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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

First off I hope I don't offend anyone with how I word this

I'm interested in exploring my bi side, like I can't be curious forever

Thinking about playing with a couple (none in mind at the minute).

Would love to hear from single ladies about their first experience with a couple.

How did you go about organising it?

Is it usual for the male half to play with the lady or just to watch?

What was the reality like versus the expectation?

Would the fact that I'm just bi-curious put a couple off playing?

And anything else I've forgotten

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time I played with a couple wasn't great, I was more excited about playing with a girl then being attracted to her, so my advice would be to find a couple that you are comfortable with and want the same things as you want, after that sit back and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First time I played with a couple wasn't great, I was more excited about playing with a girl then being attracted to her, so my advice would be to find a couple that you are comfortable with and want the same things as you want, after that sit back and enjoy "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First time I played with a couple wasn't great, I was more excited about playing with a girl then being attracted to her, so my advice would be to find a couple that you are comfortable with and want the same things as you want, after that sit back and enjoy

Thank you "

Really sound advice !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First time I played with a couple wasn't great, I was more excited about playing with a girl then being attracted to her, so my advice would be to find a couple that you are comfortable with and want the same things as you want, after that sit back and enjoy "

I I agree with above post, it is better to take your time at finding a connection with a couple, have a meet and greet first, see how you all get on, set down your limits as in what you will and won't do, if you than find that couple for you, go and enjoy every min of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I I agree with above post, it is better to take your time at finding a connection with a couple, have a meet and greet first, see how you all get on, set down your limits as in what you will and won't do, if you than find that couple for you, go and enjoy every min of it "

Sage advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gotta agree with lolli..

The first one I had wasn't what I expected. .

For a first timer I guess I thought I'd be shown the ropes literally but it ended up me taking the lead. .maybe it was I wanted it over an done with an to see if it was for me or not..

I did go a second time with a different cpl an it was great but realised it's just not for me..

Ya got to be comfortable with the other cpl ya gotta have same mind frame I guess as in been able to have a laugh etc an don't be afraid to ask how do ya want it to go first..

Ie you an her or u an him etc

An it kinda goes with flow then..there's more experienced cpls on here that would answer better but as an amateur an just my experience

In ref to setting it up

Well you just have by posting here so watch ur inbox. .lol

Best of luck an enjoy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I gotta agree with lolli..

The first one I had wasn't what I expected. .

For a first timer I guess I thought I'd be shown the ropes literally but it ended up me taking the lead. .maybe it was I wanted it over an done with an to see if it was for me or not..

I did go a second time with a different cpl an it was great but realised it's just not for me..

Ya got to be comfortable with the other cpl ya gotta have same mind frame I guess as in been able to have a laugh etc an don't be afraid to ask how do ya want it to go first..

Ie you an her or u an him etc

An it kinda goes with flow then..there's more experienced cpls on here that would answer better but as an amateur an just my experience

In ref to setting it up

Well you just have by posting here so watch ur inbox. .lol

Best of luck an enjoy..."

Thanks for sharing, that was helpful

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

As a couple who are still hoping to fulfil our fantasy of a ffm meet it would be hugely important to us that the single lady be 100% comfortable with us before we decided to play.

Clear boundaries need to be put in place for do's and donts. And communication between both members of the couple and the single lady would have to be really good.

If this is something that you are really considering be very sure that you choose a couple that you are very comfortable with, and who are clear about what you are hoping the experience will be.

And bi curious wouldn't put us off- but that's only speaking for us.

Very best of luck with it

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a couple who are still hoping to fulfil our fantasy of a ffm meet it would be hugely important to us that the single lady be 100% comfortable with us before we decided to play.

Clear boundaries need to be put in place for do's and donts. And communication between both members of the couple and the single lady would have to be really good.

If this is something that you are really considering be very sure that you choose a couple that you are very comfortable with, and who are clear about what you are hoping the experience will be.

And bi curious wouldn't put us off- but that's only speaking for us.

Very best of luck with it

Miss Mcjoy "

Thank you

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

We are looking for a bi or bicurious female for.my self as am bicurious. And and want to.now what it's like I.had a fumble. But. That's it and I like that but want more

Mrs husky xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are looking for a bi or bicurious female for.my self as am bicurious. And and want to.now what it's like I.had a fumble. But. That's it and I like that but want more

Mrs husky xxx"

Best of luck

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

First time wasn't great. I think I'm more bi playful than anything yet lots seem to assume that means they will be able to talk me into more at the time.

There are some great couples on here so hopefully you get to experience it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First time wasn't great. I think I'm more bi playful than anything yet lots seem to assume that means they will be able to talk me into more at the time.

There are some great couples on here so hopefully you get to experience it."

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're still looking that elusive bi female to play with us, the advice you've already had seems extremely sound to us. As a couple we also wouldn't want to be rushing into this. Best to get to know the female first and then when we're all comfortable have a little play

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're still looking that elusive bi female to play with us, the advice you've already had seems extremely sound to us. As a couple we also wouldn't want to be rushing into this. Best to get to know the female first and then when we're all comfortable have a little play "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of people are looking for the same. My advice would be to go to clubs and socials. Don't just rely on this site. Don't try hunting a unicorn. Build up friendships and it just may happen. There are lots out there. All after something different so communicate what your expectations are. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was attracted to my bi female friend from the min I saw her at my first ever m&g but I wanted to get to know her and feel comfortable with her before we played, glad I did as it made the experience so much better so take your time and find the right couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have never played with a couple alone and doubt it will ever happen now, most couples that have contacted me in the past have set rules before you even get to have a chat, i.e not allowed to touch him only allowed to play with her, which doesn't sound very appealing to me at all. The last time I almost got round to meeting with a couple they pulled out at the last minute because they thought where I suggested to meet for a chat meant that I was in some way dodgy , I've just given up after that now, that and with the only messages I do get from couples consist of 'hi want to play' I mean , make a bit of effort ffs.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Have you decided if you want the male to be part of the experience? If not I would suggest you just meet a bi woman so you can communicate what you want without any distractions...my first bi experience was with a bi woman and it was great

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"have never played with a couple alone and doubt it will ever happen now, most couples that have contacted me in the past have set rules before you even get to have a chat, i.e not allowed to touch him only allowed to play with her, which doesn't sound very appealing to me at all. The last time I almost got round to meeting with a couple they pulled out at the last minute because they thought where I suggested to meet for a chat meant that I was in some way dodgy , I've just given up after that now, that and with the only messages I do get from couples consist of 'hi want to play' I mean , make a bit of effort ffs. "

The do's and don'ts set down by couples was what put me off seeking this sooner. I would have absolutely no interest in meeting a couple if I couldn't play with the man. I won't be there to put on a show

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By *arkandEm14Couple
over a year ago

dublin

We have had ffm experience Mrs considers herself very bi! But we don't have rules? Well except for we only meet together and don't meet locals but other than that I'd find nitty bitty rules would ruin the fun !

Everyone is right with regards to finding the right couple u need the chemistry to be right between all involved and everyone needs to be able to get along hope u find what ur looking for x 3 way conversations help prepare the base for 3 way fun

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

Best mff I had was with 2 f-buddies - they met together or as separate individuals. The banter was great, the attention was equal, less 'rules of play' and I didn't feel like such a guest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have had ffm experience Mrs considers herself very bi! But we don't have rules? Well except for we only meet together and don't meet locals but other than that I'd find nitty bitty rules would ruin the fun !

Everyone is right with regards to finding the right couple u need the chemistry to be right between all involved and everyone needs to be able to get along hope u find what ur looking for x 3 way conversations help prepare the base for 3 way fun "

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