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By *hillen89 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hi! This post hasn't really anything to do with the world of fab or fab related stuff but I would like a womans input on this or a mans if they have done something similar lol

I have seen this girl about and she drives me absolutely crazy lol I honestly cannot stop thinking about her and I dont even know her or have ever spoken to her before. Anyway I have decided that next time I see her I will try to speak to her but I'm wondering if that would be weird seen as we are total strangers to each other? How would any ladies on here feel if a guy walked up to you and asked for your number? after some small talk of course lol and any advice on how to go about doing it?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be very flattered, unless he's behaving like a creep!

Sure if you've seen her a few times, she's seen you too?

Maybe before asking for her number, ask her if she'd like to go for a drink sometime... if she's interested, then you can ask for her number

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By *hillen89 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I'd be very flattered, unless he's behaving like a creep!

Sure if you've seen her a few times, she's seen you too?

Maybe before asking for her number, ask her if she'd like to go for a drink sometime... if she's interested, then you can ask for her number"

She potentially has I never thought about that. And yea I was sort of going to imply that was the reason I was asking for her number so I could arrange to take her out sometime.

I'd also say she is out of my league a bit so that's why I'm probably over thinking the whole thing lol

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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago

Trim

Keep it light a sexy smile maybe a compliment wouldn't ask her for her number just yet see what her reaction is after you do the above..good luck

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By *hillen89 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Keep it light a sexy smile maybe a compliment wouldn't ask her for her number just yet see what her reaction is after you do the above..good luck "

I'll keep that in mind thank you

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Smile , chat normal , eye contact , if you see her all the time tell her you've notice her around . She must live near you . If she likes you , she will smile back . Take time and she might even offer you her number . My friend just hooked up with a guy she met like that over 7 years ago . He drove the bus . They've chatted on n on through Facebook . But finally got together and so far so good

. Good luck

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

They are only out of ur league if u let ur self think that chest out and good luck

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By *hillen89 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Smile , chat normal , eye contact , if you see her all the time tell her you've notice her around . She must live near you . If she likes you , she will smile back . Take time and she might even offer you her number . My friend just hooked up with a guy she met like that over 7 years ago . He drove the bus . They've chatted on n on through Facebook . But finally got together and so far so good

. Good luck "

That gives me hope lol thank you!

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By *hillen89 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"They are only out of ur league if u let ur self think that chest out and good luck "

That is a good point thank you!

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Any news yet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are only out of ur league if u let ur self think that chest out and good luck

That is a good point thank you!"

Hey, maybe the next time you see her and you're near a flower shop, buy her a single rose or daisy and give it to her, tell you that you've wanted to ask her out for a coffee for a while! Sorry, I'm an old romantic! lol! It might work though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are only out of ur league if u let ur self think that chest out and good luck

That is a good point thank you!

Hey, maybe the next time you see her and you're near a flower shop, buy her a single rose or daisy and give it to her, tell you that you've wanted to ask her out for a coffee for a while! Sorry, I'm an old romantic! lol! It might work though! "

that would be so so cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree no one is ever out of your league...plus what have you got to lose? Avoid chatting to her and it will only end up you saying to yourself "if only!" go for it!!

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

Why not just give her ur number and tell her to call u sometime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just give her ur number and tell her to call u sometime. "

That so wouldn't work! lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree no one is ever out of your league...plus what have you got to lose? Avoid chatting to her and it will only end up you saying to yourself "if only!" go for it!! "

This...but when you "go for it" smell amazing...Trust me...

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city


"Why not just give her ur number and tell her to call u sometime.

That so wouldn't work! lol! "

Why because she might not have any credit. .lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree no one is ever out of your league...plus what have you got to lose? Avoid chatting to her and it will only end up you saying to yourself "if only!" go for it!!

This...but when you "go for it" smell amazing...Trust me... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what happened in the end?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they got together and he is to busy for fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just give her ur number and tell her to call u sometime.

That so wouldn't work! lol!

Why because she might not have any credit. .lol"

Just trust me, it won't work! If a guy gave me their number & I hadn't met him before, I wouldn't call him, in fact I'd throw the number away!! Well, that's just me anyway!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree no one is ever out of your league...plus what have you got to lose? Avoid chatting to her and it will only end up you saying to yourself "if only!" go for it!!

This...but when you "go for it" smell amazing...Trust me... "

Sound advice

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