prejudices (I call it homophobic, but no one would call themselves like this, right?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a very interesting thread!. I personally don't have anything against gay/bi men I think they have as much rights of freedom of preference as a anyone else. Well said Willow

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"If straight couples would arrange a party, would a bisexual woman not be invited if she said she has no problem only playing with men? I have a feeling it wouldn't be a problem.

But if it's a bi man, the prejudice starts. I'm definitely not saying everyone is like this, so I'm only talking about people I have encountered. These are the comments I've seen on forums or in private conversations:

they're a turn off because they're not real men; they're quite like to have an STD; they're probably gay but just don't want to admit it. I know they will try it on with me (male).

Now apply above sentences to a bisexual woman.... Doesn't really make sense, right?

When these reasons are questioned I was told that's their preferences. That's very true and I respect that. But I can't respect homophobia and while such people may find it difficult to change their thought process, it wouldn't hurt to have a good look at themselves and try to understand why they're so prejudices (I call it homophobic, but no one would call themselves like this, right?)"

Iv seen some of them homophobic comments too sweet

And by some of the posters on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with bi-men at all!!! In fact I'd love a 3sum with 2 bi-men!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a problem with bi-men at all!!! In fact I'd love a 3sum with 2 bi-men!!!! "

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By *ohnbi01Man
over a year ago

tipperary

I'm bi and to be honest I would have no interest in a threesome with a straight male. Bi/gay male or tv plus a lady or two is what floats my boat.

Don't get me wrong,nothing against straight blokes. I think most of my closest friends and workmates are straight. But I can manage to look at them without wanting to shagged them.

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Whether its preference or ignorance that people would not prefer bi men is one thing but why any man would choose to lie about their sexuality in order to have sex with these said people is quite sad.

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