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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With all the talk about BDSM Does every on on here have a safe word we have one unfortunately we have never had to use it but we both know it and what it means ie to stop straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red - STOP

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

We used the word orange for awhile .....alas the only time I went to use it ....In a swing club in London...it was completely wasted on Ollie. ...ended up having to say ..For feck sake Ollie. ..ORANGE ORANGE! !! Only to get some puzzling looks lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now now cj be a good boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually ,the traffic light system works well,amber im near my limit and red is stop

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We used the word orange for awhile .....alas the only time I went to use it ....In a swing club in London...it was completely wasted on Ollie. ...ended up having to say ..For feck sake Ollie. ..ORANGE ORANGE! !! Only to get some puzzling looks lol"

That is brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, one for "no harder" & one for "stop".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used the word orange for awhile .....alas the only time I went to use it ....In a swing club in London...it was completely wasted on Ollie. ...ended up having to say ..For feck sake Ollie. ..ORANGE ORANGE! !! Only to get some puzzling looks lol"

At an fetish event last night, we heard PINEAPPLE been screamed out several times...! It made me turn my head everytime

Everyone should have a safe word

Ms D xx

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"We used the word orange for awhile .....alas the only time I went to use it ....In a swing club in London...it was completely wasted on Ollie. ...ended up having to say ..For feck sake Ollie. ..ORANGE ORANGE! !! Only to get some puzzling looks lol

At an fetish event last night, we heard PINEAPPLE been screamed out several times...! It made me turn my head everytime

Everyone should have a safe word

Ms D xx"

Yeah, that was us as well, Apples thought I might remember the safe word better if she increased the size of the fruit. ....

Whoops, Ollie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fluggaenkoecchicebolsen!!!.....

Now THATS a safe word!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually ,the traffic light system works well,amber im near my limit and red is stop"

Agreed....This I think is pretty much the normal one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually ,the traffic light system works well,amber im near my limit and red is stop"

I like this system

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By *unsterStagMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper "

Was thinking MORE myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper

Was thinking MORE myself "

More..or..harder?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper

Was thinking MORE myself

More..or..harder????? "

What wrong with both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper

Was thinking MORE myself

More..or..harder?????

What wrong with both "

Mmmmmm...absolutely nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper

Was thinking MORE myself

More..or..harder?????

What wrong with both

Mmmmmm...absolutely nothing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always play with safe words, the only exception to this is with a close friend who knows my body and its reactions well enough by now to stop once im close to my limit. Saying that anyone asking someone to play without safewords after a very short time should run for the hills!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually ,the traffic light system works well,amber im near my limit and red is stop

I like this system "
Thank you miss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always play with safe words, the only exception to this is with a close friend who knows my body and its reactions well enough by now to stop once im close to my limit. Saying that anyone asking someone to play without safewords after a very short time should run for the hills!!!!"

True x

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By *unsterStagMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"I always play with safe words, the only exception to this is with a close friend who knows my body and its reactions well enough by now to stop once im close to my limit. Saying that anyone asking someone to play without safewords after a very short time should run for the hills!!!!"

Wise words!! A little playful kink is fun with someone new but when things need to go to a level where safe words are required people can only let themselves go beyond their limits when they have serious trust in the person.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper

Was thinking MORE myself

More..or..harder?????

What wrong with both "

Haha ur only get what I give u ul have to work harder for more

A lot harder for deeper

And ul be worn out by the time we get to harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all the talk about BDSM Does every on on here have a safe word we have one unfortunately we have never had to use it but we both know it and what it means ie to stop straight away "

Unfortunately?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also have agreed hand signals (assuming they aren't tied) if playing in area where it's noisy because himself obviously won't hear me.

Ms. D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper

Was thinking MORE myself

More..or..harder?????

What wrong with both

Haha ur only get what I give u ul have to work harder for more

A lot harder for deeper

And ul be worn out by the time we get to harder "

Lol...in your dreams!!!!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper

Was thinking MORE myself

More..or..harder?????

What wrong with both

Haha ur only get what I give u ul have to work harder for more

A lot harder for deeper

And ul be worn out by the time we get to harder

Lol...in your dreams!!!! "

Haha do u think we shall see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper

Was thinking MORE myself

More..or..harder?????

What wrong with both

Haha ur only get what I give u ul have to work harder for more

A lot harder for deeper

And ul be worn out by the time we get to harder "

Mmmmm is a that a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FUCKING STOPPPPPPP YOUR KILLING ME...is a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually ,the traffic light system works well,amber im near my limit and red is stop"

That's what we use too. Until you know someone and trust them enough to have one word because you know they know your limits its a good system.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually ,the traffic light system works well,amber im near my limit and red is stop

That's what we use too. Until you know someone and trust them enough to have one word because you know they know your limits its a good system. "
yes miss belle i used the system with an ex partner we found it worked well having said that i didn't use red too much i have to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually ,the traffic light system works well,amber im near my limit and red is stop

That's what we use too. Until you know someone and trust them enough to have one word because you know they know your limits its a good system. yes miss belle i used the system with an ex partner we found it worked well having said that i didn't use red too much i have to say"

Nope, I safeword very rarely (well used to, haven't been subby for a while - I top from the bottom ) but that's mostly because hunter knows me so well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FUCKING STOPPPPPPP YOUR KILLING ME...is a good one "

The beauty of a safeword means that you get to use language like that, butI know you want me to carry on really

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By *auraxxWoman
over a year ago

east

I'm a yellow/red person too. Rarely used as most have said but I find that having them pushes me further. I am able to take more as I know I have that safety net.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a yellow/red person too. Rarely used as most have said but I find that having them pushes me further. I am able to take more as I know I have that safety net."

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