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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey just seeing how different people felt on 1st meet. Ive chatted away to diff women and hopefully meetin in a few days, meeting at hers is it quiet normal to be very nervous ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, means your alive!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's normal but after the first 30 seconds you'll be fine lol! Just smile and enjoy the anticipation - she'll be feeling it too may be better to meet somewhere public first though - have a drink with no expectations so you can both relax …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all, means your alive!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always a little bit nervous when meeting somebody in person for the first time but once I've met them and if we get along well it's even better!! I find that when I've chatted with somebody for a while, I usually would hug the person when I meet them, I do find it helps to ease the nerves!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah it's normal but after the first 30 seconds you'll be fine lol! Just smile and enjoy the anticipation - she'll be feeling it too may be better to meet somewhere public first though - have a drink with no expectations so you can both relax …"
thanks good advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm always a little bit nervous when meeting somebody in person for the first time but once I've met them and if we get along well it's even better!! I find that when I've chatted with somebody for a while, I usually would hug the person when I meet them, I do find it helps to ease the nerves!! "
ya der has to b more den just unemotional sex like,, connection i think wud make it more sensual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel 'funny' when I meet with a couple. Meeting with a girl feels different, much more excitement it is with meeting for mfm, as it is less natural from the traditional standpoint and at the same time more fun :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel 'funny' when I meet with a couple. Meeting with a girl feels different, much more excitement it is with meeting for mfm, as it is less natural from the traditional standpoint and at the same time more fun :D"
ya it wud feel a bit strange fucking some guys wife in front of him wouldnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always feel nervous before a meet no matter what and depending on who it's with the added thing I'd butterflies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always feel nervous before a meet no matter what and depending on who it's with the added thing I'd butterflies "
ya and i know its a swingin site but being kind. Considerate is a must nd respectful,,

Just wanna get a few different meets too. Any parties comin up ha, deffo nervous den

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always feel nervous before a meet no matter what and depending on who it's with the added thing I'd butterflies ya and i know its a swingin site but being kind. Considerate is a must nd respectful,,

Just wanna get a few different meets too. Any parties comin up ha, deffo nervous den "

couldn't tell you keep an eye out in forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always feel nervous before a meet no matter what and depending on who it's with the added thing I'd butterflies ya and i know its a swingin site but being kind. Considerate is a must nd respectful,,

Just wanna get a few different meets too. Any parties comin up ha, deffo nervous den

couldn't tell you keep an eye out in forum "

ya i will thanks cutie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a nervous wreck for most meets!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel 'funny' when I meet with a couple. Meeting with a girl feels different, much more excitement it is with meeting for mfm, as it is less natural from the traditional standpoint and at the same time more fun :D ya it wud feel a bit strange fucking some guys wife in front of him wouldnt it"

It's not about it man. Playing with somebody's wife in front of him s super hot. That is part of swinging lifestyle. Playing with her while he does the same is super hot too and that also comes with the lifestyle. I am talking about the expectation. There is nothing strange about being inside somebody's wife while he is being sucked off by her or in a dp situation. There is nothing strange about it at all. It is a lot lot of fun True story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel 'funny' when I meet with a couple. Meeting with a girl feels different, much more excitement it is with meeting for mfm, as it is less natural from the traditional standpoint and at the same time more fun :D ya it wud feel a bit strange fucking some guys wife in front of him wouldnt it

It's not about it man. Playing with somebody's wife in front of him s super hot. That is part of swinging lifestyle. Playing with her while he does the same is super hot too and that also comes with the lifestyle. I am talking about the expectation. There is nothing strange about being inside somebody's wife while he is being sucked off by her or in a dp situation. There is nothing strange about it at all. It is a lot lot of fun True story "

and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dosent matter if its a first meet or a 3rd meet i always get nervous

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I don't get nervous now first few meets I felt sick...now its more a sense of anticipation if that ever goes I will give it up ...Mrs Davie t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are one thing but anticapation are another .First meet ever wasn't good as nerves got the better of me oh and the wine also .You got to remember it's first time for all of you and just go with the flow .

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow


"I don't get nervous now first few meets I felt sick...now its more a sense of anticipation if that ever goes I will give it up ...Mrs Davie t"
same

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By *imerickboyMan
over a year ago

city

I turned up to party and was on my own and got so nervous I left... Bad decision I admit but I believe a one on one would have been less nervous for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of luck

Unusual that a lady here would meet an unverified person at hers !!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


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and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism..."

That was hardly necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...

That was hardly necessary "

European lad is starting to show his true colours it would seem and they arent all rainbows and nice. Quite dull actually. Much prefer the colourful and landscaped gardens of mr mccarthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are a healthy sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...

That was hardly necessary "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nerves are a healthy sign "

True...no nerves...=...No more,swinging...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...

That was hardly necessary

European lad is starting to show his true colours it would seem and they arent all rainbows and nice. Quite dull actually. Much prefer the colourful and landscaped gardens of mr mccarthy"

Lol. Jaysus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...

That was hardly necessary

European lad is starting to show his true colours it would seem and they arent all rainbows and nice. Quite dull actually. Much prefer the colourful and landscaped gardens of mr mccarthy

Lol. Jaysus! "

Hehehehe be afraid mccarthy be very afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nerves are a healthy sign

True...no nerves...=...No more,swinging... "

lol trust you ta bring sex into this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always feel nervous before a meet no matter what and depending on who it's with the added thing I'd butterflies "

I go from sick, to nervous to butterflies on my repeat meets.

This may be NSA fun but the meet where I feel nothing anymore will end it.

Not into 'robot' sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not only first meet nerves that feel great.its all meets.when the nerves and the butterflies go coming up to a meet its time to give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...

That was hardly necessary

Agreed "

You guys are right. I went too far. I apologise to the OP. I was a dick here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...

That was hardly necessary

Agreed

You guys are right. I went too far. I apologise to the OP. I was a dick here."

And since u are admitting u were a dick perhaps u should check ur other posts from last night also cos u were a dick in several threads as it happens. Doesnt reflect well on a person being a dick

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...

That was hardly necessary

European lad is starting to show his true colours it would seem and they arent all rainbows and nice. Quite dull actually. Much prefer the colourful and landscaped gardens of mr mccarthy

Lol. Jaysus!

Hehehehe be afraid mccarthy be very afraid "

Terrified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You guys are right. I went too far. I apologise to the OP. I was a dick here.

And since u are admitting u were a dick perhaps u should check ur other posts from last night also cos u were a dick in several threads as it happens. Doesnt reflect well on a person being a dick "

By 'other posts' you guys mean just one , right? I owe you no apology. You have been trying to prove that I am not a swinger and that I have been too short within the lifestyle to have a right to say or do anything. There was even a moment when someone else pointed this out to you some time ago in one of the threads and I haven't seen any apologies coming my way from you yet. So please do not call me out in public to do something that you have never felt good enough about doing yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You guys are right. I went too far. I apologise to the OP. I was a dick here.

And since u are admitting u were a dick perhaps u should check ur other posts from last night also cos u were a dick in several threads as it happens. Doesnt reflect well on a person being a dick

By 'other posts' you guys mean just one , right? I owe you no apology. You have been trying to prove that I am not a swinger and that I have been too short within the lifestyle to have a right to say or do anything. There was even a moment when someone else pointed this out to you some time ago in one of the threads and I haven't seen any apologies coming my way from you yet. So please do not call me out in public to do something that you have never felt good enough about doing yourselves. "

Since u cant seem to figure it out for urself, MMF is not the root or foundation of swinging as u seem so convinced it is.

Never presume to know facts about individuals on here. Or should i say ASSume. You chose to poke fun at us and try to show ur superiority and then went on to poke fun at another user for their choice on their own profile. Remember my 'friend' there are two people on this profile not just one, and if u reread the post we originally made it was in regard to ms innocents mmf experience. Swinging originated with couples, not cocky and up their own arsehole males who think that a few mmf's makes him king of the swingers. Wake up to urself, ur attitude stinks from ur bragging original posts about how two females in a club were falling all over you yet u chose the mf couple u had arranged to ur more recent dig at an newbie forum user. Shame on u. And for the record this is ms innocent posting and i wouldnt touch u with a forty foot sewer rod for with all ur 'euro charm' u lack class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Never presume to know facts about individuals on here. "

I fully agree with this sentence.

Overinterpretation and too far going conclusions can lead to misunderstandings and misjudgments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet your guilty of this exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And for the people that enjoyed dirt being washed publicly and mud thrown at people I kindly request a small donations towards a charity of your choice this Christmas. I hope you enjoyed the show.

Apologies were offered where required (hopefully are accepted), so it is time to get back into the Christmas spirit now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not worth the ban. Sorry for hijack op. Enjoy your meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nerves are one thing but anticapation are another .First meet ever wasn't good as nerves got the better of me oh and the wine also .You got to remember it's first time for all of you and just go with the flow ."
thanks i know just let it flow ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best of luck

Unusual that a lady here would meet an unverified person at hers !!

"

well we hav been chattin away so she knows im genuine on here and fone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...

That was hardly necessary

European lad is starting to show his true colours it would seem and they arent all rainbows and nice. Quite dull actually. Much prefer the colourful and landscaped gardens of mr mccarthy"

well i know im athletic so i put it down like why not i play multiple sports go gym swim so ya im no couch potato

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always feel nervous before a meet no matter what and depending on who it's with the added thing I'd butterflies

I go from sick, to nervous to butterflies on my repeat meets.

This may be NSA fun but the meet where I feel nothing anymore will end it.

Not into 'robot' sex."

thanks ya nervousness ia prob good like sweetheart

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...

That was hardly necessary

Agreed

You guys are right. I went too far. I apologise to the OP. I was a dick here."

thanks man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And for the people that enjoyed dirt being washed publicly and mud thrown at people I kindly request a small donations towards a charity of your choice this Christmas. I hope you enjoyed the show.

Apologies were offered where required (hopefully are accepted), so it is time to get back into the Christmas spirit now

."

thanks dude apology accepted hav a great xmas and new year

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your not worth the ban. Sorry for hijack op. Enjoy your meet "
no problem . i got good advice thanks all ,

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