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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I recently came across a couple of male profiles with 1 to max 4 verifications but they're not on display, which makes me immediately suspicious as we all know there's no bad verifications but I guess there are fake ones. However maybe it's just me and I miss some clever strategy behind it. Any thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone who verified you, leaves the site then their verification is erased and can't be displayed. However the green tick remains. Maybe not all 4 verifications though!

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

We have a theory on this but it's probably best not to post it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my guess is that they are all cam verifications ,,, which are about as useful as a fish on a bicycle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a theory on this but it's probably best not to post it "

I think we have the same theory... Works with new single females who are on an hour and veri already there after 2 minutes of joining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My verifications are all hidden because someone used to contact me after every new one displayed, and make sleazy comments. Same person also made a point to contact and meet one of the people i'd met 'to see the person who had such an effect on me'. Don't know why other people hide theirs, but that's why i hide mine.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Ppl choose not to display veries for lots of reasons,a lot of the time because its no one elses business who they met once they have the green tick. I don't display all of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ppl choose not to display veries for lots of reasons,a lot of the time because its no one elses business who they met once they have the green tick. I don't display all of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have all mine hidden from last year because Im OCD lol so i ony show anyone now who i met this year 2015 on my profile well u all know what I mean.Jaysis Biggs stops rambin wil yea ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Percisely case with some of mine

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick


"Ppl choose not to display veries for lots of reasons,a lot of the time because its no one elses business who they met once they have the green tick. I don't display all of mine

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Dont display any either cos its no ones business No 1 and No 2 if you start picking and choosing veris someone is bound to get hurt.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I do understand that one chooses not to display all verifications especially the very well verified ones. I've some hidden ones myself , and some people simply don't need to display them because they've established themselves on here in a positive way. However none on display erases the only purpose of the verification system namely to find out if someone is genuine.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I chose not to display any from 2014, new year, new adventures.

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

I would rather show my verifications, I haven't got enough to hide any yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I chose not to display any from 2014, new year, new adventures."

totally agree mingo thats what im doing to.

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By *s. AppletreeWoman
over a year ago

curtain twitching sleepy village

I decided only to display the one that describes me best ....

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I decided only to display the one that describes me best ...."

But it doesn't say "liability"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only displayed certain verification s as well ....at least people can make up their own mind when they meet and not go by what your verification s say.every meet is different

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By *s. AppletreeWoman
over a year ago

curtain twitching sleepy village


"I decided only to display the one that describes me best ....

But it doesn't say "liability"? "

Very true ....lol.....

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I do understand that one chooses not to display all verifications especially the very well verified ones. I've some hidden ones myself , and some people simply don't need to display them because they've established themselves on here in a positive way. However none on display erases the only purpose of the verification system namely to find out if someone is genuine. "

I hide mine its no ones business who I met or didn't but when chatting to a potential I will show them for the reason u say to prove I am genuine and will turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verification Whore here

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By *llie8Man
over a year ago

ask and I might tell ya


"I decided only to display the one that describes me best ....

But it doesn't say "liability"?

Very true ....lol....."

Well, as I wrote that verification I guess I should perhaps re-word it....

Plus...your my liability. ..and I don't care...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as above plus there's a green circle with a tick to show your verified so no need unless asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ppl choose not to display veries for lots of reasons,a lot of the time because its no one elses business who they met once they have the green tick. I don't display all of mine

Dont display any either cos its no ones business No 1 and No 2 if you start picking and choosing veris someone is bound to get hurt."

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By *s. AppletreeWoman
over a year ago

curtain twitching sleepy village


"I decided only to display the one that describes me best ....

But it doesn't say "liability"?

Very true ....lol.....

Well, as I wrote that verification I guess I should perhaps re-word it....

Plus...your my liability. ..and I don't care...x "

That was a very sweet thing to say .....so sweet in fact, I do believe I have thrown up a little in my mouth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verification Whore here "

That you are my dear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a girl needs to read someone elses opinion of me before decding if she meets me, then she can jog on and meet someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a girl needs to read someone elses opinion of me before decding if she meets me, then she can jog on and meet someone else. "
.......shes a sexy minx...and hes s proper gent....lol...hide them. .hide them! !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a girl needs to read someone elses opinion of me before decding if she meets me, then she can jog on and meet someone else. .......shes a sexy minx...and hes s proper gent....lol...hide them. .hide them! !!!!!!"

lol, "treat her right, bring your A game"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a girl needs to read someone elses opinion of me before decding if she meets me, then she can jog on and meet someone else. "

yep , proper order . I ONLY display mine when asked , who I meet is noones business but my own .

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By *llie8Man
over a year ago

ask and I might tell ya


"I decided only to display the one that describes me best ....

But it doesn't say "liability"?

Very true ....lol.....

Well, as I wrote that verification I guess I should perhaps re-word it....

Plus...your my liability. ..and I don't care...x

That was a very sweet thing to say .....so sweet in fact, I do believe I have thrown up a little in my mouth lol"

You love the cheese....

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By *.L.CMan
over a year ago

Kilmallock


"I do understand that one chooses not to display all verifications especially the very well verified ones. I've some hidden ones myself , and some people simply don't need to display them because they've established themselves on here in a positive ay. However none on display erases the only purpose of the verification system namely to find out if someone is genuine.

I hide mine its no ones business who I met or didn't but when chatting to a potential I will show them for the reason u say to prove I am genuine and will turn up "
spot on c.j its called discression

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Mine are displayed sometimes i take them down. Most of mine are from socials you would not know who I have played with by reading them. Although when I had the threesum I have had a few people ask was it a certain member just by reading a verie. They totally wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are not on display because I met a bloke a while back and then a jealous lady gave me a lot of abuse etc cause apparently I met her man X so if any one verifies me now I keep them hidden so I don't get abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I chose not to display any from 2014, new year, new adventures.

totally agree mingo thats what im doing to. "

I might hide all of mine as I'm tired of guys of making comments as to who I met or how often or checking out the last guys preferences and asking questions about it.

Verifications should be there to verify that the person is real and safe.

In my experience some men forget the reasons behind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I chose not to display any from 2014, new year, new adventures.

totally agree mingo thats what im doing to.

I might hide all of mine as I'm tired of guys of making comments as to who I met or how often or checking out the last guys preferences and asking questions about it.

Verifications should be there to verify that the person is real and safe.

In my experience some men forget the reasons behind it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verification Whore here

That you are my dear! "

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"I decided only to display the one that describes me best ....

But it doesn't say "liability"?

Very true ....lol.....

Well, as I wrote that verification I guess I should perhaps re-word it....

Plus...your my liability. ..and I don't care...x

That was a very sweet thing to say .....so sweet in fact, I do believe I have thrown up a little in my mouth lol"

Which begs the question, do you spit it or swallow?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone who verified you, leaves the site then their verification is erased and can't be displayed. However the green tick remains. Maybe not all 4 verifications though! "

Why not?

People leave the site...

We still have number of veris shown on our profile just not that persons verification as that goes when that person leaves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications should be there to verify that the person is real and safe.

In my experience some men forget the reasons behind it. "

In my experience some women forget the guys who are/were well verified and did totally dodgy stuff and were not safe at all.

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I've mine hidden, not that I have many. Folks are obsessed with the "green tick", I have it. That's enough.

I also don't see it as anyone else's business as to how a third party has chosen to "rate" me. If I'm chatting to someone and they want to see ,then I show them. Simple.

Although I would like more veri's saying :-

- I'm the real deal

- total gent

- knows how to treat a women

- amazing oral skills

- looking forward to round two with him

- absolute pleasure to meet him

- great additional to any party

blah, blah, blah.

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By *ick and sexyCouple
over a year ago

any


"Ppl choose not to display veries for lots of reasons,a lot of the time because its no one elses business who they met once they have the green tick. I don't display all of mine

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick


"I do understand that one chooses not to display all verifications especially the very well verified ones. I've some hidden ones myself , and some people simply don't need to display them because they've established themselves on here in a positive way. However none on display erases the only purpose of the verification system namely to find out if someone is genuine.

I hide mine its no ones business who I met or didn't but when chatting to a potential I will show them for the reason u say to prove I am genuine and will turn up "

How is this done. Genuine question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do understand that one chooses not to display all verifications especially the very well verified ones. I've some hidden ones myself , and some people simply don't need to display them because they've established themselves on here in a positive way. However none on display erases the only purpose of the verification system namely to find out if someone is genuine.

I hide mine its no ones business who I met or didn't but when chatting to a potential I will show them for the reason u say to prove I am genuine and will turn up

How is this done. Genuine question. "

Manage verifications and unhighlight display on profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read so much about this green tick....it's white lol! I must be either colour blind or far too OCD!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I chose not to display any from 2014, new year, new adventures.

totally agree mingo thats what im doing to.

I might hide all of mine as I'm tired of guys of making comments as to who I met or how often or checking out the last guys preferences and asking questions about it.

Verifications should be there to verify that the person is real and safe.

In my experience some men forget the reasons behind it. "

I get that to sometimes with ladys have been accused off been in a clique to ha ha but thats fab we cant please everyone i suppose be nice to but totally impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I display mine out of courtesy for the people I have met as a single guy it helps if people can see you are reliable and not a complete cretin.

But the downside is as I've found out a few times is sone wonen seem to think you are too "prolific " and will not want to meet someone that " has been around the block" as much

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