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A twist on the usual...how to get your husband to swing?

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By *ohn Mingo OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Posting this on behalf of a lady fabber.

She's married, and uses the site, but hasn't met anyone yet. She has a good sex life at home but her husband is "reserved" and "traditional" as she puts it. He's also never been with anyone but her. She would love to swing, and to swing with him as she wants both of them to have new experiences. she's also bi but he doesn't know.

She's mentioned she'd like to swing in passing as part of pillow talk but it's been brushed off with "you're enough for me"

We usually see threads from guys asking advice on how to get their wife swinging.....but I'm asking if any of the wives of the couples out there first brought up the subject with their husbands? Were you successful? what was your approach?

She'll be watching this thread, so please guys, keep the flaming to a minimum thanks.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll I'm having d time of my life with my lady friend off here n she allways wanted to try out a lady . We would gladly help her out n introduce her to swinging if she wants to ok .

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By *ohn Mingo OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"We'll I'm having d time of my life with my lady friend off here n she allways wanted to try out a lady . We would gladly help her out n introduce her to swinging if she wants to ok . "

With all due respect, that's missing the point of the topic entirely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmmm well I'll not be much help as I'm not married but in my opinion traditional/old fashioned people in Ireland would not take to it well I've got that feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to me like that chap just wants a one on one relationship! I'd say he's mind is not for changing

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Posting this on behalf of a lady fabber.

She's married, and uses the site, but hasn't met anyone yet. She has a good sex life at home but her husband is "reserved" and "traditional" as she puts it. He's also never been with anyone but her. She would love to swing, and to swing with him as she wants both of them to have new experiences. she's also bi but he doesn't know.

She's mentioned she'd like to swing in passing as part of pillow talk but it's been brushed off with "you're enough for me"

We usually see threads from guys asking advice on how to get their wife swinging.....but I'm asking if any of the wives of the couples out there first brought up the subject with their husbands? Were you successful? what was your approach?

She'll be watching this thread, so please guys, keep the flaming to a minimum thanks."

Think the same answers apply to wheather its the wife or the husband is trying to get the other into swinging, if someone has no interest in it then there decission should be respected, however if he is anyway curious about it, going to a social is the best bet where he can see people having a chat and a drink and can sèe what the social side has to offer first

Mr crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was herself that brought the subject up with me

We are both pretty open minded and her best friend is also on here

They used to tell me some funny as fook stories about meets that the friend was having and she asked would I like to try it.

Being the fella I was thinking "right if I say ya she's gonna flip the lid and if I say no she might think I'm boring"

I bit the bullet and went to the venue for a party.

Have to say it was a brilliant night and a real eye opener and we've met a few couples since and even been to Spain swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only she will know well enough to know if swinging would be his thing or not ...if its been mentioned before maybe gently mention it again during playtime only bring in actual scenarios MMF...FFM etc...his reactions will be a good indication i would imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I brought it up with funbuns he was only too happy to oblige

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"We'll I'm having d time of my life with my lady friend off here n she allways wanted to try out a lady . We would gladly help her out n introduce her to swinging if she wants to ok . "

Two women, are you not worried about your new fireplace?

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"I brought it up with funbuns he was only too happy to oblige "

I bet you can be very persuasive A....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I brought it up with funbuns he was only too happy to oblige

I bet you can be very persuasive A....lol "

Well you know me...I always get my wicked way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have asked my husband to swing with me as a couple and he's point blank refused not interested one little bit

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