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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any chance of the men on here giving new women a break when they first join?i had two friends sign up and within hours hundreds of messages without even a pic up! They were just overwhelmed and it put them off. I'd say 90% of new women don't even have a picture up and just get scared off. Relax lads, give them time to look around and ease into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any chance of the men on here giving new women a break when they first join?i had two friends sign up and within hours hundreds of messages without even a pic up! They were just overwhelmed and it put them off. I'd say 90% of new women don't even have a picture up and just get scared off. Relax lads, give them time to look around and ease into it"

It's a nice gesture but it will never happen unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any chance of the men on here giving new women a break when they first join?i had two friends sign up and within hours hundreds of messages without even a pic up! They were just overwhelmed and it put them off. I'd say 90% of new women don't even have a picture up and just get scared off. Relax lads, give them time to look around and ease into it"

They could just stick their filters up so men can't message them for a bit. I did that when I came back.

Being scared on Day 1 isn't a great start though.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

They should use the filters, it reduces the traffic to a good extent, but unfortunately the first month is just mental but then it should calm down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

By the time they even realise there's filters it's just too late,their little hearts are broken already lol. When the first message u read is "want to be my sister" I can't blame them

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Tell them not to give up,, its happened to us all,, the barrage of messages can be overwhelming but if they take their time, it will settle itself down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sure couldnt u have given them advice and stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sure couldnt u have given them advice and stuff"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure with the hundreds of mail I get I can only imagine what it's like for a new girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any chance of the men on here giving new women a break when they first join?i had two friends sign up and within hours hundreds of messages without even a pic up! They were just overwhelmed and it put them off. I'd say 90% of new women don't even have a picture up and just get scared off. Relax lads, give them time to look around and ease into it"

Maybe they should go off and join a convent instead so?

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Any chance of the men on here giving new women a break when they first join?i had two friends sign up and within hours hundreds of messages without even a pic up! They were just overwhelmed and it put them off. I'd say 90% of new women don't even have a picture up and just get scared off. Relax lads, give them time to look around and ease into it

Maybe they should go off and join a convent instead so?"

....you'll break out in blisters,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for me when I joined up, women clawing at me like a bit of meat.

120 messages first hour. Just something you have to get used to.

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

In fairness I'd doubt its the lads here on the forum that are mailing. Most us know the drill at this stage.

Its usually just nutjobs who get off on sending weird and dirty emails.

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By *ildarex2Couple
over a year ago

D4

Why would you join a sex site and get scared off by men wanting to meet you for sex ??? Are they Amish and never had a d*unken fool try chat them up in a nightclub or bar no differant just ignore if u ask me.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

it's not for the faint-hearted here, maybe they should try out another website first that is more vanilla.

or

Bulk delete, filters and message those profiles that they're interested in

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I treat all new profiles with scepticism so I rarely message anyone who's just joined.

I also have new and unverified profiles filtered out, as abuse and pic stealers tend to come from these profiles, so newbies dont message me.

If they stick around and their profile doesnt raise many red flags, and interests me then I'll message.

I find this method cuts down on timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend all my day on the page New Women refreshing constantly, send message 'wanna fuck now' 'message sent' wicked one.. Ah another new one, same again 'wanna fuck now' 'I'm outside age rang' Bollox, maybe next one, yes another new one, 'wanna fuck now' 'single males blocked' fook it, maybe next one, yes a new one, 'wanna fuck now' 'message sent' YAYYYYY.

I've done this day in day out for the year I've been here and not had one reply back but I'm no fooking quitter I'll tell ya that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I spend all my day on the page New Women refreshing constantly, send message 'wanna fuck now' 'message sent' wicked one.. Ah another new one, same again 'wanna fuck now' 'I'm outside age rang' Bollox, maybe next one, yes another new one, 'wanna fuck now' 'single males blocked' fook it, maybe next one, yes a new one, 'wanna fuck now' 'message sent' YAYYYYY.

I've done this day in day out for the year I've been here and not had one reply back but I'm no fooking quitter I'll tell ya that "

My hero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same for me when I joined up, women clawing at me like a bit of meat.

120 messages first hour. Just something you have to get used to."

Where they all from women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same for me when I joined up, women clawing at me like a bit of meat.

120 messages first hour. Just something you have to get used to.

Where they all from women? "

They wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had that problem at the start. Id say I sent about 100 messae before I got an answer. ( I don't count the blokes that want to blow me in taxI)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't get any better the longer we are here either....

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Wish I had that problem at the start. Id say I sent about 100 messae before I got an answer. ( I don't count the blokes that want to blow me in taxI)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any chance of the men on here giving new women a break when they first join?i had two friends sign up and within hours hundreds of messages without even a pic up! They were just overwhelmed and it put them off. I'd say 90% of new women don't even have a picture up and just get scared off. Relax lads, give them time to look around and ease into it"
I seen the same thing when a female friend of mine set a profile up the same time I done mine, 60 odd guys and cock pics in 10 or 20 mins, needless to say she deleted her profile the same night. It's embarrassing to be honest. And yet they moan when they get treated like shit

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