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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which do you prefer for meets? We would rather a hotel room due to our home being rather manic at the best of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god hotel home is ur home why bring strangers into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would certainly prefer a hotel. . Its neutral ground for all involved . . But i do admire people who are happy and generous to open their homes to others . .

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Love hotels meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh more fun in a hotel

;)...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels are fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels are great

but every so often like to have a mad party at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel meets are more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels are fun

And someone else has to make up the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels are great

but every so often like to have a mad party at home

I want to go to one of your dinner partys

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Hotel are better u can just walk out. But remember to bring a hairbrush. I travelled back from Dublin looking like I had pulled from a hedge backwards.

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By *iiboyMan
over a year ago

Tankardstown

Hotels are defo less hassle and mo making of beds etc ?? lol having said that , home meets can be pretty kool too ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels are great

but every so often like to have a mad party at home

I want to go to one of your dinner partys

You'll def be on the list for the next one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh god hotel home is ur home why bring strangers into it

Noone said anything bout strangers, not all meets are unknown to people. And some do choose to utilise their home for parties/meets we were merely asking peoples preferences the eye rolling was unnecessary thanks

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Hotel are better u can just walk out. But remember to bring a hairbrush. I travelled back from Dublin looking like I had pulled from a hedge backwards.

Lol...done that myself many times.....luckily i have short hair and its not too bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels are great

but every so often like to have a mad party at home

I want to go to one of your dinner partys

You'll def be on the list for the next one

And Hal?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Hotel are better u can just walk out. But remember to bring a hairbrush. I travelled back from Dublin looking like I had pulled from a hedge backwards.

Lol...done that myself many times.....luckily i have short hair and its not too bad "
I have short hair too and it was all over the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels are great

but every so often like to have a mad party at home

I want to go to one of your dinner partys

You'll def be on the list for the next one

And Hal?

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels are great

but every so often like to have a mad party at home

I want to go to one of your dinner partys

You'll def be on the list for the next one

And Hal?

Of course

I'll hold you to that

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By *aster of SeductionMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have free space in my hotel every tue and wed night...any takers..mark x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels are great

but every so often like to have a mad party at home

I want to go to one of your dinner partys

You'll def be on the list for the next one

And Hal?

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels are great

but every so often like to have a mad party at home

I want to go to one of your dinner partys

You'll def be on the list for the next one

And Hal?

Of course

I'll hold you to that

You can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I share a gaff with housemates so hotel meets are much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels are great

but every so often like to have a mad party at home

I want to go to one of your dinner partys

You'll def be on the list for the next one

And Hal?

Of course

I'll hold you to that

You can

Diggs you have to have me for my cocktail making skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels are great

but every so often like to have a mad party at home

I want to go to one of your dinner partys

You'll def be on the list for the next one

And Hal?

Of course

I'll hold you to that

You can

Diggs you have to have me for my cocktail making skills

now this has the making of a great night !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels are great

but every so often like to have a mad party at home

I want to go to one of your dinner partys

You'll def be on the list for the next one

And Hal?

Of course

I'll hold you to that

You can

Diggs you have to have me for my cocktail making skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferred at home. Always more comfortable there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you prefer for meets? We would rather a hotel room due to our home being rather manic at the best of times"

my home is too personal, either at theirs or hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer home as I don't like sleep overs!

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I prefer hotel as it is a neutral space but if a regular playmate I trust and they are comfortable with it I don't mind going to theirs but I don't play at home .... The cat would only watch! !.. way to embarrassing

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"I prefer hotel as it is a neutral space but if a regular playmate I trust and they are comfortable with it I don't mind going to theirs but I don't play at home .... The cat would only watch! !.. way to embarrassing

They can get quite jealous too Mrs SS. Friends dog the other day insisted sitting between us on the sofa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer home. Dont like sleepovers and its easier to throw them out after than ata hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more pussies the better. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer home. Dont like sleepovers and its easier to throw them out after than ata hotel "

Lol girl after my own heart!

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

as long as they dont mind my mental dog I would invite people to my house but only with plenty of notice so i could clean the fucking tip up in saying that i am in the arsehole of nowhere so a hotel is more practical

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

And heres me thinking uvall want home meets to.prove the guys single

Oh i am a hotel man the wifebwont be happy dressing a bed after someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question.

Just same question I have discussed with the last couple I have met with very recently.

I have done few hotel meets and few home meets (I was a guest) and hotels would be of my preference. It does depend on the couple though.

Soon, I might host a meet in my own place, so I am excited about that moment to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the guy has his own place, I go to theirs! I very rarely bring people to mine, I'd have to like them and trust them enough first!

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By *obbie65Man
over a year ago

kildare

Has to be a hotel.

Home just would not have the same level of elicit excitement.

And like the guy above - home just wouldn't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

where ever the lady feels relaxed i will go.let it b a hotel or my place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer hotels but can't afford it for every meet. So I meet someone I know well and trust either at theirs or mine.

Someone said they don't like sleepovers. But is it not easier to get rid of someone at a hotel or to just leave? E.g. someone is at yours and you want them to leave and they don't get the hint... in a hotel I could just walk out

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By *arky90Couple
over a year ago

Killarney

Love hosting parties here at home and have had some great nights here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer hotels but can't afford it for every meet. So I meet someone I know well and trust either at theirs or mine.

Im pretty clear when I want someone to leave. At a hotel meet almost feel obliged to stay longer then I want to so at home I can make it clear easier. Never had any issue with a guy not wanting to leave as chat to all my meetsfor a while bbefore meeting so they know the score

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over a year ago

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By *ohnbi01Man
over a year ago

tipperary

Hotel. Its a night out, a new adventure. Few drinks to relax.

If she fails to show you have 2 bars if soap and a new shower cap.

Happy days

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Living out in the sticks means that hotels are the easier option, no one would find the place

Miss _cjoy

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm in a hotel room right now. And I'm not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels are more fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm in a hotel room right now. And I'm not alone

Gawd bragging Mingo? Soooooo not like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in a hotel room right now. And I'm not alone

Breakfast in bed?

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm in a hotel room right now. And I'm not alone

Gawd bragging Mingo? Soooooo not like you

You're right. Apologies. I'll be constructive.

I'm equally comfortable in either setting. I do like home meets, but ultimately its where everyone feels comfortable. When I lived in cork I lived alone in a lovely apartment that was perfect for meets and parties....do you think anyone was interested? Hell no! And my bedroom was big enough for an orgy!

I miss that place...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in a hotel room right now. And I'm not alone

Gawd bragging Mingo? Soooooo not like you

You're right. Apologies. I'll be constructive.

I miss that place..."

We just have to make use of the hotel room for now!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm in a hotel room right now. And I'm not alone

Gawd bragging Mingo? Soooooo not like you

You're right. Apologies. I'll be constructive.

I miss that place..."

Don't apologise. Go make sure se of the hotel room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been a home visitor and hotel frequenter in my previous adventures i think there is only 1 major factor. The presence / absence of little ones. Both environments can be equally as intense and enjoyable but nothing makes me not up for the job quite like the patter of tiny feet on the stairs. It was an awful experience and one i'll never fall into again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having been a home visitor and hotel frequenter in my previous adventures i think there is only 1 major factor. The presence / absence of little ones. Both environments can be equally as intense and enjoyable but nothing makes me not up for the job quite like the patter of tiny feet on the stairs. It was an awful experience and one i'll never fall into again. "

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah so hotel it is from now on. I could have crawled into the fire just to get out of that situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel if it's the first meeting but if all party's get along I have an open door policy.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"as long as they dont mind my mental dog I would invite people to my house but only with plenty of notice so i could clean the fucking tip up in saying that i am in the arsehole of nowhere so a hotel is more practical"

was your dog on toxics sofa !!!???

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

was your dog on toxics sofa !!!???

fuck knows - he is now licking my toes though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a single guy and having my own place I have to say home! I hate hotels where you have to pass reception to get to rooms or where you need key card for lift.looks awful doggy waiting around looking lost lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Living out in the sticks means that hotels are the easier option, no one would find the place

Miss _cjoy

Good gps and will get me there xoxo lol

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"Being a single guy and having my own place I have to say home! I hate hotels where you have to pass reception to get to rooms or where you need key card for lift.looks awful doggy waiting around looking lost lol

willys doggy or toxics. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

willys doggy or toxics. ..

Im gonna blame phone auto correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why waste money on a hotel when you can get the same thing at home for free we never had hotel meets bar from at partys i understand if some have kids and that but if your kid free i dont see an issue in having meets in your home

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