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By *he Vans OP   Couple
over a year ago

mullingar

Why oh why is the forum being used for people to have go at each other ???? Ireland one in particular! It's amazing to think when we joined this site it was to meet like minded people who are here to have fun make likeminded friends ! I use the word likeminded in the context of people with minds like ours ! Who think life is for living and that the living is just so short ! We get mails messaging us ! We are not rude to them ! We just simply say no thanks ! We get chancers and we simply just pass them by !

We have some lovely people from here who we would never have had the pleasure of meeting if it wasn't for this site . Life is good ! Look at what you are fortunate to have in your real life and remember this site is for all of us to enjoy friendly banter , sexualy open discussions of what our likes and dislikes are ! And to help newbies on their way to start where we all started at some stage .

I (Mrv) am not usually one for doing a post on here but I am a frequent reader of the forums so I hope that this post that I am posting here now will in some way bring some positivity to the people of our friendly swing site . Thanks for taking the time to read this . Mr V .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a nice sentiment but the bitchiness will never end on fab, people enjoy it too much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why oh why is the forum being used for people to have go at each other ???? Ireland one in particular! It's amazing to think when we joined this site it was to meet like minded people who are here to have fun make likeminded friends ! I use the word likeminded in the context of people with minds like ours ! Who think life is for living and that the living is just so short ! We get mails messaging us ! We are not rude to them ! We just simply say no thanks ! We get chancers and we simply just pass them by !

We have some lovely people from here who we would never have had the pleasure of meeting if it wasn't for this site . Life is good ! Look at what you are fortunate to have in your real life and remember this site is for all of us to enjoy friendly banter , sexualy open discussions of what our likes and dislikes are ! And to help newbies on their way to start where we all started at some stage .

I (Mrv) am not usually one for doing a post on here but I am a frequent reader of the forums so I hope that this post that I am posting here now will in some way bring some positivity to the people of our friendly swing site . Thanks for taking the time to read this . Mr V . "

I don't understand this either there's no need for it we're all adults here

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Why oh why is the forum being used for people to have go at each other ???? Ireland one in particular! It's amazing to think when we joined this site it was to meet like minded people who are here to have fun make likeminded friends ! I use the word likeminded in the context of people with minds like ours ! Who think life is for living and that the living is just so short ! We get mails messaging us ! We are not rude to them ! We just simply say no thanks ! We get chancers and we simply just pass them by !

We have some lovely people from here who we would never have had the pleasure of meeting if it wasn't for this site . Life is good ! Look at what you are fortunate to have in your real life and remember this site is for all of us to enjoy friendly banter , sexualy open discussions of what our likes and dislikes are ! And to help newbies on their way to start where we all started at some stage .

I (Mrv) am not usually one for doing a post on here but I am a frequent reader of the forums so I hope that this post that I am posting here now will in some way bring some positivity to the people of our friendly swing site . Thanks for taking the time to read this . Mr V . "

Unfortunately personalitys will clash some times we just have to be a bigger person build a bridge and get over it or hit the block button

Pass the duchy to the left hand side

Feck where's me UB40 cassette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you saying big nose?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"What you saying big nose? "

Feck aff big ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vans would love it!cj thats a musical youth song!grey and sweet you know what they say about big noses...big glasses!lol

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin


"What you saying big nose? "
who are you calling big nose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you saying big nose? who are you calling big nose"

Well not you,specky

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Vans would love it!cj thats a musical youth song!grey and sweet you know what they say about big noses...big glasses!lol"

Google it again I think ull find UB40 done the original

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By *he Vans OP   Couple
over a year ago

mullingar

Yeh I agree that bitchiness goes on and who doesn't like a bit of banter but ffs who are we to point the finger at somebody on the dole ! Or if they are on the dole ! There is other discussion sites for that ! And belive me I love a good debate , but on this site let it be about who has the biggest dick or tits and not so much on who is the biggest dick lol ! Or what makes a woman bi ! And likes and dislikes ! For one I'm not ashamed to admit I've learnt some stuff on here and yes it has added to our sex life ! And hope to keep learning a whole lot more even just to keep that big grin on Mrs v's face ! Lol

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By *he Vans OP   Couple
over a year ago

mullingar

Musical youth done past the dutchie lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol ok cj!grey and sweet just spent the last few minutes trying to remember which film the big nose quote came from!got it life of brian!lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Musical youth done past the dutchie lol "

It was before my time but even I know it was musical youth

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Yeh I agree that bitchiness goes on and who doesn't like a bit of banter but ffs who are we to point the finger at somebody on the dole ! Or if they are on the dole ! There is other discussion sites for that ! And belive me I love a good debate , but on this site let it be about who has the biggest dick or tits and not so much on who is the biggest dick lol ! Or what makes a woman bi ! And likes and dislikes ! For one I'm not ashamed to admit I've learnt some stuff on here and yes it has added to our sex life ! And hope to keep learning a whole lot more even just to keep that big grin on Mrs v's face ! Lol "

My cock is bigger than urs

There in lies the problem one asks who has the best another asks why has there to be a best. There have being some great threads but alas silly comments from one about another and there is fireworks.

Just a thought because we are such a small coumunity people get to know about each other a lot more than in the UK fourm hence if there is a fall out its a biggie where as in UK its easier move on to greener pastures

Having said that tolerance is a great thing

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Musical youth done past the dutchie lol

It was before my time but even I know it was musical youth"

OK OK so I know feck all about music

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Musical youth done past the dutchie lol

It was before my time but even I know it was musical youth

OK OK so I know feck all about music "

It's ok cj I'm sure you know other stuff

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Musical youth done past the dutchie lol

It was before my time but even I know it was musical youth

OK OK so I know feck all about music "

Still listening to my UB40 cassette ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Musical Youth ripped it off a band called Mighty Diamonds, changed some words & claimed it as their own work. "Pass the Kouchie" was it's original title.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's Musical Youth...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Who's Musical Youth... "

Kids these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's Musical Youth... "

80s British reggae band

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Musical Youth ripped it off a band called Mighty Diamonds, changed some words & claimed it as their own work. "Pass the Kouchie" was it's original title."

All hail candy musical guro

Ha see I wasn't totally wrong

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Fair play vans, fair play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say i totally agree vans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's Musical Youth...

80s British reggae band"

Never heard of them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Musical youth done past the dutchie lol "
was that in the swing era way past my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Musical Youth ripped it off a band called Mighty Diamonds, changed some words & claimed it as their own work. "Pass the Kouchie" was it's original title."

It's actually a mix of both pass the kouchie and gimme the music by u Brown there's nothing original in the song

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By *he Vans OP   Couple
over a year ago

mullingar


"Fair play vans, fair play. "

Cheers !

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Who's Musical Youth...

80s British reggae band

Never heard of them... "

I'll loan u my casset tape of them they will have u bopping around the stable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's Musical Youth...

80s British reggae band

Never heard of them... "

They weren't huge, only known for the one song was used in a couple of movies, sampled in a few songs from public enemys revolutionary generation to black eyed peas dum diddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's Musical Youth...

80s British reggae band

Never heard of them...

I'll loan u my casset tape of them they will have u bopping around the stable "

Ha ha I doubt that, I think I'll stick to my Ministry of Sound..

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Who's Musical Youth...

80s British reggae band

Never heard of them...

I'll loan u my casset tape of them they will have u bopping around the stable

Ha ha I doubt that, I think I'll stick to my Ministry of Sound.."

Do we have a dept of sound who's the minister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's Musical Youth...

80s British reggae band

Never heard of them...

I'll loan u my casset tape of them they will have u bopping around the stable

Ha ha I doubt that, I think I'll stick to my Ministry of Sound..

Do we have a dept of sound who's the minister "

Its an 3 cd compilation album of dance songs.... Pretty good I must say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's Musical Youth...

80s British reggae band

Never heard of them...

I'll loan u my casset tape of them they will have u bopping around the stable

Ha ha I doubt that, I think I'll stick to my Ministry of Sound..

Do we have a dept of sound who's the minister

Its an 3 cd compilation album of dance songs.... Pretty good I must say... "

Which one? This years

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Sorry Mr v for starting up the music back to the op now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's Musical Youth...

80s British reggae band

Never heard of them...

I'll loan u my casset tape of them they will have u bopping around the stable

Ha ha I doubt that, I think I'll stick to my Ministry of Sound..

Do we have a dept of sound who's the minister

Its an 3 cd compilation album of dance songs.... Pretty good I must say...

Which one? This years "

no its 2012s, this years Looks good tho...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Musical Youth ripped it off a band called Mighty Diamonds, changed some words & claimed it as their own work. "Pass the Kouchie" was it's original title.

All hail candy musical guro

Ha see I wasn't totally wrong "

Red, red wine was my UB40 song CJ. Which was a cover too I later found out. Remember that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Musical Youth ripped it off a band called Mighty Diamonds, changed some words & claimed it as their own work. "Pass the Kouchie" was it's original title.

All hail candy musical guro

Ha see I wasn't totally wrong

Red, red wine was my UB40 song CJ. Which was a cover too I later found out. Remember that?"

Neil diamond is the original artist isn't he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Musical Youth ripped it off a band called Mighty Diamonds, changed some words & claimed it as their own work. "Pass the Kouchie" was it's original title.

All hail candy musical guro

Ha see I wasn't totally wrong

Red, red wine was my UB40 song CJ. Which was a cover too I later found out. Remember that?"

Mine also , loved them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why oh why is the forum being used for people to have go at each other ???? Ireland one in particular! It's amazing to think when we joined this site it was to meet like minded people who are here to have fun make likeminded friends ! I use the word likeminded in the context of people with minds like ours ! Who think life is for living and that the living is just so short ! We get mails messaging us ! We are not rude to them ! We just simply say no thanks ! We get chancers and we simply just pass them by !

We have some lovely people from here who we would never have had the pleasure of meeting if it wasn't for this site . Life is good ! Look at what you are fortunate to have in your real life and remember this site is for all of us to enjoy friendly banter , sexualy open discussions of what our likes and dislikes are ! And to help newbies on their way to start where we all started at some stage .

I (Mrv) am not usually one for doing a post on here but I am a frequent reader of the forums so I hope that this post that I am posting here now will in some way bring some positivity to the people of our friendly swing site . Thanks for taking the time to read this . Mr V . "

I'm not quite sure what this means(it's a bit vague) but it sounds as though you're complaining about what other people talk about, can't you just "pass them by"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer your question. People are not nice and they are bad at picking sexual partners = drama unfolds.

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By *he Vans OP   Couple
over a year ago

mullingar


"Sorry Mr v for starting up the music back to the op now"

No problem at least nobody is slating anybody on this post lol even if it is far from what it started out about lol !

My next post will be about post highjacking ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry Mr v for starting up the music back to the op now

No problem at least nobody is slating anybody on this post lol even if it is far from what it started out about lol !

My next post will be about post highjacking ffs "

Apologies

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"To answer your question. People are not nice and they are bad at picking sexual partners = drama unfolds."

that is so true. but drama can start anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry Mr v for starting up the music back to the op now"

We need to start a music thread

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Did someone say there's a kouchie being passed around? Someone must be hogging it,im still waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did someone say there's a kouchie being passed around? Someone must be hogging it,im still waiting"

Ahem! Cough! Cough! Cough! Here. I meant Dutchie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did someone say there's a kouchie being passed around? Someone must be hogging it,im still waiting"

Sorry was making some edibles

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By *he Vans OP   Couple
over a year ago

mullingar


"Why oh why is the forum being used for people to have go at each other ???? Ireland one in particular! It's amazing to think when we joined this site it was to meet like minded people who are here to have fun make likeminded friends ! I use the word likeminded in the context of people with minds like ours ! Who think life is for living and that the living is just so short ! We get mails messaging us ! We are not rude to them ! We just simply say no thanks ! We get chancers and we simply just pass them by !

We have some lovely people from here who we would never have had the pleasure of meeting if it wasn't for this site . Life is good ! Look at what you are fortunate to have in your real life and remember this site is for all of us to enjoy friendly banter , sexualy open discussions of what our likes and dislikes are ! And to help newbies on their way to start where we all started at some stage .

I (Mrv) am not usually one for doing a post on here but I am a frequent reader of the forums so I hope that this post that I am posting here now will in some way bring some positivity to the people of our friendly swing site . Thanks for taking the time to read this . Mr V .

I'm not quite sure what this means(it's a bit vague) but it sounds as though you're complaining about what other people talk about, can't you just "pass them by"?"

In no way am I complaining about what people are talking about I'm simply asking why are the forums used for in such a way that slates people for personal reasons ! Does it not take away from what this site is for ?????

And yes I do simply pass it by !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive got rejected i dont know how many times on here, but it never made me even think of sending an angry message or posting in the forum about them. I just take the no and move on. the site is for people to find people they like and enjoy each other. cannot blame someone for been picky when it comes to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm not quite sure what this means(it's a bit vague) but it sounds as though you're complaining about what other people talk about, can't you just "pass them by"?

In no way am I complaining about what people are talking about I'm simply asking why are the forums used for in such a way that slates people for personal reasons ! Does it not take away from what this site is for ?????

And yes I do simply pass it by ! "

Oh OK,I getcha now.

I don't know but that's why everyone jumped on him, because what he said was wrong, which is a good thing isn't it?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"

I'm not quite sure what this means(it's a bit vague) but it sounds as though you're complaining about what other people talk about, can't you just "pass them by"?

In no way am I complaining about what people are talking about I'm simply asking why are the forums used for in such a way that slates people for personal reasons ! Does it not take away from what this site is for ?????

And yes I do simply pass it by !

Oh OK,I getcha now.

I don't know but that's why everyone jumped on him, because what he said was wrong, which is a good thing isn't it?

"

In that instance yes I think its warranted but u and I know there other times and its just childish behaviour

But who are we to complain we use the site as we wish and take from it what we wish try and avoid the dramas and enjoy the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm not quite sure what this means(it's a bit vague) but it sounds as though you're complaining about what other people talk about, can't you just "pass them by"?

In no way am I complaining about what people are talking about I'm simply asking why are the forums used for in such a way that slates people for personal reasons ! Does it not take away from what this site is for ?????

And yes I do simply pass it by !

Oh OK,I getcha now.

I don't know but that's why everyone jumped on him, because what he said was wrong, which is a good thing isn't it?

In that instance yes I think its warranted but u and I know there other times and its just childish behaviour

But who are we to complain we use the site as we wish and take from it what we wish try and avoid the dramas and enjoy the fun "

Exactly CJ.

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By *he Vans OP   Couple
over a year ago

mullingar


"

I'm not quite sure what this means(it's a bit vague) but it sounds as though you're complaining about what other people talk about, can't you just "pass them by"?

In no way am I complaining about what people are talking about I'm simply asking why are the forums used for in such a way that slates people for personal reasons ! Does it not take away from what this site is for ?????

And yes I do simply pass it by !

Oh OK,I getcha now.

I don't know but that's why everyone jumped on him, because what he said was wrong, which is a good thing isn't it?

"

I totaly agree with you ! And that's what I meant ! Why bring something personal into it ! I thought it was a horrible thing to say ! That's what made me post what I did ! Altho I have seen it in other threads aswell !

But hey as was pointed out we are all consenting adults ! Lol !

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By *s. AppletreeWoman
over a year ago

curtain twitching sleepy village


"

I'm not quite sure what this means(it's a bit vague) but it sounds as though you're complaining about what other people talk about, can't you just "pass them by"?

In no way am I complaining about what people are talking about I'm simply asking why are the forums used for in such a way that slates people for personal reasons ! Does it not take away from what this site is for ?????

And yes I do simply pass it by !

Oh OK,I getcha now.

I don't know but that's why everyone jumped on him, because what he said was wrong, which is a good thing isn't it?

I totaly agree with you ! And that's what I meant ! Why bring something personal into it ! I thought it was a horrible thing to say ! That's what made me post what I did ! Altho I have seen it in other threads aswell !

But hey as was pointed out we are all consenting adults ! Lol ! "

Wow I should really read the forums more .....totally lost ....but perhaps that's a good thing in fairness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always someone lurking over the threads to have a go at someone and wait for the sheep to follow suit, seems to be the norm in the Ireland forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's always someone lurking over the threads to have a go at someone and wait for the sheep to follow suit, seems to be the norm in the Ireland forums."

Careful Now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's always someone lurking over the threads to have a go at someone and wait for the sheep to follow suit, seems to be the norm in the Ireland forums."

Yup...kinda stopped coming in because of it....if your not happy then you should go get a life is what I think!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good ole barney...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a good ole barney... "
haha , they make for some reading, the ones that crack me up though are the people who complain about the nastiness when they are the biggest culprits! Not including the OP btw, but it's truly amazing how blind some can be to others behaviour, noone likes a passive aggressive.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Bastards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said mr v.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Why oh why is the forum being used for people to have go at each other ???? Ireland one in particular! It's amazing to think when we joined this site it was to meet like minded people who are here to have fun make likeminded friends ! I use the word likeminded in the context of people with minds like ours ! Who think life is for living and that the living is just so short ! We get mails messaging us ! We are not rude to them ! We just simply say no thanks ! We get chancers and we simply just pass them by !

We have some lovely people from here who we would never have had the pleasure of meeting if it wasn't for this site . Life is good ! Look at what you are fortunate to have in your real life and remember this site is for all of us to enjoy friendly banter , sexualy open discussions of what our likes and dislikes are ! And to help newbies on their way to start where we all started at some stage .

I (Mrv) am not usually one for doing a post on here but I am a frequent reader of the forums so I hope that this post that I am posting here now will in some way bring some positivity to the people of our friendly swing site . Thanks for taking the time to read this . Mr V . "

Great post. Well said

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