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This place needs curvy verifications!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not been here long, but Jesus Christ all this meet verification, picture verification stuff. Someone should get a handle on the amount of woman saying they're curvy in here when they are actually overweight, curvy is not fat. Nothing wrong with being overweight if that's what your into, but call a spade a spade. Head wrecker!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you'd like an 'overweight' decription word added to profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, everybody has different takes on what curvy is, maybe you might think a person is fat but somebody else might not think that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not been here long, but Jesus Christ all this meet verification, picture verification stuff. Someone should get a handle on the amount of woman saying they're curvy in here when they are actually overweight, curvy is not fat. Nothing wrong with being overweight if that's what your into, but call a spade a spade. Head wrecker!!!!!"

Brave man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not been here long, but Jesus Christ all this meet verification, picture verification stuff. Someone should get a handle on the amount of woman saying they're curvy in here when they are actually overweight, curvy is not fat. Nothing wrong with being overweight if that's what your into, but call a spade a spade. Head wrecker!!!!!"
wow thats gonna go down im curvy and id never call myself fat or overweight thats just mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not been here long, but Jesus Christ all this meet verification, picture verification stuff. Someone should get a handle on the amount of woman saying they're curvy in here when they are actually overweight, curvy is not fat. Nothing wrong with being overweight if that's what your into, but call a spade a spade. Head wrecker!!!!!

Brave man. "

Needed to be said it's wrecking my head no point beating round the bush there's enough of that going on. Just stick down a few extra pounds not curvy, google curvy, it is not overweight no matter how u cut it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same rant could be used for the 'athletic' body description....considering athletes range from runners to sumo wrestlers.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which do u prefer?

Curvy or overweight? And when does curvy become fat?

Everyone's perception is different I suppose

Not sure this thread is gonna go down well but hats off to u for being straight with it

Too many bullshitters on here will say what people want to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same rant could be used for the 'athletic' body description....considering athletes range from runners to sumo wrestlers....."

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare

Googled it : http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=curvy

"a word people sometimes use to describe fat girls", "A euphamism for fat" etc.

Curves are arse and tits so unless there is implants there must be fat so that there are curves.

Maybe you should google what curvy means now a days rather than back in Victorian times, or put on your page on top of all the other things you are looking for is a stick boy shape with flat chest.

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare


"The same rant could be used for the 'athletic' body description....considering athletes range from runners to sumo wrestlers....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same rant could be used for the 'athletic' body description....considering athletes range from runners to sumo wrestlers....."

Hahahahahahahahaha love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The same rant could be used for the 'athletic' body description....considering athletes range from runners to sumo wrestlers....."

Don't think so athletic is athletic I dint think anyone could argue that a sumo wrestler has an athletic body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't disagree with you. I've put down ample because there is more than enough of me lol. I've curves but I'm not curvy because I know I'm overweight but fuck it, I know I can change it

And if people can see a body shape from pics the description doesn't really matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being athletic is having natural physical ability. Being an athlete is participating in athletics. There are many people who are extremely athletic, but are not athletes because they do not take advantage of their abilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same rant could be used for the 'athletic' body description....considering athletes range from runners to sumo wrestlers.....

Don't think so athletic is athletic I dint think anyone could argue that a sumo wrestler has an athletic body "

Google 'athlete'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op enjoy your very short time here

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare


"Op enjoy your very short time here "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Googled it : http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=curvy

"a word people sometimes use to describe fat girls", "A euphamism for fat" etc.

Curves are arse and tits so unless there is implants there must be fat so that there are curves.

Maybe you should google what curvy means now a days rather than back in Victorian times, or put on your page on top of all the other things you are looking for is a stick boy shape with flat chest."

You shuda kept reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op enjoy your very short time here "

Hey he's 'athletic' those guys have stamina for longevity ...nothing curvy about them

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I just hate labels what about the person....if someone doesn't suite either by there profile text,prefences, or pictures we move on....I suggest you do the same....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And who decides what's curvy ?

Why should people have to label themselves at all

if you don't want to meet bigger girls don't look at there profile simple

the best thing about fab is there is someone for everyone

even you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I like a bit of meat in a guy, something to feel & squeeze and it makes for good hugging and I love that!!! lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems I have hit a nerve here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And who decides what's curvy ?

Why should people have to label themselves at all

if you don't want to meet bigger girls don't look at there profile simple

the best thing about fab is there is someone for everyone

even you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems I have hit a nerve here"

Lol no shit sherlock!!! You mean that wasnt ur intention all along?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmmmmmm cuuuurrrrrvvvvvvvyyyyyyyyyyyyy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems I have hit a nerve here

Lol no shit sherlock!!! You mean that wasnt ur intention all along? "

Not really as I said I have no problem with with being overweight, just think curvy get a raw deal on here, call a spade a spade, just a wee rant

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare


"It seems I have hit a nerve here

Lol no shit sherlock!!! You mean that wasnt ur intention all along? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems I have hit a nerve here

Lol no shit sherlock!!! You mean that wasnt ur intention all along?

Not really as I said I have no problem with with being overweight, just think curvy get a raw deal on here, call a spade a spade, just a wee rant "

What does call a spade a spade mean? We are people here, no spades

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By *ational AdvantageMan
over a year ago

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You are dead right Lucas...lots of people I know here told me that Curvy, Large etc is another way of saying ( fill in the blanks ) ! There is more of that on here than normal figures...I was overweight one time and did something about it, so it can be done and I ain't going to meet bbw's etc and genuflect to them sort of speak. I aim to meet fab's not flab's !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems I have hit a nerve here

Lol no shit sherlock!!! You mean that wasnt ur intention all along?

Not really as I said I have no problem with with being overweight, just think curvy get a raw deal on here, call a spade a spade, just a wee rant

What does call a spade a spade mean?

We are people here, no spades "

You'll have to look that up too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems I have hit a nerve here

Lol no shit sherlock!!! You mean that wasnt ur intention all along?

Not really as I said I have no problem with with being overweight, just think curvy get a raw deal on here, call a spade a spade, just a wee rant "

Lol fair enough. Apologies though because we are getting used to people posting controversial topics deliberately to get a reaction from users of the forum. Since that wasnt ur intention, yes u have hit a nerve because as one person has pointed out, everyones opinion on body shape and type differs. And people dont always identify with the most common perception of a particular bodytype description.

Until the day comes when we are issued with a strict scale by which to measure our body type and categorise ourselves, it is all very open to interpretation, personal image, and preference. My advise my friend, look at the pictures and make up ur own mind as to whether a lady is to ur tastes or not. And if that fails meet her for a coffee, best way to come to a decision on all counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems I have hit a nerve here

Lol no shit sherlock!!! You mean that wasnt ur intention all along?

Not really as I said I have no problem with with being overweight, just think curvy get a raw deal on here, call a spade a spade, just a wee rant

What does call a spade a spade mean?

We are people here, no spades

You'll have to look that up too "

Hehe will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are dead right Lucas...lots of people I know here told me that Curvy, Large etc is another way of saying ( fill in the blanks ) ! There is more of that on here than normal figures...I was overweight one time and did something about it, so it can be done and I ain't going to meet bbw's etc and genuflect to them sort of speak. I aim to meet fab's not flab's !"

Nice quote....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size is all about perception and everyone's is different, if sites like fab had to categorise every type body shape the list would go on and on, people who play football or rugby could call themselves atheletic but then based on your description they wouldn't be to be atheletic you would have to look like Mo farrah or linford Christie or daily Thompson or Fatima Whitbread and all of those people have different body shapes.

So yes you can be a curvy size 6 or 16 even if your carrying a little more weight or as you put it fat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems I have hit a nerve here

Lol no shit sherlock!!! You mean that wasnt ur intention all along?

Not really as I said I have no problem with with being overweight, just think curvy get a raw deal on here, call a spade a spade, just a wee rant

Lol fair enough. Apologies though because we are getting used to people posting controversial topics deliberately to get a reaction from users of the forum. Since that wasnt ur intention, yes u have hit a nerve because as one person has pointed out, everyones opinion on body shape and type differs. And people dont always identify with the most common perception of a particular bodytype description.

Until the day comes when we are issued with a strict scale by which to measure our body type and categorise ourselves, it is all very open to interpretation, personal image, and preference. My advise my friend, look at the pictures and make up ur own mind as to whether a lady is to ur tastes or not. And if that fails meet her for a coffee, best way to come to a decision on all counts. "

Right I'll get to work on that scale, I know what your saying, I see curvy in the profile,,, look at pics,,, not curvy, I wouldn't mind once r twice but ffs it's 95% of the time. Ok rant over there should be no option for body type really, that would save all the annoyance and confusion.

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

Why is it when some women take offence to the label discussion especially when it comes to the curvy/ample/overweight discussion that at some point a reference will be made by a woman to stick/skinny/flat/boney women? Surely this is disputing a stance by adopting the same stance. Please note I said some women, but why attack any woman's form to refute what a man has said here.

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By *ational AdvantageMan
over a year ago

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Not here for your convenience and that there is so many messers on here I meet via other sites and venues, been there, done that on here, people that I have met here were fine, other profile leave a lot to be desired. A lot have no verifications or comments here, untold dreamers and time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems I have hit a nerve here

Lol no shit sherlock!!! You mean that wasnt ur intention all along?

Not really as I said I have no problem with with being overweight, just think curvy get a raw deal on here, call a spade a spade, just a wee rant

Lol fair enough. Apologies though because we are getting used to people posting controversial topics deliberately to get a reaction from users of the forum. Since that wasnt ur intention, yes u have hit a nerve because as one person has pointed out, everyones opinion on body shape and type differs. And people dont always identify with the most common perception of a particular bodytype description.

Until the day comes when we are issued with a strict scale by which to measure our body type and categorise ourselves, it is all very open to interpretation, personal image, and preference. My advise my friend, look at the pictures and make up ur own mind as to whether a lady is to ur tastes or not. And if that fails meet her for a coffee, best way to come to a decision on all counts.

Right I'll get to work on that scale, I know what your saying, I see curvy in the profile,,, look at pics,,, not curvy, I wouldn't mind once r twice but ffs it's 95% of the time. Ok rant over there should be no option for body type really, that would save all the annoyance and confusion. "

i for one would love to see bodytype abolished i hate labels personally and prefer to make my own mind up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You see, some gd may come from my wee rant, I doubt it but just maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it when some women take offence to the label discussion especially when it comes to the curvy/ample/overweight discussion that at some point a reference will be made by a woman to stick/skinny/flat/boney women? Surely this is disputing a stance by adopting the same stance. Please note I said some women, but why attack any woman's form to refute what a man has said here.

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By *ational AdvantageMan
over a year ago

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Hopefully, doubt it though...I wouldn't mind but fairly trim guys seem to be treated like dirt by some bbw's etc..should always start by looking at home I think. They are always logged on here too, would make you wonder alright..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopefully, doubt it though...I wouldn't mind but fairly trim guys seem to be treated like dirt by some bbw's etc..should always start by looking at home I think. They are always logged on here too, would make you wonder alright.."

Erm hate to point out the obvious here darlin but how do u know if they are always logged on, unless you also are always logged on

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

people have very little to get annoyed about these days - at least it gives me something to read when i get home from work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people have very little to get annoyed about these days - at least it gives me something to read when i get home from work"

Tis mad so it is willy. Did i tell u bout the hairs i have growing on the palm of my hand???

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"people have very little to get annoyed about these days - at least it gives me something to read when i get home from work

Tis mad so it is willy. Did i tell u bout the hairs i have growing on the palm of my hand???"

i have those - i never worry about them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people have very little to get annoyed about these days - at least it gives me something to read when i get home from work

Tis mad so it is willy. Did i tell u bout the hairs i have growing on the palm of my hand???

i have those - i never worry about them though"

Sure jaysus i dont be worrying bout em either. Dont they save me a fortune in gloves for the winter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not been here long, but Jesus Christ all this meet verification, picture verification stuff. Someone should get a handle on the amount of woman saying they're curvy in here when they are actually overweight, curvy is not fat. Nothing wrong with being overweight if that's what your into, but call a spade a spade. Head wrecker!!!!!"

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"people have very little to get annoyed about these days - at least it gives me something to read when i get home from work

Tis mad so it is willy. Did i tell u bout the hairs i have growing on the palm of my hand???

i have those - i never worry about them though

Sure jaysus i dont be worrying bout em either. Dont they save me a fortune in gloves for the winter"

and a nice tickly feel when i am scratching me arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people have very little to get annoyed about these days - at least it gives me something to read when i get home from work

Tis mad so it is willy. Did i tell u bout the hairs i have growing on the palm of my hand???

i have those - i never worry about them though

Sure jaysus i dont be worrying bout em either. Dont they save me a fortune in gloves for the winter

and a nice tickly feel when i am scratching me arse"

Yeara i use the wire brush for that job. Sure me arse is tough as an auld boot anyone would tell ya

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Wow!! Now im all confused....... am I curvy or am i a spade ????

i agree that labels are horrible but sadly thats the world we live in. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder folks...... makes no difference what we call ourselves. Be yourself and be happy

miss _cjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow!! Now im all confused....... am I curvy or am i a spade ????

i agree that labels are horrible but sadly thats the world we live in. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder folks...... makes no difference what we call ourselves. Be yourself and be happy

miss _cjoy "

Well said there!! btw you're very sexy!!

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"Wow!! Now im all confused....... am I curvy or am i a spade ????

i agree that labels are horrible but sadly thats the world we live in. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder folks...... makes no difference what we call ourselves. Be yourself and be happy

miss _cjoy

Well said there!! btw you're very sexy!! "

Thank you, and as are you Rosebud

miss _cjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow!! Now im all confused....... am I curvy or am i a spade ????

i agree that labels are horrible but sadly thats the world we live in. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder folks...... makes no difference what we call ourselves. Be yourself and be happy

miss _cjoy

Well said there!! btw you're very sexy!!

Thank you, and as are you Rosebud

miss _cjoy "

Thanks!

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By *uaveGentMan
over a year ago

dublin

Why fret about it? Its not like there are 1000s of women her from which YOU can make 'a choice'. Single fem (and indeed couples for males) profiles could well be totally without any information and they'd still be as busy as they wanted to be.

So dont fret about it and get on with making friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why fret about it? Its not like there are 1000s of women her from which YOU can make 'a choice'. Single fem (and indeed couples for males) profiles could well be totally without any information and they'd still be as busy as they wanted to be.

So dont fret about it and get on with making friends."

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Wow!! Now im all confused....... am I curvy or am i a spade ????

i agree that labels are horrible but sadly thats the world we live in. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder folks...... makes no difference what we call ourselves. Be yourself and be happy

miss _cjoy

Well said there!! btw you're very sexy!!

Thank you, and as are you Rosebud

miss _cjoy "

isn't a curvy spade a shovel ?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"people have very little to get annoyed about these days - at least it gives me something to read when i get home from work

Tis mad so it is willy. Did i tell u bout the hairs i have growing on the palm of my hand???

i have those - i never worry about them though

Sure jaysus i dont be worrying bout em either. Dont they save me a fortune in gloves for the winter

and a nice tickly feel when i am scratching me arse

Yeara i use the wire brush for that job. Sure me arse is tough as an auld boot anyone would tell ya"

Ouch surely the wire brush gets caught in the hair on ur arse

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Wow!! Now im all confused....... am I curvy or am i a spade ????

i agree that labels are horrible but sadly thats the world we live in. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder folks...... makes no difference what we call ourselves. Be yourself and be happy

miss _cjoy

Well said there!! btw you're very sexy!!

Thank you, and as are you Rosebud

miss _cjoy

isn't a curvy spade a shovel ? "

If its a bbw shovel would that be a bucket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyone else not surprised this guy only has one friend on his profile? "

How can you see that?

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over a year ago

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"anyone else not surprised this guy only has one friend on his profile?

How can you see that?"

On the desk top version if gives an option to show the first twenty on ur friends list

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By *rian78Man
over a year ago

navan

Most of the ladies are honest about their figures if you bother to read there profiles properly. If curvy or bbw aren't your thing or you don't like fattys move on and look for those stick thin size 6s and 8s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopefully, doubt it though...I wouldn't mind but fairly trim guys seem to be treated like dirt by some bbw's etc..should always start by looking at home I think. They are always logged on here too, would make you wonder alright.."

wat so a bbw has no right to be picky. Should just fall at the feet of anyone that contacts her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some very shallow people here all the same . Might be a time to remind the original poster that people are far more than labels .

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By *rian78Man
over a year ago

navan


"some very shallow people here all the same . Might be a time to remind the original poster that people are far more than labels ."

very true but you will always have those that think they are better than others and will lable and abuse to make themselves feel better about themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some very shallow people here all the same . Might be a time to remind the original poster that people are far more than labels ."

i think he knows that already...hes just annoyed at a perceived misuse of said labels by some women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman puts on her profile that she's looking for young fit athletic men who are well hung, and isn't interested in veering from that 'standard', she's choosy, picky and knows what she wants. If a man says he prefers the female version of that and makes a post about it, he can be anything from 'just being honest' to an opinionated arsehole in five seconds flat. I do think the opening comment could have been worded more diplomatically, but the man is entitled to his opinion whether we like it or agree to it or not. From an ample, curvy woman, take me or leave me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes and all that!

How many "well hung" guys obviously used the right angle when taking a cock pic...

You don't have to meet curvy women ...and I doubt greatly your inbox is full of messages from nothing but curvy overweight fatties

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny because

When us .. Slim / athletic women have particular types ...

We are considered ... Cocky .. Bitches .. Up

Our own holes !

No one body type wins here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the ladies are honest about their figures if you bother to read there profiles properly. If curvy or bbw aren't your thing or you don't like fattys move on and look for those stick thin size 6s and 8s. "

There's nothing wrong with being a size 6/8 either so no need to call bigger ladies "fattys" or smaller ladies "stick thin"

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Lets call a spade a spade so,this thread reek of bitterness. Guys join and get rejected by few women and they think who are they to reject me,and bitterness creeps in

how someone describes themselves on their profile has nothing to do with anyone else,its how they see themselves,if they have public pics up,unlike alot of the bitter "athletic" guys who posted btw,or swap pics with you you can make up your own mind,privately.

The bodytype category is the most useless part of the site,who bases their meets onwhat it says?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does poster want our specific weight detailed ... jesus the mind boggles

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By *urious2013cCouple
over a year ago

Co Cork

Op you are just rude if people want to describe themselves as curvey it's their choice if you don't like it move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually pondered on what to put down on my discription too lots of times. Maybe there should be a greater variance and then the real shallow people will be satisfied. It won't bother me because I'll be meeting people who actually are attracted to me and not my body type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op you are just rude if people want to describe themselves as curvey it's their choice if you don't like it move on "

I agree...dead right....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've actually pondered on what to put down on my discription too lots of times. Maybe there should be a greater variance and then the real shallow people will be satisfied. It won't bother me because I'll be meeting people who actually are attracted to me and not my body type "

Did you not click the "hot as fuck" button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same rant could be used for the 'athletic' body description....considering athletes range from runners to sumo wrestlers....."
well said. I'm curvy/fat or whatever you think. Brave thread

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over a year ago


"I've actually pondered on what to put down on my discription too lots of times. Maybe there should be a greater variance and then the real shallow people will be satisfied. It won't bother me because I'll be meeting people who actually are attracted to me and not my body type "

But surely the attraction is to the whole person .. The personality , the body , the aura someone gives off !!

I know loads of lovely sound people but I don't want to have sex with them as its the aesthetic of the person that really gets my juices flowing !! I don't think its fair to say that is shallow ! Surely that's how our sex instinct works ! Attraction ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same rant could be used for the 'athletic' body description....considering athletes range from runners to sumo wrestlers.....well said. I'm curvy/fat or whatever you think. Brave thread "

Dahling be FABULOUS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've actually pondered on what to put down on my discription too lots of times. Maybe there should be a greater variance and then the real shallow people will be satisfied. It won't bother me because I'll be meeting people who actually are attracted to me and not my body type

But surely the attraction is to the whole person .. The personality , the body , the aura someone gives off !!

I know loads of lovely sound people but I don't want to have sex with them as its the aesthetic of the person that really gets my juices flowing !! I don't think its fair to say that is shallow ! Surely that's how our sex instinct works ! Attraction ?! "
I usually wouldn't agree with you lol but in this case I think you are spot on physical attractions is important at first impressions go at the end of the day you hardly expect someone to like you for who you are if you just met them they don't know you!

Now I would agree to everyone have different taste! But body description well you can use it to suit your needs.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Its not shallow to have specific preferences but my point is who is anyone to say who's fat or curvy.people can describe themselves how ever they want

and the guys jumping in for op with "athletic" on profile and no public pics,that's a bit rich

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I personally can't tell from a PIC if I will be attracted to someone enough to have sex with them or not... the PIC only gives a guide line to if its a possibility that I will want to have sex...real attraction is so much more..Mrs Davie t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP could have expressed his feelings about fat people a bit more nicely, but at the end of the day, everyone has their preferences. Just because he doesn't fancy overweight women, doesn't mean he's shallow. It also doesn't mean he likes 'stick figures' as some said.

But I think the point of his post is that people are not being truthful about their physical appearance. Well, a lot of people are not being truthful about a lot of things. It comes with the internet.

OP, just look at the pics and don't get all annoyed about it. You may think a woman size 18 or 20 is not curvy but in her eyes she may be. It's all down to interpretation.

This is what pics and going on cam are for!

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally can't tell from a PIC if I will be attracted to someone enough to have sex with them or not... the PIC only gives a guide line to if its a possibility that I will want to have sex...real attraction is so much more..Mrs Davie t"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've actually pondered on what to put down on my discription too lots of times. Maybe there should be a greater variance and then the real shallow people will be satisfied. It won't bother me because I'll be meeting people who actually are attracted to me and not my body type

But surely the attraction is to the whole person .. The personality , the body , the aura someone gives off !!

I know loads of lovely sound people but I don't want to have sex with them as its the aesthetic of the person that really gets my juices flowing !! I don't think its fair to say that is shallow ! Surely that's how our sex instinct works ! Attraction ?! "
Hun I've met men here that if I met in a pub I wouldn't go next not near. But I've been drawn to their banter their experience the attraction has been elsewhere not just physical with me that's why I find it shallow boxing people into body shape types. There can be athletic skinny people that have faces like bulldogs but that's not a type on here either. I'm not argueing that there shouldn't be larger variance but I really do find it all pretty shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and sorry in advance about the poor bulldog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've actually pondered on what to put down on my discription too lots of times. Maybe there should be a greater variance and then the real shallow people will be satisfied. It won't bother me because I'll be meeting people who actually are attracted to me and not my body type

But surely the attraction is to the whole person .. The personality , the body , the aura someone gives off !!

I know loads of lovely sound people but I don't want to have sex with them as its the aesthetic of the person that really gets my juices flowing !! I don't think its fair to say that is shallow ! Surely that's how our sex instinct works ! Attraction ?! Hun I've met men here that if I met in a pub I wouldn't go next not near. But I've been drawn to their banter their experience the attraction has been elsewhere not just physical with me that's why I find it shallow boxing people into body shape types. There can be athletic skinny people that have faces like bulldogs but that's not a type on here either. I'm not argueing that there shouldn't be larger variance but I really do find it all pretty shallow. "

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Anyway what is a curvy verification? Does the guy even understand the workings of the site

another newbie guy who wants to change fab to suit himself for the brief time they're here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 6ft2 nicely built i keep myself in good shape but dont have massive muscles but i would still call myself athelic.I was once told on here i wasnt tall enough due to my height i often wonder was the lady looking for jolly green giant or something.

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

Myself and himself actually had this discussion a few days ago and we both agree that firstly there are only a few categories in the list unless you want them to add over weight, obese, morbidly obese? But being a bbw I can honestly say that I would never check those boxes because it's a bit insulting and also every body's idea of these are differnt. And if we are going that far we might as well go the whole hog and have categories for how big a guys micky is starting with micro right up to horse size! I can guess that no one would ever click micro!

If you really feel like your being conned then take the time to study people's pics if people don't suit your fancy then just move on!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I don't think categories are needed when there's a picture option..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself and himself actually had this discussion a few days ago and we both agree that firstly there are only a few categories in the list unless you want them to add over weight, obese, morbidly obese? But being a bbw I can honestly say that I would never check those boxes because it's a bit insulting and also every body's idea of these are differnt. And if we are going that far we might as well go the whole hog and have categories for how big a guys micky is starting with micro right up to horse size! I can guess that no one would ever click micro!

If you really feel like your being conned then take the time to study people's pics if people don't suit your fancy then just move on!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've actually pondered on what to put down on my discription too lots of times. Maybe there should be a greater variance and then the real shallow people will be satisfied. It won't bother me because I'll be meeting people who actually are attracted to me and not my body type

But surely the attraction is to the whole person .. The personality , the body , the aura someone gives off !!

I know loads of lovely sound people but I don't want to have sex with them as its the aesthetic of the person that really gets my juices flowing !! I don't think its fair to say that is shallow ! Surely that's how our sex instinct works ! Attraction ?! Hun I've met men here that if I met in a pub I wouldn't go next not near. But I've been drawn to their banter their experience the attraction has been elsewhere not just physical with me that's why I find it shallow boxing people into body shape types. There can be athletic skinny people that have faces like bulldogs but that's not a type on here either. I'm not argueing that there shouldn't be larger variance but I really do find it all pretty shallow. "

of course its shallow, its sex...thats only natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've actually pondered on what to put down on my discription too lots of times. Maybe there should be a greater variance and then the real shallow people will be satisfied. It won't bother me because I'll be meeting people who actually are attracted to me and not my body type

But surely the attraction is to the whole person .. The personality , the body , the aura someone gives off !!

I know loads of lovely sound people but I don't want to have sex with them as its the aesthetic of the person that really gets my juices flowing !! I don't think its fair to say that is shallow ! Surely that's how our sex instinct works ! Attraction ?! Hun I've met men here that if I met in a pub I wouldn't go next not near. But I've been drawn to their banter their experience the attraction has been elsewhere not just physical with me that's why I find it shallow boxing people into body shape types. There can be athletic skinny people that have faces like bulldogs but that's not a type on here either. I'm not argueing that there shouldn't be larger variance but I really do find it all pretty shallow.

of course its shallow, its sex...thats only natural"
not my debate and not giving out that's his trait lol not mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not been here long, but Jesus Christ all this meet verification, picture verification stuff. Someone should get a handle on the amount of woman saying they're curvy in here when they are actually overweight, curvy is not fat. Nothing wrong with being overweight if that's what your into, but call a spade a spade. Head wrecker!!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like to reiterate my above statement. Enjoy your short stay OP

Mr.bossy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just like to reiterate my above statement. Enjoy your short stay OP

Mr.bossy "

why the need to reiterate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not been here long, but Jesus Christ all this meet verification, picture verification stuff. Someone should get a handle on the amount of woman saying they're curvy in here when they are actually overweight, curvy is not fat. Nothing wrong with being overweight if that's what your into, but call a spade a spade. Head wrecker!!!!!"

I watched the darts last night and alot of the guys were very Curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not been here long, but Jesus Christ all this meet verification, picture verification stuff. Someone should get a handle on the amount of woman saying they're curvy in here when they are actually overweight, curvy is not fat. Nothing wrong with being overweight if that's what your into, but call a spade a spade. Head wrecker!!!!!"

good luck with this posting prince charming .. Pooopcorn ..POOOOOOPCORN !!!

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

If your idea of curvy is a women with tits and ass then why can't a bigger girl call herself curvy if she has said curves? Or would we have to specify that she is both "fat" and curvy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never understand why people care so much about this shit, you must have very little to think about OP, big fucking whoop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will never understand why people care so much about this shit, you must have very little to think about OP, big fucking whoop."
whoop whoop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with previous posts here in that everyone has different opinions on size, be it about being curvey or cock size. Same goes for attractiveness, what other women find attractive maybe I wouldn't and vice versa. For me, it is all about sexual attraction. Its either there between 2 people or its not.....if its not, walk on if its is.....

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By *irty MurtyMan
over a year ago

my place


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I watched the darts last night and alot of the guys were very Curvy "

there Not curvy there top athletes in there sport so they qualify as athletic so i must too

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By *oonbeam69TV/TS
over a year ago

out of the earth

Has anyone else read this thread and thought about what happens before and after the deed? Men/Women of all shapes and sizes can have a good time, just because your body definition isn't what the shallow perceive to be perfect doesn't mean you aren't beautiful and can't be a sexy fucker!!! Different people are turned on by different things, thats what makes the world go round and makes certain people connect more with some more than they would with others. To question your motives over meeting someone purely because how they see their body shape shows a narrow-mindedness of the most beautiful part of a man or a woman..... the brain!!!

Note I included men and women in this as it not just women who can be described as curvy as the thread seems to be onesided with!!!

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By *ittle_janineTV/TS
over a year ago

galway


"Not been here long, but Jesus Christ all this meet verification, picture verification stuff. Someone should get a handle on the amount of woman saying they're curvy in here when they are actually overweight, curvy is not fat. Nothing wrong with being overweight if that's what your into, but call a spade a spade. Head wrecker!!!!!"

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By *ockhard and SweetcheeksCouple
over a year ago

City


"Not here for your convenience and that there is so many messers on here I meet via other sites and venues, been there, done that on here, people that I have met here were fine, other profile leave a lot to be desired. A lot have no verifications or comments here, untold dreamers and time wasters. "

You'd wana take a good look at your own profile first before you go slating others

no pictures not even a profile pic and ur account is very bland

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The OP could have expressed his feelings about fat people a bit more nicely, but at the end of the day, everyone has their preferences. Just because he doesn't fancy overweight women, doesn't mean he's shallow. It also doesn't mean he likes 'stick figures' as some said.

But I think the point of his post is that people are not being truthful about their physical appearance. Well, a lot of people are not being truthful about a lot of things. It comes with the internet.

OP, just look at the pics and don't get all annoyed about it. You may think a woman size 18 or 20 is not curvy but in her eyes she may be. It's all down to interpretation.

This is what pics and going on cam are for!

Best of luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not here for your convenience and that there is so many messers on here I meet via other sites and venues, been there, done that on here, people that I have met here were fine, other profile leave a lot to be desired. A lot have no verifications or comments here, untold dreamers and time wasters.

You'd wana take a good look at your own profile first before you go slating others

no pictures not even a profile pic and ur account is very bland "

Hey, that guy has been sent on the bold corner....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't see him there

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