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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And you can't walk out?

Does jealousy ruin swing relationships?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy can ruin any relationship.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Fecl barney ur really throwing us with the thread titles lately i thought u got locked in the cubicle

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

Sadly it can. I know of 5 couples in the last 2 years that have split. Put in context though, I know many more couples that haven't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought he was caught in a honey pot

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I had a meet on Saturday and went to the venue to let him experience his first party and he got jealous!!!... They say women are the green eyed monsters,, not always it seems

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Yes IDE say u want to really know ur partner we'll before swinging cos what happens if u meet a gorgeous beauty male r female n u start to like them . So u have to set boundaries u don't ever cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jealousy can ruin any relationship. "

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

It can cause trust issues between partners too as well as the jealousy thing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lack of jealousy has been a problem for every single Irish girl I have ever dated.

Irish girls for the most part want a guy to be jealous. They confuse possession and jealousy for caring and loving. They talk to some guy and their bf does not get jealous, oh well he must not care.

Irish men are very jealous, but they are rewarded for it, their past relationships have taught them its expected of them.

I have had a lot of break ups over not getting jealous, the worst is when a girl tries to make you jealous on purpose to see if you care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jealousy can ruin any relationship. "

Unless there is a solid foundation, Jealousy can ruin any relationship.. Swinging is not a relationship patch... it will likely end any relationship that isn't on a solid footing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lack of jealousy has been a problem for every single Irish girl I have ever dated.

Irish girls for the most part want a guy to be jealous. They confuse possession and jealousy for caring and loving. They talk to some guy and their bf does not get jealous, oh well he must not care.

Irish men are very jealous, but they are rewarded for it, their past relationships have taught them its expected of them.

I have had a lot of break ups over not getting jealous, the worst is when a girl tries to make you jealous on purpose to see if you care."

Oh that's such horse shit. Irish girls do not want their man to be jealous ffs. Jesus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Elvis is so wise

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"My lack of jealousy has been a problem for every single Irish girl I have ever dated.

Irish girls for the most part want a guy to be jealous. They confuse possession and jealousy for caring and loving. They talk to some guy and their bf does not get jealous, oh well he must not care.

Irish men are very jealous, but they are rewarded for it, their past relationships have taught them its expected of them.

I have had a lot of break ups over not getting jealous, the worst is when a girl tries to make you jealous on purpose to see if you care."

Insecurity is not confined to Irish women …..and that's what jealously is...its probably more of a issue between swing partners as opposed to life partners that swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lack of jealousy has been a problem for every single Irish girl I have ever dated.

Irish girls for the most part want a guy to be jealous. They confuse possession and jealousy for caring and loving. They talk to some guy and their bf does not get jealous, oh well he must not care.

Irish men are very jealous, but they are rewarded for it, their past relationships have taught them its expected of them.

I have had a lot of break ups over not getting jealous, the worst is when a girl tries to make you jealous on purpose to see if you care."

I mustn't be Irish then!

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

Jealousy has made out relationship stronger....because it has opened up a dialogue we would otherwise not have entered into....as a consequence we are closer as a result. ...and understand each others boundaries more ..

That's not to say we don't enter into scenarios deliberately just to make each other jealous. ..

Sher' isn't make up sex the best?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The jealousy is there before the swinging thats why swinging then splits cpls..they try swinging to fix problems that are already there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lack of jealousy has been a problem for every single Irish girl I have ever dated.

Irish girls for the most part want a guy to be jealous. They confuse possession and jealousy for caring and loving. They talk to some guy and their bf does not get jealous, oh well he must not care.

Irish men are very jealous, but they are rewarded for it, their past relationships have taught them its expected of them.

I have had a lot of break ups over not getting jealous, the worst is when a girl tries to make you jealous on purpose to see if you care."

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Jealousy is a bitch but like any problem it depends on how u tackle it head on like a bull and full of rage its not going to be a good out come. But sort out what,why and when and talk it out calmly and listen to ur partner can open u up to their conserns and help u to avoid or embrace the things that cause consern

Cumunication is the key to happness in any relationship

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Jealousy is a bitch but like any problem it depends on how u tackle it head on like a bull and full of rage its not going to be a good out come. But sort out what,why and when and talk it out calmly and listen to ur partner can open u up to their conserns and help u to avoid or embrace the things that cause consern

Cumunication is the key to happness in any relationship"

Cj47 will you be my friend ye sound swine ye!!

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By *licia cdTV/TS
over a year ago

Lisburn


"My lack of jealousy has been a problem for every single Irish girl I have ever dated.

Irish girls for the most part want a guy to be jealous. They confuse possession and jealousy for caring and loving. They talk to some guy and their bf does not get jealous, oh well he must not care.

Irish men are very jealous, but they are rewarded for it, their past relationships have taught them its expected of them.

I have had a lot of break ups over not getting jealous, the worst is when a girl tries to make you jealous on purpose to see if you care."

The force is strong in you !!! The truth you speak...... Except the bit about it being just Irish women!!!! It's possibly a bit more universal than that.......... The controlling aspects of some relationships are very negative and destructive ultimately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg give me strength

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