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"going to meet and greets won't do you any harm but they're not a necessity It's good to get out and about to meet people but I wouldn't say its makes or breaks your success on here " I'd agree, though they do help and are a good way of meeting people, having one on one's or with couples is a good way also | |||
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"going to meet and greets won't do you any harm but they're not a necessity It's good to get out and about to meet people but I wouldn't say its makes or breaks your success on here " i will go to one but I'd imagine I will pick one in dub or cork where your guarenteed crowd | |||
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"going to meet and greets won't do you any harm but they're not a necessity It's good to get out and about to meet people but I wouldn't say its makes or breaks your success on here i will go to one but I'd imagine I will pick one in dub or cork where your guarenteed crowd " Limerick can be a good bet too or Galway | |||
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"Go to them all sure, why not!!! lol!  "have to test the waters! See are they my cup of tea | |||
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"you would be viewed with more credibility if you did go." So not true. Plenty of people use this site successfully and have 'credibility' without ever going to a social | |||
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"you would be viewed with more credibility if you did go." I don't think it would make you more credible,maybe more known tho | |||
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"Bad choice of words, maybe he would be taken a tad more seriously then?" Well he wouldn't be ignored at a party anyway I'd imagine being a single male on here that a lot of sent messages go unanswered but at a party you're face to face. The good old fashioned way | |||
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"Couldn't get an invite to a m&g until I had a few meets anyway, so my opinion would be no. However it can't hurt" and I'd imagine for single males it's even harder | |||
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"Yes attending a meet and greet or even the simpler socials gets you noticed by others face to face which can't be a bad thing . It's also a great night out , ask anybody that attended limerick or Galway socials recently
Thanks CASPER !!!"
I was so stupid I never came see forum and so never knew about socials..until kind man invited me. And now I had a lot fun since and met great people and made some fab friends. and wont stop just for socials 
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"Go to them all sure, why not!!! lol! have to test the waters! See are they my cup of tea "They are just a social night out. A drink, a chat, dance if you like and putting faces to names. Just warning you that the names can cause some confusion and giggles! She:" Hello I'm 'pussylovescock' who are you?" He: "I'm ' cocklovespussy' lol" | |||
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"Go to them all sure, why not!!! lol! have to test the waters! See are they my cup of tea They are just a social night out. A drink, a chat, dance if you like and putting faces to names. Just warning you that the names can cause some confusion and giggles! She:" Hello I'm 'pussylovescock' who are you?" He: "I'm ' cocklovespussy' lol" "i can just walk in grab a Mike and say pussy patrol has entered let the party commence or a might wear a t shirt with pussy patrol on it | |||
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"Go to them all sure, why not!!! lol! have to test the waters! See are they my cup of tea They are just a social night out. A drink, a chat, dance if you like and putting faces to names. Just warning you that the names can cause some confusion and giggles! She:" Hello I'm 'pussylovescock' who are you?" He: "I'm ' cocklovespussy' lol" i can just walk in grab a Mike and say pussy patrol has entered let the party commence or a might wear a t shirt with pussy patrol on it "mic | |||
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"Helps too if your not an arrogant pr**k." most women don't like it! I have met some who love it! They thrive on it! They want to hate but they cAnt | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree?" Well that's what I'm hoping attending my first social soon | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree? Well that's what I'm hoping attending my first social soon" looking forward to meeting you limerick lad! | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree? Well that's what I'm hoping attending my first social soon looking forward to meeting you limerick lad! "Same Roxie can't wait have a few people to say hello to and a few drinks to buy  | |||
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"I'm not big on meets & greets. Been to a few. Mostly pompous women looking down on the single lads. Single lads filling ladies with all sorts of dribble to get them into the sack. People having too much to drink and making a show of themselves. Most of the couples are nice though. I prefer the private parties, less arrogance there and more fun. I do ok with the private emails and one on one meets. Each to their own I suppose. " jasssssus what kinda meet and greets do you be at?????   | |||
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"I'm not big on meets & greets. Been to a few. Mostly pompous women looking down on the single lads. Single lads filling ladies with all sorts of dribble to get them into the sack. People having too much to drink and making a show of themselves. Most of the couples are nice though. I prefer the private parties, less arrogance there and more fun. I do ok with the private emails and one on one meets. Each to their own I suppose. jasssssus what kinda meet and greets do you be at????? "Ya what kind of meets were that particular one. | |||
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"I'm not big on meets & greets. Been to a few. Mostly pompous women looking down on the single lads. Single lads filling ladies with all sorts of dribble to get them into the sack. People having too much to drink and making a show of themselves. Most of the couples are nice though. I prefer the private parties, less arrogance there and more fun. I do ok with the private emails and one on one meets. Each to their own I suppose. " thats your opinion pal! I can't comment as I never attended! | |||
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"I'm not big on meets & greets. Been to a few. Mostly pompous women looking down on the single lads. Single lads filling ladies with all sorts of dribble to get them into the sack. People having too much to drink and making a show of themselves. Most of the couples are nice though. I prefer the private parties, less arrogance there and more fun. I do ok with the private emails and one on one meets. Each to their own I suppose. " You usually post sensible posts willow but this one I have to completely disagree with Having hosted and attended M&Gs over the last two years I can safely say I was never chatted up at any of them - or filled with dribble as you so eloquently put it. Ive never seen any girls looking down or being rude to other guests. Ive only ever seen a large group of nervous folks all in the same boat and chat away to one another Not sure who's m&g you attended but maybe try another as I think the scene has become more social and friendly over time | |||
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"I'm not big on meets & greets. Been to a few. Mostly pompous women looking down on the single lads. Single lads filling ladies with all sorts of dribble to get them into the sack. People having too much to drink and making a show of themselves. Most of the couples are nice though. I prefer the private parties, less arrogance there and more fun. I do ok with the private emails and one on one meets. Each to their own I suppose. You usually post sensible posts willow but this one I have to completely disagree with Having hosted and attended M&Gs over the last two years I can safely say I was never chatted up at any of them - or filled with dribble as you so eloquently put it. Ive never seen any girls looking down or being rude to other guests. Ive only ever seen a large group of nervous folks all in the same boat and chat away to one another Not sure who's m&g you attended but maybe try another as I think the scene has become more social and friendly over time " exactly this. I have never once had a bad night at a meet and greet and iv been to loads since 2007 iv never seen anything like you have described willow maybe I have just been lucky..... | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree?" Nonsense, if you're an ass, being an ass in a room full of other Fabbers is just going to prove you're an ass to more people at one time. Question... if there's no attraction for you, would you even talk to people at a social? | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree? Nonsense, if you're an ass, being an ass in a room full of other Fabbers is just going to prove you're an ass to more people at one time. Question... if there's no attraction for you, would you even talk to people at a social?" But you have to go to socials to meet people if you're new tho? | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree? Nonsense, if you're an ass, being an ass in a room full of other Fabbers is just going to prove you're an ass to more people at one time. Question... if there's no attraction for you, would you even talk to people at a social? But you have to go to socials to meet people if you're new tho?" Yes. It's the law. | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree? Nonsense, if you're an ass, being an ass in a room full of other Fabbers is just going to prove you're an ass to more people at one time. Question... if there's no attraction for you, would you even talk to people at a social? But you have to go to socials to meet people if you're new tho? Yes. It's the law." haha I meant like I imagine it's the easiest way | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree? Nonsense, if you're an ass, being an ass in a room full of other Fabbers is just going to prove you're an ass to more people at one time. Question... if there's no attraction for you, would you even talk to people at a social? But you have to go to socials to meet people if you're new tho? Yes. It's the law. haha I meant like I imagine it's the easiest way"I don't know, I'd say ask other single guys(that aren't asses). | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree? Nonsense, if you're an ass, being an ass in a room full of other Fabbers is just going to prove you're an ass to more people at one time. Question... if there's no attraction for you, would you even talk to people at a social? But you have to go to socials to meet people if you're new tho? Yes. It's the law. haha I meant like I imagine it's the easiest way
I don't know, I'd say ask other single guys(that aren't asses)."That's me out then. | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree? Nonsense, if you're an ass, being an ass in a room full of other Fabbers is just going to prove you're an ass to more people at one time. Question... if there's no attraction for you, would you even talk to people at a social? But you have to go to socials to meet people if you're new tho? Yes. It's the law. haha I meant like I imagine it's the easiest way
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree?" I wouldn't say successful but it can help an it can help you see the real person. Going to meet an greets iv found personally my own opinion is that.. On here you can have an opinion on someone without even meeting them from what you may have heard through the wonderful grapevine or rumour vile or on the forums..ie knob head stuck up cow etc etc But when you meet them in person most of the time it cudnt be further from the truth!! Remb what ever persona of a person on here, can be completely different in reality. It also gives you more options ie other meet n greets private party's etc etc.. But do what ever you feel comfortable with.   | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree? I wouldn't say successful but it can help an it can help you see the real person. Going to meet an greets iv found personally my own opinion is that.. On here you can have an opinion on someone without even meeting them from what you may have heard through the wonderful grapevine or rumour vile or on the forums..ie knob head stuck up cow etc etc But when you meet them in person most of the time it cudnt be further from the truth!! Remb what ever persona of a person on here, can be completely different in reality. It also gives you more options ie other meet n greets private party's etc etc.. But do what ever you feel comfortable with. "Couldn't agree more my persona here is polar to real life me, in reality I am a quiet shy unassuming guy in the corner sipping my pint | |||
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Looking forward to the next Limerick social and also delving into the party scene | |||
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"Whether you are successful or not it is defenitely worth your while engaging in the social side of fab! Went to my first social before Xmas and it was a brilliant night out. Everyone is there for the same reason....to have a laugh, some stimulating conversation, among other things.........And the women....wow!!!
Looking forward to the next Limerick social and also delving into the party scene "Can't wait for the limerick social it'll be my first so pretty excited | |||
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"I'm after briefly flicking through the forums and can only find one m&g or party that encourages newbies to attend. The Venue says all newbies welcome. Others I've seem either don't need single guys, must be verified, on the site a certain amount of time etc. So poor little newbie can't get to a social/party at all without being verified? So if they go out and get verified by having a meet or two, is that not showing them to the be sucessful, credible, popular, reliable? Personally I'd rather see a few meet verifications rather than a rake of m&g ones. Obviously how you use the site is a personal choice but to say that you cannot swing successfully because you don't attend these is a joKe. Not everyone wants to or can attend socials. Doesn't mean they're not sucessful. " Some allow newbies but don't say it I guess you just have to ask | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree? I wouldn't say successful but it can help an it can help you see the real person. Going to meet an greets iv found personally my own opinion is that.. On here you can have an opinion on someone without even meeting them from what you may have heard through the wonderful grapevine or rumour vile or on the forums..ie knob head stuck up cow etc etc But when you meet them in person most of the time it cudnt be further from the truth!! Remb what ever persona of a person on here, can be completely different in reality. It also gives you more options ie other meet n greets private party's etc etc.. But do what ever you feel comfortable with.
Couldn't agree more my persona here is polar to real life me, in reality I am a quiet shy unassuming guy in the corner sipping my pint "I agree with you there but not sure are you as shy as you make out lol | |||
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"Whether you are successful or not it is defenitely worth your while engaging in the social side of fab! Went to my first social before Xmas and it was a brilliant night out. Everyone is there for the same reason....to have a laugh, some stimulating conversation, among other things.........And the women.... Looking forward to the next Limerick social and also delving into the party scene "def looking forward to meeting you along the way | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree? I wouldn't say successful but it can help an it can help you see the real person. Going to meet an greets iv found personally my own opinion is that.. On here you can have an opinion on someone without even meeting them from what you may have heard through the wonderful grapevine or rumour vile or on the forums..ie knob head stuck up cow etc etc But when you meet them in person most of the time it cudnt be further from the truth!! Remb what ever persona of a person on here, can be completely different in reality. It also gives you more options ie other meet n greets private party's etc etc.. But do what ever you feel comfortable with.
Couldn't agree more my persona here is polar to real life me, in reality I am a quiet shy unassuming guy in the corner sipping my pint
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree? I wouldn't say successful but it can help an it can help you see the real person. Going to meet an greets iv found personally my own opinion is that.. On here you can have an opinion on someone without even meeting them from what you may have heard through the wonderful grapevine or rumour vile or on the forums..ie knob head stuck up cow etc etc But when you meet them in person most of the time it cudnt be further from the truth!! Remb what ever persona of a person on here, can be completely different in reality. It also gives you more options ie other meet n greets private party's etc etc.. But do what ever you feel comfortable with. "Agreed, but I'm lovely here and even lovelier in real life
I went to my first m&g a while ago, lolli and Laids one and I had a fantastic night. I was nervous and arrived alone as Hal was delayed and I was welcomed straight away. Everyone I spoke to couldn't have been more friendly. I would definitely recommend one, although I wouldn't say they are essential for success here, they are great fun. | |||
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"Whether you are successful or not it is defenitely worth your while engaging in the social side of fab! Went to my first social before Xmas and it was a brilliant night out. Everyone is there for the same reason....to have a laugh, some stimulating conversation, among other things.........And the women.... Looking forward to the next Limerick social and also delving into the party scene def looking forward to meeting you along the way "I would say the pleasure will be all mine misscar but that may sound greedy defenitely looking forward to our paths crossing | |||
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"Whether you are successful or not it is defenitely worth your while engaging in the social side of fab! Went to my first social before Xmas and it was a brilliant night out. Everyone is there for the same reason....to have a laugh, some stimulating conversation, among other things.........And the women....wow!!!
Looking forward to the next Limerick social and also delving into the party scene "Ohhh looks like we share a lot similar Sooooo can't wait next social | |||
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"I'm after briefly flicking through the forums and can only find one m&g or party that encourages newbies to attend. The Venue says all newbies welcome. Others I've seem either don't need single guys, must be verified, on the site a certain amount of time etc. So poor little newbie can't get to a social/party at all without being verified? So if they go out and get verified by having a meet or two, is that not showing them to the be sucessful, credible, popular, reliable? Personally I'd rather see a few meet verifications rather than a rake of m&g ones. Obviously how you use the site is a personal choice but to say that you cannot swing successfully because you don't attend these is a joKe. Not everyone wants to or can attend socials. Doesn't mean they're not sucessful. " Wel whatsherface i am one of the organisers of the next limerick social that is coming up and EVERYONE is welcome. Even the newbies. Imagine that. Limericklad is a newbie and he is coming along. There were newbies at the last one we had back in december and it was a great success.. if your so bothered about the newbies, why dont u organise a social or m&g or party for them?? | |||
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"I'm after briefly flicking through the forums and can only find one m&g or party that encourages newbies to attend. The Venue says all newbies welcome. Others I've seem either don't need single guys, must be verified, on the site a certain amount of time etc. So poor little newbie can't get to a social/party at all without being verified? So if they go out and get verified by having a meet or two, is that not showing them to the be sucessful, credible, popular, reliable? Personally I'd rather see a few meet verifications rather than a rake of m&g ones. Obviously how you use the site is a personal choice but to say that you cannot swing successfully because you don't attend these is a joKe. Not everyone wants to or can attend socials. Doesn't mean they're not sucessful. Wel whatsherface i am one of the organisers of the next limerick social that is coming up and EVERYONE is welcome. Even the newbies. Imagine that. Limericklad is a newbie and he is coming along. There were newbies at the last one we had back in december and it was a great success.. if your so bothered about the newbies, why dont u organise a social or m&g or party for them??" I'm not bothered about them nor will I be organising anything. Pull your claws in there , I was only making a point based on what I saw and I obviously missed that thread Stating newbies were welcome. | |||
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""papa?" "Yes son?" "how i be success on swing scene?" "well son, if you want to get your dicky wet more often, then the key to success is simple, just remember what my old man said to me when I was your age. 'dont be picky, harvest all their personal info to pressure them, and if anyone says yes, stick your wick in them'". "thanks papa"" Jayus that was good advise I ask mine and he asked was my dick long enough to touch my ass, I said no it not. He said when it is come back to me so I set my self off on a mission to extend the length of my cock I trained rigously till finally I asked Daddy how can I be sucessfull on the swing scene again he asked is ur cock long enough to touch ur ass I replied with great pride yes dad it is Well go fuck yourself  | |||
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"I'm after briefly flicking through the forums and can only find one m&g or party that encourages newbies to attend. The Venue says all newbies welcome. Others I've seem either don't need single guys, must be verified, on the site a certain amount of time etc. So poor little newbie can't get to a social/party at all without being verified? So if they go out and get verified by having a meet or two, is that not showing them to the be sucessful, credible, popular, reliable? Personally I'd rather see a few meet verifications rather than a rake of m&g ones. Obviously how you use the site is a personal choice but to say that you cannot swing successfully because you don't attend these is a joKe. Not everyone wants to or can attend socials. Doesn't mean they're not sucessful. Wel whatsherface i am one of the organisers of the next limerick social that is coming up and EVERYONE is welcome. Even the newbies. Imagine that. Limericklad is a newbie and he is coming along. There were newbies at the last one we had back in december and it was a great success.. if your so bothered about the newbies, why dont u organise a social or m&g or party for them??" Yes I am people should just have the balls and ask if they can go to these things, If you don't ask you'll never know | |||
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"thats your opinion pal! I can't comment as I never attended!" I merely proffered my opinion. Isn't that what you were looking for, peoples opinion? Maybe I misread the post. | |||
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"I was told today, to be truely succesful on this site you need to attend meet and greets! Would anyone stand by this and agree? Nonsense, if you're an ass, being an ass in a room full of other Fabbers is just going to prove you're an ass to more people at one time. Question... if there's no attraction for you, would you even talk to people at a social?" yep of course! In a bar/social setting no problem | |||
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"thats your opinion pal! I can't comment as I never attended! I merely proffered my opinion. Isn't that what you were looking for, peoples opinion? Maybe I misread the post. " your spot on! Opinions opinions opinions | |||
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"I'm not big on meets & greets. Been to a few. Mostly pompous women looking down on the single lads. Single lads filling ladies with all sorts of dribble to get them into the sack. People having too much to drink and making a show of themselves. Most of the couples are nice though. I prefer the private parties, less arrogance there and more fun. I do ok with the private emails and one on one meets. Each to their own I suppose. You usually post sensible posts willow but this one I have to completely disagree with Having hosted and attended M&Gs over the last two years I can safely say I was never chatted up at any of them - or filled with dribble as you so eloquently put it. Ive never seen any girls looking down or being rude to other guests. Ive only ever seen a large group of nervous folks all in the same boat and chat away to one another Not sure who's m&g you attended but maybe try another as I think the scene has become more social and friendly over time " | |||
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