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By *isdirtygirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Guys, this topic has been bothering me for a while,, has anyone received or even given a bad verification to another,is the verification process real or just to build confidence in others???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked a similar question yesterday. In text not on forum.

If I left you a bad veri... would you show it? Doubt it. You have the option not to.

So I guess anybody that received a bad one just didn't show it.

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By *isdirtygirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I asked a similar question yesterday. In text not on forum.

If I left you a bad veri... would you show it? Doubt it. You have the option not to.

So I guess anybody that received a bad one just didn't show it. "

But is that right to give a bad veri?? Is it not knocking a person's confidence??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course no one will show a bad one.

I did display a funny one before that a lady and I decoded to do to each other. It was obvious that it was a piss take though

Verifications don't really matter. However I'm skeptical of those that have none.

And it helps if you've met people that I've met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I displayed a "bad" one before but it was a piss take between me and him and he showed my "bad" one for him, it was just a bit of fun, made no odds really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't leaving a good veri after a bad meet building false confidence?

Personally I just wouldn't leave any. Why bother since it won't be seen anyway.

Have you received bad ones?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I would not leave one .

And would not leave a bad one I think that would be wrong to leave a bad veri just cause I never got on with the person don't mean others will feel the same. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your right Hun very hard to tell by the verifications if someone was a good meet or not. Everyone is different with different people too so verifying is only to sorta say that the person is real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked a similar question yesterday. In text not on forum.

If I left you a bad veri... would you show it? Doubt it. You have the option not to.

So I guess anybody that received a bad one just didn't show it.

But is that right to give a bad veri?? Is it not knocking a person's confidence?? "

I wouldn't bother leaving one if they werent nice or misbehaved in someway. If it was the case that I didn't click with them id give the facts; turned up was polite etc I'm a straight talker so there's be no chance of false hopes being given

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By *isdirtygirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Isn't leaving a good veri after a bad meet building false confidence?

Personally I just wouldn't leave any. Why bother since it won't be seen anyway.

Have you received bad ones? "

Thankfully no,, not so far,, i dont think I could leave a bad one so to speak,i did choose not to leave any, which is probably more kinder than saying "ah here love,you're crap in the sack "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody wants that left for them

I think as somebody already says... they are really just to prove the person is real. Actually showed up like they said they would and perhaps is a relatively normal person.

After that... its just ego boosting.

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

I know girls who have left someone a nice veri only to have them tell me that they would have felt bad to leave a bad one for the person.

I think most would rather not leave any than to leave a bad one, but by not leaving one could they think that you thought they where a crap meet.

I only really veri people that ask me too and most people i never leave one or ask them to leave me one as i like to keep things on a need to know basis,and i would usually discuss it with the person.

I would never leave someone a xxx rated graphic one like i have seen on some profiles.

To be honest i dont put a whole lot of faith in the whole veri system other than to confirm that a person is the correct sex and that they do actually exist in the real world and is not some made up fantasy sitting behind a computer screen somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry but why leave a bad veri in the first place??

Why waste your energy on someone your not going to meet again? ?

Don't get it

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By *isdirtygirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm sorry but why leave a bad veri in the first place??

Why waste your energy on someone your not going to meet again? ?

Don't get it "

Well that's true, I just chose not to leave any,,, seems less hurtful than leaving a whole bunch of lies about someone you'd pray to god you never bumped into again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a bad one to display.

i prefer non sexual ones. Im not really fussed if youre the best pussy someone had. I also prefer ones that dont tell me what to do, stuff like "treat her right", "bring your a game"

its possessive language, ill bring whatever game i want, and treat her however i want. Do you hear that last mr last meet, mr treat her like a princess? I might treat her like shit if i want, I might treat her like a dirty fucking whore, what you gonna do about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, this topic has been bothering me for a while,, has anyone received or even given a bad verification to another,is the verification process real or just to build confidence in others??? "

why giving a bad verification to another..? worst thing what can happen is you meet someone with bad manners . person not your taste , okay have a cuppa and bye.

so what's the craic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why giving a bad verification to another..? worst thing what can happen is you meet someone with bad manners . person not your taste , okay have a cuppa and bye.

so what's the craic? "

People have been raped, beaten, stolen from, murdered from/by people they met online. (not from on here, in general from sites like this)

what if a girl got beaten and raped because she read a bunch of veris from girls who were too polite to do anything but leave a good veri, leave a bad one so the police in the future can read it, or none at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had a verification yet so I can't say

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

With the veri summary no being able to show on a profile by leaving a bad veri which most likely be shown just adds to the amount of veries. I have 29 or something near that i dont display them onlt when setting up a meet with someone new whos to say 27 of mine are along the lines of "this guy is a total asshole carring an axe why did i go to a hotel with him to be disapointed by his small cock and big ego"

Prefer not to veri someone than boost a veri total giving an impression that they are well verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the veri summary no being able to show on a profile by leaving a bad veri which most likely be shown just adds to the amount of veries. I have 29 or something near that i dont display them onlt when setting up a meet with someone new whos to say 27 of mine are along the lines of "this guy is a total asshole carring an axe why did i go to a hotel with him to be disapointed by his small cock and big ego"

Prefer not to veri someone than boost a veri total giving an impression that they are well verified"

An axe??

Kinky

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By *isdirtygirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Haven't had a verification yet so I can't say "

You're getting yours reddevil ye little devil ??

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"With the veri summary no being able to show on a profile by leaving a bad veri which most likely be shown just adds to the amount of veries. I have 29 or something near that i dont display them onlt when setting up a meet with someone new whos to say 27 of mine are along the lines of "this guy is a total asshole carring an axe why did i go to a hotel with him to be disapointed by his small cock and big ego"

Prefer not to veri someone than boost a veri total giving an impression that they are well verified

An axe??

Kinky"

Do u want to see what i can do with my big axe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why giving a bad verification to another..? worst thing what can happen is you meet someone with bad manners . person not your taste , okay have a cuppa and bye.

so what's the craic?

People have been raped, beaten, stolen from, murdered from/by people they met online. (not from on here, in general from sites like this)

what if a girl got beaten and raped because she read a bunch of veris from girls who were too polite to do anything but leave a good veri, leave a bad one so the police in the future can read it, or none at all."

Of course caution should be, no question. But who argue with such fears, should unsubscribe here quickly and make his acquaintances only in the real live.And even then you can not be sure.

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