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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wanted to see what you think of this.

I was chatting to guy here who expressed that he prefers a woman to be shaved.

He said the one thing he asks from meets is to have their pussy shaved. Now I respect that people have preferences but I said to him that he can't really ask for this. If I shave I do it for myself and not a random NSA meet.

Now I do shave or trim but I certainly don't do it because a guy asks me to.

His reply was "If am going to take them out spend money on them am aloud to ask for one small thing"

I wasn't impressed with that reply. Am I overreacting?

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

think he thinks of u as a girlfriend, not as someone to have a chat with and maybe some fun with . next he will probally tell u what to wear lol

mr crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No overreacting. Btw you are hot.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I wanted to see what you think of this.

I was chatting to guy here who expressed that he prefers a woman to be shaved.

He said the one thing he asks from meets is to have their pussy shaved. Now I respect that people have preferences but I said to him that he can't really ask for this. If I shave I do it for myself and not a random NSA meet.

Now I do shave or trim but I certainly don't do it because a guy asks me to.

His reply was "If am going to take them out spend money on them am aloud to ask for one small thing"

I wasn't impressed with that reply. Am I overreacting?

"

Definitely not over reacting. Im the same. I dress and shave to suit me not the other way round. If he made that comment to me about spending money on me then i know i wouldnt meet him

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Your not overreacting sweet I do my personal care for me no one else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wanted to see what you think of this.

I was chatting to guy here who expressed that he prefers a woman to be shaved.

He said the one thing he asks from meets is to have their pussy shaved. Now I respect that people have preferences but I said to him that he can't really ask for this. If I shave I do it for myself and not a random NSA meet.

Now I do shave or trim but I certainly don't do it because a guy asks me to.

His reply was "If am going to take them out spend money on them am aloud to ask for one small thing"

I wasn't impressed with that reply. Am I overreacting?

Definitely not over reacting. Im the same. I dress and shave to suit me not the other way round. If he made that comment to me about spending money on me then i know i wouldnt meet him"

Indeed!! I have a right to decide whether I should shave or not!! I don't always shave, some guys like a bit of hair downstairs!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not an overreaction at all. I've had guys try tell me what to wear, how to do my makeup, even what kind of perfume to wear and how to behave for them as in their words their giving up their time to meet with me. Their the kind of guys who get told exactly where to go

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands"

Thats the way i would have taken it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands

Thats the way i would have taken it too. "

Me too but didn't know how to word it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he needs a blow up doll. No need to worry about hair

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By *armakazzyCouple
over a year ago

dublin south


"I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands

Thats the way i would have taken it too.

Me too but didn't know how to word it"

Have to agree ladies any girl with self respect would tell him where to get off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye, bye!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

what guys seem to forget is that if you get a meet you are very lucky as 100s of guys dont even get that far. then to start making demands is a bit silly but they live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should agree to meet this guy. . But you too should ask just one small thing. . . "that you will only agree to a coffee meet once he has paid for a first class ticket to new york for you and five star accomodation while there and a shopping spree . . And you will meet him when you return provided he has grown his nostril hairs down to his ankles". . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should agree to meet this guy. . But you too should ask just one small thing. . . "that you will only agree to a coffee meet once he has paid for a first class ticket to new york for you and five star accomodation while there and a shopping spree . . And you will meet him when you return provided he has grown his nostril hairs down to his ankles". . . "

Now that would be amazing!!!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

I would love to see how this man fares offline with the women. Does he come armed with a razor to the pub/club in case he gets lucky and pulls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my expectation is that she pays for the meal and the drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my expectation is that she pays for the meal and the drinks "

Sure it's only fair!

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I wanted to see what you think of this.

I was chatting to guy here who expressed that he prefers a woman to be shaved.

He said the one thing he asks from meets is to have their pussy shaved. Now I respect that people have preferences but I said to him that he can't really ask for this. If I shave I do it for myself and not a random NSA meet.

Now I do shave or trim but I certainly don't do it because a guy asks me to.

His reply was "If am going to take them out spend money on them am aloud to ask for one small thing"

I wasn't impressed with that reply. Am I overreacting?

"

I hope you're still not in contact with the cretin

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By *andaCouple
over a year ago

co down


"I wanted to see what you think of this.

I was chatting to guy here who expressed that he prefers a woman to be shaved.

He said the one thing he asks from meets is to have their pussy shaved. Now I respect that people have preferences but I said to him that he can't really ask for this. If I shave I do it for myself and not a random NSA meet.

Now I do shave or trim but I certainly don't do it because a guy asks me to.

His reply was "If am going to take them out spend money on them am aloud to ask for one small thing"

I wasn't impressed with that reply. Am I overreacting?

"

Should have called his bluff and told him your expectation is blokes should be waxed from chest down and see his reply

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By *leasureOrbitCouple
over a year ago

city centre

He sounds like a keeper....a true diamond amongst the rough.

J.

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"I wanted to see what you think of this.

I was chatting to guy here who expressed that he prefers a woman to be shaved.

He said the one thing he asks from meets is to have their pussy shaved. Now I respect that people have preferences but I said to him that he can't really ask for this. If I shave I do it for myself and not a random NSA meet.

Now I do shave or trim but I certainly don't do it because a guy asks me to.

His reply was "If am going to take them out spend money on them am aloud to ask for one small thing"

I wasn't impressed with that reply. Am I overreacting?

No, he sounds like an asshole

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember going on a date, and we went for a meal, the look of horror on her face when I paid my half and left her at the dinner table was priceless, her only excuse then was she didn't bring her wallet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wanted to see what you think of this.

I was chatting to guy here who expressed that he prefers a woman to be shaved.

He said the one thing he asks from meets is to have their pussy shaved. Now I respect that people have preferences but I said to him that he can't really ask for this. If I shave I do it for myself and not a random NSA meet.

Now I do shave or trim but I certainly don't do it because a guy asks me to.

His reply was "If am going to take them out spend money on them am aloud to ask for one small thing"

I wasn't impressed with that reply. Am I overreacting?

No, he sounds like an asshole

"

no, you are not over- reacting at all my dear! We all have "Preferences" & that's fine.. but they are NOT the same as "Demands".. i think it's time to call "Next"!!!

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By *.L.CMan
over a year ago

Kilmallock

Dont know why people are so hung up on a little hair,personally so long as its tidy and clean bring it on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

gosh no, I'd never meet anyone who has such a poor attitude towards women. But I was called mental for taking offense so I was curious to hear if I'm over sensitive as I sometimes can be. He also dared me to put it up here for discussion.... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my mind your meeting people that you think you are going to click with and have some fun at the same time. I expect to pay or at least split some of the costs of the night. But I would never ask her to prepare herself a certain way or wear specific clothes if we have never met or played before. If after a few meets and If she enjoys a more submissive role then it may be fine to make those requests to person as part of the play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands"

That's the part that would rile me...

I don't have any issue with someone expressing a personal preference - as long as it's just that - a preference, not a demand or an obligation !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He sounds like a keeper....a true diamond amongst the rough.

J.

"

Hahaha ! We're all beating down the door !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands"

I'd love to know what he was going to spend all this money on!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I actually don't even know what the spending money included?! He never explained.

Could be anything from paying his own bus fare to that trip to NYC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to me the usual peeps are just joining in and ganging up on him and trying to impress each other. So sad. He had a preference and may have overstepped the mark but no need to hang draw and quarter him.

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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago

In and around


"I wanted to see what you think of this.

I was chatting to guy here who expressed that he prefers a woman to be shaved.

He said the one thing he asks from meets is to have their pussy shaved. Now I respect that people have preferences but I said to him that he can't really ask for this. If I shave I do it for myself and not a random NSA meet.

Now I do shave or trim but I certainly don't do it because a guy asks me to.

His reply was "If am going to take them out spend money on them am aloud to ask for one small thing"

I wasn't impressed with that reply. Am I overreacting?

Should have called his bluff and told him your expectation is blokes should be waxed from chest down and see his reply"

Brilliant and only slightly painful

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland

Your not over reacting, he sounds like a complete control freak.Forget him, he is not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree, here for mutual fun. This isn't a design your own hooker site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the sense of entitlement here is ridiculous , have men become so desensitised from watching porn that they imagine a woman should think it normal for them to enquire whether she is shaved or not ? there is a large amont of men here who show damn all respect or manners , the same ones who demand a response to unsolicited mail they send .

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

He had a preference he stated it. When questioned he said he incurred costs in meeting and didn't want to arrive and encounter something he found distasteful to him peronally. Not sure it's that big an issue, I'm smooth, I wouldn't meet someone who said they don't like totally smooth - simples - I am not to their taste. If I am to play I expect women to be smooth, it's fine if they are not but play won't happen.

I've seen an issue where a woman was upset that none of the women at a party would play with her (she had full growth). She now tends to this and I'm sure she would rather have known this in advance than to feel rejected as she did (having spent petrol money getting there, money for drink and as a woman possibly a new dress/lingerie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a storm in a tea cup

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

Oh and in the spirit of equality.... I expect smooth balls too....... choking on pubes kills it for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say veet the lot off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that all ladys expect a guy from here to be respectful and a gentleman and to be a good laugh most of all turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He had a preference he stated it. When questioned he said he incurred costs in meeting and didn't want to arrive and encounter something he found distasteful to him peronally. Not sure it's that big an issue, I'm smooth, I wouldn't meet someone who said they don't like totally smooth - simples - I am not to their taste. If I am to play I expect women to be smooth, it's fine if they are not but play won't happen.

I've seen an issue where a woman was upset that none of the women at a party would play with her (she had full growth). She now tends to this and I'm sure she would rather have known this in advance than to feel rejected as she did (having spent petrol money getting there, money for drink and as a woman possibly a new dress/lingerie)"

What if the situation were reversed? What if you had a meet lined up and someome said that because they were paying out cash to meet you that they expected you to grow a bit of a bush for them? Would that be acceptable?

I take your point about preferences though. We are all allowed preferences, but its just a bit much to expect to be able to customise your meet to your requirements just because you are incurring costs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I think a lot of guys on here mostly newbies think we are whores I had a guy this morning wanted to know why I couldn't go to his hotel room in Kilkenny this morning and give him a hand job

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

I have had guys say they prefer at LEAST a landing strip as they find the bald look jeuvenile....... thats fine by me but we have no need to meet so as I am unwilling to meet his tastes. No biggie in my book.

I haven't questioned why they have to have these tastes or opinions or how flexible they are on them so I've not encountered any discussion on costs involved with meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy-Will you meet

Girl-Only if you are shaved

Guy-why?

Girl-thats what I want and I won't meet if you aren't

Seems reasonable. But if roles are reversed...methinks double standards!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guy-Will you meet

Girl-Only if you are shaved

Guy-why?

Girl-thats what I want and I won't meet if you aren't

Seems reasonable. But if roles are reversed...methinks double standards! "

you're not getting what this post is about! I have no problem with someone having preferences.

But someone having expectations in any way because they have "spent money on me" that's ridiculous.

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare


"Seems to me the usual peeps are just joining in and ganging up on him and trying to impress each other. So sad. He had a preference and may have overstepped the mark but no need to hang draw and quarter him."

don't agree with gang up on him he wasn't named & shamed people are just in agreement.

Personally its money thing that would annoy me, we pay to get there too, we pay to get into parties, for cloths, make up, accommodation etc & we waste/spend our time too (so many last second cancelations when already waiting for them).

There was a hairdresser doll toy who was able to pull hair long again after cut think we need something similar - landing patch, trimmed, shaven, waxed, bikini line .... Able to change at moments notice then.

Its take me as i am or leave me, in my meets i pay mine you pay yours. Some guys have been really demanding to extent that working girl would tell him to take hike. Ill work around what you got & you can do same as long as your

clean.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I don't think its ganging up. . The op asked for people's views. . His identity isn't known. ... and people are simply giving their views.

It's the idea that he was going to be spending money and therefore deserved his one little request that I find so offensive. .. everyone has preferences and is nice to know what they are in case they clash but if it's a simple coffee/social meet its a just that so a bit over the top tbh!

Imagine the demands if it was a play meet! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take me as I am or get lost, if a guy made such demands on me he'd be told where to go.

Actually one of the above comments about 'the usual people ganging up on him' irritates me more. I'm not commenting to try impress anyone.

Ridiculous statement.

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

Hair or no hair i wouldn't be fussy, if you agree to take a laidy out for the night you should be prepared to look after her every need, food , drinks hotel ect...

Maybe am old fashion but you should allways be a gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hair or no hair i wouldn't be fussy, if you agree to take a laidy out for the night you should be prepared to look after her every need, food , drinks hotel ect...

Maybe am old fashion but you should allways be a gentleman.

"
queue forming now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hair or no hair i wouldn't be fussy, if you agree to take a laidy out for the night you should be prepared to look after her every need, food , drinks hotel ect...

Maybe am old fashion but you should allways be a gentleman.

"

What a load of BS

I feel all women here ought to spilt the cost of everything ! The hotel room , the food , the drinks etc !

I would feel like a pro if it was any other way !

It's not a dating site, if day things will even out over time where both contribute equally !

Both are coming toget her for a reason on her ... Should be spilt down the Middle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like I've kicked up a storm here.. had to have a good laugh reading through some those comments... Very clever in the way you put that op!! About the money comment and the women being shaved.. well it's simple as this we where talking and I asked her if you where going to meet a guy and he ASKED not told or demanding for her to be shaven because it's his preference would you do it? I got told I am not aloud to ask anything off a women she is not a hooker.. my replie was surely if am taking a women out for the night am aloud to ASK her can she be shaved because it's my preference.. is that really that bad???

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas


"Hair or no hair i wouldn't be fussy, if you agree to take a laidy out for the night you should be prepared to look after her every need, food , drinks hotel ect...

Maybe am old fashion but you should allways be a gentleman.

What a load of BS

I feel all women here ought to spilt the cost of everything ! The hotel room , the food , the drinks etc !

I would feel like a pro if it was any other way !

It's not a dating site, if day things will even out over time where both contribute equally !

Both are coming toget her for a reason on her ... Should be spilt down the Middle "

That's just my preference, there are lot's of womem that make much more money than I do every year.

I believe you should look after anyone you agree to meet, treat them with respect and money shouldn't be talked about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands

That's the part that would rile me...

I don't have any issue with someone expressing a personal preference - as long as it's just that - a preference, not a demand or an obligation !!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like I've kicked up a storm here.. had to have a good laugh reading through some those comments... Very clever in the way you put that op!! About the money comment and the women being shaved.. well it's simple as this we where talking and I asked her if you where going to meet a guy and he ASKED not told or demanding for her to be shaven because it's his preference would you do it? I got told I am not aloud to ask anything off a women she is not a hooker.. my replie was surely if am taking a women out for the night am aloud to ASK her can she be shaved because it's my preference.. is that really that bad??? "

Ah! The fog is lifted.

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

No it's not wrong to ask....... Demand yes that's wrong, indicate a clear preference....No that's fine in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooh its that kingfisher moron. Why am I not surprised?

*sigh* "

Explain how you work that out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it's not wrong to ask....... Demand yes that's wrong, indicate a clear preference....No that's fine in my book. "

Thank you

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I don't think anyone has a problem with ppl having likes and dislikes....its the ref to spending money that's the problem....fab is just a reflection of real life and there's controlling ppl everywhere.....I always tell potential meets I have a Brazilian... If it doesn't suite no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooh its that kingfisher moron. Why am I not surprised?

*sigh*

Explain how you work that out? "

Just saying what everybody else is thinking. You haven't exactly painted yourself in a favourable light on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooh its that kingfisher moron. Why am I not surprised?

*sigh*

Explain how you work that out?

Just saying what everybody else is thinking. You haven't exactly painted yourself in a favourable light on here. "

How explain more? What have I said that's so horrible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone has a problem with ppl having likes and dislikes....its the ref to spending money that's the problem....fab is just a reflection of real life and there's controlling ppl everywhere.....I always tell potential meets I have a Brazilian... If it doesn't suite no problem"

So when two ppl meet on this site a guy can't ASK anything off a women???

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Isn't this waste of time. I believe the thing is better remaining between the parties involved in these situations out of respect for each other.

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

But the money reference wouldn't have been made if he hadn't been made to justify his wish to make a request....... I don't see why that was required of him, don't like the request then say no I won't do that or else no I won't meet you.

I won't suck hairy balls......... why? Because I spend €60+ on a full leg and Hollywood so he can surely fork out for a Gillette! Like it or not there are women/couples who expect the men to pay for the room, to fork out for a few drinks in the bar and/or provide the fem with a pressie (bottle of drink/flowers etc) I'm old enough to be his sexy older aunt and the dynamics here confuse me sometimes!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He had a preference he stated it. When questioned he said he incurred costs in meeting and didn't want to arrive and encounter something he found distasteful to him peronally. Not sure it's that big an issue, I'm smooth, I wouldn't meet someone who said they don't like totally smooth - simples - I am not to their taste. If I am to play I expect women to be smooth, it's fine if they are not but play won't happen.

I've seen an issue where a woman was upset that none of the women at a party would play with her (she had full growth). She now tends to this and I'm sure she would rather have known this in advance than to feel rejected as she did (having spent petrol money getting there, money for drink and as a woman possibly a new dress/lingerie)"

At least someone agrees with me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone has a problem with ppl having likes and dislikes....its the ref to spending money that's the problem....fab is just a reflection of real life and there's controlling ppl everywhere.....I always tell potential meets I have a Brazilian... If it doesn't suite no problem

So when two ppl meet on this site a guy can't ASK anything off a women???"

Mr69: Yeah, you could ask where she might like to go for a night out, what her favourite drink is, does she dislike any particular aftershave, you know, normal stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But the money reference wouldn't have been made if he hadn't been made to justify his wish to make a request....... I don't see why that was required of him, don't like the request then say no I won't do that or else no I won't meet you.

I won't suck hairy balls......... why? Because I spend €60+ on a full leg and Hollywood so he can surely fork out for a Gillette! Like it or not there are women/couples who expect the men to pay for the room, to fork out for a few drinks in the bar and/or provide the fem with a pressie (bottle of drink/flowers etc) I'm old enough to be his sexy older aunt and the dynamics here confuse me sometimes!!!"

Someone who understands and has some sense and makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone has a problem with ppl having likes and dislikes....its the ref to spending money that's the problem....fab is just a reflection of real life and there's controlling ppl everywhere.....I always tell potential meets I have a Brazilian... If it doesn't suite no problem

So when two ppl meet on this site a guy can't ASK anything off a women???

Mr69: Yeah, you could ask where she might like to go for a night out, what her favourite drink is, does she dislike any particular aftershave, you know, normal stuff."

Now ya see I am a guy I can't ask anything Of a women well so am told and that's why I said about the money thing spending my hard earned money to take a women out for the night I can't ask for my preference!! That's why I called her mental!!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"I don't think anyone has a problem with ppl having likes and dislikes....its the ref to spending money that's the problem....fab is just a reflection of real life and there's controlling ppl everywhere.....I always tell potential meets I have a Brazilian... If it doesn't suite no problem

So when two ppl meet on this site a guy can't ASK anything off a women???"

I don't think you get my point....it might be a idea to put on your profile shaved ladies only

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

Good idea 'smooth or no oral'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone has a problem with ppl having likes and dislikes....its the ref to spending money that's the problem....fab is just a reflection of real life and there's controlling ppl everywhere.....I always tell potential meets I have a Brazilian... If it doesn't suite no problem

So when two ppl meet on this site a guy can't ASK anything off a women???

I don't think you get my point....it might be a idea to put on your profile shaved ladies only"

Why is that? That will come across as I don't want to speak to women with a hairy Bush lol.. I can chat to them and by the end of the convo and there's a connection she might actually shave for me.. all these comments before have made me look like a bad person and the story at the start wasn't set straight..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So when two ppl meet on this site a guy can't ASK anything off a women???

Mr69: Yeah, you could ask where she might like to go for a night out, what her favourite drink is, does she dislike any particular aftershave, you know, normal stuff.

Now ya see I am a guy I can't ask anything Of a women well so am told and that's why I said about the money thing spending my hard earned money to take a women out for the night I can't ask for my preference!! That's why I called her mental!! "

Mr69: None of the above examples are "asking anything of her". I'm suggesting you offer instead of barter, it will show you in a better light.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands"

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Guy-Will you meet

Girl-Only if you are shaved

Guy-why?

Girl-thats what I want and I won't meet if you aren't

Seems reasonable. But if roles are reversed...methinks double standards! "

We are not here as paid whores which his reply makes us out to be. Where is the respect? Yes we all have preferences but that doesn't mean because he buys a coffee he is entitled to make demands. His choice to make the journey and believe me i have traveled for the right bloke too but don't put demands on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guy-Will you meet

Girl-Only if you are shaved

Guy-why?

Girl-thats what I want and I won't meet if you aren't

Seems reasonable. But if roles are reversed...methinks double standards!

We are not here as paid whores which his reply makes us out to be. Where is the respect? Yes we all have preferences but that doesn't mean because he buys a coffee he is entitled to make demands. His choice to make the journey and believe me i have traveled for the right bloke too but don't put demands on them"

Where was the demand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands

"

Use clearly don't understand why it was brong up!!

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas


"I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands

"

He shouldn't of mentioned money and he should pay for everything anyway, hair is only hair and don't think it would put any man off in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands

He shouldn't of mentioned money and he should pay for everything anyway, hair is only hair and don't think it would put any man off in the bedroom."

Have you had a read through? Do you know why it was bring up?

Well it puts me off.

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

Lesson learnt: before having any private conversation have the other party sign a disclaimer that freedom of speech within that conversation will not be used against you on a public forum and that no version of same conversation shall be used to bait you into having to defend yourself (as it is clear from another forum post of the same nature that you are the offendikng party)as that will lead to your public crucifixion.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Guy-Will you meet

Girl-Only if you are shaved

Guy-why?

Girl-thats what I want and I won't meet if you aren't

Seems reasonable. But if roles are reversed...methinks double standards!

We are not here as paid whores which his reply makes us out to be. Where is the respect? Yes we all have preferences but that doesn't mean because he buys a coffee he is entitled to make demands. His choice to make the journey and believe me i have traveled for the right bloke too but don't put demands on them

Where was the demand?"

Lol....read the ops opening statement....he says if he is paying out money then he should be entitled to some small requests

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I made a conscious decision not to mention any names and kingfisher agreed with me to put up the thread to see what people's opinions are

As for me putting him in a bad light and how clever I've done that? Very true, I cleverly copied and pasted what he said.

Anyway. I think I should have never put this thread up. I know what my opinion is and don't know why I needed validation for it lol

Peace out.

Btw. My pussy is shaved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guy-Will you meet

Girl-Only if you are shaved

Guy-why?

Girl-thats what I want and I won't meet if you aren't

Seems reasonable. But if roles are reversed...methinks double standards!

We are not here as paid whores which his reply makes us out to be. Where is the respect? Yes we all have preferences but that doesn't mean because he buys a coffee he is entitled to make demands. His choice to make the journey and believe me i have traveled for the right bloke too but don't put demands on them

Where was the demand?

Lol....read the ops opening statement....he says if he is paying out money then he should be entitled to some small requests "

Sorry my dear but think you should have a read through properly... I made the statement!!.and not once did I say am entitled to some requests!! I asked her if a guy asked her would she shave for him cos it's his preference would she do it and replie I got was am not aloud to ask anything off women and she's not a paid whore.. if she didn't say that I couldn't ASK anything off a women then I wouldn't of used the money statment off taking her out for the night a using my hard earnings to treat her!!

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Guy-Will you meet

Girl-Only if you are shaved

Guy-why?

Girl-thats what I want and I won't meet if you aren't

Seems reasonable. But if roles are reversed...methinks double standards!

We are not here as paid whores which his reply makes us out to be. Where is the respect? Yes we all have preferences but that doesn't mean because he buys a coffee he is entitled to make demands. His choice to make the journey and believe me i have traveled for the right bloke too but don't put demands on them

Where was the demand?

Lol....read the ops opening statement....he says if he is paying out money then he should be entitled to some small requests

Sorry my dear but think you should have a read through properly... I made the statement!!.and not once did I say am entitled to some requests!! I asked her if a guy asked her would she shave for him cos it's his preference would she do it and replie I got was am not aloud to ask anything off women and she's not a paid whore.. if she didn't say that I couldn't ASK anything off a women then I wouldn't of used the money statment off taking her out for the night a using my hard earnings to treat her!!"

Lol...... polite thing would have been to say no thankyou and not bring up the cost of meeting her then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guy-Will you meet

Girl-Only if you are shaved

Guy-why?

Girl-thats what I want and I won't meet if you aren't

Seems reasonable. But if roles are reversed...methinks double standards!

We are not here as paid whores which his reply makes us out to be. Where is the respect? Yes we all have preferences but that doesn't mean because he buys a coffee he is entitled to make demands. His choice to make the journey and believe me i have traveled for the right bloke too but don't put demands on them

Where was the demand?

Lol....read the ops opening statement....he says if he is paying out money then he should be entitled to some small requests

Sorry my dear but think you should have a read through properly... I made the statement!!.and not once did I say am entitled to some requests!! I asked her if a guy asked her would she shave for him cos it's his preference would she do it and replie I got was am not aloud to ask anything off women and she's not a paid whore.. if she didn't say that I couldn't ASK anything off a women then I wouldn't of used the money statment off taking her out for the night a using my hard earnings to treat her!!

Lol...... polite thing would have been to say no thankyou and not bring up the cost of meeting her then "

Aww I give u! just don't get the point

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By *rian78Man
over a year ago

navan

After reading all the comments to this post i think it shows a lot more than the 2 main people in a light. Everyone that posted showed there views and has made there point and this will follow each one on. Only the 2 people invoked will know the exact truth in words of what was said and it should be left there a d sides not taking.

so for this i wont express my views and i am happy to take any criticism that is giving to me

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon


"After reading all the comments to this post i think it shows a lot more than the 2 main people in a light. Everyone that posted showed there views and has made there point and this will follow each one on. Only the 2 people invoked will know the exact truth in words of what was said and it should be left there a d sides not taking.

so for this i wont express my views and i am happy to take any criticism that is giving to me "

perhaps we all would have been wise to take this approach without the benefit of having seen the full conversation verbatim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading all the comments to this post i think it shows a lot more than the 2 main people in a light. Everyone that posted showed there views and has made there point and this will follow each one on. Only the 2 people invoked will know the exact truth in words of what was said and it should be left there a d sides not taking.

so for this i wont express my views and i am happy to take any criticism that is giving to me

perhaps we all would have been wise to take this approach without the benefit of having seen the full conversation verbatim."

I spoke the truth in what was said guys in that convo..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands

Thats the way i would have taken it too.

Me too but didn't know how to word it"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands

Thats the way i would have taken it too.

Me too but didn't know how to word it

+1"

Oh god hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After reading all the comments to this post i think it shows a lot more than the 2 main people in a light. Everyone that posted showed there views and has made there point and this will follow each one on. Only the 2 people invoked will know the exact truth in words of what was said and it should be left there a d sides not taking.

so for this i wont express my views and i am happy to take any criticism that is giving to me "

I should have never put up the thread. Bad decision really. My apologies everyone for this silly thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just found the whole spending money part really offending. I'm not a paid whore who takes demands

Thats the way i would have taken it too.

Me too but didn't know how to word it

+1"

Spend money, get hole??

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By *rian78Man
over a year ago

navan


"After reading all the comments to this post i think it shows a lot more than the 2 main people in a light. Everyone that posted showed there views and has made there point and this will follow each one on. Only the 2 people invoked will know the exact truth in words of what was said and it should be left there a d sides not taking.

so for this i wont express my views and i am happy to take any criticism that is giving to me

perhaps we all would have been wise to take this approach without the benefit of having seen the full conversation verbatim.

I spoke the truth in what was said guys in that convo.. "

the two of you in a room together would speak the truth

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Maybe it would just be wiser to rethink how you put things across in future kingfisher. If I have met someone a few times and we were going to play and he had a preference I would probably take that in board as there would obviously be a mutual attraction before I would consider playing anyway. It depends on what type of meet it is tbh. I do see your point as it appears it was more theoritical but I think maybe you put it across badly. But if you really only want to play with women who are shaved/waxed/smooth it would be much better to have that stressed in your profile . It is a swinging site and most women choose their personal care for themselves and not to suit potential playmates. Maybe it would good to also bear in mind things can be taken in the wrong way easily in messages as you don't always know what tone it was said in.

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

It's a public forum but if you take bit's from other people's advice it can be helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone has a problem with ppl having likes and dislikes....its the ref to spending money that's the problem....fab is just a reflection of real life and there's controlling ppl everywhere.....I always tell potential meets I have a Brazilian... If it doesn't suite no problem"

Due to the recession I had to let my Brazilian go! Place is never clean now.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"I don't think anyone has a problem with ppl having likes and dislikes....its the ref to spending money that's the problem....fab is just a reflection of real life and there's controlling ppl everywhere.....I always tell potential meets I have a Brazilian... If it doesn't suite no problem

Due to the recession I had to let my Brazilian go! Place is never clean now. "

You gave me a giggle there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But with the pickup in the economy.......who knows....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the 1st meet anyway its not all about down there its more.about the conversation and flirting and see if your comfortable enough that each other feel safe enough to go further without worrying about the other not being 100% discrete

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