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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is an attempt to write a playbook for those who are new to the lifestyle, so they could avoid making mistakes while dipping their toes for the first time.

Please add good rules to follow below.

I'll start with:

1. Everyone is entitled to say 'no' and it is not polite to ask for his/her/their reasons for saying so.

2. Always play safe and use condoms. This is for yours and your playmate's protection.

3. Do not be pushy or rude.

4. While messaging people, try to write more than just one sentence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent thread

Look forward to seeing this unfold as day goes on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about.....Don't throw your toys out of the pram when rejected.

Huffing is not an attractive feature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is an attempt to write a playbook for those who are new to the lifestyle, so they could avoid making mistakes while dipping their toes for the first time.

Please add good rules to follow below.

I'll start with:

1. Everyone is entitled to say 'no' and it is not polite to ask for his/her/their reasons for saying so.

2. Always play safe and use condoms. This is for yours and your playmate's protection.

3. Do not be pushy or rude.

4. While messaging people, try to write more than just one sentence."

5. Don't be desperate

6. We all have lives outside fab

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Do not start a message with "wanna fuck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not start a message with 'tell me about your toes' grrrrr!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Do not start a message with 'tell me about your toes' grrrrr! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't be a cunt"

Lol

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By *unsterStagMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Don't be a cunt"

This could be the Fab slogan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't be a cunt

Lol "

You'd be surprised the amount of people who need this pointed out to them.

Usually the ones who start off nice.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Don't be a cunt"

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Do not start a message with "wanna fuck " "

isnt that the exact thing you sent me in the first mail you sent me ??

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

Respect for yourself and others.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Do not start a message with "wanna fuck "

isnt that the exact thing you sent me in the first mail you sent me ??"

No Laid,, you sent that to me

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick

Dont be a short orgasam cunt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do not start a message with "wanna fuck "

isnt that the exact thing you sent me in the first mail you sent me ??

No Laid,, you sent that to me "

lol... this one seems to be a popular one all right... Annoyingly, couples use it as well and well verified ones too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all good book shops nationwide

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick


"This is an attempt to write a playbook for those who are new to the lifestyle, so they could avoid making mistakes while dipping their toes for the first time.

Please add good rules to follow below.

I'll start with:

1. Everyone is entitled to say 'no' and it is not polite to ask for his/her/their reasons for saying so.

2. Always play safe and use condoms. This is for yours and your playmate's protection.

3. Do not be pushy or rude.

4. While messaging people, try to write more than just one sentence.

5. Don't be desperate

6. We all have lives outside fab"

7. Respect people right to privacy.

8. Take rejection like a man (on the chin)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't 2 down to two consenting adults to discuss and decide?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is an attempt to write a playbook for those who are new to the lifestyle, so they could avoid making mistakes while dipping their toes for the first time.

Please add good rules to follow below.

I'll start with:

1. Everyone is entitled to say 'no' and it is not polite to ask for his/her/their reasons for saying so.

2. Always play safe and use condoms. This is for yours and your playmate's protection.

3. Do not be pushy or rude.

4. While messaging people, try to write more than just one sentence.

5. Don't be desperate

6. We all have lives outside fab

7. Respect people right to privacy.

8. Take rejection like a man (on the chin)"

Instead of just deleting messages, say no thanks, its simple manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't 2 down to two consenting adults to discuss and decide?"

I think it's for newbies, they may meet someone first who says "EVERYONE does it this way".

At least if they know that's not the case they can make a decision themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be respectful

Dont be an asshole and join in on the craic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't 2 down to two consenting adults to discuss and decide?

I think it's for newbies, they may meet someone first who says "EVERYONE does it this way".

At least if they know that's not the case they can make a decision themselves"

Exactly. I was in a play situation where a guy made an attempt to enter a lady without putting on a condom, without asking if that is OK. We all reacted to it and made him aware that he must wear a glove, for which the lady was grateful as she otherwise would notice only soon after the fact and she wouldn't be pleased with it.

Different story is, if the participants agree to a play without protection. That is fine, as this is between them (they should better made it clear on their profile that they play with no protection, so others could make educated decision whether they want to meet them or not).

However new members should not assume that this is allowed without consent. I might have been more clear about it writing down that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't be a cunt"

That's a rule I live by in General

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By *ojos jugsWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

If you cant handle rejection, Fab`s not for you!! Gota b thick skinned to b a Fabber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is an attempt to write a playbook for those who are new to the lifestyle, so they could avoid making mistakes while dipping their toes for the first time.

Please add good rules to follow below.

I'll start with:

1. Everyone is entitled to say 'no' and it is not polite to ask for his/her/their reasons for saying so.

2. Always play safe and use condoms. This is for yours and your playmate's protection.

3. Do not be pushy or rude.

4. While messaging people, try to write more than just one sentence."
Do not give advice if not asked for it.

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By *aftPunkCouple
over a year ago

Around the World


"Don't be a cunt"

LOL

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway


"Don't be a cunt"

this should be rule number one mostly because it's a good rule and it contains my favourite word!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't be a cunt

this should be rule number one mostly because it's a good rule and it contains my favourite word!!"

+1

My favourite word also. Fiddle sticks just doesn't have the same execution to it

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By *oozer24Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise


"Don't be a cunt"

Lol

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