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By *oxy16 OP   Man
over a year ago

coolock

Why won't people meet with newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Cos it rhymes with BEWBIES.

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I think for us it takes a while to build up trust with new comers here. You need to remember that a lot of people join here but aren't really sure that they want to swing at all and are gone again after a week or two.

Also the number of fake profiles here is just overwhelming and sadly increasing by the day.

Those of us that are genuine and are here to swing just need to be sure that we are agreeing to meet with like minded people.

Be patient, get involved on the forums and I'm sure if swinging is for you then it will pay off.

Hope that helps

Miss _cjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Cos it rhymes with BEWBIES."

or LOOBIES ha ha ha.

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By *oxy16 OP   Man
over a year ago

coolock

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By *oxy16 OP   Man
over a year ago

coolock

Everyone has t start somewhere tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Cos it rhymes with BEWBIES.

or LOOBIES ha ha ha."

or LOONIES

Ooops...that was just harmless banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has t start somewhere tho"

it just takes time and trust mate if you put in work it will all happen when i started here first it took me about 8 weeks of getting my first meet so hang in there it does happen just takes time.

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By *oxy16 OP   Man
over a year ago

coolock

Thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because people have to feel like they can trust you not to murder them and chop them into tiny pieces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^^^^^ this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah I would meet an unverified stranger from an internet sex site no problem.

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

Patience man...

Check out forums for up coming parties and socials . Put your name down and turn up. You'll meet some great folk and at very least have a laugh. Provided your not a creep these folk would have no problem setting u up with some decent verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice on the thread. Watch the forums for socials and get out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foxy those gold pants don't give off the impression that you are straight my dear.. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foxy those gold pants don't give off the impression that you are straight my dear.. Lol

"

Down Tiger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foxy those gold pants don't give off the impression that you are straight my dear.. Lol

Down Tiger "

Ppurrrrrrrrrrr

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By *oxy16 OP   Man
over a year ago

coolock

Wat type of picture would I best off putting up ???

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By *exyhotfuncpleCouple
over a year ago

hotnhorny


"I think for us it takes a while to build up trust with new comers here. You need to remember that a lot of people join here but aren't really sure that they want to swing at all and are gone again after a week or two.

Also the number of fake profiles here is just overwhelming and sadly increasing by the day.

Those of us that are genuine and are here to swing just need to be sure that we are agreeing to meet with like minded people.

Be patient, get involved on the forums and I'm sure if swinging is for you then it will pay off.

Hope that helps

Miss _cjoy "

Bang on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wat type of picture would I best off putting up ???"

A nice bum PIC...but of course I was only kidding.I'm nice... really I am

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By *oxy16 OP   Man
over a year ago

coolock

Everyone is nice in their own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last two that I met,one was not what he seemed. It was local do didn't mind. The other was a no show

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By *oxy16 OP   Man
over a year ago

coolock

Public meets are a must I think for a first impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the only way. Why meet if confined to a place if theres no one around. Too dangerous for all

Unless thats what they both want

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By *oxy16 OP   Man
over a year ago

coolock

Ye in a public meet at least u can get t know d people first

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I think for us it takes a while to build up trust with new comers here. You need to remember that a lot of people join here but aren't really sure that they want to swing at all and are gone again after a week or two.

Also the number of fake profiles here is just overwhelming and sadly increasing by the day.

Those of us that are genuine and are here to swing just need to be sure that we are agreeing to meet with like minded people.

Be patient, get involved on the forums and I'm sure if swinging is for you then it will pay off.

Hope that helps

Miss _cjoy

Bang on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem meeting newbies, just need to chat to them for a bit online first! I like to get a feel for their personality before agreeing to meet them in person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots meet newbies....you just have to be patient. .

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

People know that some new members are great but a large percentage are timewasters. Some send out messages to a tv wanting to meet despite that their profile shows they are

1.) Straight

2.) Not interested in Anal

3.) Nearly at the other end of the island!

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"Because people have to feel like they can trust you not to murder them and chop them into tiny pieces."

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"Because people have to feel like they can trust you not to murder them and chop them into tiny pieces. "

Exactly

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Lots meet newbies....you just have to be patient. . "

Some are worth meeting too

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By *ol066Man
over a year ago

dungloe

I can't get to meet any one at all in here

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"I can't get to meet any one at all in here"

Do you not feel that they may be overwhelmed by the quntidy of information in your profile and so are put off from contacting you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get to meet any one at all in here

Do you not feel that they may be overwhelmed by the quntidy of information in your profile and so are put off from contacting you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get to meet any one at all in here

Do you not feel that they may be overwhelmed by the quntidy of information in your profile and so are put off from contacting you?"

He is a man. He has a penis. What more do you need to know??

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I can't get to meet any one at all in here

Do you not feel that they may be overwhelmed by the quntidy of information in your profile and so are put off from contacting you?

He is a man. He has a penis. What more do you need to know??"

The words "to know" were surplus to requirements in that question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbie saying hello site is fairly addictive keep checking phone cock semi hard all the time . Well Hello anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbie saying hello site is fairly addictive keep checking phone cock semi hard all the time . Well Hello anyway.

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By *oeysanMan
over a year ago

Leinster

but all users were unverified at one stage like..

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By *obbie65Man
over a year ago

kildare


"but all users were unverified at one stage like.."

you must be from Cork ..like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been here two weeks OP. What were your expectations of this site. Knee deep in pussy? Desperate women who would shag anything?

The reality is that alot of the women on here are here for their own fantasies and are sexually confident women who are not afraid to ask for what they want.(and get it)

Attend socials, work on your profile, read profiles and send relevant messages and above all don't be an arse.

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