FabSwingers.com forum: I know she swings how do I approach

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know one of my best friends a girl swings and we talk about normal stuff. I'm dying to mention swinging to her but I don't know what to say Any advice ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're best friends just tell her you know she's a swinger and give you the website please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how do you know she's a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is this like the wife you told us about that is not quite ready to swing .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She could be mortified if she realises you know. It could ruin your friendship. If you just HAVE to know then get her alone and move the conversation towards sex, slowly edge towards swinging and tell her your own dirty secret. Create the situation where she might be comfortable enough to tell you. If she doesn't then give up.

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By *oxysCouple
over a year ago

Last time you posted you said it was your wife, now it's your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From behind !!

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I don't understand ........ If there is in fact a friend who is swinging, why would you say anything? Is she not entitled to her privacy?

No person is obliged to tell every detail of their lives to another. And sometimes having the secret is what makes it exciting. I haven't told my friends that we swing nor would I ever.

Just my thoughts on it

Miss McJoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand ........ If there is in fact a friend who is swinging, why would you say anything? Is she not entitled to her privacy?

No person is obliged to tell every detail of their lives to another. And sometimes having the secret is what makes it exciting. I haven't told my friends that we swing nor would I ever.

Just my thoughts on it

Miss McJoy

This is why I love you

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

"I don't understand ........ If there is in fact a friend who is swinging, why would you say anything? Is she not entitled to her privacy?

No person is obliged to tell every detail of their lives to another. And sometimes having the secret is what makes it exciting. I haven't told my friends that we swing nor would I ever.

Just my thoughts on it

Miss McJoy

This is why I love you"

Awwww thanks DTG

Miss McJoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write fab on your willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send her you like 3somes then show her a load of photos of you with other women.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"Just send her you like 3somes then show her a load of photos of you with other women."

Then wait for the guards to arrest you for sexual harassment!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guys my post a few weeks back was asking for advice in relation to wife and yes she has decided to swing. Thanks for your concerns.

It's a friend and I know she swings as I say a message on her phone for a sex party locally and I hear her on phone outside our house. She's super sexy and is love to let her know we know with possibility of her joining us mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then wait for the guards to arrest you for sexual harassment!"

The cops do something about sexual harassment? It technically would not be sexual harassment though, you can make sexual advances to a private friend if you want.

It's only harassment if you try bully, have a problem with no, black mail, act like a well verified fab user etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Madness I know but just a suggestion.... Respect her privacy and your friendship, say nothing

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By *idandnancy69Couple
over a year ago

carrickfergus

Op seems to have a few conundrums going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never trust anything that says it's "just a friend" or "for a friend"

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

"Madness I know but just a suggestion.... Respect her privacy and your friendship, say nothing "

Miss McJoy

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By *irst officerMan
over a year ago

Naas

If she swings she's probably on here. Try saying fab as many times as you can in normal conversation and look for a reaction...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you want her to join you and your wife, if you can't drop it (which I think you should due to privacy and respect) ask your wife to chat to her. Not directly but kind of bringing it up by to by in a conversation.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

If she wanted you to know she'd tell you....we haven't told anyone and never will it's our private life that's it

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

"If she wanted you to know she'd tell you....we haven't told anyone and never will it's our private life that's it"

Miss McJoy

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