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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lately I'm finding guys here that I may only have met once are starting to mail couples and other females that I'm meeting with then and actually arranging meets all without said couple or single female mailing to actually to confirm it with me. Is it common or am I just unfortunate thats it's happened to me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get ya!!

Are you saying that if you're meeting someone that others that you'd met need to get your permission first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you mean guys are meeting you. Then mailing people you have met to try make the rounds?

The people you met are not keeping you in the loop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she not saying they're arranging meets as if they're a couple

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I think she is saying that guys she had met once are contacting cpls saying she is playing with him as a cpl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Is she not saying they're arranging meets as if they're a couple "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is she not saying they're arranging meets as if they're a couple "

Well spotted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is she not saying they're arranging meets as if they're a couple

Well spotted"

I'm not dopey now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait......

Are you saying Batman ISNT Bruce Wayne??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is she not saying they're arranging meets as if they're a couple "

that's what i took from it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is she not saying they're arranging meets as if they're a couple

Well spotted

I'm not dopey now.

"

My eyes are rolling

(This is good)

#needsleep

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol what laid said. After ending a nice nilla date get texted am i really meeting with someone from here. Not first time have had it here but do guys really think that if girl shags him once they can use said girl to get further meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In reply to OP I'm only back so no it's not happened me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened once but in a party situation for someone to get an invite. Unusual though the ones he arranging with didn't contact you to confirm. Using your rep to get meets basically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol what laid said. After ending a nice nilla date get texted am i really meeting with someone from here. Not first time have had it here but do guys really think that if girl shags him once they can use said girl to get further meets?"

Youre still not being 100% clear...so these guys are saying to these other people that they have met u, in order to get meets with these other people who have also met u? Is that it?

If so, i dont see the problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happened once but in a party situation for someone to get an invite. Unusual though the ones he arranging with didn't contact you to confirm. Using your rep to get meets basically."

Had guys try get me to ask them to come as plus one, but this is blatant shes meeting with me, kinda stuff. Its frustrating as has ruined meets have been arranging and hate people using me as bait when I have zero interest in coupling up with anyone here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol what laid said. After ending a nice nilla date get texted am i really meeting with someone from here. Not first time have had it here but do guys really think that if girl shags him once they can use said girl to get further meets?

Youre still not being 100% clear...so these guys are saying to these other people that they have met u, in order to get meets with these other people who have also met u? Is that it?

If so, i dont see the problem"

Wouldn't care if said they met me, they are saying im there partner to meet with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened once but in a party situation for someone to get an invite. Unusual though the ones he arranging with didn't contact you to confirm. Using your rep to get meets basically.

Had guys try get me to ask them to come as plus one, but this is blatant shes meeting with me, kinda stuff. Its frustrating as has ruined meets have been arranging and hate people using me as bait when I have zero interest in coupling up with anyone here "
Its common especially when they know you are going to parties or meeting couples on your own basically just want to piggy back on your meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They sound creepy to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They sound creepy to me."
oppertunistic if there is a word is how I'd describe them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens when they show up without you and start ruining your reputation and credit on here? Dickheads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They sound creepy to me. oppertunistic if there is a word is how I'd describe them

"

I prefer the word creepy because you can be opportunistic and honest, straight talking.

But they have a dishonesty, a predator like approach to swinging, a creepy kind of attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happened once but in a party situation for someone to get an invite. Unusual though the ones he arranging with didn't contact you to confirm. Using your rep to get meets basically.

Had guys try get me to ask them to come as plus one, but this is blatant shes meeting with me, kinda stuff. Its frustrating as has ruined meets have been arranging and hate people using me as bait when I have zero interest in coupling up with anyone here Its common especially when they know you are going to parties or meeting couples on your own basically just want to piggy back on your meets."

Its stupid though as only go to parties with one person and make it clear about that and rarely meet couples on my own either. There just making themselves look like idiots doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol what laid said. After ending a nice nilla date get texted am i really meeting with someone from here. Not first time have had it here but do guys really think that if girl shags him once they can use said girl to get further meets?

Youre still not being 100% clear...so these guys are saying to these other people that they have met u, in order to get meets with these other people who have also met u? Is that it?

If so, i dont see the problem

Wouldn't care if said they met me, they are saying im there partner to meet with"
gotta live intuition tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol what laid said. After ending a nice nilla date get texted am i really meeting with someone from here. Not first time have had it here but do guys really think that if girl shags him once they can use said girl to get further meets?

Youre still not being 100% clear...so these guys are saying to these other people that they have met u, in order to get meets with these other people who have also met u? Is that it?

If so, i dont see the problem

Wouldn't care if said they met me, they are saying im there partner to meet withgotta live intuition tho "
love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened once but in a party situation for someone to get an invite. Unusual though the ones he arranging with didn't contact you to confirm. Using your rep to get meets basically.

Had guys try get me to ask them to come as plus one, but this is blatant shes meeting with me, kinda stuff. Its frustrating as has ruined meets have been arranging and hate people using me as bait when I have zero interest in coupling up with anyone here Its common especially when they know you are going to parties or meeting couples on your own basically just want to piggy back on your meets.

Its stupid though as only go to parties with one person and make it clear about that and rarely meet couples on my own either. There just making themselves look like idiots doing it"
People who know you and have met you previous should know you well enough to realise something's not right as you don't strike me the type to let men do your organising for you. Unfortunately there's lads out there would do anything to sample a party or group fun. Don't let him bother ya xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They sound creepy to me. oppertunistic if there is a word is how I'd describe them

I prefer the word creepy because you can be opportunistic and honest, straight talking.

But they have a dishonesty, a predator like approach to swinging, a creepy kind of attitude."
unfortunately they're more common than you would think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unfortunately they're more common than you would think"

Possibly so, but as a male its not something I would have to deal with often. I wonder has it ever happened a man, a woman pretending she was boinking him as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this has happened to me too, ive had mails from people saying they were looking forward to playing with me and a certain lad, when I mailed him he said he was arranging 3/4 somes for us?? Wtf!!

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

weve had loads of guys mails us to say there fuck buddy is around tge weekend and would we fancy meeting up, when we ask them to get the lady to mail us as well , we never hear back from them

mr crazy

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

That's very creepy indeed. I would question the guys mental state and I'm not being facetious in saying that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

That is creepy.

There's nothing wrong with being opportunistic as others have said as long as others are on board and everyone's in the loop.

But he's basically using you and your good reputation to get meets.

Block, and put something on your profile to state that nobody organsises meets on your behalf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sign of an inexperienced swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sign of a sad weirdo! Sorry to hear that's happening to you!

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

The world is full of chancers...

And fab has even more of them than normal..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that op...but mail everyone you know, name and shame these creeps...and then improve your quality control department so they don't get near you in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just guys that do it. I called over for a cuppa to a female fab friend one night, left after about an hour coz I was wrecked, only to get two mails here later that Night, one from a male and the other from a couple saying that they had been looking forward to meeting me at (fabbers name) house and it was a pity I had to leave and never got to play! So it's not just men who are guilty of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just guys that do it. I called over for a cuppa to a female fab friend one night, left after about an hour coz I was wrecked, only to get two mails here later that Night, one from a male and the other from a couple saying that they had been looking forward to meeting me at (fabbers name) house and it was a pity I had to leave and never got to play! So it's not just men who are guilty of it"

Without me lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just guys that do it. I called over for a cuppa to a female fab friend one night, left after about an hour coz I was wrecked, only to get two mails here later that Night, one from a male and the other from a couple saying that they had been looking forward to meeting me at (fabbers name) house and it was a pity I had to leave and never got to play! So it's not just men who are guilty of it"

They had organized group fun and just hoped you'd go along with it once the others arrived?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just guys that do it. I called over for a cuppa to a female fab friend one night, left after about an hour coz I was wrecked, only to get two mails here later that Night, one from a male and the other from a couple saying that they had been looking forward to meeting me at (fabbers name) house and it was a pity I had to leave and never got to play! So it's not just men who are guilty of it

They had organized group fun and just hoped you'd go along with it once the others arrived?"

Pretty much, and this girl had told the others arriving that I was going to be there when she invited them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just guys that do it. I called over for a cuppa to a female fab friend one night, left after about an hour coz I was wrecked, only to get two mails here later that Night, one from a male and the other from a couple saying that they had been looking forward to meeting me at (fabbers name) house and it was a pity I had to leave and never got to play! So it's not just men who are guilty of it

They had organized group fun and just hoped you'd go along with it once the others arrived?

Pretty much, and this girl had told the others arriving that I was going to be there when she invited them"

Jesus that's poor. Guys and girls really do face different problems on Fab.

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork

Twice we have had offers from single guys asking to meet them with a female single fabbers,,when we contacted the girls they knew nothing about it

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