FabSwingers.com forum: Guy looking for help on how to get a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so I have been on this site for a little while now and still haven't been lucky enough to have a meet. I have taken a few tips . Put a pic up in a shirt and got onto the forums and chatted a bit . Still can't seem to get even close to having a meet. So I guess I am looking to see what else I can do or could someone tell me what is wrong with my profile . Thank you all in advance

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

The reference to shy puts me off profiles, we can only be a little self-conscious but shy always makes me think of having to dig someone out from under the duvet! The majority of people in this environment will enjoy a degree of confidence.

Your profile text gives nothing away, we can tell your age from your profile without you saying it and looking for fun is taken for granted

I'd suggest giving a broader description of yourself or what you'd like to acheive on the site. As profiles go it's got no real USP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kat-c yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the cock pic. Fill out your profile as the poster above said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Kat. I have updated my profile text a bit so hopefully that tells a bit more about me and what I am looking for. As for the name I am brutal at picking names for anything and am

Not as shy as you might think but I do understand your concerns . I do appreciate your advice though and have updated my profile text .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry I also meant to ask. What kinda pics would you suggest I put as public. I don't want a face pic on public due to work but other than that it's fine .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer your question and I will put here in my opinion...

1) Change your username to anything but shy or curious or something gross it's just not very appealing! I think.

2) Change your body type sound shallow but put average rather than chubby, you can fit many shapes into average! People here like it or not are bound by looks but also the mental image of what you would look like in person so picture in your head someone chubby... Btw it's nothing against being chubby it's just a think a word that makes your profile less appealing! Example bbw(big beautiful woman)or chubby woman. Get the idea!

3) if you gonna have a cock picture, jesus man at least trim that jungle it's said time and time again, if you like hairs fine well and good but keep them under control, it shows some basic grooming and self care which can be appealing!

4) make a little more effort with your profile it says sweet fuck all, tell me why would any girls or cpls would meet you over the 100s of single males on this site or even worse over the few that make a huge effort to make their profile nice and apply some thinking with their head not their cock!

5) set some time aside so maybe plan a meet ahead like a weekend 2 weeks from now and start looking today, notice is always good especially when people have their life and can't drop everything in an instant

I think I gave you plenty of tips,

Good luck ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice . Have name changed , profile text updated . Need to get few new pics for profile now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent you few pointers in private. Something that works well for me. Hope you will find it useful.

Good luck and happy swinging.

Not sure if it is because of Christmas time or because I misbehaved recently that makes me want to recover my good karma. Whatever the reason, hope you find it useful.

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

Wow! Men who help the competition

It truly is the season of giving, nice to see some decency on the forums.

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow

"Ok so I have been on this site for a little while now and still haven't been lucky enough to have a meet. I have taken a few tips . Put a pic up in a shirt and got onto the forums and chatted a bit . Still can't seem to get even close to having a meet. So I guess I am looking to see what else I can do or could someone tell me what is wrong with my profile . Thank you all in advance "
im in the same boat only a handful of meets and one veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so I have been on this site for a little while now and still haven't been lucky enough to have a meet. I have taken a few tips . Put a pic up in a shirt and got onto the forums and chatted a bit . Still can't seem to get even close to having a meet. So I guess I am looking to see what else I can do or could someone tell me what is wrong with my profile . Thank you all in advance im in the same boat only a handful of meets and one veri"

You poor thing!....

But isn't that your own fault?

Try showing up to the events or meets you're invited to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sent you few pointers in private. Something that works well for me. Hope you will find it useful.

Good luck and happy swinging.

Not sure if it is because of Christmas time or because I ass hole recently that makes me want to recover my good karma. Whatever the reason, hope you find it useful.

thanks"

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