FabSwingers.com forum: what to do to get in the mood for sex again

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi folks Marie here just looking for tips or advice on how to regain my mood for sex again I've been on a dip for the last few months which isn't fair to Eamonn

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Hi Marie.

That sounds like a pretty difficult situation. But I think all couples go through ups and downs sexually, perhaps not for months at a time. Real life stresses and strain can put pressure on us all and sometimes our mojo takes a hit because of that.

By the sound of you guys from your profile, ye seem like a very together, strong couple and I'm sure that ye will get through this.

I don't know anything about your guys personal life but I would recommend spending more time alone together not talking about real life worries or money, kids etc. Don't make the time together about sex either, just take time to connect with your husband again and I'm pretty sure the sexual spark will come back.

I hope this helps

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said, no need to panic, It's not unusual to go through blips, take care xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Marie.

By the sound of you guys from your profile, ye seem like a very together, strong couple and I'm sure that ye will get through this.

I hope this helps

Miss Mcjoy

Great advice Miss Mcjoy as always

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Agree with miss _cjoy...it happens ...get away the two of you on your own doesn't have to be far a simple walk in the countryside can work as long as ye don't talk about family stuff or swinging just you....good luck

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

"Agree with miss _cjoy...it happens ...get away the two of you on your own doesn't have to be far a simple walk in the countryside can work as long as ye don't talk about family stuff or swinging just you....good luck"

Miss Mcjoy

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

I agree also with Miss Mcjoy, everyone goes through something like that at some point. It's completely normal for life to get in the way sometimes, it's happened to me a few times. I find setting time aside for alone time with himself is so simple but so effective even if it's just to watch a movie in bed together to begin with and most importantly try not to stress too much about it. I also find alone time for yourself important too, self satisfaction is an important part of a healthy libido

You'll find the more you do it the more you'll want it!

Hope this helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi folks Marie here just looking for tips or advice on how to regain my mood for sex again I've been on a dip for the last few months which isn't fair to Eamonn "

it depends on the situation .. there is no overall valid advice

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork

Very brave post,,we have to remember we are not machines but humans and there is more to life than sex

I hope eamon gives you a big hug

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Do some reading . Interesting facts and figures about different topics can spark up an interest again . If you want a few tips . PM

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