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How to ask my other half to go swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering how to approach the subject of swinging with my other half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her nicely ,,

Over the phone.

From a different county

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask her nicely ,,

Over the phone.

From a different county "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run Forrest Run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An then hold the phone far far away from your ear

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By *arky90Couple
over a year ago

Killarney


"Ask her nicely ,,

Over the phone.

From a different county "

Pmsl

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Just ask her what do u think about swinging pr swingers clubs and then put the bomb shell in then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly ask about fantasies and see how open she is talking about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whisper it in her ear when she's turned on. Paint a picture for her and see how she reacts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a more serious note.

You don't give too much info away.

Other half as in wife and you're together years or something else?

Me myself I'd prob just make up some bullshit story of "I was reading the paper today and they reckon Ireland is the swing capital of the world" or something like that and see where it goes..if she drops the subject like a hot spud then she's def a swinger already but if she runs with it then she's curious and that's when u show her your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And maybe don't let her see you have already played with out her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whisper it in her ear when she's turned on. Paint a picture for her and see how she reacts."

asking straight out may be a bad idea you have no idea what her perspections of swinging are ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how to approach the subject of swinging with my other half.

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Ask her to go to the park.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her so d*unk that she blanks out. Set up your couples account and say to her the next day "remember that swingers account we set up last night, we got some great mail"

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

If it goes tits up, just pretend you were talking about golf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some ok advice and some really bad advice. I don't know what to do. Was thinking of going to a club some night and bringing herself along and letting on that I didn't know it was a swingers club

Good idea/Bad idea?

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By *obbie65Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Some ok advice and some really bad advice. I don't know what to do. Was thinking of going to a club some night and bringing herself along and letting on that I didn't know it was a swingers club

Good idea/Bad idea? "

Probably a bad idea, not exactly mainstreet, - but you know her best.

Best one is probably to read out an article from the paper and gauge her reaction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are over in Scotland in a few weeks time and there is a club that you can pay at the door and go in.

Was thinking of going there

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"Just wondering how to approach the subject of swinging with my other half.

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Wouldn't mind being a fly on the wall for that chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And maybe don't let her see you have already played with out her "

Oh Jeez! Has he? That ain't gonna fly at all then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she know that you're having sex with others?

Bringing her to a club without telling her before could lead to a major public embarrassment. Why would you throw her in the cold water in front of other people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest I haven't slept with anyone else in the past 10 years and I don't want to without herself been there as well. Yes I have a single male profile here but I still haven't met anyone

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

just bring up the subject... you had a naughty dream after a friend mentioned the idea,... and ask what she thinks...

with us it was ...ray would love to sleep with us ..what do you think? now that was a fab night...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask her nicely ,,

Over the phone.

From a different county "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask her nicely ,,

Over the phone.

From a different county "

Is that how you did it

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