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By *ingerrrr OP   Woman
over a year ago

Meath

This is not a rant.. I'm in way too good form to rant. I'm just puzzled...

Why do random "strangers" send friend requests without a so much as a "hi"?

Does it work? Do people just add?

I know I don't.

What do the requester want to achieve?

Is it just pictures?

What ya think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures for the wank bank ginger. We just block them cause we consider it pure rudeness.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I don't get it either? It feels a bit rude. .esp those that don't have any pics and are unverified.

I don't add people to my friends list unless I have met them in person. ...... Or they are geographically far away and we have chatted for a good while.... so I just ignore them and leave them there, (if you delete them they just resend but if you leave them there they can't. )

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I don't reply to friends requests without chatting than I decide if I want to add them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, obviously pic collectors .No chance will we ever accept them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do exactly the same Mrs S. Ive even got rid of my friend only pics to discourage them from sending invites. not that it has worked.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"I do exactly the same Mrs S. Ive even got rid of my friend only pics to discourage them from sending invites. not that it has worked. "

I've never even had any friend pics and get the random invites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posted this earlier on a thread,Random friend request hate it! We kept getting a friend request from someone and after the 10th request I mailed them with don't you read the profile? And got a nasty mail back,but as a lovely fabber pointed out just stop deleting the requests and they can't send another one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it is a bit rude

but i just accept the ones that i have been chatting with and delete the rest

i have decided for 2015 im not going to sweat the small stuff

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

Ah feck I'm always deleting them! Good tip guys will leave them there anymore!

It is very annoying when the same people keep sending requests but can't even bother saying as much as a hi! Most of our private pics have our faces in them so we don't want to accept invites from people we don't know

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Some people are just a bit mad....

Some are just chancers and some just nutjobs.

The trick is knowing how to deal with them....

Sadly some get all the others a bad name and thats the really frustrating bit as it stops some of us who have manners and respect from being able to get in touch with people.

But thats the world we have to operate in, so no choice but to get on with it.

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By *ale4fun2Man
over a year ago

Somewhere

Ok I am new here who wanna be my friend.

Send your friend request.

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo

Haven't sent any and didn't receive any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say it doesn't bother me, I have no friends only pics so I accept all requests. Makes no odds to me whos on my friends list or not, ive never even looked to see who's on mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they make an effort at communicating fair enough but randomly they get ignored ... The only time I even look is if there is someone I'm interested in other than that I don't even bother looking at the friend request tab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep ginger know exactly how you feel this is always happening to me. Just sick and tried of getting them from total random but well verified cpls and females. Come on pls I have feelings you know and at least hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always a privelege to be a friend of Gingers xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt add anyone i hadnt talked to as a friend nor would i ask them to add me if i hadnt been chatting to them for a while. Its pic collectors want to see your private pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only benefit of friends on here is seeing their friend only pictures and friends updates..... I hid our friends pictures for 3 months and during that time we didn't get one friend request. So, now if we get one without knowing or chatting we just message and ask why did they send it? More often than not they don't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures for the wank bank ginger. We just block them cause we consider it pure rudeness."
...Ditto !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept friend requests unless I've met them in person first at least!! Now 1 or 2 of the forum regulars might try to get me to accept their friend request......but I don't give in, not even to them!! lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got one yesterday. I didn't except it and asked him why he sent it without even saying hi. He never even replied and assume he just wanted a look. Well he won't be looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block them straightaway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont even look at friend requests

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