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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay I know I'm gonna get it raw so I'm ready for this I think. ... I recently met a couple at mine seemed direct turned up when said and we got it on and it was great. Weeks after we were kik messaging each other I shared pic of our meet he shared pics of his Mrs as she was. I am attached but partner doesn't know I swing. Boo hiss all that pantomime shit. The male half requested pictures of my partner who again doesn't play I declined and let's just use a cliché about toys and a pram. Am I missing something or is he being a pleb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a fem if my partner was sharing pics of me with strangers I wouldn't be happy, then again if he was cheating on me i wouldn't be happy either so it's a bit of a moral double standard. But each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I know I'm gonna get it raw so I'm ready for this I think. ... I recently met a couple at mine seemed direct turned up when said and we got it on and it was great. Weeks after we were kik messaging each other I shared pic of our meet he shared pics of his Mrs as she was. I am attached but partner doesn't know I swing. Boo hiss all that pantomime shit. The male half requested pictures of my partner who again doesn't play I declined and let's just use a cliché about toys and a pram. Am I missing something or is he being a pleb"

do you seriously need to ask????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks lollipop I know what you mean but is he being unreasonable... I have to live with my sins .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Okay I know I'm gonna get it raw so I'm ready for this I think. ... I recently met a couple at mine seemed direct turned up when said and we got it on and it was great. Weeks after we were kik messaging each other I shared pic of our meet he shared pics of his Mrs as she was. I am attached but partner doesn't know I swing. Boo hiss all that pantomime shit. The male half requested pictures of my partner who again doesn't play I declined and let's just use a cliché about toys and a pram. Am I missing something or is he being a pleb

do you seriously need to ask???? "
just want a 2nd opinion rinky to make sure I've messed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just odd. And completely outrageous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks lollipop I know what you mean but is he being unreasonable... I have to live with my sins ....."

Yep, they are your sins to live with, is he being unreasonable as you asked in ur post? Possibly, he is thinking its a case of "well you had my missus now show me yours" which is a bit childish. Again I don't condone your situation but we all have our own path to walk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's just odd. And completely outrageous."
on my part or theirs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks lollipop I know what you mean but is he being unreasonable... I have to live with my sins .....

Yep, they are your sins to live with, is he being unreasonable as you asked in ur post? Possibly, he is thinking its a case of "well you had my missus now show me yours" which is a bit childish. Again I don't condone your situation but we all have our own path to walk "
the voice of reason thanks lolli

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

If they knew before u met ita an unreasonable request i swing my wife knows it anyone i meet knows it yes its unreasonable request

Before the cheater bashers come on read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's just odd. And completely outrageous.on my part or theirs"

On theirs. Sorry. Asking you for pictures of a non-combatant is just weird if you made it clear she's not involved in the scene.

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

It's a swinging sight, outrageous is the normal here. It's about the only place you can put up a topic not normal in everyday life but expect to get lot's of different opinions.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"That's just odd. And completely outrageous.on my part or theirs

On theirs. Sorry. Asking you for pictures of a non-combatant is just weird if you made it clear she's not involved in the scene."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I know I'm gonna get it raw so I'm ready for this I think. ... I recently met a couple at mine seemed direct turned up when said and we got it on and it was great. Weeks after we were kik messaging each other I shared pic of our meet he shared pics of his Mrs as she was. I am attached but partner doesn't know I swing. Boo hiss all that pantomime shit. The male half requested pictures of my partner who again doesn't play I declined and let's just use a cliché about toys and a pram. Am I missing something or is he being a pleb

do you seriously need to ask???? just want a 2nd opinion rinky to make sure I've messed up"

so you're not sure if it's ok for a man to ask you to show him pictures of your wife that doesn't know you swing, he sounds like a knobjockey of the highest order.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's just odd. And completely outrageous.on my part or theirs

On theirs. Sorry. Asking you for pictures of a non-combatant is just weird if you made it clear she's not involved in the scene."
thanks guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Okay I know I'm gonna get it raw so I'm ready for this I think. ... I recently met a couple at mine seemed direct turned up when said and we got it on and it was great. Weeks after we were kik messaging each other I shared pic of our meet he shared pics of his Mrs as she was. I am attached but partner doesn't know I swing. Boo hiss all that pantomime shit. The male half requested pictures of my partner who again doesn't play I declined and let's just use a cliché about toys and a pram. Am I missing something or is he being a pleb

do you seriously need to ask???? just want a 2nd opinion rinky to make sure I've messed up

so you're not sure if it's ok for a man to ask you to show him pictures of your wife that doesn't know you swing, he sounds like a knobjockey of the highest order."
he was happy for me to take and share pics of our meeting with them but I met as a single guy they met as a couple we should both take each other as we found each other. My partner has nothing to do with it. I simply asked in case I was missing something. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes he is being a dick.how dare he ask for pics of our partner.that is outrageous and completely uncalled for.you are playing alone and he knew that what a bellend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's just odd. And completely outrageous.on my part or theirs

On theirs. Sorry. Asking you for pictures of a non-combatant is just weird if you made it clear she's not involved in the scene."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes he is being a dick.how dare he ask for pics of our partner.that is outrageous and completely uncalled for.you are playing alone and he knew that what a bellend"
thanks old faithful knew that you would have my back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it seems I'm a bastard for cheating but that's my own axe to grind and that he is being a bellend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I know I'm gonna get it raw so I'm ready for this I think. ... I recently met a couple at mine seemed direct turned up when said and we got it on and it was great. Weeks after we were kik messaging each other I shared pic of our meet he shared pics of his Mrs as she was. I am attached but partner doesn't know I swing. Boo hiss all that pantomime shit. The male half requested pictures of my partner who again doesn't play I declined and let's just use a cliché about toys and a pram. Am I missing something or is he being a pleb

do you seriously need to ask???? just want a 2nd opinion rinky to make sure I've messed up

so you're not sure if it's ok for a man to ask you to show him pictures of your wife that doesn't know you swing, he sounds like a knobjockey of the highest order. he was happy for me to take and share pics of our meeting with them but I met as a single guy they met as a couple we should both take each other as we found each other. My partner has nothing to do with it. I simply asked in case I was missing something. ..."
But u brought them into your home right ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Okay I know I'm gonna get it raw so I'm ready for this I think. ... I recently met a couple at mine seemed direct turned up when said and we got it on and it was great. Weeks after we were kik messaging each other I shared pic of our meet he shared pics of his Mrs as she was. I am attached but partner doesn't know I swing. Boo hiss all that pantomime shit. The male half requested pictures of my partner who again doesn't play I declined and let's just use a cliché about toys and a pram. Am I missing something or is he being a pleb

do you seriously need to ask???? just want a 2nd opinion rinky to make sure I've messed up

so you're not sure if it's ok for a man to ask you to show him pictures of your wife that doesn't know you swing, he sounds like a knobjockey of the highest order. he was happy for me to take and share pics of our meeting with them but I met as a single guy they met as a couple we should both take each other as we found each other. My partner has nothing to do with it. I simply asked in case I was missing something. ... But u brought them into your home right ?"
I did ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes he is being a dick.how dare he ask for pics of our partner.that is outrageous and completely uncalled for.you are playing alone and he knew that what a bellend thanks old faithful knew that you would have my back"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes he is being a dick.how dare he ask for pics of our partner.that is outrageous and completely uncalled for.you are playing alone and he knew that what a bellend thanks old faithful knew that you would have my back

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xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But did he ask for a pic when they came to ur home and saw pix of ur partner ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But did he ask for a pic when they came to ur home and saw pix of ur partner ?"
nope 2 weeks after

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

He asked for pictures of your partner who does not play and your partner does not know u swing.

If the couple know your address I'd be very wary. I don't know if you live with your partner but sounds a strange request to ask for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He asked for pictures of your partner who does not play and your partner does not know u swing.

If the couple know your address I'd be very wary. I don't know if you live with your partner but sounds a strange request to ask for. "
thanks for your concern I've got my bases covered

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I'm not concerned that's none of me business I'm merely committing.

On a public forum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not concerned that's none of me business I'm merely committing.

On a public forum. "
what I meant was I hear you but I've got it covered thank you

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By *imis3Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"He asked for pictures of your partner who does not play and your partner does not know u swing.

If the couple know your address I'd be very wary. I don't know if you live with your partner but sounds a strange request to ask for. "

Not judging you op, but I reckon you sailed too close to the wind also by letting the in2 your home considering it circumstances ! Reckon if I were u I'd forget about the guy with loose boundries ( who is obviously a sleeze ) and I'd promise myself I'd learn from this and never ever play at my own pad again with anyone off here who u don't know really well ( assuming ur relationship is serious andfor the long hhaul ).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He asked for pictures of your partner who does not play and your partner does not know u swing.

If the couple know your address I'd be very wary. I don't know if you live with your partner but sounds a strange request to ask for.

Not judging you op, but I reckon you sailed too close to the wind also by letting the in2 your home considering it circumstances ! Reckon if I were u I'd forget about the guy with loose boundries ( who is obviously a sleeze ) and I'd promise myself I'd learn from this and never ever play at my own pad again with anyone off here who u don't know really well ( assuming ur relationship is serious andfor the long hhaul ). "
thanks xxx

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