FabSwingers.com forum: single guys ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do people ask to meet single guys and then when u message them they never reply .. I am a nice looking guy that has unreal verifications and staying in nice dublin hotel .might not be everyone's cup of tea but a message saying not intrested .. costs nothing to be nice and say no intrest .. does anyone agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Whilst it costs nothing it can generate abuse and if you have alot of mail to go through that can take time. Not everyone in here can handle rejection. See no reply as no thanks and you may enjoy the site more. It's not rude just how the site works.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's a woman's world lol .. woman must get hundreds of mails of a day where it's very rare for a man to get a mail first am I right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we replied to u even though u werent for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Whilst it costs nothing it can generate abuse and if you have alot of mail to go through that can take time. Not everyone in here can handle rejection. See no reply as no thanks and you may enjoy the site more. It's not rude just how the site works."

All i have to say about that is Hottie xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ya and I appreciated that .. It costs nothing to be nice .. but some people on this because they get so many messages think there cherly Cole and are to good for some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh and for op... Jesus man get over it. Maybe if you know you gonna be in a hotel room before hand organise it mail some people give them time maybe someone will get back to you, there are more men than women and cpls and vast majority are messers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With that attitude you probably wont get many more replies..

Its something us guys have to accept and respect and just focus on the people that do reply a little more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me get this right....

You messaged 'random' people on here, totally out of the blue, because you have a room 'here and now' and you 'expect' them to reply to you?

Whatever happened to freedom of choice?

ie the right NOT to reply.

I'm sure it's a case (again) of damned if you do, damned if you don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't have an attuide.. I am just asking the question in general there's plenty of fish in the sea .. only asked the question that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also if your mailing people who have "not meeting" clearly on their profile, yet sending them "I'm in a hotel now" message, why would you expect a reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let me get this right....

You messaged 'random' people on here, totally out of the blue, because you have a room 'here and now' and you 'expect' them to reply to you?

Whatever happened to freedom of choice?

ie the right NOT to reply.

I'm sure it's a case (again) of damned if you do, damned if you don't

Good point but to be fair to op I don't think that what he is trying to highlight... As I gathered is more about giving a polite reply even if it's a no but with a terrible example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ya and I appreciated that .. It costs nothing to be nice .. but some people on this because they get so many messages think there cherly Cole and are to good for some people "

I don't get that much mail now. I have my filters well and truly set. You are not showing yourself in a very good light. Under estimate the women on this site and you will have no fun at all. Yes we hold the cards but most of us are not desperate to fuck just anyone. I am here for my fantasies nobody elses. Clearly states so on my profile. Don't assume we are all mingers with self esteem issues as we aren't. I just find it hard to go up to a hot couple in a pub and say 'fancy a threesome'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe I am wrong but if I am I put my hands up . I suppose there's a lot of weirdos out there and women might just not want to reply .. sorry

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Why do people ask to meet single guys and then when u message them they never reply .. I am a nice looking guy that has unreal verifications and staying in nice dublin hotel .might not be everyone's cup of tea but a message saying not intrested .. costs nothing to be nice and say no intrest .. does anyone agree

Given the regular topic of discussion around here, describing your verifications as "unreal" might not have been the wisest move either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ya and I appreciated that .. It costs nothing to be nice .. but some people on this because they get so many messages think there cherly Cole and are to good for some people

I'll take you on that proposal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you say you have 'unreal verifications' and then you say that women think they are cheryl cole because they get lots of mail? Your verifications seem pretty run of the mill and generic to me, maybe you have an over inflated ego yourself and that's what the problem is?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do I delete this lol

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

And having a cock pic as an avatar pic doesnt help as its a major turn off for alot here

mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I delete this lol "

Take it on the chin now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is probably singing to himself all day. Don't you wish your boyfriend was hot like me,with unreal verification! don't ya, don't ya, don't Ya, DON'T Ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And having a cock pic as an avatar pic doesnt help as its a major turn off for alot here

mrs crazy

but sure aren't us women meant to swoon when he has put so much effort into taking pics of his cock while lying in his hotel bed

lol

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford

[Removed by poster at 14/12/14 10:26:40]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 14/12/14 10:26:40]"

well he asked for it with his attitude, so boo hoo !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh you chicken deleting it lol

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford

How do you delete it??

Lol sorry mate not sure you can.

Best would be.. stay away from this thread... don't read the replies... let people vent their anger and throw verbal stones at ya.. learn from ur mistake.. and never ever ask a question or make a statement on a forum again...without a smiley face

Never..Ever

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not a chicken I stand by what I said .. Some women on this think there to good for some fellas .. freedom of speech so.i said it ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a chicken I stand by what I said .. Some women on this think there to good for some fellas .. freedom of speech so.i said it ha ha "

I wasnt calling you a chicken, _excock deleted his post I thought he was chickening out of what he wrote.

Sure you think you're unreal hahaha, pot kettle mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two sugars and milk for me please...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I said my verifications were unreal .. I didn't put them up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a chicken I stand by what I said .. Some women on this think there to good for some fellas .. freedom of speech so.i said it ha ha "

Yes indeed but equally some fellas think they are too good for some women, cant please everyone.

Also i think that perhaps boobilicious' comment was directed at _excock for deleting what he posted then deleted then reposted.

Slow down my friend and take a breath, dont be so quick to rush in. The party is only just getting started here.

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford

"Not a chicken I stand by what I said .. Some women on this think there to good for some fellas .. freedom of speech so.i said it ha ha

I wasnt calling you a chicken, _excock deleted his post I thought he was chickening out of what he wrote.

Sure you think you're unreal hahaha, pot kettle mate!

Oh..you called Me.. a Chicken!!

I'm devastated... never been called anything so insulting in all me life!!

Bawk..tut..tut..bawk bawk... now excuse me...I'm going to shit an egg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a chicken I stand by what I said .. Some women on this think there to good for some fellas .. freedom of speech so.i said it ha ha "

And some guys think they're SO 'unreal' that they deserve a reply to every mail they send??

(Right to reply)

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford

"Not a chicken I stand by what I said .. Some women on this think there to good for some fellas .. freedom of speech so.i said it ha ha

Yes indeed but equally some fellas think they are too good for some women, cant please everyone.

Also i think that perhaps boobilicious' comment was directed at _excock for deleting what he posted then deleted then reposted.

Slow down my friend and take a breath, dont be so quick to rush in. The party is only just getting started here.

Yer went crazy with the delete button... my bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Just because people are looking for single men doesn't mean they're looking for YOU. It's just the way it is, not everyone will be your cup of tea and vice versa. I prefer to reply to mail, (unless i've already told the sender that i'm not going to keep replying, in which case i just ignore it) but then i don't get a load of mail like some people do. I would advise you to change your mindset, and consider no reply to mean 'not interested' and you won't then feel like people have no manners. You seem to be doing just fine here really, lots of meets in a relatively short period of time, so consider yourself one of the 'successful' people and forget about the people who may have missed out by not considering you. ps Think about changing your avatar pic, there are very few people either here or in real life who would talk to a prick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even know why anyone bothers to give out friendly advice, his attitude sucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got also "unreal" verification, please don't you all mail me at once we wouldn't want fabs servers to overload...

Old Chinese proverb "when you are in a hole stop digging!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine line between confidence and arrogance. Your post comes across as arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't even know why anyone bothers to give out friendly advice, his attitude sucks."

Sending a massage to calm the mind! I sense tension

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't even know why anyone bothers to give out friendly advice, his attitude sucks.

Sending a massage to calm the mind! I sense tension

No tension here, just say it like it is instead of dishing out advice he won't listen to anyway , so there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't even know why anyone bothers to give out friendly advice, his attitude sucks.

Sending a massage to calm the mind! I sense tension

No tension here, just say it like it is instead of dishing out advice he won't listen to anyway , so there!

That he won't listen doesn’t mean you don't get the massage

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford

"I don't even know why anyone bothers to give out friendly advice, his attitude sucks."

I don't think ur advice was very friendly booby

Hehe I'm bad this morning... love ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't even know why anyone bothers to give out friendly advice, his attitude sucks.

I don't think ur advice was very friendly booby

Hehe I'm bad this morning... love ya

I didn't give advice though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Booby booby booby

BOOBY BOOBY BOOBY

Sorry now i feel about seven heheheheh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't even know why anyone bothers to give out friendly advice, his attitude sucks.

Sending a massage to calm the mind! I sense tension

No tension here, just say it like it is instead of dishing out advice he won't listen to anyway , so there!

That he won't listen doesn’t mean you don't get the massage

Ach you are so kind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Look people can read into this any way the want . I am not arrogant far from it .. I an a genuine guy that if I message someone and spend my time messaging them I think it's only a small bit of common courtesy to say not intrested or not my time .. that's the only point I was making that's all . Hope I didn't offend anyone and going to change my profile pic

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford

"Booby booby booby

BOOBY BOOBY BOOBY

Sorry now i feel about seven heheheheh"

Ahhh to be 7 again.. looking at my mums clothes catalogue.. looking at the women in their underwear... boobies!! Amazing things..

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford

"Look people can read into this any way the want . I am not arrogant far from it .. I an a genuine guy that if I message someone and spend my time messaging them I think it's only a small bit of common courtesy to say not intrested or not my time .. that's the only point I was making that's all . Hope I didn't offend anyone and going to change my profile pic "

Still no smiley face??

I'll put one in for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhhh I love boobies too

Boobies boobies boobies boobies

(*)(*)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or put another way you have an unrealistic sense of entitlement.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

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. On a simplistic basis you can assume that no reply means no interest. I am uncertain what the point of replying to say no is . No one replies to all the junk mail that they receive through their letterbox or emails .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to confess I never respond to "I am in a hotel room want to fuck" messages from random strangers. Not trying to be rude but it just feels a little offensive, like I am just supposed to turn up and be glad of what I get. I know it's a swinging site but a personal connection is vital

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest people get rejected in the real world and no different here ,some people get loads of mail so to respond to everyone saying sorry not interested would take a lot of time away from someone finding someone they are just gotta roll with it and carry on really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my number one thing that will send me into a rant is a mail from some fella whos never mailed me before asking me to meet cos hes paid 50 quid for some box room in city centre , I respectfully tell them to fuck right off .

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

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. A few face pictures and some hobbies and interests on your profile might help perspective meets to make a better assessment of the type of person that you are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my number one thing that will send me into a rant is a mail from some fella whos never mailed me before asking me to meet cos hes paid 50 quid for some box room in city centre , I respectfully tell them to fuck right off .

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proper order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unreal verifications. ??? Even I'm curious now what hotel are u in?? Do U do magic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But at least a "Fuck you" is a response!

Is that what the OP means?

Any kind of response!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take down the cock pics

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