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By *o pants party OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Is it our imagination or is there an increase in the amount of fake profiles recently??? It's getting Irritating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a proper pain! I'm always ing on here

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By *o pants party OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Our block list is getting longer than our hot list!!

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Have to agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message filters so no unvertified people can contact you that cuts it out well most of it thats what we did an wolla no more fakes contacting us

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By *o pants party OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

A lot of time being wasted recently being lead down the garden path by fake profiles. It's starting to do my head in. It never used to be this bad...

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By *o pants party OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Message filters so no unvertified people can contact you that cuts it out well most of it thats what we did an wolla no more fakes contacting us "

I might have to do that... Thanks for the suggestion

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

armagh

Ive probably been here 7 years now.and its got really bad im thinking off going elsewere!

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By *o pants party OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Ive probably been here 7 years now.and its got really bad im thinking off going elsewere!"

I wonder of its just temporary because of the recent press? They might get bored and go away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message filters so no unvertified people can contact you that cuts it out well most of it thats what we did an wolla no more fakes contacting us

I might have to do that... Thanks for the suggestion "
your very welcome not saying it works but it deffo reduces it so its not as annoying

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

armagh

Im not sure about that .but I no its impossible for a genuine gent to get a meet! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive probably been here 7 years now.and its got really bad im thinking off going elsewere!

I wonder of its just temporary because of the recent press? They might get bored and go away..."

That is what I was thinking. It will cool off shortly I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not sure about that .but I no its impossible for a genuine gent to get a meet! Lol "
not true at all we would meet any gent aslong as there at least photo vertified we wont meet guys that have bin a year and 2 years with no photo vert or at least 1 meet vert so unless thats u i dont see why we would not meet ya of course thats if where looking

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By *o pants party OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

I actually kind of feel sorry for any genuine new people joining recently. Because of the amount of fakes, it's hard to take a chance on any of the newer people, no matter how enticing they are!!

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

armagh

Its not working for kinky lol.like I say been here many years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not working for kinky lol.like I say been here many years"
well u fir our vert bill for sure u have a photo vert and a meet vert so u must be real lol

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

armagh

Lol I duno what im doing wrong kinky.but ive no problems in pub club etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I'm relatively new and I really do get the sussing you out vibe when you start up a chat with someone, but you know what I totally get it, we all need to be discreet...we all have jobs and families, but the fakes do make a challenging task more difficult

Anyhow only recently found the forums and the social aspect of fab is now showing it's self to me...cant wait to attend first m&g.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, I'm relatively new and I really do get the sussing you out vibe when you start up a chat with someone, but you know what I totally get it, we all need to be discreet...we all have jobs and families, but the fakes do make a challenging task more difficult

Anyhow only recently found the forums and the social aspect of fab is now showing it's self to me...cant wait to attend first m&g.

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By *o pants party OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yep, I'm relatively new and I really do get the sussing you out vibe when you start up a chat with someone, but you know what I totally get it, we all need to be discreet...we all have jobs and families, but the fakes do make a challenging task more difficult

Anyhow only recently found the forums and the social aspect of fab is now showing it's self to me...cant wait to attend first m&g.

Yep, going along to a M&G or diving into the deep end will help break down a few barriers! Forums are good for getting to know a few people too.

"

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

armagh

Hope all goes well for you flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I duno what im doing wrong kinky.but ive no problems in pub club etc"
you should pop your name down for meet and greets or club partys that way you will get up some verts and it will makeit easier for you but even the well vertified men struggle too get meets so your deffo not alone also its nerly xmas so alot might be busy shopping and santa shopping etc and dont have time for meets but deffo get ya names onto too every party going cause might not get an invite too all but u only need 1 thats all

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By *ehallMan
over a year ago

dublin 24

no its not ur imagination ther is an increase in fakes couples I find I replied to a couple and arranged a meet and it was a bloke looking for sex in the back of a van weirdo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's weird...but the atmosphere in the forums is totally different, laid back and humorous and of course as naughty and as filthy as ever woohoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once we stay on yer hotlist we dont mind lol xxxx

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By *ehallMan
over a year ago

dublin 24

[Removed by poster at 29/11/14 23:25:45]

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I was accused of being fake by some lovely ladies. Maybe I am.

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By *o pants party OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Once we stay on yer hotlist we dont mind lol xxxx"

Your on our 'To Do' list

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By *o pants party OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"no its not ur imagination ther is an increase in fakes couples I find I replied to a couple and arranged a meet and it was a bloke looking for sex in the back of a van weirdo "

Did he think you wouldn't notice there was no female there (in the back of his van)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it our imagination or is there an increase in the amount of fake profiles recently??? It's getting Irritating! "

Fake profiles??

Here on FAB?

Nah, I reckon it's your imagination,

No such thing here

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

armagh

Lol I might just do that kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no its not ur imagination ther is an increase in fakes couples I find I replied to a couple and arranged a meet and it was a bloke looking for sex in the back of a van weirdo "
was he feeling lonely ah there all signing up cause of the media scare 3 weeks ago where they named the venue of a party i was amazed of all the sudden ladys and couples that joined if i remeber correctly something like 200 each of different sexes eg male female couples etc an that was just cork lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I might just do that kinky "
good on ya buddie

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By *ehallMan
over a year ago

dublin 24

how did that party go did u hear anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been very lucky apparently. Never come across a fake profile. Well not that I noticed anyway.

Strict filters in place must be the reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been very lucky apparently. Never come across a fake profile. Well not that I noticed anyway.

Strict filters in place must be the reason."

I think it's just down to experience Yolo,

If it seems too good to be true, it generally isn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how did that party go did u hear anyway "
it was a brilliant night met some cool people and some so not but hey thats swinging for ya you cant like everybody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how did that party go did u hear anyway "

that party was brilliant a great night

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I was accused of being fake by some lovely ladies. Maybe I am."

that's okay I'm fake too ...apparently I'm a guy who doesn't even do a good job of faking being a female lol ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was accused of being fake by some lovely ladies. Maybe I am.

that's okay I'm fake too ...apparently I'm a guy who doesn't even do a good job of faking being a female lol ... "

From where I'm standing you're doing an incredibly good job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was accused of being fake by some lovely ladies. Maybe I am.

that's okay I'm fake too ...apparently I'm a guy who doesn't even do a good job of faking being a female lol ... "

Hey Bob, so how you been doing!?

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I was accused of being fake by some lovely ladies. Maybe I am.

that's okay I'm fake too ...apparently I'm a guy who doesn't even do a good job of faking being a female lol ...

Hey Bob, so how you been doing!? "

aahh mr fooey... That's just cruel lol...

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By *rash_pandaMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Yeah totally a guy faking it as a woman... the pictures are a dead give away

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"I actually kind of feel sorry for any genuine new people joining recently. Because of the amount of fakes, it's hard to take a chance on any of the newer people, no matter how enticing they are!!"

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford

It would be a good idea instead of letting every one join... we all had to go on web can and show admin that we were male, female or a couple... and only then would we get online

You wouldn't have to show your face, or you could wear a mask.. and just show ur naughty bits

Problem solved

Then we would all be a lot more secure and relaxed about things.. and we'd all have even more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way i think fab will get rid of fakes is start charging membership fees to use the site.

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"The only way i think fab will get rid of fakes is start charging membership fees to use the site."

Membership fees!?

Hey...take that back ... free love man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If it seems too good to be true, it generally isn't! "
you're definitely too good to be true, fooey! Even though I met you in person, I still think your fake. Wearing the skirt gave it away. Or was it a cape?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If it seems too good to be true, it generally isn't! you're definitely too good to be true, fooey! Even though I met you in person, I still think your fake. Wearing the skirt gave it away. Or was it a cape? "

Maybe it was the mask!!

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By *wanasuckurpussyMan
over a year ago

Discreet

What gets me is people who are verified within an hour, I've been asked several times lately to verify women who have just joined, I havnt done so but they get verified regardless

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Photo verie for single guys is not worth the paper its written on

you can get your profile genuinely foto verie,,hide real pic and send adonis pics

and a photo verie doesn't show that he's ever showed up for a meet beforewhich is the main crime guys do here,arrange meet n not show up

i don't have filters set up but i may as well have,i don't even read mails from unveiled ppl anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be a good idea instead of letting every one join... we all had to go on web can and show admin that we were male, female or a couple... and only then would we get online

You wouldn't have to show your face, or you could wear a mask.. and just show ur naughty bits

Problem solved

Then we would all be a lot more secure and relaxed about things.. and we'd all have even more fun "

Webcams can be faked!

I don't take webcam veris into account, I only go by meets (play or coffee),

Can't fake that.

But Biggs is right, membership or fee...

That could stop the multiple profiles someone has and possibly the usual

(Continuously closing/opening profiles)

But that's not gonna happen....

The only way is to listen to your instinct and also use your filters correctly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a newbie and I genuinely don't know what to do.. I've talked to some gorgeous guys and 1 or 2 sexy couples but I'm afraid to even send a face pic! Is this just cause I haven't lost my fab-inity?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Id advise its ok sending face pics to well established well veried ppl,discretion is par for the course in swinging,and by sticking to those profiles more chance of meeting real swingers

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"I'm a newbie and I genuinely don't know what to do.. I've talked to some gorgeous guys and 1 or 2 sexy couples but I'm afraid to even send a face pic! Is this just cause I haven't lost my fab-inity? "

Yer don't send face pics.. are you sure they are who they say they are? A pic is just a pic.

I think its fine for a single lady to arrange a meet without ever showing her face... meet the man..couple first then they will see ur face.

There's been a couple of recent incidents of women being blackmailed on here... so be very careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a newbie and I genuinely don't know what to do.. I've talked to some gorgeous guys and 1 or 2 sexy couples but I'm afraid to even send a face pic! Is this just cause I haven't lost my fab-inity? "

Never ever send face pics. Not worth the risk

Paranoia will be your best ally on here. Trust nobody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a newbie and I genuinely don't know what to do.. I've talked to some gorgeous guys and 1 or 2 sexy couples but I'm afraid to even send a face pic! Is this just cause I haven't lost my fab-inity?

Never ever send face pics. Not worth the risk

Paranoia will be your best ally on here. Trust nobody

"

Sensible advice Miss Stardust

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I rarely send face pics. I arrange to meet for a coffee and at best we click and have the chemistry I look for. . At worst you have had a coffee with a like minded person

People either chose to believe my veris and take a chance and meet or not. . That's their decision.

If you do decide to send a face pic to anyone make sure it's one that is just got face and could have been "taken" from somewhere public ie facebook etc so you can sideways use that as an excuse if you need to. Also if you delete your face pic from your photos after sending it. . It still delete from the message so they no longer have it. You can then up load it again.

I learnt the hard way. .. so its good advice hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message filters so no unvertified people can contact you that cuts it out well most of it thats what we did an wolla no more fakes contacting us "

Thats how we do it seems to most of them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would advise, send face pic only to verified people, buy a PAYG Sim just for Fab and call people before you meet them to make sure they are real . You can give this number to other members as well .. is no risk. Be careful if somebody can't cam or phone . meet always first in the public ..a cafe or something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice guys and gals, much appreciated x

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"What gets me is people who are verified within an hour, I've been asked several times lately to verify women who have just joined, I havnt done so but they get verified regardless "

Some people do get verified straight away because they have been on the site before and they know people, or they have met people at clubs etc, but if you get any messages like the ones you mentioned can you please make sure that you report them. Cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I had a message off a man earlier his profile pic was Orlando bloom . (I'd only if was lol) tried to convince me otherwise . I reported bed blocked

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yes. I had a message off a man earlier his profile pic was Orlando bloom . (I'd only if was lol) tried to convince me otherwise . I reported bed blocked "

God, that's not even trying. Passing yourself off as an actual celeb, that person is an actual grade A idiot

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I'm the spit of the said Mr Bloom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I had a message off a man earlier his profile pic was Orlando bloom . (I'd only if was lol) tried to convince me otherwise . I reported bed blocked "

mmmmm Orlando!!! I met him, he's hot... let me check his profile and I report back if it's my dear old friend Orly! haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I had a message off a man earlier his profile pic was Orlando bloom . (I'd only if was lol) tried to convince me otherwise . I reported bed blocked

mmmmm Orlando!!! I met him, he's hot... let me check his profile and I report back if it's my dear old friend Orly! haha"

He has deleted his profile . I wish it was lol I love him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What gets me is people who are verified within an hour, I've been asked several times lately to verify women who have just joined, I havnt done so but they get verified regardless

Some people do get verified straight away because they have been on the site before and they know people, or they have met people at clubs etc, but if you get any messages like the ones you mentioned can you please make sure that you report them. Cheers."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What gets me is people who are verified within an hour, I've been asked several times lately to verify women who have just joined, I havnt done so but they get verified regardless

Some people do get verified straight away because they have been on the site before and they know people, or they have met people at clubs etc, but if you get any messages like the ones you mentioned can you please make sure that you report them. Cheers."

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By *uaveGentMan
over a year ago

dublin


"What gets me is people who are verified within an hour, I've been asked several times lately to verify women who have just joined, I havnt done so but they get verified regardless

Some people do get verified straight away because they have been on the site before and they know people, or they have met people at clubs etc, but if you get any messages like the ones you mentioned can you please make sure that you report them. Cheers."

Or someone has stole the profile pictures of an old deleted profile and written to their old verifications pretending to be real and back. Folks should only give real verifications that are contemporary.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"What gets me is people who are verified within an hour, I've been asked several times lately to verify women who have just joined, I havnt done so but they get verified regardless

Some people do get verified straight away because they have been on the site before and they know people, or they have met people at clubs etc, but if you get any messages like the ones you mentioned can you please make sure that you report them. Cheers.

Or someone has stole the profile pictures of an old deleted profile and written to their old verifications pretending to be real and back. Folks should only give real verifications that are contemporary. "

never thought of that! ! I personally only ever reverify genuine people that I actually know that they are the real person.... usually because I have become real life friends with them or still been in contact with/meeting them while they are of the site.

I also always make it clear that it is a re verification so people know that they have been on the site before. Never been asked to do it by anyone other than someone I have gotten to know really well and in private contact with. . But it's a good point and well worth bearing in mind having had pics stolen and used myself.

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By *hrisblack21Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I think all users should be photo verified, after all the pics you send to be verified are hidden. No excuses I say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think all users should be photo verified, after all the pics you send to be verified are hidden. No excuses I say! "

yes we want evidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to be honest anyone that is considering hopping in the sack with boy girl or couple is goin to do done checking. Don't take it personally if people ask for pics or info I mean the end concept is seeing them naked so the least u can expect is an element if trust.

Tbh I made a few mistakes but once you Have a few meets and people see ur not a complete gimp things will progress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen to be honest anyone that is considering hopping in the sack with boy girl or couple is goin to do done checking. Don't take it personally if people ask for pics or info I mean the end concept is seeing them naked so the least u can expect is an element if trust.

Tbh I made a few mistakes but once you Have a few meets and people see ur not a complete gimp things will progress"

as you can see, here are enough people what have problems to buy a PAYG Sim just to receive and call people which they want to meet. At end of the day this all here is a thing of trust and fairness. A lot of girls here want just for the first mail contact , face pics from us guys, but when we send one, we will in most case never get an reply. So why shall i send my face around as first ..?

for me to ask for a face pic after a while conversation is ok , because everybody want prevent to waste time. You can make a lot clear in advance. But sometimes here is a behavior as in an kindergarden .

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