FabSwingers.com forum: sharing cost

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just messaged a couple in Galway looking for men and said if they couldn't accom would share cost of room. Reply was "No you mean bastard now get lost."

Charming am sure. How to win friends and influence people!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh... If I invited someone for a meal I'd pay..

If I invited a cpl to a hotel to meet them, then I would also pay...

On the other hand if a cpl wanted to meet me and had a hotel booked I'd expect to pay half then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just messaged a couple in Galway looking for men and said if they couldn't accom would share cost of room. Reply was "No you mean bastard now get lost."

Charming am sure. How to win friends and influence people!!"
Maybe they wanted to treat you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they were travelling specifically to see us then we would always offer to share the cost (particularly as they probably had transport costs on top as well). If they had a hotel booked in the area anyway then no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always pay I'd were looking for a meet,I think its cheap to look for half to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree. But they said they could accommodate and its with that in mind I said if they wanted would share hotel costs. My point was though there was no need for the argumentative insulting "mean bastard" reply.

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By *en474Man
over a year ago

antrim

At least they got back to you, I don't even get replies lol lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they were looking for a meet,and expected you to pay the full cost?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't pay for hotel rooms but then again I don't expect to go to a hotel either. But in all honesty I'm very rarely asked to share the cost anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So let me get this right...

You messaged a cpl, out of the blue, because they had on their profile "looking for a men", and they replied with that??....

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

In our case we would always pay our share. It's only fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always pay half .. I'd feel like a prostitite if I didn't contribute my share

I'm there to have fun too

So be it an apartment , a hotel room ..or a suite ... I always pay my way !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't pay for hotel rooms but then again I don't expect to go to a hotel either. But in all honesty I'm very rarely asked to share the cost anyway."

so do you not even offer to pay half? Or do you just happily let the other party pay the whole cost??

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Just messaged a couple in Galway looking for men and said if they couldn't accom would share cost of room. Reply was "No you mean bastard now get lost."

Charming am sure. How to win friends and influence people!!"
Lots of people are very brave when typing but would not make these comments to your face . However if you were looking for a meet and considering that you contacted them it would not be unrealistic for you to pay the full cost of the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't feel right if I didn't pay or try to pay.

Think it's a bit cheeky expecting someone else to pay for my fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im one of the lucky people who can acc but if i did have to use a hotel i would offer to pay for half and i buy a round of drinks to lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im one of the lucky people who can acc but if i did have to use a hotel i would offer to pay for half and i buy a round of drinks to lol."

A round of drinks too??

Right Biggs, you've pulled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im one of the lucky people who can acc but if i did have to use a hotel i would offer to pay for half and i buy a round of drinks to lol.

A round of drinks too??

Right Biggs, you've pulled!

Get me a pint of Heineken please Biggs!! Thank you very much!!

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)"

I like you Miss cherry.

I hate buying condoms.

Can I have a packet of con,con,con, something else. Please..

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

I like you Miss cherry.

I hate buying condoms.

Can I have a packet of con,con,con, something else. Please..

ty darlin

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

I like you Miss cherry.

I hate buying condoms.

Can I have a packet of con,con,con, something else. Please..

ty darlin

I am smitten. Miss Cherry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to split the.costs though wont book myself anymore. Always bring toys, condoms etc with me. Feel uncomfortable if dont at least offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)"

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pay for half the hotel cost . Id feel like a prostitue if i didnt . Same if soneone was to pick me uo and drop me homei give money towards petrol ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if meeting a single guy in a hotel always split the bill if we're not staying, if we are there anyway and staying its our bill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was here as a single .. I never paid for a room..been honest I never thought of it..me bad..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I pay for half the hotel cost . Id feel like a prostitue if i didnt . Same if soneone was to pick me uo and drop me homei give money towards petrol ... "

Me too!

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed"
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I believe if the guy asks me then he should pay. full stop. if i would ask him i would pay but sure i never ask. maybe its a cultural difference but im finding more and more on this and dating (the real world) guys here dont think they have to show women respect or lift a finger. as if we should be lucky to catch their eye? it baffles me.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions. "

utter rubbish. you say guys wont lift a finger, which then contradicts what you first said about it being the guys who are asking you for the meets...or does your idea of a guy 'lifting a finger' only constitute him opening his wallet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to be paid for but I pay half.

I won't book it though

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions. "

I am with Miss Cherry on this one.

If your going out for a night money shouldn't be an issue.

It's ment to be enjoyable without thinking about who is picking up the bill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions. "

Women's lib obviously by- passed you !

That day is long gone honey ! So you equate respect with money .. Strange

I gain self respect from my ability to pay my own way !

I'm a self supported single woman !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

I agree.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions.

I am with Miss Cherry on this one.

If your going out for a night money shouldn't be an issue.

It's ment to be enjoyable without thinking about who is picking up the bill.

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions.

Totally expected from a corkman. Hold on to yer wallet love, I'm sure it's keeping you very warm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions.

Totally expected from a corkman. Hold on to yer wallet love, I'm sure it's keeping you very warm"

and there goes your credibility out the door, as if it were ever in question...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions.

Totally expected from a corkman. Hold on to yer wallet love, I'm sure it's keeping you very warm

and there goes your credibility out the door, as if it were ever in question..."

I would always pay my share. Obviously as fab has a lot more men than women that it will be men asking the women for a meet in the vast majority of cases. That doesnt mean that they should pay for the hotel......I always bring my own toys as I wouldnt use anyone elses tbh.

Men and women are equal after all......so why expect the man to pay?

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By *atiePWoman
over a year ago

Secret Location

I've only ever had one first meet pay for the hotel room, i always pay and have never had any guy offer to split the cost for a first meet and I've never asked or expected it.

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions.

Women's lib obviously by- passed you !

That day is long gone honey ! So you equate respect with money .. Strange

I gain self respect from my ability to pay my own way !

I'm a self supported single woman ! "

The men verses the women is a thing of the past.

It's a nice simple complement if the man pay's even after the woman has offered to pay her way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions.

Women's lib obviously by- passed you !

That day is long gone honey ! So you equate respect with money .. Strange

I gain self respect from my ability to pay my own way !

I'm a self supported single woman !

The men verses the women is a thing of the past.

It's a nice simple complement if the man pay's even after the woman has offered to pay her way."

youre forgetting, our friend has already stated she doesnt offer to pay her way...she lets the guys worry about that little matter

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions.

Women's lib obviously by- passed you !

That day is long gone honey ! So you equate respect with money .. Strange

I gain self respect from my ability to pay my own way !

I'm a self supported single woman !

The men verses the women is a thing of the past.

It's a nice simple complement if the man pay's even after the woman has offered to pay her way.

youre forgetting, our friend has already stated she doesnt offer to pay her way...she lets the guys worry about that little matter"

Then the guy should pay the bill if that's her wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions.

Women's lib obviously by- passed you !

That day is long gone honey ! So you equate respect with money .. Strange

I gain self respect from my ability to pay my own way !

I'm a self supported single woman !

The men verses the women is a thing of the past.

It's a nice simple complement if the man pay's even after the woman has offered to pay her way.

youre forgetting, our friend has already stated she doesnt offer to pay her way...she lets the guys worry about that little matter

Then the guy should pay the bill if that's her wishes."

you really are desperate to get laid arent you...

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions.

Women's lib obviously by- passed you !

That day is long gone honey ! So you equate respect with money .. Strange

I gain self respect from my ability to pay my own way !

I'm a self supported single woman !

The men verses the women is a thing of the past.

It's a nice simple complement if the man pay's even after the woman has offered to pay her way.

youre forgetting, our friend has already stated she doesnt offer to pay her way...she lets the guys worry about that little matter

Then the guy should pay the bill if that's her wishes.

you really are desperate to get laid arent you..."

Certainly not, am not meeting anyone at the moment.

Happy New Year fella, have a good one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions.

Totally expected from a corkman. Hold on to yer wallet love, I'm sure it's keeping you very warm"

if your trying to alienate a whole county well done

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

What we need round here is a bit more free use of the outdoors!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, Happy New Year to you all!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, Happy New Year to you all!!!

And to you rose..xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect is a two way or is it just sex

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford

This is the way I see it..

If someone is staying in a hotel anyway because of either work or just for a break..and is asking another for a meet at that hotel...

Then that's their costs anyway, whether they find someone to share it or not.

On the other hand if someone is travelling to a meet.. let's say from cork to Dublin..and the second party has agreed to a meet n a hotel..

The costs should be split equally.

Its seems from this post.. the couple were saying they could accommodate..the fella then offered to go halfs on a hotel if they couldn't.. fair enough...

Its the reply that is out of order and un-needed. Too many people are nasty for the sake of being nasty.

Unless it was a joke.. a smiley face at the end of it... texts can be sometimes read in a completely different way to tge way they were sent.

Or This couple had probably already decided they weren't ever going to meet this guy.. so.. let's put the boot in.. nice

Whether you pay..don't pay..or share.. its all about choice.. But.. let's do it in a nice way.. happy 2025

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is the way I see it..

If someone is staying in a hotel anyway because of either work or just for a break..and is asking another for a meet at that hotel...

Then that's their costs anyway, whether they find someone to share it or not.

On the other hand if someone is travelling to a meet.. let's say from cork to Dublin..and the second party has agreed to a meet n a hotel..

The costs should be split equally.

Its seems from this post.. the couple were saying they could accommodate..the fella then offered to go halfs on a hotel if they couldn't.. fair enough...

Its the reply that is out of order and un-needed. Too many people are nasty for the sake of being nasty.

Unless it was a joke.. a smiley face at the end of it... texts can be sometimes read in a completely different way to tge way they were sent.

Or This couple had probably already decided they weren't ever going to meet this guy.. so.. let's put the boot in.. nice

Whether you pay..don't pay..or share.. its all about choice.. But.. let's do it in a nice way.. happy 2025

THANK YOU

You've got it. That was the situation. I have no problem in paying for a room. But as it said they could accomodate I offered a fair alternative.

And as I posted, it was the nasty uncalled for reply that prompted me to post. It costs nothing to be nice and no reply at all would even have been better.

Anyway, enough of that. A new year has dawned-even if its raining and howling

outside-and to all I wish you a happy fun filled and POLITE new year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always pay , would feel under compliment otherwise . The one occasion I had a meet where the guy had paid the room the minute the door closed he was bleating on about how hed paid for the room and etc , then proceeded to jump on the bed , put his hands behind his head folded and motioned twords his crotch , reminding me he had paid for the room

I left him to it . The plonker didnt even understand why I turned on my heel and left him there .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im one of the lucky people who can acc but if i did have to use a hotel i would offer to pay for half and i buy a round of drinks to lol.

A round of drinks too??

Right Biggs, you've pulled!

Get me a pint of Heineken please Biggs!! Thank you very much!!

BOOoooooooOOH Heineken ...for f...* sake this is not a beer that's chickens piss ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always pay , would feel under compliment otherwise . The one occasion I had a meet where the guy had paid the room the minute the door closed he was bleating on about how hed paid for the room and etc , then proceeded to jump on the bed , put his hands behind his head folded and motioned twords his crotch , reminding me he had paid for the room

I left him to it . The plonker didnt even understand why I turned on my heel and left him there . "

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left him to it . The plonker didnt even understand why I turned on my heel and left him there . "
if that was Ms.innocent she would do the same but not before saying a number of choice words indicating what a fucking tool said guy was

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By *iiboyMan
over a year ago

Tankardstown

Seems to be a very contentious issue, these days reality takes precedence ... with so little money about , high taxation, prices of everything going up , any meets ive had, the lady always booked the room , ther choice i mite add..,ive always offered half, its akways been accepted and id always get a few rounds of drinks ... Its sposed to be fun and mutual pleasure , i dont see why one person shud bear the cost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left him to it . The plonker didnt even understand why I turned on my heel and left him there . "
well done would have done the same..he is some g owl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions.

I am with Miss Cherry on this one.

If your going out for a night money shouldn't be an issue.

It's ment to be enjoyable without thinking about who is picking up the bill.

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Totally disagree with you here. If you're going out for a night and staying in a hotel, OF COURSE money is an issue. I've had accommodation paid for me before, but i would always buy some drinks and possibly a meal, and of course I'd pay to travel too. It's fine if i'm meeting someone who knows i have little to spare, but i would never ever expect anyone else to carry the full cost. That's simply not fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm baffled by this to be honest, if we want to meet someone we ask and if a hotel is needed we book it,we pay,it's absolutely nothing to do with chivalry women's lib or making a person feel like a prostitute,we often go to meet and greets we try to book large rooms and always pay a little extra,we always offer friends to stay with us if they haven't got a room,we never ask for money...

Its mutual respect and understanding...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm baffled by this to be honest, if we want to meet someone we ask and if a hotel is needed we book it,we pay,it's absolutely nothing to do with chivalry women's lib or making a person feel like a prostitute,we often go to meet and greets we try to book large rooms and always pay a little extra,we always offer friends to stay with us if they haven't got a room,we never ask for money...

Its mutual respect and understanding...

I'm witness to that

except I was not left in haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its mutual respect and understanding...

I'm witness to that

except I was not left in haha

Ohhhhhhh God!!! That's gas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What we need round here is a bit more free use of the outdoors!"
LMAO! Love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im one of the lucky people who can acc but if i did have to use a hotel i would offer to pay for half and i buy a round of drinks to lol.

A round of drinks too??

Right Biggs, you've pulled!

Get me a pint of Heineken please Biggs!! Thank you very much!!

BOOoooooooOOH Heineken ...for f...* sake this is not a beer that's chickens piss ..

Hey you mister, don't be saying things like that you bollox!! It's a European drink because it's the number 1 lager!! lol!

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

"i believe in chivalry. i dont ever pay for rooms. i will however bring everything wanted or needed (booze, toys, condoms, candles, ect)

Chivalry...so basically you believe in the guy paying for your bed.

and before i get attacked im speaking generally i realize theres exceptions.

I am with Miss Cherry on this one.

If your going out for a night money shouldn't be an issue.

It's ment to be enjoyable without thinking about who is picking up the bill.

Totally disagree with you here. If you're going out for a night and staying in a hotel, OF COURSE money is an issue. I've had accommodation paid for me before, but i would always buy some drinks and possibly a meal, and of course I'd pay to travel too. It's fine if i'm meeting someone who knows i have little to spare, but i would never ever expect anyone else to carry the full cost. That's simply not fair."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am with Miss Cherry on this one.

If your going out for a night money shouldn't be an issue.

It's ment to be enjoyable without thinking about who is picking up the bill.

If you haven't got some money to pay for bills you should stay at home or organise a different kind of meeting, I also think you should have some cash in case your meeting partner doesn't want to stay at least you can pay for the taxi."
I didn't say i didn't have money to pay for bills, i said i don't have much to spare. I always put my responsibilities before my own fun. Also when i meet people i already know if we're staying together for the night or not, and like i also already said, i'd be paying for my travel so your last point doesn't apply to me either. By the way, you've just gone back on everything you said when you agreed with Cherry. It's ok in your eyes if she expects the man to pay for everything, but you advise me to make sure i have enough to pay my bills and get a taxi home if the person i'm meeting isn't staying.

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

I am with Miss Cherry on this one.

If your going out for a night money shouldn't be an issue.

It's ment to be enjoyable without thinking about who is picking up the bill.

If you haven't got some money to pay for bills you should stay at home or organise a different kind of meeting, I also think you should have some cash in case your meeting partner doesn't want to stay at least you can pay for the taxi. I didn't say i didn't have money to pay for bills, i said i don't have much to spare. I always put my responsibilities before my own fun. Also when i meet people i already know if we're staying together for the night or not, and like i also already said, i'd be paying for my travel so your last point doesn't apply to me either. By the way, you've just gone back on everything you said when you agreed with Cherry. It's ok in your eyes if she expects the man to pay for everything, but you advise me to make sure i have enough to pay my bills and get a taxi home if the person i'm meeting isn't staying."

That was misread in text.

The man should have some cash in case the lady dosnt want to stay, it's only a kind gesture if it dosnt go your way.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

I am with Miss Cherry on this one.

If your going out for a night money shouldn't be an issue.

It's ment to be enjoyable without thinking about who is picking up the bill.

If you haven't got some money to pay for bills you should stay at home or organise a different kind of meeting, I also think you should have some cash in case your meeting partner doesn't want to stay at least you can pay for the taxi. I didn't say i didn't have money to pay for bills, i said i don't have much to spare. I always put my responsibilities before my own fun. Also when i meet people i already know if we're staying together for the night or not, and like i also already said, i'd be paying for my travel so your last point doesn't apply to me either. By the way, you've just gone back on everything you said when you agreed with Cherry. It's ok in your eyes if she expects the man to pay for everything, but you advise me to make sure i have enough to pay my bills and get a taxi home if the person i'm meeting isn't staying.

That was misread in text.

The man should have some cash in case the lady dosnt want to stay, it's only a kind gesture if it dosnt go your way."

First officer - you do know women have the vote now ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree. But they said they could accommodate and its with that in mind I said if they wanted would share hotel costs. My point was though there was no need for the argumentative insulting "mean bastard" reply."
you know not to contact them again so

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

I am with Miss Cherry on this one.

If your going out for a night money shouldn't be an issue.

It's ment to be enjoyable without thinking about who is picking up the bill.

If you haven't got some money to pay for bills you should stay at home or organise a different kind of meeting, I also think you should have some cash in case your meeting partner doesn't want to stay at least you can pay for the taxi. I didn't say i didn't have money to pay for bills, i said i don't have much to spare. I always put my responsibilities before my own fun. Also when i meet people i already know if we're staying together for the night or not, and like i also already said, i'd be paying for my travel so your last point doesn't apply to me either. By the way, you've just gone back on everything you said when you agreed with Cherry. It's ok in your eyes if she expects the man to pay for everything, but you advise me to make sure i have enough to pay my bills and get a taxi home if the person i'm meeting isn't staying.

That was misread in text.

The man should have some cash in case the lady dosnt want to stay, it's only a kind gesture if it dosnt go your way.

First officer - you do know women have the vote now ? "

I work with women most days of the week, they are more than capable of doing the same job as I do.

Women have been paying most of the household bills in Ireland over the last few years

So what where you saying about votes??

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

I am with Miss Cherry on this one.

If your going out for a night money shouldn't be an issue.

It's ment to be enjoyable without thinking about who is picking up the bill.

If you haven't got some money to pay for bills you should stay at home or organise a different kind of meeting, I also think you should have some cash in case your meeting partner doesn't want to stay at least you can pay for the taxi. I didn't say i didn't have money to pay for bills, i said i don't have much to spare. I always put my responsibilities before my own fun. Also when i meet people i already know if we're staying together for the night or not, and like i also already said, i'd be paying for my travel so your last point doesn't apply to me either. By the way, you've just gone back on everything you said when you agreed with Cherry. It's ok in your eyes if she expects the man to pay for everything, but you advise me to make sure i have enough to pay my bills and get a taxi home if the person i'm meeting isn't staying.

That was misread in text.

The man should have some cash in case the lady dosnt want to stay, it's only a kind gesture if it dosnt go your way.

First officer - you do know women have the vote now ?

I work with women most days of the week, they are more than capable of doing the same job as I do.

Women have been paying most of the household bills in Ireland over the last few years

So what where you saying about votes??

Wow! Generous and condescending !!

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

i dont think ive ever seen a guy be given so much shit for being a gentleman wow

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

I am with Miss Cherry on this one.

If your going out for a night money shouldn't be an issue.

It's ment to be enjoyable without thinking about who is picking up the bill.

If you haven't got some money to pay for bills you should stay at home or organise a different kind of meeting, I also think you should have some cash in case your meeting partner doesn't want to stay at least you can pay for the taxi. I didn't say i didn't have money to pay for bills, i said i don't have much to spare. I always put my responsibilities before my own fun. Also when i meet people i already know if we're staying together for the night or not, and like i also already said, i'd be paying for my travel so your last point doesn't apply to me either. By the way, you've just gone back on everything you said when you agreed with Cherry. It's ok in your eyes if she expects the man to pay for everything, but you advise me to make sure i have enough to pay my bills and get a taxi home if the person i'm meeting isn't staying.

That was misread in text.

The man should have some cash in case the lady dosnt want to stay, it's only a kind gesture if it dosnt go your way.

First officer - you do know women have the vote now ?

I work with women most days of the week, they are more than capable of doing the same job as I do.

Women have been paying most of the household bills in Ireland over the last few years

So what where you saying about votes??

Wow! Generous and condescending !! "

Men verses women is very much a thing of the past. If you chose to think it's condescending your simply letting yourself down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lot of humbug. We're here for fun and not arguments and insults. Well that's what I thought anyway. Everyone just do what they see fit. And if you don't like, just ignore.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

I am with Miss Cherry on this one.

If your going out for a night money shouldn't be an issue.

It's ment to be enjoyable without thinking about who is picking up the bill.

If you haven't got some money to pay for bills you should stay at home or organise a different kind of meeting, I also think you should have some cash in case your meeting partner doesn't want to stay at least you can pay for the taxi. I didn't say i didn't have money to pay for bills, i said i don't have much to spare. I always put my responsibilities before my own fun. Also when i meet people i already know if we're staying together for the night or not, and like i also already said, i'd be paying for my travel so your last point doesn't apply to me either. By the way, you've just gone back on everything you said when you agreed with Cherry. It's ok in your eyes if she expects the man to pay for everything, but you advise me to make sure i have enough to pay my bills and get a taxi home if the person i'm meeting isn't staying.

That was misread in text.

The man should have some cash in case the lady dosnt want to stay, it's only a kind gesture if it dosnt go your way.

First officer - you do know women have the vote now ?

I work with women most days of the week, they are more than capable of doing the same job as I do.

Women have been paying most of the household bills in Ireland over the last few years

So what where you saying about votes??

Wow! Generous and condescending !!

Men verses women is very much a thing of the past. If you chose to think it's condescending your simply letting yourself down."

I think anyone reading this thread can ascertain exactly where yiu are coming from. But kudos for working with women 'most days of the week' ....

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

@ hotashell13 darling please reread what i wrote. nowhere did i say i expect the man to pay for everything.

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over a year ago

"@ hotashell13 darling please reread what i wrote. nowhere did i say i expect the man to pay for everything."
I'm sorry cherry, i wasn't having a go, though i can understand you might think i was. I was just reflecting the two opposite views put across by _irst officer, one in reply to you and the other in reply to me. At no point did i mean to suggest that you actually left it all up to the man, you had already said that you brought all the extras with you to a meet. Please accept my apology, no offence was intended.

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

"@ hotashell13 darling please reread what i wrote. nowhere did i say i expect the man to pay for everything. I'm sorry cherry, i wasn't having a go, though i can understand you might think i was. I was just reflecting the two opposite views put across by _irst officer, one in reply to you and the other in reply to me. At no point did i mean to suggest that you actually left it all up to the man, you had already said that you brought all the extras with you to a meet. Please accept my apology, no offence was intended. "

ah sure hun. soz if i came off snarky. just not clear on why this topic/thread has gotten under ppls skin this way. xxx

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

I love you all and exceptionally Miss Cherry... Happy new year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah sure hun. soz if i came off snarky. just not clear on why this topic/thread has gotten under ppls skin this way. xxx"

Thank you x

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

I'd like a button to end a thread.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"What a lot of humbug. We're here for fun and not arguments and insults. Well that's what I thought anyway. Everyone just do what they see fit. And if you don't like, just ignore. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always offer to split the cost only one person took me up on it. And I always bring condoms and water etc.

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By *andyyuaaMan
over a year ago

Chicago

I'd always share equal costs. I believe that's courteous and respectful for all involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all always split the cost of the room with the other party whether we meeting as a cpl or separate. After all all parties r there to have fun

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