FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever been burned for accom cost

By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

Just wondered does this happen allot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondered does this happen alluot."
a no show so stayed the night anyway

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Never......but even if it did happen i would stay still

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

Dont mean a no show i mean someone u turn up with refusing to pay or making excuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont mean a no show i mean someone u turn up with refusing to pay or making excuses"

hotel booked arrangements made and when we got to the hotel, she wouldn't answer her phone or reply to texts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont mean a no show i mean someone u turn up with refusing to pay or making excuses

hotel booked arrangements made and when we got to the hotel, she wouldn't answer her phone or reply to texts"

This happened us twice!!

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Dont mean a no show i mean someone u turn up with refusing to pay or making excuses

hotel booked arrangements made and when we got to the hotel, she wouldn't answer her phone or reply to texts"

Always best to meet for drinks a couple of days prior if possable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup o have been stung for hotel costs been told I'll pay you back but he never did... so won't be doing that again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go with the intention of staying and enjoying yourself either way 99 /100 people will cover their share

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Just go with the intention of staying and enjoying yourself either way 99 /100 people will cover their share"

I think it may be more riffe than ppl think.

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

If I invited someone to join me at a hotel meet Their would have to be a coffee meet previously. And then if a 2nd meet happened I wouldn't dream of even asking a lady for anything. As I have use of the room afterwards Maybe that's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I invited someone to join me at a hotel meet Their would have to be a coffee meet previously. And then if a 2nd meet happened I wouldn't dream of even asking a lady for anything. As I have use of the room afterwards Maybe that's me "
ah the gentleman still lives among us.....I belive women these days demand same pay as men and would insist on paying if its an agreed....

Or am I just a greedy mutt

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

Im talking more in the group social setting not 1 on 1 or coffee meets. But i do welcome the point of always having a coffee meet before any action in terms of 1 on 1 or in terms of paying for accom before a social.

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I prefer to meet at home

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

"This is why I prefer to meet at home"

Not always a good option grace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I prefer to meet at home

Not always a good option grace"

I'm fussy who I bring to my home though lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"This is why I prefer to meet at home

Not always a good option grace"

That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I prefer to meet at home

Not always a good option grace

That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me

Ah I'm sure he means no harm

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"This is why I prefer to meet at home

Not always a good option grace

That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me

Ah I'm sure he means no harm

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

"This is why I prefer to meet at home

Not always a good option grace

That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me

If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house.

call me preachy or call me security conscious.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Just wondered does this happen allot."
. It will happen on occasions and a risk that you take . Hardly anything to worry about as you will still have use of the room for a night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never happend but sort of never asked for half either but it's always been set on the locker when I refused, it is fair to pay for half of the accommodation but sometimes I feel it's the gentlemanly thing to do and feel embarrassed to take a woman's money. Just doesn't feel right maybe I'm old fashioned. And no im not a lick it's just the way iv been brought up

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"This is why I prefer to meet at home

Not always a good option grace

That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me

If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house.

call me preachy or call me security conscious.

With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me.

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By *arkside24Man
over a year ago

monkstown

In a hotel tonight alone due to a "no show". Ah cool it nice big bed and tv !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup o have been stung for hotel costs been told I'll pay you back but he never did... so won't be doing that again "

Yep!!!! Me too..... Had it done to me twice but never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I prefer to meet at home

Not always a good option grace

That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me

If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house.

call me preachy or call me security conscious.

With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me. "

I do indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup o have been stung for hotel costs been told I'll pay you back but he never did... so won't be doing that again

Yep!!!! Me too..... Had it done to me twice but never again

Happened to me twice now too. One was a guy I was flying down to Luton to meet, left £100 out of pocket, claimed he'd totally forgot about it and hadn't been online. Then a guy from Aberdeen, train and hotel booked then got some crap about the ex dumping the kid on him, another £80 out of pocket. He said he'd reimburse me, lying fuckwit. I'm not no longer booking transport or hotels to meet guys, they want me to visit then they can pay the costs and I'll give them half if/when they turn up.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"This is why I prefer to meet at home

Not always a good option grace

That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me

If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house.

call me preachy or call me security conscious.

With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me. "

What must the neighbours think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I prefer to meet at home

Not always a good option grace

That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me

If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house.

call me preachy or call me security conscious.

With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me.

What must the neighbours think

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he's old and a little deaf so I think I'm ok lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always cover the hotel costs... I guess I am old fashioned in that respect.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"This is why I prefer to meet at home

Not always a good option grace

That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me

If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house.

call me preachy or call me security conscious.

With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me.

What must the neighbours think

he's old and a little deaf so I think I'm ok lol"

I'm not suprised he's deaf listening to that racket

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Yup o have been stung for hotel costs been told I'll pay you back but he never did... so won't be doing that again

Yep!!!! Me too..... Had it done to me twice but never again

How do you prevent it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I prefer to meet at home

Not always a good option grace

That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me

If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house.

call me preachy or call me security conscious.

With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me.

What must the neighbours think

he's old and a little deaf so I think I'm ok lol

I'm not suprised he's deaf listening to that racket

I'm quiet as a mouse me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a member here threaten to have me shot because I wouldnt book rooms for his "friends" on my credit card , Id say they were into some dodgy shite , no other reason why grown men cant book their own rooms in hotels , Im sure hes pulled it on other people here .

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By *ong riderMan
over a year ago

belfast

"This is why I prefer to meet at home

Not always a good option grace

That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me

If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house.

call me preachy or call me security conscious.

With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me. "

Hehe...now who's getting a little "preachy"..

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"This is why I prefer to meet at home

Not always a good option grace

That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me

If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house.

call me preachy or call me security conscious.

With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me.

Hehe...now who's getting a little "preachy".."

Dunno, who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha what's wrong with b&bs there a hell of a lot cheaper than hotels lease that way for what an average hotel price but don't bother us as we don't do hotel meets only home meets bar from at party's and meet and greets etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a weekend in Belfast, if he doesn't show up I won't be impressed but I can go shopping and enjoy the hotel. It's the chance you take I guess.

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By *unsterStagMan
over a year ago

Limerick

I think worrying about this would definitely take the shine off the meet. Good Hotels these days are generally good value and this is not something that needs to be considered. I think if I started feeling like I had been stung for the hotel...then the sex was probably shite. I have found that 99% of the time this doesn't even require a discussion and is sorted beforehand so that everyone can concentrate on the business at hand

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I think worrying about this would definitely take the shine off the meet. Good Hotels these days are generally good value and this is not something that needs to be considered. I think if I started feeling like I had been stung for the hotel...then the sex was probably shite. I have found that 99% of the time this doesn't even require a discussion and is sorted beforehand so that everyone can concentrate on the business at hand

Good stuff there cheers

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Yup o have been stung for hotel costs been told I'll pay you back but he never did... so won't be doing that again

Yep!!!! Me too..... Had it done to me twice but never again

Yes, same thing here, asked for contribution and didn't see a cent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually don't know how a guy could live with himself telling a woman I'll pay you back. Seems like the type to take her on a romantic meal to mc donalds. Being a tight arse around a woman is literally the lowest of the low!! I can understand if a woman wanting to pay half and thats grand but thats very least. Did this same guy ask ya for change for the bus after? Penny pinching cheap skate scum!!

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Yup o have been stung for hotel costs been told I'll pay you back but he never did... so won't be doing that again

Yep!!!! Me too..... Had it done to me twice but never again

Yes, same thing here, asked for contribution and didn't see a cent"

And you wonder why people fall out on here.

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