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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what would turn you off a profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they say they don't want cock pics

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

There are a few things that turn me off a profile.

Firstly, no pictures. Which I know is a little hypocritical as we have made ours private given recent concerns here.

Secondly, very long profile text or total lack of profile text.

And lastly, profiles with a long list of demands just turn me off right away.

Miss McJoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me

Very much close up shots of certain body parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics on the profile but there is a big massive bush surrounding the cock!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mail me with face pics...or I won't reply!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no pics

cum shots

negative status updates or profile text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now, don't get me wrong some cockpics are nice as an avator but some are really bad that I switch off straight away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh I did ask nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mail me with face pics...or I won't reply!!! "
"send a face pic with first mail" Is written on an awful lot of female profiles

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By *unsterStagMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Someone that says "Impress Me"

I mean this is a two way street and both parties need to be equally impressed before gettin down and dirrrrty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mail me with face pics...or I won't reply!!! "send a face pic with first mail" Is written on an awful lot of female profiles "

A lot of profiles full stop!! It's ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone that says "Impress Me"

I mean this is a two way street and both parties need to be equally impressed before gettin down and dirrrrty "

But you already do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No profile pic "

I dislike that a lot too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mail me with face pics...or I won't reply!!! "send a face pic with first mail" Is written on an awful lot of female profiles

A lot of profiles full stop!! It's ridiculous "
i come to conclusion they have their heads wedged firmly up there own arses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone that says "Impress Me"

I mean this is a two way street and both parties need to be equally impressed before gettin down and dirrrrty "

Or come and get me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get a message saying 'Are you into sloppy seconds' that would put me off wanting to go near that persons profile...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I get a message saying 'Are you into sloppy seconds' that would put me off wanting to go near that persons profile... "

But the question is about profiles not messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics with loads of floppy skin and mountains of hair...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock pics with loads of floppy skin and mountains of hair... "
only can agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cock pics with loads of floppy skin and mountains of hair... "

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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago

In and around


"no pics

cum shots

negative status updates or profile text"

Same here especially the negative, nasty status updates. Mrs D

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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago

Trim

Pubes yuk yuk yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pubes yuk yuk yuk "
another big one for me! Usually you never see vagina pics on public display but if you do and there is a world of hair there, instant turn off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are a few things that turn me off a profile.

Firstly, no pictures. Which I know is a little hypocritical as we have made ours private given recent concerns here.

Secondly, very long profile text or total lack of profile text.

And lastly, profiles with a long list of demands just turn me off right away.

Miss McJoy "

I usually ignore the ones with no public pics or ones with very little profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profiles that have just a one word profile like 'Hi'

People who have all their pics in friends only section & not even one shown in public and they have hidden their veri's...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The profiles that have just a one word profile like 'Hi'

People who have all their pics in friends only section & not even one shown in public and they have hidden their veri's... "

All of the above

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By *unsterStagMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Someone that says "Impress Me"

I mean this is a two way street and both parties need to be equally impressed before gettin down and dirrrrty

Or come and get me "

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Or the sratus updates saying who wants my cock as i need to unload , we wouldnt even bother to read the the rest of the profile

mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the sratus updates saying who wants my cock as i need to unload , we wouldnt even bother to read the the rest of the profile

mrs crazy "

Same here, that grinds my gears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile picture(are you that short on ideas, really?) Bad grammar, a list of hoops you need people to jump through, & of course, verifications from people who are nobheads.

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By *unsterStagMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Or the sratus updates saying who wants my cock as i need to unload , we wouldnt even bother to read the the rest of the profile

mrs crazy

Same here, that grinds my gears. "

Grinds my gears respect if that a family guy reference

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

Constant negatives on a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the sratus updates saying who wants my cock as i need to unload , we wouldnt even bother to read the the rest of the profile

mrs crazy

Same here, that grinds my gears.

Grinds my gears respect if that a family guy reference "

Ha of course it is. Love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much pisses me off but if I wrote the list I would look like a diva so I will just give one example.... A guys pics showing a girl with his cum in her mouth. Its disgusting and a complete turnoff for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any profile which shows pics of people who aren't part of the profile and their face can be recognised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any profile which shows pics of people who aren't part of the profile and their face can be recognised. "

A good one, I always think, "I really hope she knows her pic is on here" even though I'm sure most people would ask permission, who is letting other people use their face pics? Crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any profile which shows pics of people who aren't part of the profile and their face can be recognised.

A good one, I always think, "I really hope she knows her pic is on here" even though I'm sure most people would ask permission, who is letting other people use their face pics? Crazy."

I run for a mile when I see it. Even if they got permission (which I very much doubt) who of sound mind would even put this pic up? It's not the kind of person who I want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pics on the profile but there is a big massive bush surrounding the cock!!!! "

That I 100% agree with you,

Like on earth would a man think that's sexie,

I know each to there own but for me a cock pic with a mountain of hair attached, am move on please,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well after recent events I dont have any public Pics on my profile, if that's put people off my profile that's fine with me, I'd rather be safe and secure than please strangers by displaying pics...

For me a long dragged out profile text is off putting as is an empty profile...

Having No profile picture is odd..

As is endless pics, a few pics is great not a load...

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

If my phone dies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any profile which shows pics of people who aren't part of the profile and their face can be recognised. "

Or the pics where you have to guess who's who

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm gonna use my latest example

Too many verification is actually a bad thing in some eyes, but also a good thing for others

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Well I'm gonna use my latest example

Too many verification is actually a bad thing in some eyes, but also a good thing for others "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Badly written incoherent profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm gonna use my latest example

Too many verification is actually a bad thing in some eyes, but also a good thing for others "

Well.. I have pretty much already.. so what you not like me?!

Kinda understand what you mean..but its sex site so you can't judge! And some people have too many verification cause they going to parties..and so they got a lot from there..even if it was social party

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I'm gonna use my latest example

Too many verification is actually a bad thing in some eyes, but also a good thing for others

Well.. I have pretty much already.. so what you not like me?!

Kinda understand what you mean..but its sex site so you can't judge! And some people have too many verification cause they going to parties..and so they got a lot from there..even if it was social party "

We can't please everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm gonna use my latest example

Too many verification is actually a bad thing in some eyes, but also a good thing for others

"

Yeah john ya slut

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Well I'm gonna use my latest example

Too many verification is actually a bad thing in some eyes, but also a good thing for others

Yeah john ya slut "

You say that like its a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm gonna use my latest example

Too many verification is actually a bad thing in some eyes, but also a good thing for others

Well.. I have pretty much already.. so what you not like me?!

Kinda understand what you mean..but its sex site so you can't judge! And some people have too many verification cause they going to parties..and so they got a lot from there..even if it was social party

We can't please everyone "

Hold on ladies I never said it was me, I live and let live and never ever judge a book by its cover but I was saying in few occasions people has said that to me

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"Well I'm gonna use my latest example

Too many verification is actually a bad thing in some eyes, but also a good thing for others

Yeah john ya slut

You say that like its a bad thing. "

I'm not a slut. ..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's me damned lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's me damned lol "

Lol I would jump you in a heart beat no matter how many verification you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A singles profile with photos obviously not practicing safe sex, I actually block these profiles.

Cock photos with cock rings and contraptions that look like parts of a combine harvester clamped on = turn off!

To each their own just not for me.

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By *uaveGentMan
over a year ago

dublin

The ones written by 'the miserable husband'. Not every husband, thankfully, many of them are enjoying the scene with their wife but there is a certain category of man so fucked off with fabs that they just become a grumpy fucker to have to deal with.. Never worth the hassle.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

bulky biceps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm gonna use my latest example

Too many verification is actually a bad thing in some eyes, but also a good thing for others

Yeah john ya slut

You say that like its a bad thing. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hate to think I have my head up my arse for asking for a face pic. I have found that it cuts a lot of dicking around (pardon the pun). I'll always reply with mine and think it's being honest rather than big headed. There has to be a mutual attraction, physically and mentally I guess.


"Mail me with face pics...or I won't reply!!! "send a face pic with first mail" Is written on an awful lot of female profiles

A lot of profiles full stop!! It's ridiculous i come to conclusion they have their heads wedged firmly up there own arses "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone that says "Impress Me"

I mean this is a two way street and both parties need to be equally impressed before gettin down and dirrrrty "

Agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the sratus updates saying who wants my cock as i need to unload , we wouldnt even bother to read the the rest of the profile

mrs crazy "

X100! Totally agree!

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

I'm put off by negative statuses or ones that should be on Facebook rather than fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the sratus updates saying who wants my cock as i need to unload , we wouldnt even bother to read the the rest of the profile

mrs crazy

X100! Totally agree! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cryptic status updates

I dont care if your missing "you know who you are "

And I could not give a toss if your all fired up for your meet with " the sexest thing on legs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually don't like it when status updates between people obviously about to meet try to make the rest of the site feel they aren't quite up to scratch..been a fair bit if that up north lately...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Actually don't like it when status updates between people obviously about to meet try to make the rest of the site feel they aren't quite up to scratch..been a fair bit if that up north lately... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bulky biceps"

Aww! I've found someone who won't be a 123kid fan everyone.

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

Don't connect your username to your lifestyle.

Get lots of abuse because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't connect your username to your lifestyle.

Get lots of abuse because of it."

Only if you come on the forum bragging about it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or if it's actually true...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Confucius once said.....

"Put your hand out, it'll get slapped!"

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas


"Don't connect your username to your lifestyle.

Get lots of abuse because of it.

Only if you come on the forum bragging about it...."

Have made it policy not to mention it but you keep bringing it up...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"bulky biceps

Aww! I've found someone who won't be a 123kid fan everyone. "

Lmao - my absolute dream meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bulky biceps

Aww! I've found someone who won't be a 123kid fan everyone.

Lmao - my absolute dream meet! "

Everyone loves 123kid but no one loves 123kid more than he loves himself you should know that

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"bulky biceps

Aww! I've found someone who won't be a 123kid fan everyone.

Lmao - my absolute dream meet!

Everyone loves 123kid but no one loves 123kid more than he loves himself you should know that "

I know he's adorable, a real 'my-body-is-my-temple-guru'

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I just look at the pics so can't really comment much

saw an odd 1 the other day

"no cheats,married(fair enough) and no ppl with kids who haven't been married" what the fuck that about?

Is she put off by ppl having kids out of wedlock? Bit judgmental on a swing site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seen a couple say on their profile that they refuse to meet drinkers,smokers,ugly and fat people,and they only do bareback sex

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I seen a couple say on their profile that they refuse to meet drinkers,smokers,ugly and fat people,and they only do bareback sex "

Sounds like ugly people to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just look at the pics so can't really comment much

saw an odd 1 the other day

"no cheats,married(fair enough) and no ppl with kids who haven't been married" what the fuck that about?

Is she put off by ppl having kids out of wedlock? Bit judgmental on a swing site"

That's a gem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have seen profiles with criteria like ... must not be bald , must not have missing teeth , must be between 6 foot 2 and six foot 4, cant be married , cant be desperate , must not have more than 3 veris, must not be verified by certain people cos ya know we have standards . must dress well , must smell well , must be willing to pay for hotel , must buy me a gift , must be prepared to be fooked out of room you paid for if i dont like the look of ya and finally , must be free to meet between 2 pm and 4 pm every third friday , no pic no reply .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not meeting at the moment, just here for chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Understand that people want verified users but how you gonna get verified if they won't meet you. That part kinda sucks

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Understand that people want verified users but how you gonna get verified if they won't meet you. That part kinda sucks"

Its a long hard road that lies ahead of u but ull find plenty that will meet and give u that veri if takes time and effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have seen profiles with criteria like ... must not be bald , must not have missing teeth , must be between 6 foot 2 and six foot 4, cant be married , cant be desperate , must not have more than 3 veris, must not be verified by certain people cos ya know we have standards . must dress well , must smell well , must be willing to pay for hotel , must buy me a gift , must be prepared to be fooked out of room you paid for if i dont like the look of ya and finally , must be free to meet between 2 pm and 4 pm every third friday , no pic no reply . "
LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like aggressive profile i like someone to put abit of effort in at least i hate that fecking sydney thing at the end drives me bonkers lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age range 18-99

Really,you want to shag a man or woman in their 90s ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers CJ47, I'll keep the faith

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