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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So question for all you fabbers.

what do you do to keep your mind off worrying thing's?

What would keep you distracted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally murder myself with excercise...works every time

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I throw myself into my work. That's a good way to distract.

Or talk to someone, that helps too.

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

Work and money.

Allways does it for me.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

You can't

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick

Music and dance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vodka and sex, not together though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strippers and Coke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well work is out I don't have a job lol

im not one bit fit so exercise is out.

think I'll have to think of other ways lol

although chatting is a good one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Strippers and Coke "

Strippers yeah and only if it's the liquid stuff with a drop of whiskey in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to bed for the day (to sleep!)

It's all I'm doing lately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to bed for the day (to sleep!)

It's all I'm doing lately"

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music loud as possible and dancing

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

A walk on an empty beach clear my head better if there is a bit of an alantic storm blowing the waves crashing on the beach. Close ur eyes and listen to the power of nature fresh sea air and spray chilling ur face think of the happy times u had the crazy things u done scream shout what ever takes my fancy then head back to reality and think every thing has a way of righting it self

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Go to bed for the day (to sleep!)

It's all I'm doing lately"

What would distract me from sleeping?!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A walk on an empty beach clear my head better if there is a bit of an alantic storm blowing the waves crashing on the beach. Close ur eyes and listen to the power of nature fresh sea air and spray chilling ur face think of the happy times u had the crazy things u done scream shout what ever takes my fancy then head back to reality and think every thing has a way of righting it self "

I would love to do this... sounds good.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Go to bed for the day (to sleep!)

It's all I'm doing lately

What would distract me from sleeping?!?

"

Pmsl.....We will see!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Writing,walking and talking to a good friend or two helps.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"A walk on an empty beach clear my head better if there is a bit of an alantic storm blowing the waves crashing on the beach. Close ur eyes and listen to the power of nature fresh sea air and spray chilling ur face think of the happy times u had the crazy things u done scream shout what ever takes my fancy then head back to reality and think every thing has a way of righting it self "

THe sea always clears my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long walks,watching films,wanking and looking for a solution to the thing that's worrying me.Try to get as much sleep as possible even if it's catnaps.Eat well and healthily.

If it was something that has an emotional dimension,for example an upcoming death of a loved one,there's not a lot you can do about it except be grateful that you have reliable true friends who know you inside out and can lift your spirits after the event.

If it's a non emotional thing like money worries or some fool trying to undermine you,just remain dispassionate,cold hearted,stubborn and laugh in the face of adversity.You are your own person,so don't let someone else try to influence your way of thinking.

"When you reach the end of your tether,tie a knot in it and hang on"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Writing,walking and talking to a good friend or two helps. "

Definitely like this...

I'll definitely be doing this tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A walk on an empty beach clear my head better if there is a bit of an alantic storm blowing the waves crashing on the beach. Close ur eyes and listen to the power of nature fresh sea air and spray chilling ur face think of the happy times u had the crazy things u done scream shout what ever takes my fancy then head back to reality and think every thing has a way of righting it self "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Long walks,watching films,wanking and looking for a solution to the thing that's worrying me.Try to get as much sleep as possible even if it's catnaps.Eat well and healthily.

If it was something that has an emotional dimension,for example an upcoming death of a loved one,there's not a lot you can do about it except be grateful that you have reliable true friends who know you inside out and can lift your spirits after the event.

If it's a non emotional thing like money worries or some fool trying to undermine you,just remain dispassionate,cold hearted,stubborn and laugh in the face of adversity.You are your own person,so don't let someone else try to influence your way of thinking.

"When you reach the end of your tether,tie a knot in it and hang on"

"

WOW x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good bitching session with my girlies usually does the trick lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"A walk on an empty beach clear my head better if there is a bit of an alantic storm blowing the waves crashing on the beach. Close ur eyes and listen to the power of nature fresh sea air and spray chilling ur face think of the happy times u had the crazy things u done scream shout what ever takes my fancy then head back to reality and think every thing has a way of righting it self

I would love to do this... sounds good. "

Catch the bus or train to dollymount it will pass a few hrs dress for the weather and a coffee or bowl of soup after will warm u up again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A walk on an empty beach clear my head better if there is a bit of an alantic storm blowing the waves crashing on the beach. Close ur eyes and listen to the power of nature fresh sea air and spray chilling ur face think of the happy times u had the crazy things u done scream shout what ever takes my fancy then head back to reality and think every thing has a way of righting it self

I would love to do this... sounds good.

Catch the bus or train to dollymount it will pass a few hrs dress for the weather and a coffee or bowl of soup after will warm u up again"

You know what cj Iigjt just do something like this over the weekend after I jump out of a plane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Gets off the step*

I close up when things go pear shaped. Alot of stuff happening the last few months/another tough few months ahead also

Believe it or not I find talking about it,makes it worse and reminds me of the problems even more.

[But ill be grand]

¤hugs¤

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about


"Long walks,watching films,wanking and looking for a solution to the thing that's worrying me.Try to get as much sleep as possible even if it's catnaps.Eat well and healthily.

If it was something that has an emotional dimension,for example an upcoming death of a loved one,there's not a lot you can do about it except be grateful that you have reliable true friends who know you inside out and can lift your spirits after the event.

If it's a non emotional thing like money worries or some fool trying to undermine you,just remain dispassionate,cold hearted,stubborn and laugh in the face of adversity.You are your own person,so don't let someone else try to influence your way of thinking.

"When you reach the end of your tether,tie a knot in it and hang on"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading a great book and yoga

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*Gets off the step*

I close up when things go pear shaped. Alot of stuff happening the last few months/another tough few months ahead also

Believe it or not I find talking about it,makes it worse and reminds me of the problems even more.

[But ill be grand]

¤hugs¤"

* GROUP HUG *

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about


"*Gets off the step*

I close up when things go pear shaped. Alot of stuff happening the last few months/another tough few months ahead also

Believe it or not I find talking about it,makes it worse and reminds me of the problems even more.

[But ill be grand]

¤hugs¤"

I know exactly , I've had a few tough ones behind me , and prob more to come , I've become stronger , I think , I hope , I know now the only way is to keep the head up ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to put worries to the back of my mind, keep busy, and quietly without realising I, more often than not, find the solution, but I am not afraid to look for help if feel I can't do it alone, I then have a great hubby and friendsiI will turn to, never be afraid to ask for help or advice

Revamp xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A walk on an empty beach clear my head better if there is a bit of an alantic storm blowing the waves crashing on the beach. Close ur eyes and listen to the power of nature fresh sea air and spray chilling ur face think of the happy times u had the crazy things u done scream shout what ever takes my fancy then head back to reality and think every thing has a way of righting it self

I would love to do this... sounds good.

Catch the bus or train to dollymount it will pass a few hrs dress for the weather and a coffee or bowl of soup after will warm u up again

You know what cj Iigjt just do something like this over the weekend after I jump out of a plane "

If you want to walk and talk on Dollymount give me a shout I live 10 mins walk from it.No dawdling mind you brisk and energetic.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Haha Tina after that jump ull be so high on adrenaline ur body bursting with the feeling of freedom and achievement nothing will bring u down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A walk on an empty beach clear my head better if there is a bit of an alantic storm blowing the waves crashing on the beach. Close ur eyes and listen to the power of nature fresh sea air and spray chilling ur face think of the happy times u had the crazy things u done scream shout what ever takes my fancy then head back to reality and think every thing has a way of righting it self

I would love to do this... sounds good.

Catch the bus or train to dollymount it will pass a few hrs dress for the weather and a coffee or bowl of soup after will warm u up again

You know what cj Iigjt just do something like this over the weekend after I jump out of a plane

If you want to walk and talk on Dollymount give me a shout I live 10 mins walk from it.No dawdling mind you brisk and energetic. "

I'll keep that in mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha Tina after that jump ull be so high on adrenaline ur body bursting with the feeling of freedom and achievement nothing will bring u down "

God I can't wait cj

I'm actually so excited

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Haha Tina after that jump ull be so high on adrenaline ur body bursting with the feeling of freedom and achievement nothing will bring u down

God I can't wait cj

I'm actually so excited "
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Better than sex and as fast as some lads on here (no reference to the lad from galway)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha Tina after that jump ull be so high on adrenaline ur body bursting with the feeling of freedom and achievement nothing will bring u down

God I can't wait cj

I'm actually so excited .

Better than sex and as fast as some lads on here (no reference to the lad from galway)"

Well I'll let if it's better than sex after Saturday

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"So question for all you fabbers.

what do you do to keep your mind off worrying thing's?

What would keep you distracted? "

Everyone worries, humans and animals, its how we react to a threat.

Worrying is like a magnifying glass, it enlarges everything. So ask yourself right now if you can do something about it. If you can’t, write down your worry, release it and focus on right now.

Some threats are real, others are perceived rather than real, to over worry about things is to inflict self torture and sometimes it can be your own thoughts that make you suffer the most.

The trick is learning to manage worry.

A good start is to slow down your activities, if you walk, slow it down so you can take in the environment, the buildings, the weather, the animals and the people around you.

Ask yourself to what extent things could have turned out differently, and how much control you really had over things.

At some point life deals us a band hand of cards. The reality is, most people cope quite adequately with whatever adversity life throws at them. Try to turn these things into a positive, realise that when the worst does happen, it tends to put everything else in life into perspective, its tends to teach you what really matters. Because truth be told, in the grand scheme of things, work, money, relationships, age are all trivial.

Just remember, worrying is pointless, worrying is not a remedy. Try to think of that if you’re lying awake in the small hours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So question for all you fabbers.

what do you do to keep your mind off worrying thing's?

What would keep you distracted?

Everyone worries, humans and animals, its how we react to a threat.

Worrying is like a magnifying glass, it enlarges everything. So ask yourself right now if you can do something about it. If you can’t, write down your worry, release it and focus on right now.

Some threats are real, others are perceived rather than real, to over worry about things is to inflict self torture and sometimes it can be your own thoughts that make you suffer the most.

The trick is learning to manage worry.

A good start is to slow down your activities, if you walk, slow it down so you can take in the environment, the buildings, the weather, the animals and the people around you.

Ask yourself to what extent things could have turned out differently, and how much control you really had over things.

At some point life deals us a band hand of cards. The reality is, most people cope quite adequately with whatever adversity life throws at them. Try to turn these things into a positive, realise that when the worst does happen, it tends to put everything else in life into perspective, its tends to teach you what really matters. Because truth be told, in the grand scheme of things, work, money, relationships, age are all trivial.

Just remember, worrying is pointless, worrying is not a remedy. Try to think of that if you’re lying awake in the small hours. "

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By *heoldhippyMan
over a year ago

Midleton

Take the boat out and sail way out of the harbour. Let it drift and just listen to the waves and the seabirds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take the boat out and sail way out of the harbour. Let it drift and just listen to the waves and the seabirds"

Don't have a boat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tidy up.

Its a great distraction and cleanliness is next to godliness after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very best of luck to you Tina on your scuba dive on Saturday!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The very best of luck to you Tina on your scuba dive on Saturday!! "

ROTFLMFAO Ah god rose thanks I needed a good laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The very best of luck to you Tina on your scuba dive on Saturday!!

ROTFLMFAO Ah god rose thanks I needed a good laugh "

All that fresh air!!!! You'll be on a high for a good while afterwards!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The very best of luck to you Tina on your scuba dive on Saturday!!

ROTFLMFAO Ah god rose thanks I needed a good laugh

All that fresh air!!!! You'll be on a high for a good while afterwards!!!! "

She's a BIG day Monday!!!! Never mind Saturday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The very best of luck to you Tina on your scuba dive on Saturday!!

ROTFLMFAO Ah god rose thanks I needed a good laugh

All that fresh air!!!! You'll be on a high for a good while afterwards!!!!

She's a BIG day Monday!!!! Never mind Saturday "

I Do don't I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The very best of luck to you Tina on your scuba dive on Saturday!!

ROTFLMFAO Ah god rose thanks I needed a good laugh

All that fresh air!!!! You'll be on a high for a good while afterwards!!!!

She's a BIG day Monday!!!! Never mind Saturday "

What's happening on Monday!!???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the trick is timing ! When the energy is burned out of the 'worry' thats your time to start taking small positive steps forward. Little achievements, no matter how small, look on as positives...and keep moving forward. Worry will disappear behind u, Tina will emerge stronger from its ashes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" you do"

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By *heoldhippyMan
over a year ago

Midleton


"Take the boat out and sail way out of the harbour. Let it drift and just listen to the waves and the seabirds

Don't have a boat lol "

You're welcome to come along as crew next time you're down south.

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex


"So question for all you fabbers.

what do you do to keep your mind off worrying thing's?

What would keep you distracted? "

Simple we joined fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So question for all you fabbers.

what do you do to keep your mind off worrying thing's?

What would keep you distracted? "

Usually head to the pitch for a kick about and a chat with my Friends.. Or else I Head away through the forests for a trek on the Horse...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So question for all you fabbers.

what do you do to keep your mind off worrying thing's?

What would keep you distracted? "

Remember those less fortunate xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So question for all you fabbers.

what do you do to keep your mind off worrying thing's?

What would keep you distracted? "

I do a fair bit of volunteering in the community and with voluntary helpline organisations for the young old and less priviledged. I find it a great way to take my mind off silly things. Its also a plus plus in that you are helping someone who needs it plus you also feel good about it... Well i do anyhows... Different strokes for diff peoples i guess.

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By *oney2977Woman
over a year ago

waterford

good music and a good swim and thinking of a sexy man does it for me..x

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