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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok I done the most amazing thing tonight by saving someone's life depression is dangerous if in doubt or have problems please ring the help lines it amazes me as this person has everything in life good job car family etc but yet so upset that they wanted too end it.

that person now is in safe hands thanks too me and other members of the public just be care full and mind your mental health xxxx keep safe guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done! People like that however are at their most vulnerable after encounters ; ( are they safe now? As in right now?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well done! People like that however are at their most vulnerable after encounters ; ( are they safe now? As in right now?!"
yep they are getting the treatment they need

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done and fair play to you...

There is help out there for people they just don't realise it, they don't realise their worth and how much pain it will cause the people they love by doing it..

Suicide is becoming more talked about these days and the amount if help out there is great.

I myself and family have been hit and left in pain because of suicide and it's for that reason I'm doing a skydive tomorrow (Saturday) to raise awareness for suicide.

I am so happy you were there to help this person again Well Done xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play to you Tina...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair play to you Tina...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair play to you Tina...

The very best of luck to you tomorrow!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well done and fair play to you...

There is help out there for people they just don't realise it, they don't realise their worth and how much pain it will cause the people they love by doing it..

Suicide is becoming more talked about these days and the amount if help out there is great.

I myself and family have been hit and left in pain because of suicide and it's for that reason I'm doing a skydive tomorrow (Saturday) to raise awareness for suicide.

I am so happy you were there to help this person again Well Done xx"
best of luck tomorrow hun hope all goeswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I done the most amazing thing tonight by saving someone's life depression is dangerous if in doubt or have problems please ring the help lines it amazes me as this person has everything in life good job car family etc but yet so upset that they wanted too end it.

that person now is in safe hands thanks too me and other members of the public just be care full and mind your mental health xxxx keep safe guys "
. Well done to u and yes it is a very common thing ...people just see no way out

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

A huge congrats to you. This is a lovely thing. We are all touched by this, be it friends, family, acquaintances.

As much as I want to rant about the egotistical nature of this place I won't, for what you have done deserves the greatest of credit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that person now is in safe hands thanks too me and other members of the public just be care full and mind your mental health xxxx keep safe guys "

you did good,and I hope the person you helped is ok

,but have You tried ringing any of the so called helplines ??

they ain't that good!!

I know from first hand experience and also from friends !!

ill not go into detail any of their suggestions,

put it this way, wasn't helpful at all,on any of their advice

piss poor attitude and service !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been there it's not easy.

Im not that bad this time it depression is a debilitating illness and people who've never had it sometimes don't understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today our family bury a truly special person who couldn't stay here any more.

I presume OP your thread was supposed to make everyone aware of depression etc but to be honest it reads like a self gratification thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And tbh I find it so bloody offensive today so forgive me while I rant. I might perhaps look back in a few days and say I was a little over emotional.

Every day people help people with suicidal tendencies. I've watched it lately. More recently I've watched the people who try to assist the family afterwards be it with words or in attempts to recover the body etc.

Never once did I hear someone say; oh im so great because I did this; never once did I hear them wonder why the person did it when they appeared to have everything they needed (as per your post). They did it because they wanted to; because they care not for people to look at them and slap them on the back which is what your post screams of.

You did a good thing; I'm not taking away from that but write a post about a topic without wording it like a thank you speech for an award.

Like I said I might regret this post in a few days,if I do I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about your loss laelaps. I can understand why this post upset you. I wish you and your family all the best and a lot if strength.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to hear about your loss laelaps. I can understand why this post upset you. I wish you and your family all the best and a lot if strength. "

sorry for your loss.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"And tbh I find it so bloody offensive today so forgive me while I rant. I might perhaps look back in a few days and say I was a little over emotional.

You did a good thing; I'm not taking away from that but write a post about a topic without wording it like a thank you speech for an award.

Like I said I might regret this post in a few days,if I do I do

U have nothing to regret u said what I was thinking while its commendable what the op done a true hero says nothing.

Awareness is everything and anything to raise it is commended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And tbh I find it so bloody offensive today so forgive me while I rant. I might perhaps look back in a few days and say I was a little over emotional.

You did a good thing; I'm not taking away from that but write a post about a topic without wording it like a thank you speech for an award.

Like I said I might regret this post in a few days,if I do I do

U have nothing to regret u said what I was thinking while its commendable what the op done a true hero says nothing.

Awareness is everything and anything to raise it is commended"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Today our family bury a truly special person who couldn't stay here any more.

I presume OP your thread was supposed to make everyone aware of depression etc but to be honest it reads like a self gratification thread.

Hugs for your sad loss

I felt and thought the same when I read the thread so your not on your own.

Yes awareness is needed but without "look at me and what I did"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And tbh I find it so bloody offensive today so forgive me while I rant. I might perhaps look back in a few days and say I was a little over emotional.

You did a good thing; I'm not taking away from that but write a post about a topic without wording it like a thank you speech for an award.

Like I said I might regret this post in a few days,if I do I do

U have nothing to regret u said what I was thinking while its commendable what the op done a true hero says nothing.

Awareness is everything and anything to raise it is commended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done OP

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about

"Well done! People like that however are at their most vulnerable after encounters ; ( are they safe now? As in right now?! yep they are getting the treatment they need "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something similar happened me a few months back,

After a night out we were walking home, noticed some guy crying at the side of a bridge.. stopped to see of he was okay and he made a jump for the rail..

Me and one of the lads held his legs n waist until the guards came along to bring him home so he was okay..

but it was proper scary shit :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont say well done. Instead I'll say I know what its like to feel such good feelings helping people and I hope you get to help more people in your life, and hope you keep doing good things.

(i find "pat-on-the-back-brigade" so condescending, and normally dont accept it well myself)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And tbh I find it so bloody offensive today so forgive me while I rant. I might perhaps look back in a few days and say I was a little over emotional.

You did a good thing; I'm not taking away from that but write a post about a topic without wording it like a thank you speech for an award.

Like I said I might regret this post in a few days,if I do I do

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bit unfair I'm not looking for screams and pats an claps I was highlighting a fact I saved a persons life who had everything too live for lighten up there Wonder Woman but thanks though for negative feedback

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Really do think the rants could be left out of this one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bit unfair I'm not looking for screams and pats an claps I was highlighting a fact I saved a persons life who had everything too live for lighten up there Wonder Woman but thanks though for negative feedback

Is that how you saved the person? telling them to lighten up too? How did you save them? Are you sure they had everything to live for and are not a bad person like a rapist or pedophile?

You say you don't want claps, but then complain when someone boos?

Did you have to put yourself in pyshical danger? Did you have to do anything a normal empathic person would have done? Did you have a flight or fight response?

Please answer as soon as possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"bit unfair I'm not looking for screams and pats an claps I was highlighting a fact I saved a persons life who had everything too live for lighten up there Wonder Woman but thanks though for negative feedback

Is that how you saved the person? telling them to lighten up too? How did you save them? Are you sure they had everything to live for and are not a bad person like a rapist or pedophile?

You say you don't want claps, but then complain when someone boos?

Did you have to put yourself in pyshical danger? Did you have to do anything a normal empathic person would have done? Did you have a flight or fight response?

Please answer as soon as possible."
Emmm yes cause this person is highly known too us and if u really want know yes too all your questions so don't brush me with your rants and boos if you don't think saving someone's life is a good thing not forgetting risking my own life you seriously need help!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Really do think the rants could be left out of this one...."
just another day on the forums you can't put up anything without the bullies the sados and police jumping on everything

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Op who are you referring to as "wonder woman "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op who are you referring to as "wonder woman "

Don't get me wrong I do believe it's great when you have saved someone life. But I guess the subject of depression to some is a delicate subject. Only in December I knew someone I was close too; lost there will to live too. And believe me many was saying that word we all use "if only ".... "
the lady who says I'm looking for claps I put it up too say if in doubt ring someone talk too someone there is help and there is a way out it could happen too anyone here or in your family/friends as depression suffer myself I'm happy I saved that person cause it helped me I'm not looking for claps and well done so some people above are shocking too what there saying too me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so don't brush me with your rants and boos if you don't think saving someone's life is a good thing not forgetting risking my own life you seriously need help!!!"

I'll brush you with whatever brush I want.

I have saved many people, usually from others. I have saved them from being mugged, beatean, raped, murdered, and that was before I got a job where I was constantly putting myself in danger to help others.

So don't brush me with your negative comments saying I dont think saving someones life is good, keep that brush for other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posts like this will always cause reactions, good and bad. Bad timing for the ones who have funerals to attend and for those who have witnessed and suffered depression. To be honest, if feelings are raw you are best to stay away and focus on what you are dealing with. That for me would be a matter of respect also.

You did a good thing, you should feel pleased that you helped someone. Hopefully that's not the end of it. If you help one person in your lifetime you will achieve more than most

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so don't brush me with your rants and boos if you don't think saving someone's life is a good thing not forgetting risking my own life you seriously need help!!!

I'll brush you with whatever brush I want.

So don't brush me with your negative comments saying I dont think saving someones life is good, keep that brush for other people."
likewise il brush with what ever brush I want with comments like that anyway I'm ignoring you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"likewise il brush with what ever brush I want with comments like that anyway I'm ignoring you now "

Ignore away, you just did what anyone should have done and are complaining that people are not throwing you a party now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"likewise il brush with what ever brush I want with comments like that anyway I'm ignoring you now

Ignore away, you just did what anyone should have done and are complaining that people are not throwing you a party now."
I'm not complaining more shocked but anyway good bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think ye need to go away from this thread...emotions are running high and comments passed are getting our of hand .....don't think the op was looking for anyone to throw any kind of celebration ...and respect to anyone who has to risk their life's on a daily basis ...but everyone has probably been effected by this at some stage and unfortunately can't always be saved ...so let's put this one to bed and enjoy what time we all have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank God for people like OP!!!! Everyone needs a bit if help at some point....thankfully some people take time to notice yr struggling and help whatever way they can xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank God for people like OP!!!! Everyone needs a bit if help at some point....thankfully some people take time to notice yr struggling and help whatever way they can xxx"

Correct!

There are people that just constantly hit the "Positive Brigade" here and it's duly noted! !

Well done OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard this place is full of fire fighter. lol

I'm sure they have some life saving stories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again OP you done well and who knows what might of happened if you were not there

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