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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have had 1 woman fail to turn up in the past, wondering what rest of yous thought on the whole situation of booking a hotel waiting on someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting in a hotel can be extremely nerve racking for some women who think they can do it then lose their nerve...I'd want to meet socially first tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Book n pay for a hotel room to meet a total stranger you know nothing about??

Each to their own,nothing we would consider.

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By *iss my assMan
over a year ago

derry/donegal

Been asked b4 to book hotel by a couple in 1st message...like wdf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meeting in a hotel can be extremely nerve racking for some women who think they can do it then lose their nerve...I'd want to meet socially first tbh "

strange how some people would want it there in 1st place if no intention of showing up. I suppose a quick drink in reception could have changed his/her mind

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about


"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up."

Why wouldn't they show up for ya miss ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting in a hotel can be extremely nerve racking for some women who think they can do it then lose their nerve...I'd want to meet socially first tbh

strange how some people would want it there in 1st place if no intention of showing up. I suppose a quick drink in reception could have changed his/her mind"

Had you met this lady prior to you organising a room?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up."

well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I booked a hotel a couple of years back for a long awaited and talked about meet. On the day, half an hour after i said i'd leave to make my way there, i got a text to say his aunt had died and he wasn't going to meet me after all. He never mentioned the fact that i'd booked the hotel and would now have to pay for it. Never heard from him again. Funny thing is, i don't think he's fake anymore than i think his aunt died. I must have just scared him off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up."

When's our hotel meet then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meeting in a hotel can be extremely nerve racking for some women who think they can do it then lose their nerve...I'd want to meet socially first tbh

strange how some people would want it there in 1st place if no intention of showing up. I suppose a quick drink in reception could have changed his/her mind

Had you met this lady prior to you organising a room?"

no hadnt met her but had a good few messages back and forth on here for overa week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I booked a hotel a couple of years back for a long awaited and talked about meet. On the day, half an hour after i said i'd leave to make my way there, i got a text to say his aunt had died and he wasn't going to meet me after all. He never mentioned the fact that i'd booked the hotel and would now have to pay for it. Never heard from him again. Funny thing is, i don't think he's fake anymore than i think his aunt died. I must have just scared him off "

scared him off? More like he wimped out lol

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.

Why wouldn't they show up for ya miss , "

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.

well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her"

Rather than put yourself through that again,, arrange a coffee meet first???... If both are happy, then do the hotel meet?

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.

When's our hotel meet then "

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about


"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.

well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her

Rather than put yourself through that again,, arrange a coffee meet first???... If both are happy, then do the hotel meet? "

Could we do the same ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I booked a hotel a couple of years back for a long awaited and talked about meet. On the day, half an hour after i said i'd leave to make my way there, i got a text to say his aunt had died and he wasn't going to meet me after all. He never mentioned the fact that i'd booked the hotel and would now have to pay for it. Never heard from him again. Funny thing is, i don't think he's fake anymore than i think his aunt died. I must have just scared him off

scared him off? More like he wimped out lol"
Same thing, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet in hotel bar first and if u need a room then go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting in a hotel can be extremely nerve racking for some women who think they can do it then lose their nerve...I'd want to meet socially first tbh

strange how some people would want it there in 1st place if no intention of showing up. I suppose a quick drink in reception could have changed his/her mind

Had you met this lady prior to you organising a room?

no hadnt met her but had a good few messages back and forth on here for overa week"

Ahh on Fab we can't ever be sure about anything eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Social meet in hotel bar first and if u need a room then go for it "

i like your plan bustyville

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Social meet in hotel bar first and if u need a room then go for it

i like your plan bustyville "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social meet in hotel bar first and if u need a room then go for it "

Very decisive ms J!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.

well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her

Rather than put yourself through that again,, arrange a coffee meet first???... If both are happy, then do the hotel meet?

Could we do the same ? "

If you're nice to me

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

Never been unlucky enough for a no show in a hotel, the agreement is all ways, leave your bag in your car and you can slip away if you don't like.

Never been unlucky for that to happen either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would wanna be very sure of your meet, who s got a spare €100 these days to blow.

Just throwing it out there once you meet up is it always 50/50 on the bill or is it the person who suggested the hotel meet pay up. ?

And before all the shitty comments come flooding in keep your comments polite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.

well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her

Rather than put yourself through that again,, arrange a coffee meet first???... If both are happy, then do the hotel meet?

Could we do the same ?

If you're nice to me "

lol, nice 1st bad after

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.

well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her

Rather than put yourself through that again,, arrange a coffee meet first???... If both are happy, then do the hotel meet?

Could we do the same ?

If you're nice to me

lol, nice 1st bad after"

You're a very bad flirt

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

Maybe a little old fashioned but I'd rather pay for the hotel dinner, drinks and enjoy the night out.

If you get lucky it's a bonus.

No bashing either please..

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Maybe a little old fashioned but I'd rather pay for the hotel dinner, drinks and enjoy the night out.

If you get lucky it's a bonus.

No bashing either please.."

A personal touch can make all the difference with a gesture like that but not all of the ladies expect the guy to pay

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas


"Maybe a little old fashioned but I'd rather pay for the hotel dinner, drinks and enjoy the night out.

If you get lucky it's a bonus.

No bashing either please..

A personal touch can make all the difference with a gesture like that but not all of the ladies expect the guy to pay "

Am sure they don't expect it but it's only a small thank you after having a good night out.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Maybe a little old fashioned but I'd rather pay for the hotel dinner, drinks and enjoy the night out.

If you get lucky it's a bonus.

No bashing either please..

A personal touch can make all the difference with a gesture like that but not all of the ladies expect the guy to pay

Am sure they don't expect it but it's only a small thank you after having a good night out."

Whoever said that chivalry is dead,lied

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.

well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her

Rather than put yourself through that again,, arrange a coffee meet first???... If both are happy, then do the hotel meet?

Could we do the same ?

If you're nice to me

lol, nice 1st bad after

You're a very bad flirt "

i'll take that as a compliment

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"Maybe a little old fashioned but I'd rather pay for the hotel dinner, drinks and enjoy the night out.

If you get lucky it's a bonus.

No bashing either please.."

You are def' in the minority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would wanna be very sure of your meet, who s got a spare €100 these days to blow.

Just throwing it out there once you meet up is it always 50/50 on the bill or is it the person who suggested the hotel meet pay up. ?

And before all the shitty comments come flooding in keep your comments polite "

Would be 50/50 but what hotel are you staying in for €100??

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Would wanna be very sure of your meet, who s got a spare €100 these days to blow.

Just throwing it out there once you meet up is it always 50/50 on the bill or is it the person who suggested the hotel meet pay up. ?

And before all the shitty comments come flooding in keep your comments polite

Would be 50/50 but what hotel are you staying in for €100??"

City centre hotels are always more expensive, on the outskirts of dublin, they're cheaper

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas


"Maybe a little old fashioned but I'd rather pay for the hotel dinner, drinks and enjoy the night out.

If you get lucky it's a bonus.

No bashing either please..

You are def' in the minority "

Hopefully your bad experience hasn't put you off and am sure there are many good honest people that would like to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would wanna be very sure of your meet, who s got a spare €100 these days to blow.

Just throwing it out there once you meet up is it always 50/50 on the bill or is it the person who suggested the hotel meet pay up. ?

And before all the shitty comments come flooding in keep your comments polite

Would be 50/50 but what hotel are you staying in for €100??"

Was just rounding it off that's all. And IDE have no problem at all paying for the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social meet in hotel bar first and if u need a room then go for it "

That's what I should have done. Would have saved 80e for a no show by a verified couple.??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few now at a hotel for a drink then we've decided to take if further X

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Coffee / chat first..easy enough to get a room if both happy to proceed.

I have a hotel meet this afternoon. However, we have met previously and have planned it for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he thought u were reaching for a weapon (profile pic)...lol

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