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Striking up a conversation after seeing a profile you like??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mad random question but what attracts attention of a first message? Someone don't like hi or hello. They don't like how are you? And bit pics are a total no no! Lol I've tried being the gentleman? Just wondering what's been going wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick up on a common interest after reading all their profile.

Be sure you match what they are looking for and not what you wish they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That is what I do! But majority don't even get looked at! I do realise that most women prob inundated with messages and just do a bulk delete! Should I be nice or nasty???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why not get to know someone in chat room a bit 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is what I do! But majority don't even get looked at! I do realise that most women prob inundated with messages and just do a bulk delete! Should I be nice or nasty???"

Eh ... obviously nice. Nice guys prevail

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've tried chat rooms but they seem quite clicks and impossible to get a response?

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By *roomvroomMan
over a year ago

Clare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would def suggest putting pic up as profile pic.. sometimes if message doesnt attract me i wouldnt even look at profile but if pic catches my eye ill investigate more..

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By *ojos jugsWoman
over a year ago

Bangor


"That is what I do! But majority don't even get looked at! I do realise that most women prob inundated with messages and just do a bulk delete! Should I be nice or nasty???

Eh ... obviously nice. Nice guys prevail"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would something like that work? (Pic that is??)

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I've tried chat rooms but they seem quite clicks and impossible to get a response? "

If you barge in looking a shag them no you won't get a response.

If you go in looking a bit of craic then yes you will.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like to think of my self as a fun guy! As opposed to a fungi! (Terrible pun I know)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of luck to you Bob,you seem a genuinely nice guy .

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By *roomvroomMan
over a year ago

Clare


"Best of luck to you Bob,you seem a genuinely nice guy ."

Mmmmmmmmmmmm goldie I which that was my hands in your panties I wouldn't ever wash it again after that....

I hope this example helps OP

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Perseverance and patience.

Fair play, you took on board the pic suggestion. Also can see you have a sense of humour so add some in message.

Your profile is good and your verified.

As others have said read the persons profile and see if you match their preference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Kim xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well fuck me pink with a yellow banana that's where I'm going wrong

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By *heoldhippyMan
over a year ago

Midleton

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Well fuck me pink with a yellow banana that's where I'm going wrong "

Not sure if this was aimed at me but if so I don't do kink

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By *heoldhippyMan
over a year ago

Midleton


"why not get to know someone in chat room a bit 1st"

Not everyone uses chat or forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me to but it sounded good

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick


"Best of luck to you Bob,you seem a genuinely nice guy .

Mmmmmmmmmmmm goldie I which that was my hands in your panties I wouldn't ever wash it again after that....

I hope this example helps OP

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Good example there to go by my friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best of luck to you Bob,you seem a genuinely nice guy .

Mmmmmmmmmmmm goldie I which that was my hands in your panties I wouldn't ever wash it again after that....

I hope this example helps OP

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Don't listen to this naughty boy, he ll only get you into trouble Bob lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best of luck to you Bob,you seem a genuinely nice guy .

Mmmmmmmmmmmm goldie I which that was my hands in your panties I wouldn't ever wash it again after that....

I hope this example helps OP

Good example there to go by my friend.

"

Don't you encourage him Luke

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By *ojos jugsWoman
over a year ago

Bangor


"Well fuck me pink with a yellow banana that's where I'm going wrong "

Mmmmm interesting offer there Hardy.. a bunch of Fyffes do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well fuck me pink with a yellow banana that's where I'm going wrong

Mmmmm interesting offer there Hardy.. a bunch of Fyffes do "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think up a good message and just copy and paste it to every girl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See thing is do women know what they want themselves??? let alone for us mere mortal men to work it out! I just want a bit of nsa fun with some beautiful lucky lady or couple! So thanks for all the advice! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've tried chat rooms but they seem quite clicks and impossible to get a response?

If you barge in looking a shag them no you won't get a response.

If you go in looking a bit of craic then yes you will.

I sent a hilarious message to someone only recently on here an the response I got was an instant joke, these swingers are a tough audience I've actually stopped with the effort in my mails cause there mostly ignored an my good jokes going to waste.......

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By *oldenFingersMan
over a year ago

Fairview

Social nights are a really good way to meet people in a relaxed environment with no pressures or expectations. Just go have a drink, a bit of craic and get to know a few people that way. Us lads have to understand that the ratio of men to women here is massive so if they get to meet you in person you might have better luck. Otherwise be nice.

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick


"Think up a good message and just copy and paste it to every girl."

Girls dont talk......mmmmmm let me think

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick


"Best of luck to you Bob,you seem a genuinely nice guy .

Mmmmmmmmmmmm goldie I which that was my hands in your panties I wouldn't ever wash it again after that....

I hope this example helps OP

Good example there to go by my friend.

Don't you encourage him Luke "

Govial Fun flirty cathchy even if you just ask a question like whats your fav colour

Women here have told me they get on average 1000 mesagges a day...a day for fuck sake id have trouble answering 20. And fellas wonder why they get no reply when 99% of 1st messages sent are Hi how are you.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I tend to go for ones i have banter with on the forums now rather than messages sent to me.......on the odd occasion i would reply

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick


" I tend to go for ones i have banter with on the forums now rather than messages sent to me.......on the odd occasion i would reply "

Is that how it is now tox.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


" I tend to go for ones i have banter with on the forums now rather than messages sent to me.......on the odd occasion i would reply

Is that how it is now tox. "

Lol......some even get past my filters if they are special enough

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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago

Trim

Perhaps advance on what your looking for your profile says your only looking for female female aren't we all (greedy fecker wanting 2) just a suggestion

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