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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just us, or are we being unfair, by saying that the majority of these "single guys" who can't accommodate are married/attached?

Have we just been really unlucky so far?

When I was single, and my mates, we could always accommodate. We just said to our flat/house mates. "Need the place free Saturday night"

Are we being naive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us, or are we being unfair, by saying that the majority of these "single guys" who can't accommodate are married/attached?

Have we just been really unlucky so far?

When I was single, and my mates, we could always accommodate. We just said to our flat/house mates. "Need the place free Saturday night"

Are we being naive?

"

No you are not, just realistic.

What you say about being a single person in a house share has always been correct for everyone we know. There was an unwritten code to vacate the house if one of the gang needed to entertain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different for the likes of me now as a student. My landlords daughter lives here. Can't tell her to get out some night. And also a few nurses live here too!

They are all girls and there's five of them, one of me. News travels fast with them too!

That's part of the reason, but I'm usually always willing to pay for a hotel!

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

Or maybe their still living at home with Mammy.

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be in Dublin for three weeks from Monday on if ye like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my own place live alone can totally acc and im single so lucky me lol.

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"I have my own place live alone can totally acc and im single so lucky me lol."

Opportunist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my own place live alone can totally acc and im single so lucky me lol.

Opportunist "

i had to get in there lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be of the same opinion as the op but I too accept there can be the odd exception.. My pet hate though is the profiles with can accommodate on them and it infact turns out to be the opposite and they are married or attached but thought if they chatted for a while etc that it wouldn't make a difference when they told you down the road.... Lies after chatting to someone for a while is the worst.... For me it's an instant block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be of the same opinion as the op but I too accept there can be the odd exception.. My pet hate though is the profiles with can accommodate on them and it infact turns out to be the opposite and they are married or attached but thought if they chatted for a while etc that it wouldn't make a difference when they told you down the road.... Lies after chatting to someone for a while is the worst.... For me it's an instant block"

Totally agree with op and kitty

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By *iiboyMan
over a year ago

Tankardstown

Ther are lotsa reasons why someone cant accom , yeh some are married, some have kids , some are unlucky to having to move bak wit folks after losin house to bank/ex etc ?? like evrywher thers a muppet who will say they can accom only to come clean down the line , communication sorts the whole thing out pretty quik ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe they really don't want to meet some psycho looney who will refuse to leave and sit outside their place afterwards?

oh shit I forgot. Every woman and every couple on the site are perfectly normal perfectly behaved and perfectly safe. It's only the boys we need protection for. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The doors are always open at Casa Del Foo!!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

To be fair I don't accommodate and that's my personal choice as it's my home. Single men could feel the same .

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork


"Is it just us, or are we being unfair, by saying that the majority of these "single guys" who can't accommodate are married/attached?

Have we just been really unlucky so far?

When I was single, and my mates, we could always accommodate. We just said to our flat/house mates. "Need the place free Saturday night"

Are we being naive?

"

Maybe they still are living at home with mammy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doors are always open at Casa Del Foo!! "

"Me casa es Foo casa"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or maybe their still living at home with Mammy.

Tina "
we'll jammy is all alone so I have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you question all the "single" women on here too??

As already said, there are a.million reasons why people can't/won't accommodate, a partner at home is just one

And for those who think that living with the mammy is something to be slagged over, grow up

"

Ireland is experiencing a seismic shift in family living arrangements as record numbers of people in their 20s and 30s opt against flying the nest. Approximately 23pc of Irish adults aged 25 to 34 still live with their parents, according to Eurostat. Almost 440,000 people aged 18 or over now live at their parental home, according to the latest census figures. While 138,000 of those were students, 90,000 were in their 30s and 40s."

http://m.independent.ie/lifestyle/im-26-but-my-mammy-is-glad-im-back-living-at-home-30004904.html

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or maybe their still living at home with Mammy.

Tina we'll jammy is all alone so I have to "

Mrs.Brown could have great material from this

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby


"Or maybe their still living at home with Mammy.

Tina we'll jammy is all alone so I have to

Mrs.Brown could have great material from this "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up until extremely recently, I was single (yes, I need to update my profile). Reason I can't accommodate is that I live with a flatmate and bringing home someone new "too often" is not something I'd feel comfortable with when I'm not living alone. Of course, there are a few exceptions that can be made.

Now that I'm no longer single, it doesn't mean I won't stop meeting, but it will make it less likely that I'll make any exceptions as I want to avoid the awkward situation where I have my girlfriend over one weekend, followed by maybe a fab-meet the next and then gf again the next one after and my flatmate might question wtf is going on.

Before I get torn to pieces, I'll just have to say that my new girlfriend doesn't believe in monogamy, and she's well aware I'm on this site. She even helped me decide what to wear at the next M&G.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Not for the first time today I agree with whatsherface,why is it just single guys and not asked of single girls too?

And ireland has a long history of ppl living at home with their mammys well into middle age and beyond. Long before any recession

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you question all the "single" women on here too??

As already said, there are a.million reasons why people can't/won't accommodate, a partner at home is just one

And for those who think that living with the mammy is something to be slagged over, grow up

"

Ireland is experiencing a seismic shift in family living arrangements as record numbers of people in their 20s and 30s opt against flying the nest. Approximately 23pc of Irish adults aged 25 to 34 still live with their parents, according to Eurostat. Almost 440,000 people aged 18 or over now live at their parental home, according to the latest census figures. While 138,000 of those were students, 90,000 were in their 30s and 40s."

http://m.independent.ie/lifestyle/im-26-but-my-mammy-is-glad-im-back-living-at-home-30004904.html

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"The doors are always open at Casa Del Foo!! "

Liar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never in my life been asked to leave any house so someone could entertain and would never ask it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or maybe their still living at home with Mammy.

Tina we'll jammy is all alone so I have to

Mrs.Brown could have great material from this "
me and my feckin phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doors are always open at Casa Del Foo!!

Liar. "

You've never asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my own place live alone can totally acc and im single so lucky me lol."

You are not the only 1 that lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or maybe they really don't want to meet some psycho looney who will refuse to leave and sit outside their place afterwards?

oh shit I forgot. Every woman and every couple on the site are perfectly normal perfectly behaved and perfectly safe. It's only the boys we need protection for. ...."

Completely agree with that... And also my ex husband is now back living with his parents since we split and our house is rented out so there are some genuine reasons I guess? Nit that my ex is a swinger!! That I know of?? Lol...

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Different for the likes of me now as a student. My landlords daughter lives here. Can't tell her to get out some night. And also a few nurses live here too!

They are all girls and there's five of them, one of me. News travels fast with them too!

That's part of the reason, but I'm usually always willing to pay for a hotel! "

So anyway, tell me more about these five women you live with? Single?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Different for the likes of me now as a student. My landlords daughter lives here. Can't tell her to get out some night. And also a few nurses live here too!

They are all girls and there's five of them, one of me. News travels fast with them too!

That's part of the reason, but I'm usually always willing to pay for a hotel!

So anyway, tell me more about these five women you live with? Single?.... "

I think he means the 'five sisters'

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm 100% single and live with three others. There's always someone apart from me at home. I can't ask them to vacate while o have a meet, and I dont want to answer questions about it either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have my own place live alone can totally acc and im single so lucky me lol."

You big bragger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my own place live alone can totally acc and im single so lucky me lol.

You big bragger!"

who me never

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you question all the "single" women on here too??

As already said, there are a.million reasons why people can't/won't accommodate, a partner at home is just one

And for those who think that living with the mammy is something to be slagged over, grow up

"

Ireland is experiencing a seismic shift in family living arrangements as record numbers of people in their 20s and 30s opt against flying the nest. Approximately 23pc of Irish adults aged 25 to 34 still live with their parents, according to Eurostat. Almost 440,000 people aged 18 or over now live at their parental home, according to the latest census figures. While 138,000 of those were students, 90,000 were in their 30s and 40s."

http://m.independent.ie/lifestyle/im-26-but-my-mammy-is-glad-im-back-living-at-home-30004904.html

"

You will find I didn't say "all"

No I didn't question the single women because we never asked one to accommodate, we have asked numerous guys though.

Maybe when we ask the same amount of women I'll repost a gender balanced thread, but for now it's just the guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or maybe they really don't want to meet some psycho looney who will refuse to leave and sit outside their place afterwards?

oh shit I forgot. Every woman and every couple on the site are perfectly normal perfectly behaved and perfectly safe. It's only the boys we need protection for. ...."

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By *irty MurtyMan
over a year ago

my place

What's wrong with living with mammy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there many girls over 30 living with their parents?

I couldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there many girls over 30 living with their parents?

I couldn't. "

Well girls get free houses when they pop a kid out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there many girls over 30 living with their parents?

I couldn't.

Well girls get free houses when they pop a kid out."

Really? I didn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Are there many girls over 30 living with their parents?

I couldn't.

Well girls get free houses when they pop a kid out.

Really? I didn't. "

Same. Damn I'm owed 4 houses. Where do I collect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really? I didn't. "

I dont mean all women, just that a lot of women are living in apartments because they were given one for having a kid, and if that didnt happen a lot more 30 year ol women would still be at home.

Something like 40% of apartments in some areas are single unemployed mums in their 30s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there many girls over 30 living with their parents?

I couldn't.

Well girls get free houses when they pop a kid out.

Really? I didn't. "

Or me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there many girls over 30 living with their parents?

I couldn't.

Well girls get free houses when they pop a kid out.

Really? I didn't.

Or me.... "

Me neither!

And "pop a kid out"???

Charming as fucking ever.

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By *obbie65Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Really? I didn't.

I dont mean all women, just that a lot of women are living in apartments because they were given one for having a kid, and if that didnt happen a lot more 30 year ol women would still be at home.

Something like 40% of apartments in some areas are single unemployed mums in their 30s."

Welfare mothers make better lovers - prize for whoever gets who wrote the song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really? I didn't.

I dont mean all women, just that a lot of women are living in apartments because they were given one for having a kid, and if that didnt happen a lot more 30 year ol women would still be at home.

Something like 40% of apartments in some areas are single unemployed mums in their 30s."

Have you got something to back this up or are you just pulling figures out of your head

unbelievable

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Really? I didn't.

I dont mean all women, just that a lot of women are living in apartments because they were given one for having a kid, and if that didnt happen a lot more 30 year ol women would still be at home.

Something like 40% of apartments in some areas are single unemployed mums in their 30s.

Have you got something to back this up or are you just pulling figures out of your head

unbelievable "

More like pulled out of his arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really? I didn't.

I dont mean all women, just that a lot of women are living in apartments because they were given one for having a kid, and if that didnt happen a lot more 30 year ol women would still be at home.

Something like 40% of apartments in some areas are single unemployed mums in their 30s.

Have you got something to back this up or are you just pulling figures out of your head

unbelievable

More like pulled out of his arse "

I'll definitely agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Different for the likes of me now as a student. My landlords daughter lives here. Can't tell her to get out some night. And also a few nurses live here too!

They are all girls and there's five of them, one of me. News travels fast with them too!

That's part of the reason, but I'm usually always willing to pay for a hotel!

So anyway, tell me more about these five women you live with? Single?.... "

Been with three of them. One is a continuous booty call. I might as well not pay rent and split hers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my own place live alone can totally acc and im single so lucky me lol.

You big bragger!"
I'm also single my own place can accommodate n a good host so I'm bragger no2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see why it's a problem for guy's not to accommodate without it being suspicious, maybe it's also a security thing, maybe they don't feel comfortable bringing someone they just met back to their home, or in my personal case, due to financial and personal reasons I still live with my ex and kid's, we get on great but live our own lives, there can be hundreds of reasons, why not question why single lady's aren't accommodating,i'ed say you'd be politely told to fuck off, or maybe you've too much time on your hands and we're thinking of a great topic that would spark interest,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my own place live alone can totally acc and im single so lucky me lol.

You big bragger! I'm also single my own place can accommodate n a good host so I'm bragger no2 "

"Chosky nowy u chusu."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Jesus bragger central here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with living with mammy "

Nothing Mj...as long as your still on the Bitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with living with mammy

Nothing Mj...as long as your still on the Bitty "

Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you got something to back this up or are you just pulling figures out of your head

unbelievable

More like pulled out of his arse

I'll definitely agree with this "

Yeah, 90,000 women are getting assistance, which is a little under half of all single women with kids. So half are paying their own way.

13,000 single mothers in the tallaght area, and 52,000 in Dublin. Some apartment blocks have up to 40% occupancy from people getting rent allowance.

So if those 90 thousand had to pay their own way, obviously they would be back at home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can..and have accommodated, but have to say its highly unlikely I would again apart from a regular friend...and if you ask why....you better have 'can accommodate ' on your profile..

..now..nosafe..you are either the font of all knowledge....or very very good at poker..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you got something to back this up or are you just pulling figures out of your head

unbelievable

More like pulled out of his arse

I'll definitely agree with this

Yeah, 90,000 women are getting assistance, which is a little under half of all single women with kids. So half are paying their own way.

13,000 single mothers in the tallaght area, and 52,000 in Dublin. Some apartment blocks have up to 40% occupancy from people getting rent allowance.

So if those 90 thousand had to pay their own way, obviously they would be back at home?"

So on what website is this on or what statistics site? Just so I can read it for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..now..nosafe..you are either the font of all knowledge....or very very good at poker.. "

There are libraries full of books, full of knowledge that I don't have a clue about.

It can just seem like I know more than I do because I keep quiet when Im not sure whats going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So on what website is this on or what statistics site? Just so I can read it for myself "

It's on onefamily.ie they will have all the facts and figures, and tell you how many single parent families there are in the area etc, along with other good resources.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us, or are we being unfair, by saying that the majority of these "single guys" who can't accommodate are married/attached?

Have we just been really unlucky so far?

When I was single, and my mates, we could always accommodate. We just said to our flat/house mates. "Need the place free Saturday night"

Ye are probably right, I am one of those

Are we being naive?

"

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By *irty MurtyMan
over a year ago

my place


"What's wrong with living with mammy

Nothing Mj...as long as your still on the Bitty "

Sch thought that was our special thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can..and have accommodated, but have to say its highly unlikely I would again apart from a regular friend...and if you ask why....you better have 'can accommodate ' on your profile..

..now..nosafe..you are either the font of all knowledge....or very very good at poker.. "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So on what website is this on or what statistics site? Just so I can read it for myself

It's on onefamily.ie they will have all the facts and figures, and tell you how many single parent families there are in the area etc, along with other good resources."

Thanks

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"

So if those 90 thousand had to pay their own way, obviously they would be back at home?"
not necessarily. That's a big assumption to make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with living with mammy

Nothing Mj...as long as your still on the Bitty

Sch thought that was our special thing "

Ahhhhhh....Comeere you hungry

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By *irty MurtyMan
over a year ago

my place


"What's wrong with living with mammy

Nothing Mj...as long as your still on the Bitty

Sch thought that was our special thing

Ahhhhhh....Comeere you hungry "

nom nom nom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naive plus what is it with people on here making judgements about people who are here without their partners permission.. It a sex site, have sex drive on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha... oh dear...

Poor us, single guys, we just cannot please everybody within the lifestyle, don't we? Whatever we say or do, may and will be held against us. Different thing for single ladies and couples. They are always OK thankfully...

I have an impression that as a starter, we are being seen as fucking cheaters that for sure have a girl and that poor thing (surely, she's the sweetest lady ever) has no idea that we (fecking bastards) cheat on her... Oh dear God... I think, you lovely ladies and couples owe it to the world to find her out and let her know what I am doing here. Just do me a favour please, once you find her, please let me know who she is, as I have been looking for her for a while now and would be happy to finally meet her. lol

I mind not to accommodate a single lady, however I will very, very rarely accommodate couples, as I haven't told my housemates about my sexual life. I have absolutely no intention to kick them out for several hours, as I have a meet, as this would be rude in my opinion towards the people I share with. Maybe the OP is referring to his studying days and yes, I would imagine all bros to be delighted for one of them to get laid, so they would happily go to a pub for one pint and return home after. However, if you work life gets a little more complicated and it is not OK to expect housemates to plan their lives around mine.

What am I saying, sure thing I have a girlfriend, wife and a mistress too, we all live together with my 8 kids, so the real reason why I do not accommodate is that they cannot find out that I have sex outside of our foursome, as this would surely end our amazing arrangement. hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Naive plus what is it with people on here making judgements about people who are here without their partners permission.. It a sex site, have sex drive on

"

Excuse me, I never made a judgement. I asked a question. We couldn't care less if you are with someone or not. I refer to my earlier stance, as long as everyone knows where they stand. Don't jump on your high horse without fully reading what I said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"haha... oh dear...

Poor us, single guys, we just cannot please everybody within the lifestyle, don't we? Whatever we say or do, may and will be held against us. Different thing for single ladies and couples. They are always OK thankfully...

I have an impression that as a starter, we are being seen as fucking cheaters that for sure have a girl and that poor thing (surely, she's the sweetest lady ever) has no idea that we (fecking bastards) cheat on her... Oh dear God... I think, you lovely ladies and couples owe it to the world to find her out and let her know what I am doing here. Just do me a favour please, once you find her, please let me know who she is, as I have been looking for her for a while now and would be happy to finally meet her. lol

I mind not to accommodate a single lady, however I will very, very rarely accommodate couples, as I haven't told my housemates about my sexual life. I have absolutely no intention to kick them out for several hours, as I have a meet, as this would be rude in my opinion towards the people I share with. Maybe the OP is referring to his studying days and yes, I would imagine all bros to be delighted for one of them to get laid, so they would happily go to a pub for one pint and return home after. However, if you work life gets a little more complicated and it is not OK to expect housemates to plan their lives around mine.

What am I saying, sure thing I have a girlfriend, wife and a mistress too, we all live together with my 8 kids, so the real reason why I do not accommodate is that they cannot find out that I have sex outside of our foursome, as this would surely end our amazing arrangement. hahaha

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Please read what I said, and not comment on what you seen.

Again I did not say all nor newbies for starters.

I stated the reason I did not mention single girls. (Read the full thread)

If we want to accommodate we have to jump through hoops to get our house free.

Our choice I know.

It is also your choice to not go to the hassle to organise a free house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Please read what I said, and not comment on what you seen.

Again I did not say all nor newbies for starters.

I stated the reason I did not mention single girls. (Read the full thread)

If we want to accommodate we have to jump through hoops to get our house free.

Our choice I know.

It is also your choice to not go to the hassle to organise a free house."

Cool. My comment is more general and related to how single guys are treated and seen within the lifestyle by many. In this country, people just cannot refrain from writing more chapters to the story they have been told. That is what annoys me tbh. Throwing all to one bag and making too far going generalisation. It happens a lot in here... and not only within the lifestyle. I'd say, people would benefit from relaxing a bit and just enjoying the ride... haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys are single dads

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

This is a rather bizarre thread. If I fancy a guy and he cannot accommodate, there are other ways to meet. I would never take for granted that anyone could/should have to accommodate at his/her/their own place.

As we all have our own reasons for being on here, there are different reasons for not being able to accommodate.

Also who has never lied on this site or his/her profile, let him/her cast the first stone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a rather bizarre thread. If I fancy a guy and he cannot accommodate, there are other ways to meet. I would never take for granted that anyone could/should have to accommodate at his/her/their own place.

As we all have our own reasons for being on here, there are different reasons for not being able to accommodate.

Also who has never lied on this site or his/her profile, let him/her cast the first stone. "

Again another not reading the thread and only commenting on what you think you saw.

Never once was it stated that it was "taken for granted"

A question was asked, not a fact stated.

Of course we all have our reasons.

I state again, once everyone knows where they stand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some guys are single dads"

Some couples have kids. What's the difference?

Just asking not being rude with you, just unsure of your point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Please read what I said, and not comment on what you seen.

Again I did not say all nor newbies for starters.

I stated the reason I did not mention single girls. (Read the full thread)

If we want to accommodate we have to jump through hoops to get our house free.

Our choice I know.

It is also your choice to not go to the hassle to organise a free house.

Cool. My comment is more general and related to how single guys are treated and seen within the lifestyle by many. In this country, people just cannot refrain from writing more chapters to the story they have been told. That is what annoys me tbh. Throwing all to one bag and making too far going generalisation. It happens a lot in here... and not only within the lifestyle. I'd say, people would benefit from relaxing a bit and just enjoying the ride... haha"

"enjoying the ride"

No pun intended

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Are there many girls over 30 living with their parents?

I couldn't.

Well girls get free houses when they pop a kid out.

Really? I didn't. "

Oh Wilder, don't say stuff like that,, popping a kid out usually means more hardship on families or the new mother of the child declaring herself homeless and must live in a hostel for several months before being considered for housing,, unfair world but that's the way it rolls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there many girls over 30 living with their parents?

I couldn't.

Well girls get free houses when they pop a kid out.

Really? I didn't.

Oh Wilder, don't say stuff like that,, popping a kid out usually means more hardship on families or the new mother of the child declaring herself homeless and must live in a hostel for several months before being considered for housing,, unfair world but that's the way it rolls "

*whispers

It wasn't Wilder.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Are there many girls over 30 living with their parents?

I couldn't.

Well girls get free houses when they pop a kid out.

Really? I didn't.

Oh Wilder, don't say stuff like that,, popping a kid out usually means more hardship on families or the new mother of the child declaring herself homeless and must live in a hostel for several months before being considered for housing,, unfair world but that's the way it rolls

*whispers

It wasn't Wilder."

Poor _ilder and he only looking to find the household of five girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doors are always open at Casa Del Foo!! "
lol b&b

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my own place for years, but due to work and the house I was in being done up I had to move. Unfortunately the rental market now a days is a mess.

Ex housing ex houses going for £450 a month when just fine the road a much larger house going for £500 and in a nice area. I wanted a nice place but meant taking on a lodger. Can't just tell someone to get out for the night it's there peace too.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Are there many girls over 30 living with their parents?

I couldn't.

Well girls get free houses when they pop a kid out.

Really? I didn'

Oh Wilder, don't say stuff like that,, popping a kid out usually means more hardship on families or the new mother of the child declaring herself homeless and must live in a hostel for several months before being considered for housing,, unfair world but that's the way it rolls

*whispers

It wasn't Wilder.

Poor _ilder and he only looking to find the household of five girls "

Shit I'll have to grovel now to apologise!!!!.... Yummmm

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Are there many girls over 30 living with their parents?

I couldn't.

Well girls get free houses when they pop a kid out.

Really? I didn'

Oh Wilder, don't say stuff like that,, popping a kid out usually means more hardship on families or the new mother of the child declaring herself homeless and must live in a hostel for several months before being considered for housing,, unfair world but that's the way it rolls

*whispers

It wasn't Wilder.

Poor _ilder and he only looking to find the household of five girls

Shit I'll have to grovel now to apologise!!!!.... Yummmm "

Nosafewordneeded,, you need your ass slapped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure if a person was out of work and struggling to make ends meet and the option to move back home with a parent/s was there they would take IT not a bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married like most men on this site but I do have my own place during the week and free for meets

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

armagh

im single and can accom anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's circumstances are different when I was a single male I couldn't accommodate due to personal reasons. The same applies to others just because you can't accomadate does not nessesarily mean you are married some it's a personal choice some don't want to because of privacy etc. while I am sure a lot of single guys are actually not it's unfair to brand everyone the same.

Liam

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

armagh


"Everyone's circumstances are different when I was a single male I couldn't accommodate due to personal reasons. The same applies to others just because you can't accomadate does not nessesarily mean you are married some it's a personal choice some don't want to because of privacy etc. while I am sure a lot of single guys are actually not it's unfair to brand everyone the same.

Liam"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone's circumstances are different when I was a single male I couldn't accommodate due to personal reasons. The same applies to others just because you can't accomadate does not nessesarily mean you are married some it's a personal choice some don't want to because of privacy etc. while I am sure a lot of single guys are actually not it's unfair to brand everyone the same.

Liam"

Where was it in the thread that everyone was branded the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone's circumstances are different when I was a single male I couldn't accommodate due to personal reasons. The same applies to others just because you can't accomadate does not nessesarily mean you are married some it's a personal choice some don't want to because of privacy etc. while I am sure a lot of single guys are actually not it's unfair to brand everyone the same.

Liam

Where was it in the thread that everyone was branded the same?

"

Nowhere that we can see.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll I allways read people's profiles n if they don't want certain people I won't contact them . I'm married n I don't hide d fact ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone's circumstances are different when I was a single male I couldn't accommodate due to personal reasons. The same applies to others just because you can't accomadate does not nessesarily mean you are married some it's a personal choice some don't want to because of privacy etc. while I am sure a lot of single guys are actually not it's unfair to brand everyone the same.

Liam

Where was it in the thread that everyone was branded the same?

Nowhere that we can see."

I didn't say that everyone was branded the same just that it's unfair to do so.

Liam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I want to know is what people who have 'can't accommodate' and 'can't travel' on their profiles do???!!

Do they want to be collected and brought to a hotel or fucked against the neighbours fence?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I want to know is what people who have 'can't accommodate' and 'can't travel' on their profiles do???!!

Do they want to be collected and brought to a hotel or fucked against the neighbours fence?! "

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I want to know is what people who have 'can't accommodate' and 'can't travel' on their profiles do???!!

Do they want to be collected and brought to a hotel or fucked against the neighbours fence?!

Yes please "

I'm afraid you don't qualify Tiny. You can have the fence option or you'll have to meet me at the hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I want to know is what people who have 'can't accommodate' and 'can't travel' on their profiles do???!!

Do they want to be collected and brought to a hotel or fucked against the neighbours fence?!

Yes please

I'm afraid you don't qualify Tiny. You can have the fence option or you'll have to meet me at the hotel. "

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us, or are we being unfair, by saying that the majority of these "single guys" who can't accommodate are married/attached?

Have we just been really unlucky so far?

When I was single, and my mates, we could always accommodate. We just said to our flat/house mates. "Need the place free Saturday night"

Are we being naive?

"

Yes, you are being naive:

-have no desire to kick my flatmate out of his own home as he wouldnt do it to me

-i may not want my meet hanging around longer than i want and would feel bad asking her to leave

-dont normally want to soil my own sheets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What I want to know is what people who have 'can't accommodate' and 'can't travel' on their profiles do???!!

Do they want to be collected and brought to a hotel or fucked against the neighbours fence?! "

Lol I would like to think they filled their profile out wrong, but maybe not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'll I allways read people's profiles n if they don't want certain people I won't contact them . I'm married n I don't hide d fact ok "

It's good you don't hide it, but it doesn't say that anywhere in your profile, do you just tell people on contact?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just us, or are we being unfair, by saying that the majority of these "single guys" who can't accommodate are married/attached?

Have we just been really unlucky so far?

When I was single, and my mates, we could always accommodate. We just said to our flat/house mates. "Need the place free Saturday night"

Are we being naive?

Yes, you are being naive:

-have no desire to kick my flatmate out of his own home as he wouldnt do it to me

-i may not want my meet hanging around longer than i want and would feel bad asking her to leave

-dont normally want to soil my own sheets"

That's fair enough, and perfectly acceptable.

It wouldn't encourage us to let you play with Mrs K, but you might not want to either way.

We are willing to go the extra mile to organise a meet. Ask our eldest to stay in a mates and organise our youngest to have a sleep over.

Fully respect your stance.

But you obviously let people know your stance early on and that is fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doors are always open at Casa Del Foo!! "

What about the curtains!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doors are always open at Casa Del Foo!!

What about the curtains!! "

They were sealed when you came by!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doors are always open at Casa Del Foo!!

What about the curtains!!

They were sealed when you came by! "

Unlike my lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us, or are we being unfair, by saying that the majority of these "single guys" who can't accommodate are married/attached?

Have we just been really unlucky so far?

When I was single, and my mates, we could always accommodate. We just said to our flat/house mates. "Need the place free Saturday night"

Are we being naive?

Yes, you are being naive:

-have no desire to kick my flatmate out of his own home as he wouldnt do it to me

-i may not want my meet hanging around longer than i want and would feel bad asking her to leave

-dont normally want to soil my own sheets

That's fair enough, and perfectly acceptable.

It wouldn't encourage us to let you play with Mrs K, but you might not want to either way.

We are willing to go the extra mile to organise a meet. Ask our eldest to stay in a mates and organise our youngest to have a sleep over.

Fully respect your stance.

But you obviously let people know your stance early on and that is fair enough. "

Indeed i do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just us, or are we being unfair, by saying that the majority of these "single guys" who can't accommodate are married/attached?

Have we just been really unlucky so far?

When I was single, and my mates, we could always accommodate. We just said to our flat/house mates. "Need the place free Saturday night"

Are we being naive?

Yes, you are being naive:

-have no desire to kick my flatmate out of his own home as he wouldnt do it to me

-i may not want my meet hanging around longer than i want and would feel bad asking her to leave

-dont normally want to soil my own sheets

That's fair enough, and perfectly acceptable.

It wouldn't encourage us to let you play with Mrs K, but you might not want to either way.

We are willing to go the extra mile to organise a meet. Ask our eldest to stay in a mates and organise our youngest to have a sleep over.

Fully respect your stance.

But you obviously let people know your stance early on and that is fair enough.

Indeed i do"

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By *ayoman36Man
over a year ago

Castlebar

Single and can accom...If any single or couple would like to hook up in Mayo.

Only exceptions to this are the times I have my child staying over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doors are always open at Casa Del Foo!!

What about the curtains!!

They were sealed when you came by!

Unlike my lips "

Mmmmmm I still have wet dreams!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wat about the single father whos kids and young sister live with him ... i can5 ever accom neither ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bring people in my house at all especially on first meet and i am not married or attached.

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By *izzybroadWoman
over a year ago

A very private place


"Is it just us, or are we being unfair, by saying that the majority of these "single guys" who can't accommodate are married/attached?

Have we just been really unlucky so far?

When I was single, and my mates, we could always accommodate. We just said to our flat/house mates. "Need the place free Saturday night"

Are we being naive?

"

I think you just need to respect that not all people want to accommodate even if they can, wether they are single or not it's their choice so leave it at that!

Personally Id be more offended if someone would expect me to meet them at their home whilst their partner/ spouse wasn't there, irrelevant of wether they know or not that they are on a site such as this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naive plus what is it with people on here making judgements about people who are here without their partners permission.. It a sex site, have sex drive on

Excuse me, I never made a judgement. I asked a question. We couldn't care less if you are with someone or not. I refer to my earlier stance, as long as everyone knows where they stand. Don't jump on your high horse without fully reading what I said."

I said people, the naive part was my response to your question.

There's a lot of profile that pass remarks on people in relationships. Whether the partner knows or doesn't it's still cheating in a consensual sense.

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