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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK so correct me if I'm wrong but its normal practice to verify after an initial meet .. If this happens to be a coffee meet then its pretty normal to verify the same person again next time after more of a intimate meet

OK so my question is what do you kind folk make of people you wish to verify or be verified after every other meet that follows to the same person. ?

I think its kinda pathetic but maybe there's a reason why some do it????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you asking basically why people after receiving their first veri continue to get more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

territory marking comes to mind .

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I never 2nd veri someone.. Even if the first was just social. If we go further it's "our" business. The initial veri is just to say, yes, real person, that shows up.

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

We've wondered about this also, you check some profiles and see they are verified 20 times and then you realise that they are all from the same 3 or 4 people seems pointless to us!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I agree with ginger to me a verification states the person is real. Not how they are in the sack or how many times the woman cum oral skills best in the world.

That's not the point.

But what ever floats there boat I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you asking basically why people after receiving their first veri continue to get more?"

No I mean if we meet and I verified you and we continued to meet each other and I kept verifying you after every meet.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I never 2nd veri someone.. Even if the first was just social. If we go further it's "our" business. The initial veri is just to say, yes, real person, that shows up. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you asking basically why people after receiving their first veri continue to get more?

No I mean if we meet and I verified you and we continued to meet each other and I kept verifying you after every meet."

Ah sorry, I misread your post so. I don't know why people veri the same person multiple times but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've wondered about this also, you check some profiles and see they are verified 20 times and then you realise that they are all from the same 3 or 4 people seems pointless to us! "

me too folks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv just seen it alot lately and I'd honestly be embarrassed to be coming across that needy . .

Well as some of you said each to their own.

Thanks for your views folks..stay warm

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Iv just seen it alot lately and I'd honestly be embarrassed to be coming across that needy . .

Well as some of you said each to their own.

Thanks for your views folks..stay warm "
gives us a cuddle allgud to keep warm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no need for multiple veri's from same person.

You meet a person & either verify them or not - depending on how it goes.

As ginger says, a verification shouldn't determine what another person might think of that person/couple, we're all individuals and what we may like you may not!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Iv just seen it alot lately and I'd honestly be embarrassed to be coming across that needy . .

Well as some of you said each to their own.

Thanks for your views folks..stay warm gives us a cuddle allgud to keep warm "

Oh gladly my sexy flower xxxx

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath


"Are you asking basically why people after receiving their first veri continue to get more?

No I mean if we meet and I verified you and we continued to meet each other and I kept verifying you after every meet."

No I wouldn't, cause there would be some guys with about 50 veris from me then over the years.. lol

If you continue to meet what's the point in telling everyone??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think it down to low self esteem and its a sad attempt to boast that UV been with this person more then once .

I'll say no more lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you asking basically why people after receiving their first veri continue to get more?

No I mean if we meet and I verified you and we continued to meet each other and I kept verifying you after every meet.

No I wouldn't, cause there would be some guys with about 50 veris from me then over the years.. lol

If you continue to meet what's the point in telling everyone?? "

Totally agree with you . my question was why do people do it???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have double and triple veris...I just leave up the most recent ones and if we only have one I may leave that one there too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

verifying if someone is just to prove that they are a real person and not a time waster or messer. Thats my understanding

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I would not do it and I have met the same person more than once and tried different things. That is between us the fact I verified him to state he's real what we get up to after that is our business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a verification is basically to say yeah ive met them they are genuine. If you meet again so be it no need to create a diary of meets

Liam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never verify more than once and l have made my own rule that l won't do kiss and tell verifications. What happens is kept off the net

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I've had numerous meets in the last few months. I don't want any verifications and I don't give them, unless the other person asks.

Verifications should simply be that the person is real.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

i've verified a few people twice or so, but rarely... a veri is used to prove they're real and on the level. nothing more. it shouldnt read like a friggin letter to penthouse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I personally have no issue with the contents of a verification as it can be checked before shown or not shown. .

This thread was more so to try and understand why some people do it eg a woman I was looking at had three verifications all from the same guy. . noes its her profile and her right to do so but I don't understand why..

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