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By *auraxx OP   Woman
over a year ago

east

Hi Im curious after chatting to some frustrated new men here how long was it between setting up your profile and meeting someone for the first time, for coffee or other?

I know single girls are different but I joined as I was going stir crazy and met quickly. I wish I had waited longer now and gotten the lay of the land first.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

when I started swinging years ago on a different site it took me about 2/3 months to meet my first couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

will be 3 weeks,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find it hard,, and im totally genuine and im a easy goin lad i take no as no and dont hound people with mails etc,,, suppose its just playing the waiting game now n hopefully i get the chance eventually and build from there,, part of the fun i suppose?!

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By *auraxx OP   Woman
over a year ago

east

maybe im wrong tasty but based on numbers and other factors Id assume the UK is easier than Ireland.

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By *arkandEm14Couple
over a year ago

dublin

We rushed our first meet too. Wish we had of taken more time. We joined as complete newbies to the swing world and met 3 weeks later.

We don't regret the profile we chose and the night was incredible but we probably would have approached bit differently Bharat we of been more wiser.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"maybe im wrong tasty but based on numbers and other factors Id assume the UK is easier than Ireland."

yes it is as I joined fab when I lived in uk and had my first meet about a week later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined on a Tuesday and had a coffee meet the Thursday, luckily it was with a lovely lad but I really wish I had of taken my time when it came to actual meets but I was like a kid in a candy shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I originally joined it was about 8 weeks before I met someone. Glad I took my time as I ended up having a really good first-meet experience.

Memories...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i started a few yrs ago on another site, first meet was about 2 months after i joined. And that was after a lot of mails to the female before we met.

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By *heDevilsownMan
over a year ago

Go West

Hi I joined fabswingers over Xmas not met anybody yet but have chatted to some lovely people have sent and got a few replies and had no replies also but it a bit of fun trying to find ur way.. I presume once you get verification it will be a bit easier...

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By *leasureOrbitCouple
over a year ago

city centre

Three months. I was originally on S4I. I was very lucky to get chatting to and then met a woman who is well known on the scene and she opened many doors for me. I'm eternally in her debt!

J.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd given up twice before this profie, but once I'd this profile up it was a matter of a few weeks

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

A few weeks not that I did not have the opportunity to I suppose I was nervous. My first proper fab meet was very good and I have still been meeting him .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few weeks not that I did not have the opportunity to I suppose I was nervous. My first proper fab meet was very good and I have still been meeting him ."

Lucky chap :P

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"A few weeks not that I did not have the opportunity to I suppose I was nervous. My first proper fab meet was very good and I have still been meeting him .

Lucky chap :P"
lucky me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I started it took a little while I had a verification from a cpl friends of mine but that was all! I think unfortunately for single males the choice is huge for women and couple so it's very difficult to get noticed. Also lots of bad apples around that spoil it for the good singles around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

great to have a regular meet.

newbie here and got a few lined up this coming week.

can't complain at the moment. im testing the waters and going at my own pace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months for us, we live in London as well. We would have had a meet sooner but it seems to be really hard for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i started originally here as a couple took a month but when had my single profile two weeks for first meet but knew couple as male was my ex dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 days from first joining. Never regretted it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a Twitter meet, found out about fabs, then probably waited 2 months until we got the lay of the land. He got a membership & we met regularly until he left the country.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Joined on sat had a meet for coffee Thursday lunch timev and she mailed Thurs evening asking how was I fixed

But I think that was a bit of luck going by what some have experienced

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Joined and within a week we went to our first party had never even met a cpl for a drink lol...had the best time of our life....but I think we were very lucky in our hosts they were experienced party hosts so they knew just what to say and do to put a cpl of newbies at ease

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By *obilemeMan
over a year ago

belfast

I met quickly but the person i met had been around for a while. I think its very individual. meet when you feel ready. or limit it to soft meets first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few months before my first meet it pays to take your time "i think"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met this girl on Monday,

took her for a drink on Tuesday,

we were making love by Wednesday

and on Thursday & Friday & Saturday,

we chilled on Sunday....."

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford

A couple of days but it was pure blind luck. I think the couple were looking for anybody with a pulse who could meet at short notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rushed into my first meet here, big mistake, he was a rude moron when we met even though he was ok in mails. I learned a lesson, ever since ive been more cautious.

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"I rushed into my first meet here, big mistake, he was a rude moron when we met even though he was ok in mails. I learned a lesson, ever since ive been more cautious. "

Our first meet was similar

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

A couple of months for me. I wasnt in any particular rush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was about 2 months before I had a meet. It was well worth the wait and the best possible start to say the least. The downside was all the abusive mail I got cause I didn't have that pesky green tick. I was called a fake, a man, a total bitch etc. Meh! The rest they say is sexy history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was about 2 months before I had a meet. It was well worth the wait and the best possible start to say the least. The downside was all the abusive mail I got cause I didn't have that pesky green tick. I was called a fake, a man, a total bitch etc. Meh! The rest they say is sexy history "

I was always called a fake even with a green tick. Meh indeed.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"It was about 2 months before I had a meet. It was well worth the wait and the best possible start to say the least. The downside was all the abusive mail I got cause I didn't have that pesky green tick. I was called a fake, a man, a total bitch etc. Meh! The rest they say is sexy history

I was always called a fake even with a green tick. Meh indeed. "

there's lots of ticks on the site and not just green ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was about 2 months before I had a meet. It was well worth the wait and the best possible start to say the least. The downside was all the abusive mail I got cause I didn't have that pesky green tick. I was called a fake, a man, a total bitch etc. Meh! The rest they say is sexy history "

Hey missy u going on the 31st ?? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was about 2 months before I had a meet. It was well worth the wait and the best possible start to say the least. The downside was all the abusive mail I got cause I didn't have that pesky green tick. I was called a fake, a man, a total bitch etc. Meh! The rest they say is sexy history

I was always called a fake even with a green tick. Meh indeed. "

Feckin ejits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was about 2 months before I had a meet. It was well worth the wait and the best possible start to say the least. The downside was all the abusive mail I got cause I didn't have that pesky green tick. I was called a fake, a man, a total bitch etc. Meh! The rest they say is sexy history

Hey missy u going on the 31st ?? xx"

Sent you a mail there Lolita xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was about 2 months before I had a meet. It was well worth the wait and the best possible start to say the least. The downside was all the abusive mail I got cause I didn't have that pesky green tick. I was called a fake, a man, a total bitch etc. Meh! The rest they say is sexy history

I was always called a fake even with a green tick. Meh indeed.

there's lots of ticks on the site and not just green ones "

Lol I couldn't agree more Laid!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Was here as half of a couple first, and when I rejoined as a single I got verified quickly from previous meets. I then had a meet within a few weeks. Spent the rest of the time building up a good rep and after a few months I was getting regular meets and invites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was before in other site and it took me just few days until one lucky made me meet him..and I'm so happy I did

From fab was something similar and I'm happy my first fab guy is still here and still time to time we got fun together

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By *hristian GingerMan
over a year ago

Th'on place over yonder

Pushing 7 months now

Started off real slow - threw out a few messages and received only a handful back, was gonna give up until I spoke to a gent who gave me some pointers, which I think the best has to be

Be honest in what you want and say

Be active on forums and

Be polite, funny and cheeky if it calls for it

So any guys having trouble, it can't hurt to implement the above

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