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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey y do women ask for pics first even tho they have none lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do men jump through hoops like eejets and do all that these women demand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men jump through hoops like eejets and do all that these women demand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey y do women ask for pics first even tho they have none lol "

Odds are they're fake and seeing what they can get off gullible people.

99% of real women on here have pics up, even if it's just one or two..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was asked for a pic first, I sent mine, I didn't get one back.

If you don't want to send one don't. Simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was asked for a pic first, I sent mine, I didn't get one back.

If you don't want to send one don't. Simple really. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey y do women ask for pics first even tho they have none lol

Odds are they're fake and seeing what they can get off gullible people.

99% of real women on here have pics up, even if it's just one or two.."

No. Plenty of well verified women saying face pic or message will be deleted or some other Bullshit variation of that message. It's bollocks. Why should they expect someone to send a face pic to a total stranger when they wouldn't do it themselves!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks girls yous are all gorgeous by the way ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey y do women ask for pics first even tho they have none lol "

I have set standards on my profile.

Mostly to avoid timewasters, ass holes etc etc

Genuine people read profiles, intelligent people understand what's requested.

Most don't like it but it saves me reading unwanted mail. (YES filters are set) Like anybody else here I pick and choose who I respond to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men jump through hoops like eejets and do all that these women demand?

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Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will send if asked, but if I'm asked I feel that person should send one with their message.. You know "here's me, can I see you"

We all hate rejection, even though I think I'm the sexiest man in Ireland, not everybody agrees haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 different reasons I think, maybe to cut out the endless chit chat and wanting to know if she'd be talking to someone she would maybe have fun with, 2nd reason I think if both live in the same area might want to know if she knew him as she maybe wants to be discrete on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey y do women ask for pics first even tho they have none lol

Odds are they're fake and seeing what they can get off gullible people.

99% of real women on here have pics up, even if it's just one or two.."

I disagree my profile is real I only send pics when I've chatted to someone for a while & I'm interested to meet.

It's about protecting me & my identity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey y do women ask for pics first even tho they have none lol

Odds are they're fake and seeing what they can get off gullible people.

99% of real women on here have pics up, even if it's just one or two..

I disagree my profile is real I only send pics when I've chatted to someone for a while & I'm interested to meet.

It's about protecting me & my identity.

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Yet your profile says "Only messages more than three Sentences (not 3 words) and face picture (not penis ) will be considered as an application lol"

So a man can't protect his identity too?

If a guy had that on his profile he'd be slated or laughed at. Not having a go at you Mel, just happened to look at your profile when you replied is all. The double standards on here are baffling though

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By *ong riderMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Hey y do women ask for pics first even tho they have none lol

Odds are they're fake and seeing what they can get off gullible people.

99% of real women on here have pics up, even if it's just one or two..

I disagree my profile is real I only send pics when I've chatted to someone for a while & I'm interested to meet.

It's about protecting me & my identity.

Yet your profile says "Only messages more than three Sentences (not 3 words) and face picture (not penis ) will be considered as an application lol"

So a man can't protect his identity too?

If a guy had that on his profile he'd be slated or laughed at. Not having a go at you Mel, just happened to look at your profile when you replied is all. The double standards on here are baffling though "

Most sense I've read on this mad house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey y do women ask for pics first even tho they have none lol

Odds are they're fake and seeing what they can get off gullible people.

99% of real women on here have pics up, even if it's just one or two..

I disagree my profile is real I only send pics when I've chatted to someone for a while & I'm interested to meet.

It's about protecting me & my identity.

Yet your profile says "Only messages more than three Sentences (not 3 words) and face picture (not penis ) will be considered as an application lol"

So a man can't protect his identity too?

If a guy had that on his profile he'd be slated or laughed at. Not having a go at you Mel, just happened to look at your profile when you replied is all. The double standards on here are baffling though "

Personally I think everyone should protect their identity.

Amuses me when pictures are scammed and stolen and people get into a fizzy about it.

The 3 sentences yes If someone can't converse with me well nothing else is likely to happen the application part is my humour and guys use it as an ice breaker.other professional men will not send a face pic & will state why, doesn't stop us chatting.

Double standards ? Maybe, but they are my standards and work well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I see profiles with demands I just skip by them, puts me off as I prefer _aid back people who don't take it all too seriously BUT that's me so each to their own.

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about


"Hey y do women ask for pics first even tho they have none lol

Odds are they're fake and seeing what they can get off gullible people.

99% of real women on here have pics up, even if it's just one or two..

I disagree my profile is real I only send pics when I've chatted to someone for a while & I'm interested to meet.

It's about protecting me & my identity.

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I totally agree and should be the same for All ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey y do women ask for pics first even tho they have none lol "

I wouldn't meet anyone without sending face photos/phone chat

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

the guys that get caught out by pic stealers are the ones that join thinking that its easy on here. they get a mail from a 22 year old nympho asking do they want to fuck but the need a face pic first. lol well if you are that easily duped then you deserve it.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Hey y do women ask for pics first even tho they have none lol

Odds are they're fake and seeing what they can get off gullible people.

99% of real women on here have pics up, even if it's just one or two..

No. Plenty of well verified women saying face pic or message will be deleted or some other Bullshit variation of that message. It's bollocks. Why should they expect someone to send a face pic to a total stranger when they wouldn't do it themselves!? "

I agree. If you're looking for face pics in the first message you wont be hearing from me. I wont expect them off you in the first message either.

A little getting to know each other wont hurt before swapping pics.

I'm here for fun not to jump through hoops when people snap fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the guys that get caught out by pic stealers are the ones that join thinking that its easy on here. they get a mail from a 22 year old nympho asking do they want to fuck but the need a face pic first. lol well if you are that easily duped then you deserve it."

What about the well verified members who had pictures taken on them, who have been on the site as long as you and I, were they easily duped?.

If you allow your pictures to be displayed publicly & easily accessed by thousands (mostly by pic collectors) then yes you are primarily at fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men jump through hoops like eejets and do all that these women demand?

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Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the guys that get caught out by pic stealers are the ones that join thinking that its easy on here. they get a mail from a 22 year old nympho asking do they want to fuck but the need a face pic first. lol well if you are that easily duped then you deserve it."

Lol your always in for the brownie point lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind swapping face pics once I'm wearing clothes in the pic sure could get that anywhere Facebook or any social media site... Its the body pics with them that makes them dangerous. I wouldn't meet anyone without a face pic and chatting a while.. Wouldn't expect anyone else to either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men jump through hoops like eejets and do all that these women demand?

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id jump thru a hoop for u.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my face pics public, I don't really see what the fuss is. Ill send them to people and wont expect anything in return.

I dont care if someone steals my pics either.

I'll meet someone who has no pic, and talk to someone who has no pic.

I normally wont send pics to new proiles who ask me for a pic in the first message, cause that's just weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just change the way u use the site,we wouldnt even get mail from people without a pic or veri (message filters)saves time and we wouldnt contact anyone without either as well saves a lot of time,i mean how hard is it to put a few pics up and get photo verified and remember if it sounds too good to be true it usually is.

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