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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Got slated for turning down a girl cos she wasn't my type last night...

I like healthy women so not skinny or big girls(Unhealthy) Yes it's a choice.... her friends gave me loads and told them I don't like certain girl they went off on one

I'm being honest and attraction is a part of it. Don't get it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personal choice.Aa long as you were'nt rude, hurtful or disrespectful its your own business.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"personal choice.Aa long as you were'nt rude, hurtful or disrespectful its your own business."

a simple sorry not my type reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal choice. We are allowed it as long as you were respectful in your answer I think their response was uncalled for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's shallow. Many people have a type they go for..can't see anything wrong with that. I prefer to be someone's type and there to be a genuine attraction. I find meets are much better if there's genuine mutual sexual attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you called her a fat c*nt or lexie anorexie then there's no need for the histrionics. You wouldn't act like that in a regular pub/club.

You either have a spark or you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got slated for turning down a girl cos she wasn't my type last night...

I like healthy women so not skinny or big girls(Unhealthy) Yes it's a choice.... her friends gave me loads and told them I don't like certain girl they went off on one

I'm being honest and attraction is a part of it. Don't get it.... "

Just too say...I'm a curvy size 10/12 and my diet is terrible...so being bigger isn't necessarily meaning you're Unhealthy as such...as long as you are respectful in saying someone isn't you're type...tbh weight can be a no no and not the wisest way to turn someone down....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As most have said already once your respectful than its your choice, we all have attractions to people in many different ways, that's what makes us all different, be sad if we where all the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get turned down the whole time. Once u weren't rude then ur ok. Some people can be very hurtful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got slated for turning down a girl cos she wasn't my type last night...

I like healthy women so not skinny or big girls(Unhealthy) Yes it's a choice.... her friends gave me loads and told them I don't like certain girl they went off on one

I'm being honest and attraction is a part of it. Don't get it....

Just too say...I'm a curvy size 10/12 and my diet is terrible...so being bigger isn't necessarily meaning you're Unhealthy as such...as long as you are respectful in saying someone isn't you're type...tbh weight can be a no no and not the wisest way to turn someone down...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people can't handle being told they're not your type... they want to know why etc... so I prefer saying simply I'm not interested and if they keep on asking I say I have a boyfriend... less controversial lol

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

I suppose being very honest the true nature of this can be very shallow. While women get all the attention men who survive here develop thick skins. If a group of guys picked on woman for saying no there would be uproar. As all have said before refusal should be respectful in nature in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

her friends had a go at your for saying no? what age are they, 12? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea forgot to mention was very respectful and didn't mention why... her friends just jumped on it cos I was talking to another girl

Of course being funny and able a conversation is a big thing for me if I don't know them initial looks is all I can go by

I've been shot down for being 5'7 and told that! I just moved on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not worry buddy. Some couples and single ladies are just not used to hearing 'no' and they sometimes overreact. You are within your absolute right to say 'no'. This is a swinging site ffs. If people want a guarantee to fuck, get fucked they should consider a trip to Amsterdam and take a use of the red or blue windows in the red district. On the swinging site, play will happen when all involved parties are happy to consent to it. Otherwise the fundamental swinging right to say 'no' must be always respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do not worry buddy. Some couples and single ladies are just not used to hearing 'no' and they sometimes overreact. You are within your absolute right to say 'no'. This is a swinging site ffs. If people want a guarantee to fuck, get fucked they should consider a trip to Amsterdam and take a use of the red or blue windows in the red district. On the swinging site, play will happen when all involved parties are happy to consent to it. Otherwise the fundamental swinging right to say 'no' must be always respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea forgot to mention was very respectful and didn't mention why... her friends just jumped on it cos I was talking to another girl

Of course being funny and able a conversation is a big thing for me if I don't know them initial looks is all I can go by

5,7 I'm fucked so

I've been shot down for being 5'7 and told that! I just moved on"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am curvy but seXy with it...but I don't mind if am not your cup of tea...lots of people on here .everyone be able to speak they mind...we are not kids..love this site

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I think everyone has their own taste, likes and dislikes. What is attractive to one may be unattractive to another . There should be a mutual attraction and it's not wrong to politely and tactfully find a way to say no thank you.... and whilst many will take that in the spirit it is intended there will always be those that don't. Don't take it to heart. ...It always says more about them that it does you

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