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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hey everyone,, i joined here a few months ago but its only now i can actually start using it! even though im a genuine nice lad and not a bad lookin lad ( i dont think so anyways ) i noticed when ure new its very hard to get meeting as most want verified people,, so was wandering would other newbies along with some experienced people be up for a meet and greet would be a great way for honest genuine newbies to introduce themselves into this world? was thinking in the midlands somewhere... let me no what ye think cheers guys n girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would be more than happy to meet unverified... its only a coffee afterall..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ah k,,, just noticed 99 per cent i talk to here wont trust a unverified person,, either way a meet or greet myt be a good idea just to introduce the newbies to the scene n get to chat to experinced swingers abouts the dos the donts and that kinda thing,, just an idea thats all

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By *auraxxWoman
over a year ago

east

Most people wont. Unfortunately most on here have had a bad experience or 2 in the past so have become cautious. This means genuine newbies miss out. This could be a good idea to get verified as genuine and get started. Best of luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm fairly new too, and have been here only 2 weeks.

try get verified on cam, as its at least a start, and I interact on forums quite often.

Plus its all about being genuine, not pushy and making the others comfortable.

This has resulted in me having a couple of meets planned this coming week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ye my point exactly,,, dont mean this in a big headed way at all cause im genuinely not like that im actually quiet but im in good shape physically not a bad lookin lad im the type if i was experinced here i wouldnt have bother but all cause people look n see ive had no meets they think oh he might not be genuine,, and i understand that cause i can tell theres loads of time wasters and fakes here but its not fair on the genuine ones

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

it takes time and effort to build up your reputation on the site there is no quick way to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh i no that wrx,,, and im in no hurry im not pushy at all... just thought might be a good idea if no ones interested thats fine was just a suggestion thats all

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

the problem with a newbies meet and greet is that a lot of people wont turn up because if you are letting anyone go you know know how discreet these newbies will be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah thats true as well wrx! ah ill keep motoring along n hopefully it will work itself out in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem in meeting people for a coffee if they unverified & time & distance match as we all had to start somewhere but lately have been stood up a few times thus more cautious about who I arrange to meet, such a pity a handful make it hard for the genuine people to meet & get verified.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah i understand that when people r gettin let down by newbies then its hard for thwm to trust other ones,, its just a shame as i cant wait to start meeting new people n having some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah i understand that when people r gettin let down by newbies then its hard for thwm to trust other ones,, its just a shame as i cant wait to start meeting new people n having some fun"

Well the best thing u can do is what ur doing, chat in forums & the chatroom & people will soon get to know ur genuine & hopefully it won't be long before u get to meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a suggestion, how about well especially for single guys but I'm sure it will probably work for women too not so much for cpls. Gonna call it the buddy system,

So if you are a new guy and serious to get in maybe look for other well verified single guys about invite them to a beer make buddies with them that's your easy way in, I know few guys that started like that! Same for apply for girl meet a well verified girl for a "beer" or beverage of your choice

Then that's a start having a well verified person vouch for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks yeah ill keep goin n hopefully eventually someone that everyone knows is genuine will meet me 4 a cofee then they can verify me n people will see im genuine but wait i dont like coffee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i now no why people r so cautious,, just got a random message of a girl i havent spoken to on this saying shes copied al my pics n guna put them all over the internet! im shitting it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i now no why people r so cautious,, just got a random message of a girl i havent spoken to on this saying shes copied al my pics n guna put them all over the internet! im shitting it now "

Happened the other day too, just attention seeking twats

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah,, i nly have coc pics as public pics so hopefully no one will recongnise me from them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah,, i nly have coc pics as public pics so hopefully no one will recongnise me from them lol"

You don't have any photos showing in public...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah i wont anymore either lesson learned lol

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"yeah,, i nly have coc pics as public pics so hopefully no one will recongnise me from them lol"

that might have been the problem you where having not everyone likes profiles with just cock picks

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"yeah i wont anymore either lesson learned lol"

Nothing wrong with a body pic

in tight white boxers , just a thought

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i now no why people r so cautious,, just got a random message of a girl i havent spoken to on this saying shes copied al my pics n guna put them all over the internet! im shitting it now "

I got one aswell, in fact get them probably once a wk, ignore and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh i no wrx just i have alot of tats that i would be easily recongnised by so its hard to stick up a pic without them in it,, ill just keep them all private now so i can control who sees them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ah k lollipop! idioys ruin it 4 everyone else!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

the main problem the people have with unverified guys is that alot of them arrange meets and when it comes to the actual meet they either just don't turn up and ignore all calls msgs etc or they come up with lame excuses as to what happened. the amount of cats dogs and grandmothers that die the night of parties is scary you'd think there was a link between swinging and a cat dog granny genocide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the main problem the people have with unverified guys is that alot of them arrange meets and when it comes to the actual meet they either just don't turn up and ignore all calls msgs etc or they come up with lame excuses as to what happened. the amount of cats dogs and grandmothers that die the night of parties is scary you'd think there was a link between swinging and a cat dog granny genocide"

Definitely agree. Have gave few non meet verified chances and when came down to it waa the same thing each time, messages to confirm ignored or excuses. Keeping to well verified in future as limits the possibility of my time being wasted. Pity though as the guys who do this ruin it for the genuine guys who are trying to get started

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I would have no problem in meeting a lad for a coffee to verify him. We all started out in your position. Just contact a verified guy close to you and see would he meet for a chat.

All a verification really shows is that a person is real.

Best of luck with it buddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what if my pet monkey dies it that a good excuse?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hopefully u can verify me come 2morow

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