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"I've met and popped plenty of unverified people's cherries. It's there because the pros far out weigh the cons of the verification system " Yep...verification says nothing. Made everything right before you meet someone [ cam-chat or phone-call ] to prevent waste of time on a fake .. that's all | |||
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"Lollipop...my point is that people shouldn't have to meet verified people for the benefit of their profile. " Sorry I don't understand, why would it benefit their own profile? Is your post not about the verification system in general? I'm here a long time and ive been scammed by unverified profiles more times then I care to mention, it's why people trust the veri tick? Means that the person is real? I've also skyped with unverifieds to prove their real before wasting time arranging a meet and having no one turn up, or the person who turns up isn't who they say they are! The veri system is there for each persons peace of mind? | |||
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"Are you saying that the system doesn't let you verify someone unless you have been verified yourself? so when you meet someone who is also unverified , ye cannot verify eachother? i assume this is to stop people setting up fake accounts to verify themselves to trick people into thinking they have been verified." The current system has no security against that happening, one person can verify all and sundry so your point supports mine. | |||
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"Go on cam and ask someone to verify you, or get photo verified If two unverified profiles were able to verify eachother then all of the fakes could easily set up another profile to verify themselves. " Why compromise my privacy by going on cam? Doesn't this make discretion impossible. | |||
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"As an unverified yet active member of this site I am frustrated with the system that forces us to meet one of the "verified" to prove our existence. Have met unverified people after plenty chat and exchange of unimportant personal details and yet I am immediately discarded by the "verified" because of their own inability to judge people by themselves. Anyone else seeing the flaw in the system of hierarchy that enables discrimination and bullying?" I did laugh at this. The system works well. Ya after a certain number of verifications it can be somewhat of a competition for some people but tbh verifications show that people are who they say they are andddd you can also get a creep at what they usually go for/have experienced etc! Unverified people do have to work that bit harder to prove they are genuine and not time wasters but if you go about it right way you'll have that golden verifications. Ps camming with one person to prove you are who you say you are is not compromising your discretion anymore than meeting up with someone in person! Yes you may say camming can lead to be recorded and what not but who's to say if you meet up with someone that they won't have a secret camera man in the corner filming your every word and move ha it's part of the thrill!!! :p Enjoy your swinging my friend | |||
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"As an unverified yet active member of this site I am frustrated with the system that forces us to meet one of the "verified" to prove our existence. Have met unverified people after plenty chat and exchange of unimportant personal details and yet I am immediately discarded by the "verified" because of their own inability to judge people by themselves. Anyone else seeing the flaw in the system of hierarchy that enables discrimination and bullying? I did laugh at this. The system works well. Ya after a certain number of verifications it can be somewhat of a competition for some people but tbh verifications show that people are who they say they are andddd you can also get a creep at what they usually go for/have experienced etc! Unverified people do have to work that bit harder to prove they are genuine and not time wasters but if you go about it right way you'll have that golden verifications. Ps camming with one person to prove you are who you say you are is not compromising your discretion anymore than meeting up with someone in person! Yes you may say camming can lead to be recorded and what not but who's to say if you meet up with someone that they won't have a secret camera man in the corner filming your every word and move ha it's part of the thrill!!! :p Enjoy your swinging my friend " | |||
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"As an unverified yet active member of this site I am frustrated with the system that forces us to meet one of the "verified" to prove our existence. Have met unverified people after plenty chat and exchange of unimportant personal details and yet I am immediately discarded by the "verified" because of their own inability to judge people by themselves. Anyone else seeing the flaw in the system of hierarchy that enables discrimination and bullying? I did laugh at this. The system works well. Ya after a certain number of verifications it can be somewhat of a competition for some people but tbh verifications show that people are who they say they are andddd you can also get a creep at what they usually go for/have experienced etc! Unverified people do have to work that bit harder to prove they are genuine and not time wasters but if you go about it right way you'll have that golden verifications. Ps camming with one person to prove you are who you say you are is not compromising your discretion anymore than meeting up with someone in person! Yes you may say camming can lead to be recorded and what not but who's to say if you meet up with someone that they won't have a secret camera man in the corner filming your every word and move ha it's part of the thrill!!! :p Enjoy your swinging my friend " You said what I thought, I just couldn't be bothered writing it To the OP, if you've had many meets from unverified people and you're happy then fine, why a thread giving out about it? Surely one of your 'many' meets has been verified by now and would gladly help you out??... If not? Why not? Hope it works out for ya! | |||
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"How long does it take to get pic verified? Been waiting a week now " you are pic vertified | |||
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"I've met and popped plenty of unverified people's cherries. It's there because the pros far out weigh the cons of the verification system " What about my cherry? | |||
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"I've met and popped plenty of unverified people's cherries. It's there because the pros far out weigh the cons of the verification system What about my cherry? " Ah your cherry has already been popped!! | |||
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"I've met and popped plenty of unverified people's cherries. It's there because the pros far out weigh the cons of the verification system What about my cherry? Ah your cherry has already been popped!!" I want you take my cherry properly | |||
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"Don't worry about it, the people mad into verifications are usually nut bags anyway. Think of it as lucky escape, instead of missing out x" so for someone to have preferences makes them a nutbag? sounds like you are the one with the problem there. | |||
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"I think people are missing the OP's point. I take it to be he's frustrated in profiles stating they will only meet verified people etc. That's how I've read it" That's how i read it too. | |||
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"I think people are missing the OP's point. I take it to be he's frustrated in profiles stating they will only meet verified people etc. That's how I've read it" I didn't miss his point at all , there are plenty of people on here who don't care about verifications, as anytime this subject has been discussed in the past on forums, anyone who is of the opinion that they place some importance on them gets shot down in flames, so therefore he shouldn't have any problem finding people to meet him. What pisses me off about these threads is that people get all uppity about others preferences, just leave them be to get on with it and search out those easy to find profiles who don't care about wether you have a green tick or not. | |||
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"I think people are missing the OP's point. I take it to be he's frustrated in profiles stating they will only meet verified people etc. That's how I've read it" Ah I understood that but we were all unverified at some point it's something ya gota deal with and even on those profiles if your genuine and explain that you can verify easily via pics on kik/snapchat or cam , if the "verified profile" is intersted in the pics attached they will more than likely give ya the heads up and take the offer.. (We do) but if there's no attraction then well ya get the same treatment as verified people do ha that's the fab world | |||
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"Bit disappointed not 1 offered to verify!! " You aren't willing to go on cam and you can't therefore verify without meeting. You were expecting to get a meet out of this thread? | |||
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"Bit disappointed not 1 offered to verify!! " why would anyone verify you if they have never met you.pfft. | |||
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"ah this was just and elaborate look at me and meet me thread bravo " a look at me whinge thread no less. | |||
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"now im really confused.. you dont want to be verified? " he's takin his ball and he's going home! | |||
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"Bit disappointed not 1 offered to verify!! why would anyone verify you if they have never met you.pfft." I might be wrong about this, but possibly the OP was hoping one of his earlier unverified meets might now be verified and therefore able to offer to verify him now, perhaps after reading this thread? | |||
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"ah this was just and elaborate look at me and meet me thread bravo " I've not hidden agenda, I have pointed out a flaw I believe is relevant to all site members so keep your assumptions in the same place you keep your charm....in your hole | |||
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"ah this was just and elaborate look at me and meet me thread bravo I've not hidden agenda, I have pointed out a flaw I believe is relevant to all site members so keep your assumptions in the same place you keep your charm....in your hole" thank you for assuming that i have charm. i'll assume that you have a problem with me as i'm the only one you chose to reply to re: the look at me comments or are you just afraid to say anything to the women that commented incase you dont get a chance to meet them ? | |||
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"ah this was just and elaborate look at me and meet me thread bravo I've not hidden agenda, I have pointed out a flaw I believe is relevant to all site members so keep your assumptions in the same place you keep your charm....in your hole thank you for assuming that i have charm. i'll assume that you have a problem with me as i'm the only one you chose to reply to re: the look at me comments or are you just afraid to say anything to the women that commented incase you dont get a chance to meet them ? " Im not interested in arguments so I'll apologize and hope you don't make a 3RD!! attempt at public ridicule. | |||
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"I have a photo verification and still accounts for nothing.unless verified by a meet with other verified people your screwed me thinks" Whole forum expertly surmised. | |||
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"OP we'll give you a honest reply here. If you mailed us we would say no to you. First your age range is silly. Would you really meet someone that old? Your complaining because people won't meet you because you aren't verified. Id say its more because you havent put any thought or effort. You have been webcam veri yet never replied to said offer. Stop whinging and looking for an arguement because it will do you no favours in the future! " | |||
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"Your proposal to let unverified people verify other unverified people is ridiculus. Surely you can see it would make the whole verification system useless as untested people could and would all leave fake glowing verifications for each other. Im struggling to see how this is a hard concept to understand. " Did I propose that? Where? | |||
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"OP we'll give you a honest reply here. If you mailed us we would say no to you. First your age range is silly. Would you really meet someone that old? Your complaining because people won't meet you because you aren't verified. Id say its more because you havent put any thought or effort. Yu have been webcam veri yet never replied to said offer. Stop whinging and looking for an arguement because it will do you no favours in the future! " Another who missed the point, I am highlighting exactly what you've just done and that I don't want to have to meet people im not interested in purely to achieve verification. | |||
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"OP we'll give you a honest reply here. If you mailed us we would say no to you. First your age range is silly. Would you really meet someone that old? Your complaining because people won't meet you because you aren't verified. Id say its more because you havent put any thought or effort. Yu have been webcam veri yet never replied to said offer. Stop whinging and looking for an arguement because it will do you no favours in the future! Another who missed the point, I am highlighting exactly what you've just done and that I don't want to have to meet people im not interested in purely to achieve verification. " I think you are the one who is missing the point, entirely. | |||
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"Check Forum subject Betrayal which is recent and in Ireland forums. Laid Back WRX must definitely have a verification opinion I'd love to hear..... why apologise then make a snarky comment ? and yes I do value the verification system because most (and im saying most not all) of the people who are here over a year with none are normally fakes or dreamers. " I've no intention of arguing so I'll ask you politely to refrain from adding inane comments to my thread. | |||
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"I don't want to have to meet people im not interested in purely to achieve verification. " Noone is suggesting for a second that you should. Are there no verified swingers on here that you want to meet? Would you not rather meet someone who is actually a woman rather than a man pretending to be a woman, or someone who will stand you up? There is less chance of both of these thing happening if you choose people who are well verified. We have never been stood up and have never been conned by anyone pretending to be someone they are not. Part of this is because we nearly always meet well verified people. It's simply more of a risk meeting someone who is untested. | |||
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"Verification " haha! If I wasnt verified I would not be able to verify other people on here that arent verified but that are looking to get verified but they wouldn't meet me as I could not give them a verification if I wasnt verified. The verification system is a bit of a catch 22 really. But you can be succesful even if you dont get............vrfd. | |||
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"yes someone for the love of god meet this man!" I just proposed coffee...... | |||
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"Aaaaarg if I hear verification one more time I dont know what I'll do... Coffee Lothario? " Ya, ill be up to ya around 4 or so if that suits? | |||
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"OP we'll give you a honest reply here. If you mailed us we would say no to you. First your age range is silly. Would you really meet someone that old? Your complaining because people won't meet you because you aren't verified. Id say its more because you havent put any thought or effort. Yu have been webcam veri yet never replied to said offer. Stop whinging and looking for an arguement because it will do you no favours in the future! Another who missed the point, I am highlighting exactly what you've just done and that I don't want to have to meet people im not interested in purely to achieve verification. " please what i just did because i don't see your point. Whether verified or not we wouldnt meet you. Your profile does not jump out at us at all! Your whinging about a system that been used sucessfully for longer then most of thd current verified users have been onsite! What is your point? | |||
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"OP we'll give you a honest reply here. If you mailed us we would say no to you. First your age range is silly. Would you really meet someone that old? Your complaining because people won't meet you because you aren't verified. Id say its more because you havent put any thought or effort. Yu have been webcam veri yet never replied to said offer. Stop whinging and looking for an arguement because it will do you no favours in the future! Another who missed the point, I am highlighting exactly what you've just done and that I don't want to have to meet people im not interested in purely to achieve verification. please what i just did because i don't see your point. Whether verified or not we wouldnt meet you. Your profile does not jump out at us at all! Your whinging about a system that been used sucessfully for longer then most of thd current verified users have been onsite! What is your point?" its ok he's going to be verified soon then he can join the green tick elite! | |||
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"OP we'll give you a honest reply here. If you mailed us we would say no to you. First your age range is silly. Would you really meet someone that old? Your complaining because people won't meet you because you aren't verified. Id say its more because you havent put any thought or effort. Yu have been webcam veri yet never replied to said offer. Stop whinging and looking for an arguement because it will do you no favours in the future! Another who missed the point, I am highlighting exactly what you've just done and that I don't want to have to meet people im not interested in purely to achieve verification. please what i just did because i don't see your point. Whether verified or not we wouldnt meet you. Your profile does not jump out at us at all! Your whinging about a system that been used sucessfully for longer then most of thd current verified users have been onsite! What is your point? its ok he's going to be verified soon then he can join the green tick elite! " but the green tick elite are like the Masons there are degrees/levels within the fraternity or clique | |||
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"OP we'll give you a honest reply here. If you mailed us we would say no to you. First your age range is silly. Would you really meet someone that old? Your complaining because people won't meet you because you aren't verified. Id say its more because you havent put any thought or effort. Yu have been webcam veri yet never replied to said offer. Stop whinging and looking for an arguement because it will do you no favours in the future! Another who missed the point, I am highlighting exactly what you've just done and that I don't want to have to meet people im not interested in purely to achieve verification. please what i just did because i don't see your point. Whether verified or not we wouldnt meet you. Your profile does not jump out at us at all! Your whinging about a system that been used sucessfully for longer then most of thd current verified users have been onsite! What is your point? its ok he's going to be verified soon then he can join the green tick elite! but the green tick elite are like the Masons there are degrees/levels within the fraternity or clique" indeed, like the circles of hell lol | |||
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"its ok he's going to be verified soon then he can join the green tick elite! but the green tick elite are like the Masons there are degrees/levels within the fraternity or clique indeed, like the circles of hell lol" be careful with your comment that could be viewed as inane boobie | |||
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"its ok he's going to be verified soon then he can join the green tick elite! but the green tick elite are like the Masons there are degrees/levels within the fraternity or clique indeed, like the circles of hell lol be careful with your comment that could be viewed as inane boobie" all my comments are inane | |||
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"its ok he's going to be verified soon then he can join the green tick elite! but the green tick elite are like the Masons there are degrees/levels within the fraternity or clique indeed, like the circles of hell lol be careful with your comment that could be viewed as inane boobie all my comments are inane " inane in the membrane | |||
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