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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Talking about hotel our house meets ..who should pay for the hotel...in my cause I never had to...not saying I won't but just worked out that way...what to my fello fabers think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to pay my way personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually go Dutch, but sometimes my offers to pay have been declined.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Most of my hotel meets have been because im staying in the hotel for other reasons so i have ended up paying but would not expect the man to pay the full amount if that is purely why im there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually go Dutch, but sometimes my offers to pay have been declined. "
same as myself seem to have been payed before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dutch is good after all it's fun for both , on another note I had a lady insist on paying for lunch recently , a pleasant surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, some people stay in a hotel because of work so I don't pay then obviously! If I was going to meet somebody a few times, if he paid the first time, I would pay on our next meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dutch is good after all it's fun for both , on another note I had a lady insist on paying for lunch recently , a pleasant surprise "

Aww that was very nice of her to pay for lunch, I guess you owe her dinner next time!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, some people stay in a hotel because of work so I don't pay then obviously! If I was going to meet somebody a few times, if he paid the first time, I would pay on our next meet! "

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Dutch is good after all it's fun for both , on another note I had a lady insist on paying for lunch recently , a pleasant surprise "

Why a surprise?........ I like treating sometimes too especially if its a regular guy i see.... although do sometimes have to sneak off and pay without them knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always pay my way after all we both there for the same reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dutch is good after all it's fun for both , on another note I had a lady insist on paying for lunch recently , a pleasant surprise

Aww that was very nice of her to pay for lunch, I guess you owe her dinner next time!!!!! "

Hmmm ha thought there was a catch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always pay my way after all we both there for the same reason "
on me honey if meet next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dutch is good after all it's fun for both , on another note I had a lady insist on paying for lunch recently , a pleasant surprise

Aww that was very nice of her to pay for lunch, I guess you owe her dinner next time!!!!!

Hmmm ha thought there was a catch "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dutch is good after all it's fun for both , on another note I had a lady insist on paying for lunch recently , a pleasant surprise

Why a surprise?........ I like treating sometimes too especially if its a regular guy i see.... although do sometimes have to sneak off and pay without them knowing "

Cos it don't happen to me that often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm interested in this cos I was wondering if offered to pay...would it be expected or would it cause offence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dutch is good after all it's fun for both , on another note I had a lady insist on paying for lunch recently , a pleasant surprise

Why a surprise?........ I like treating sometimes too especially if its a regular guy i see.... although do sometimes have to sneak off and pay without them knowing "

I do the sneaky thing too!! I don't think it's fair that the guy should pay all the time! Fair is fair like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i invite a guy I'll pay though has left me enjoying a room by myself on occasion when something or someone else comes along. The few occasions lads have gotten a room they paid but would prefer pay half just hate the money discussions

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

We always offer to go Dutch especially if they have to travel to us, it seems only fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I state clearly on my profile that I won't contribute to a hotel cost.

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

We allways pay half way if its ok with the othere person but if we was just have a dirty weekend our self we pay it our selfs lol

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

Old fashioned, dinner and drink's go on the room too.

I like to spend whatever I like on a night out and wouldn't like to have my company thinking about the bill the next morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always paid full whack for the room and it doesn't bother me. If I was asked if I wanna share the cost that would be cool too.

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I'm a bit funny about money when it comes to meets. It's not a conversation Id like to have...... Feels wrong somehow. We have always paid our hotel costs and will continue to do so.

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We say single boys pay single girls we pay couples go Dutch .... That's just the way the cookie crumbles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit funny about money when it comes to meets. It's not a conversation Id like to have...... Feels wrong somehow. We have always paid our hotel costs and will continue to do so.

Miss Mcjoy "

Yea exactly, I'm the same. You don't like bring money into convo when meeting but if someone offers and insists, well yea.

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor

Here's my social rule: "You invite, you pay.”

Especially if you’ve chosen the restaurant as well as making the invitation.

We all use phrases as code for "I’ll pay", like "Please be my guest"; "It will be my treat” and "I'd like to invite you to join me…

It's good manners to offer to pay for yourself or contribute a tip, and always wise to be prepared to pay for yourself, because, you never know.

Finally, rest assured that even if your date does pay for you, you're under no obligation to become horizontal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always pay my way after all we both there for the same reason on me honey if meet next time"

oh that's a deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep always offer to pay my way too ..if they refuse just pay next time if there s a 2nd time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went Dutch once,great fun and an absolutely lovely person as well

(heck of a dancer too)

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


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I went Dutch once,great fun and an absolutely lovely person as well

(heck of a dancer too) "

Just the once paddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I went Dutch once,great fun and an absolutely lovely person as well

(heck of a dancer too) "
Haha! Thanks Paddy lol. We'll have to go Dutch again sometime soon!!

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