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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So just wondered what was your first time going to a party like? If your a single female going alone or part of a couple but one half couldn't attend, how did you feel about going and not knowing anyone there??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its first party or 20th party we always feel the same....curious about meeting new people...excited about what the night will bring ...some nervousness which is good too and above all horny ....when we stop feeling all of the above about partys we will stop attending

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By *HandDNCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

We loved our first party so much we hosted our 2nd party. Love them, banter and bonking, always a great night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on the site 3 weeks last year when I went to pure filths party amazing !! Created a monster lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll be grand we all get nervous it's a good sign just injoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was on the site 3 weeks last year when I went to pure filths party amazing !! Created a monster lol "
I take it you went by yourself? We're you nervous walking in and not knowing anyone?? Has to be awkward no??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parties aren't for everyone but you won't know until you've tried it. I still get butterflies whenever we're having any kind of sexual meet. Most of the people we've met at parties/socials have been lovely & welcoming, decide beforehand what you're happy doing & stick to it, you can always go further next time. Have fun XX

P.S. don't get d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on the site 3 weeks last year when I went to pure filths party amazing !! Created a monster lol "

Yes and what a lovely monster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never been to a party, wonder what they're like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always a bit nerve wracking going to parties. Even more so going as a single. It's part of the fun I think. It helps build excitement and fun. Just reassure yourself that everyone feels the same and the initial nerves and awkwardness will pass.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I went to a party n it was a big let down no women turned up only d host . One lady turned up late but would not play . So kinda turned off them . I have more fun with my lady friend one to one n enjoy her very much .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on the site 3 weeks last year when I went to pure filths party amazing !! Created a monster lol I take it you went by yourself? We're you nervous walking in and not knowing anyone?? Has to be awkward no??"

No I just didn't over think it I tend not to in situations like that and everyone is always so friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on the site 3 weeks last year when I went to pure filths party amazing !! Created a monster lol

Yes and what a lovely monster! "

Why thanku mr wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've never been to a party, wonder what they're like! "

U would love it yeno !!!

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By *s. AppletreeWoman
over a year ago

curtain twitching sleepy village


"We've never been to a party, wonder what they're like! "
liar liar .....i have seen your gorgeous ass in the moon light over the Moran mountains lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Parties aren't for everyone but you won't know until you've tried it. I still get butterflies whenever we're having any kind of sexual meet. Most of the people we've met at parties/socials have been lovely & welcoming, decide beforehand what you're happy doing & stick to it, you can always go further next time. Have fun XX

P.S. don't get d*unk."
great advice guys thanks... Yeah figure I might just have couple drinks/chat/maybe just watch for the first time.. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've never been to a party, wonder what they're like! liar liar .....i have seen your gorgeous ass in the moon light over the Moran mountains lol"

Fuck you make us sound like werewolves, not wolves!...lol......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've never been to a party, wonder what they're like!

U would love it yeno !!! "

You think?......must try it sometime lol.....xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were supposed to have our first St mpf at the end of the month and now it's Cancelled. We're gutted. And we were getting lovely n nervous too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Parties aren't for everyone but you won't know until you've tried it. I still get butterflies whenever we're having any kind of sexual meet. Most of the people we've met at parties/socials have been lovely & welcoming, decide beforehand what you're happy doing & stick to it, you can always go further next time. Have fun XX

P.S. don't get d*unk."

As always perfect advice Candy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting those nerves too before my first party on the 31st. I just went and booked my (non refundable) hotel in the area..... I have to go now. It's simple ecomonics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People only build up parties in their own way,They are great fun and I just love the flash backs I get days later when you remember 4-5-6 or 7 people all fucking on a bed!! Or tied up on a chair or cuffed to a table....ohhhhhhh gotta stop I'm rambling and getting turned on!!

Go enjoy your party,don't feel obliged to play with anyone you don't want to,say no...its a very important word!! Say No if you feel uncomfortable or don't want to go there if you don't you'll regret it too....

Don't get d*unk...

Be sure to play safe and that everyone is rubbered up...

Everyone will be chatty especially at small parties so don't worry about not knowing anyone either...

And have fun...even if all you do is watch!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People only build up parties in their own way,They are great fun and I just love the flash backs I get days later when you remember 4-5-6 or 7 people all fucking on a bed!! Or tied up on a chair or cuffed to a table....ohhhhhhh gotta stop I'm rambling and getting turned on!!

Go enjoy your party,don't feel obliged to play with anyone you don't want to,say no...its a very important word!! Say No if you feel uncomfortable or don't want to go there if you don't you'll regret it too....

Don't get d*unk...

Be sure to play safe and that everyone is rubbered up...

Everyone will be chatty especially at small parties so don't worry about not knowing anyone either...

And have fun...even if all you do is watch!!

"

Oh I'm getting flashbacks reading this lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People only build up parties in their own way,They are great fun and I just love the flash backs I get days later when you remember 4-5-6 or 7 people all fucking on a bed!! Or tied up on a chair or cuffed to a table....ohhhhhhh gotta stop I'm rambling and getting turned on!!

Go enjoy your party,don't feel obliged to play with anyone you don't want to,say no...its a very important word!! Say No if you feel uncomfortable or don't want to go there if you don't you'll regret it too....

Don't get d*unk...

Be sure to play safe and that everyone is rubbered up...

Everyone will be chatty especially at small parties so don't worry about not knowing anyone either...

And have fun...even if all you do is watch!!

"
thank you for more sound advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People only build up parties in their own way,They are great fun and I just love the flash backs I get days later when you remember 4-5-6 or 7 people all fucking on a bed!! Or tied up on a chair or cuffed to a table....ohhhhhhh gotta stop I'm rambling and getting turned on!!

Go enjoy your party,don't feel obliged to play with anyone you don't want to,say no...its a very important word!! Say No if you feel uncomfortable or don't want to go there if you don't you'll regret it too....

Don't get d*unk...

Be sure to play safe and that everyone is rubbered up...

Everyone will be chatty especially at small parties so don't worry about not knowing anyone either...

And have fun...even if all you do is watch!!

Oh I'm getting flashbacks reading this lol "

More after tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People only build up parties in their own way,They are great fun and I just love the flash backs I get days later when you remember 4-5-6 or 7 people all fucking on a bed!! Or tied up on a chair or cuffed to a table....ohhhhhhh gotta stop I'm rambling and getting turned on!!

Go enjoy your party,don't feel obliged to play with anyone you don't want to,say no...its a very important word!! Say No if you feel uncomfortable or don't want to go there if you don't you'll regret it too....

Don't get d*unk...

Be sure to play safe and that everyone is rubbered up...

Everyone will be chatty especially at small parties so don't worry about not knowing anyone either...

And have fun...even if all you do is watch!!

Oh I'm getting flashbacks reading this lol

More after tonight "

That's what I'm hoping for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh guys wish we could have gone tonite lucky dirty things ..... Tina and party monsters still have flashbacks to a certain party lol

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare


"So just wondered what was your first time going to a party like? If your a single female going alone or part of a couple but one half couldn't attend, how did you feel about going and not knowing anyone there??"

We would recommend chatting to the host/hosts in advance, let them know your concerns and ask any questions you may have, also request a guest list as this will give you an opportunity to chat to fellow guests prior to the event.. then you will purely be meeting new friends.

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